Groups

From spicy fiction to personal blogs, educational reads to protocol-heavy novels — this group is for all things written in the world of BDSM. Share your favorites, discover new titles, or post your own stories.

From silky scarves to full rope suspension — if tying up or being tied down excites you, this is your place. Share techniques, tools, fantasies, and safety tips with fellow bondage enthusiasts.

For lovers of the thud, the sting, and everything in between. Whether you enjoy giving or receiving, this group is your spot to explore spanking, flogging, caning, paddles, and more — with skill, consent, and a good dose of aftercare.

For those who enjoy pegging and talking about strap on play

A gentle corner for all who embrace age regression, caregiver dynamics, and nurturing roles. Whether you're a little, middle, or caregiver — this is your space to talk about routines, rules, plushies, and care rituals. Respect and consent come first. Please do not attempt to use this safe space for random invitations to message with members you don't know.

A respectful space for men who love to surrender — and those curious about it. Share your experiences, explore your desires, and connect over the unique pleasures of submission, service, and control play.

Power exchange is one thing — relationships are another. This group is all about navigating love, connection, and long-term dynamics within the world of BDSM. From contracts to communication, poly setups to vanilla blends — let's talk about what makes it work.

No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.

Step into the scene. Whether you're into teacher-student, mythical creatures, medical play, or total power exchange — this group is your playground for storytelling, characters, and shared imagination. No fantasy is too wild when it's consensual.

Lovers of all things large, big, and Inflatable. BBW, size difference, Growth, shrinking, and Balloons

From ANR to Hucows everything about lactation

A place for subs in the near the 314 to make themselves known and available to femdoms for their pleasure.

This is a group for those that are into chastity. If you are the chased or the holder please come join. I'll work on a better description lol

This is the local group for London people. Meet other fetishists in the Greater London & surrounding area -- plan meetups, or just exchange tips & stories with like-minded folks nearby. Respectful, inclusive, and real — just like your community should be.

Textures that tease. Whether you're drawn to the sleek shine of latex, the classic dominance of leather, or the sensual touch of lace — this group is for fashion fetishists who know that what you wear can say everything.

Love is complicated — even (or especially) in the fetish world. This group is for open, respectful exchange around dating, communication, breakups, poly life, jealousy, and more. Bring your questions, stories, and support.

This group is for neurodivergent fetishists — whether you're autistic, ADHD, or identify in another way. Talk sensory needs, communication styles, and how your brain shapes your play. All brains welcome, no masking needed.

This is the local group for New York. Meet other fetishists in your area, plan meetups, or just exchange tips and stories with like-minded folks nearby. Respectful, inclusive, and real — just like your community should be.

Knowledge is sexy. This group is for sharing guides, tips, and insights about safe, sane, and consensual play. Whether you’re into research, resources, or just learning from others — you’ll find support, clarity, and real talk here.

Curious about BDSM but not sure where to start? This group is your soft landing. Share first-time experiences, ask all the questions, and get tips on safety, consent, and setting your own boundaries. No shame, no pressure — just support and real talk from fellow explorers.

For those in the province of Alberta… or visiting

Curious minds welcome! This group is your space for open, respectful discussion about fetishes, pleasure, boundaries, and safer play. Whether you’re a first-timer or seasoned fetishist, come share advice, ask questions, or explore new ideas.

Whether you're deep into RPGs, MMO raids, or cozy games — this group is your respawn point. Talk games, share recs, or geek out over your current obsession. Looking to focus on one title? Start a thread and find your fellow fans.

All new kinksters must be approved. Due to nature of this kink we must be careful on advise for this subject