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I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
I'm looking for a hook up with a top dominant bondage partner or partners. I love to be bound and gagged and the excitement by new guys that I've just met. I'm also a bottom with guys who aren't into bondage but I like it rough.
Male (60) Casper, Wyoming
Plant-obsessed, beach-dwelling Mainer with a weakness for flowers, rocks & crystals, horror movies, and people who make me laugh. Equal parts homebody and “yes, let’s go do something.” Here for good conversation, genuine connections, new experiences, and seeing where things go. Bonus points for a great sense of humor and a little weirdness. 😉
Male (45) Gorham, Maine
I am a feminine gay male with a nice set of man tits. Love getting them sucked on for long periods of time. Also am really good at sucking cock. Hit me up and if you want some company and fun.
Male (24) Houston, Texas
I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English! Also I can't see spanks so if you send me one I can't see who you are. Also I have a HUGE leather fetish! Okay let me make this as clear as I can. I am GAY. I have never had sex with a woman and have no intention to do so. I guess most people on here don't speak English as I mentioned above I am gay yet I constantly get spankings on here from women. Never gonna hook up with a woman! Can't say that any clearer,
Male (59) Freeport, New York
I'm passionate about what i do and my purpose here is undoubtedly Goal oriented. i try to start each day with a smile and to stay positive. life can be a struggle, it is how we handle it that matters. i tend to be passionate about what i do. what i think and how i live my life. i am looking forward to all the new adventures, new places, and especially the new people(maybe you) that i will have the good fortune of meeting. i am hoping to meet a confident, intelligent man who has a big heart. Note: I have only dated an older man, so that’s my preference. So don’t text me if you are not an older man, and if you are not into younger men as an older man please don’t come and waste my time. Read before texting please. If you can message, inside of of spanks just message 🙄
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slim to average build. blonde. blue eyes. really into pretty much everything! even diverse n unusual kinks n fetishes. don’t be scared to suggest anything. live in sheffield uk
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Male (42) New York, New York
PNP versatile Bottom for Ffriends and Ffun I want to get tied up so my hole can get used, stretched and fisted. work it to take double fist == My BDSM Test made on FET App == 55% Submissive 43% Dominant == My Roles == 55% Rope Bunny 43% Hunter 40% Pet Owner 38% Master/Mistress 38% Slave 38% Caregiver 38% Little 25% Masochist 25% Brat Tamer 25% Brat 23% Rigger 23% Prey 13% Sadist 13% Pet 0% Degrader 0% Degradee https://www.fet-app.com/in_app/quiz_result/en/GJV49ZdK
Male (49) New Orleans, Louisiana
**UK ONLY ** **MEN ONLY** I'm a straight acting blue collar male that is very feminine in the bedroom, hence the lingerie and sissification kink 😉 so meeting someone who gets off on that would be a massive bonus 😀 my Sissy name is Poppy 😘 Overweight, but I'm working quite hard to change that. I run my own business, and not doing a bad job either with it 🤣. But time is never on my side. 🥺 Looking to find a regular FWB, or even just some new friends. Younger (24 - 40) Daddy Dom would be the perfect one 😃. If I happen to have liked your profile or pictures, it is a compliment, I do read profiles. I know you're only interested in women 😘 I can't see spanks or likes, Haven't decided if I'm gonna pay for the app yet, so please just send a message. Sub slave bottom. Chastity, ***d sissification, BDSM is a new fave. Bukakke is on my to-do list. 😈 Pig bottom subservient, please don't message me and ask me to top you... It's not going to happen. Love to be dominated and used by younger fit guys (that's a literal plural as well as a generalisation). I love being used by straight/curious guys... They f**k better and harder. If you're a smoker... Move to the front of the queue, should there ever be one 🤣 Gay guys... Prove me wrong 😉 It's all role play. I cannot host, but I am willing to travel after getting to know you a little first. I would love to get to know a few people and find friends. NSFB, and horny chat. I have a *** kink and a praise kink... yes they can and do exist together. Conversation is quite important at the start and throughout.A good Dom needs to seduce consent from their sub. So let's get chatting. Considering OF content also. 🤔 As well as considering.... 😛
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Male (62) Eagle, Nebraska
I'm a kinky, submissive guy looking to explore being used as a slave. Bondage and nudity are major turn-ons. What would you like to do with a willing slave?
Male (62) Toronto, Ontario
Hey there, I’m a 23-year-old gay guy with a strong submissive side, though I do switch occasionally especially with the right sub. That said, I’m currently looking to submit fully to a dominant/submissive man who knows how to take ownership and isn’t afraid of power. What I’m into: .Bondage (the tighter, the better) .Slave dynamics and protocols .Control - physical, mental, emotional .Training, obedience, discipline .D/s, TPE, and structured power exchange .Switch-friendly dynamics (if you're into that too) I’m not just looking for casual play — I want something intense, possibly ongoing, with someone who enjoys owning a boy fully and understands the importance of consent, communication, and mutual respect. If you're into developing a real connection within a dynamic, I want to hear from you. I'm open to: .Doms/Masters (bonus if you're into taking on a submissive boy long-term) .Switches who crave control and know how to wield it .Online to start, or local for real-time meetups What you’ll get: loyalty, eagerness, a kinky and obedient side that loves being molded, used, and kept in line. I can also take control when needed, if you're a switch or interested in power play in both directions. If this speaks to you, message me. Let me know what you’re into, how you dominate, and what kind of connection you’re seeking. No one-liners or faceless messages, please — I want something real.
Male (24) Covilhã, Portugal
Kinky, hung and young dom/switch looking to get his freak on Introverted and straight forward as fuck. Looking to connect, so say hey Don't be shy. Looking for a consistent play partner or a LTR if we have a beautiful connection. I'm in need of a new slut slave partner or a fellow Dom that's not afraid to try new things, Huge Hung and long BBC over here by the way I'm into Bondage Hoods & Masks Light CBT TT/nipple play Light impact play Dom/sub Pit worship Muscle worship Kissing Fucking Sucking Edging Lots of toys and exotics! (VERY IMPORTANT) Also cosplay and roleplay HIV free and STIs Free, On PreP Fully vaccinated Sig.nal: bdsmcock.01
Male (23) New York, New York
I'm a bondage fan who’s into a lot of kinks and looking to explore them a bit. My main kink is bondage, and I’m pretty open minded so just ask. Gags, Bondage, Roleplay are my top faves. I mainly like to be sub, but I'm looking for chances to explore my dom side too so don't be afraid to ask if you're looking for a dom to try some bondage stuff with other kinks.
Male (25) East Kilbride, Scotland
I'm a sporty looking guy into football kit and Adidas sportswear I especially like guys into ABDL (diapers/nappies) and chastity. If not, rimming or face-sitting are firm favourites I think I might be the only dude on here looking for other dudes - who will I get my first message from? My only limit is women - I'm only into dudes
There are two parts to my profile. i seek a position within a male household as his male maid/slave - no strings , put me to work The other is as a no strings cock sucker. All explained below. i am looking for Male Masters who like sissy subs i am "The_Mouth" You are on this site today with certain desires or expectations, looking for that ideal or near ideal encounter. Can I ask though , how many times have you logged on here , hoping to get sexual relief , with an “ideal” but not achieved it ? I may not be what you came here looking for , but , I do have the solution for your frustration. You are horny , it looks like you won’t get a “date” today and why have yet another wank ? There is no need for you to do that as I am “The_Mouth”. This emasculated, therefore non-threatening male , locked in chastity, provides cock sucking service. My own dick is off limits , i am in chastity, it re-in***s my role as simply being a 2 hole pleasuregiver to Alpha males, so , not looking for reciprocation. So , if you SERIOUSLY need your cock sucked and you are aged 18 - 55 and dont have a beer belly/gut - message me. The type of scenario is , you visit me , or we meet in a public place . like a public toilet. The only words spoken are yours “get on your knees and open your mouth” I drop , I suck , you cum down my throat , I rise and turn around and leave. You have enjoyed a warm , moist , talented mouth around your cock. i am just a regular guy in the streets , jeans and t-shirt type , not handsome , not ugly, normal build. BUT under those jeans i am ALWAYS wearing stockings, suspenders and panties as a constant reminder that i am simply a "sissy" , who is inferior to Alpha males and i am to do their bidding whenever they require it. i am NOT a TV who has not "made the grade". i have NO DESIRE to wear make-up , wigs etc... and present as female. More intense servitude is possible if the location and time availability is good - e.g i will rim you , if required, or present my clean ass to you to fuck . For the more demanding male I would submit to bondage , fisting, human toilet training, w/s etc... i am sorry , i will NEVER send a face picture , as i can't have my mates finding out that i am actually an inferior sissy who drops for cock. I AM ALSO SEEKING UNPAID EMPLOYMENT AS A MALE MAID. This does not have to include sex. This would suit a male who needs his home kept spotless , his kitchen clean , his shirts ironed , so that fconquests visiting him will have a lovely environment to spend time in. If you require me to be your maid , you MUST live in London and you must live alone , or in an all male household. i COULD travel for this duty , but , if it is a distance , i would have to be accommodated overnight and roped or chained when not in service. **Desires and Fantasies** To be enslaved , kept chained/captive , be put to work , serve domestically and sexually, serve a Master, serve a Master and his friends , Master could also sell my services to other men to recoup his upkeep.
Male (53) London, Greater London
I’m really into spandex/lycra and would love to meet more people into it too. I’m quite shy and so take a bit of time to come out of my shell, especially as I’m not out to many people. Would love to boost my confidence in meeting up with more spandex lovers. Telegram: kal_el2022
Male (32) Rugby, Warwickshire
I am a vibrant man with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively. I am cheerful and well balanced. Despite of my active and energetic nature I value honesty and sincerity in my relations with people.
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Male (62) Frome, Somerset
TRADE OFFER 🤝 YOU RECEIVE: Asset: FTM (7y on T), Virgin Alignment: Intellectual Brat / Chaotic Gremlin Perks:Zero drama, high autonomy, and caustic wit I RECEIVE: Role: Experienced Brat Tamer / Strategic Lead Age: 30–45 WE ACHIEVE: Campaign: Monogamous 24/7 D/s with long-term TPE potential Interested? The contract is up for audit. Read my "about" and the pinned post on FetLife (@elven_rogue) before making your move.
Male (26) Kraków, Małopolskie
Not sure about my BDSM Test results to be honest!! I am looking to expand my kinky fetish world with new experiences and new friends and more regular play with people I can get to know so we can both have a good time. Only have basic version so far so cannot see Spanks or Likes. Please DM me if you want to chat or are interested in more.
Male (69) Carmarthenshire, Wales
gay guy and best girl friend here, like to share dicks. she likes younger I don’t discriminate hit us up. idk why it won’t let me fix the age on this but she’s 40 and I’m 36. but youthful pussies I promise Lolol. we’ve been sucking dick together since middle school so I promise we r fun. fuck us and make us tell u our sexual trauma
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I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
I'm looking for a hook up with a top dominant bondage partner or partners. I love to be bound and gagged and the excitement by new guys that I've just met. I'm also a bottom with guys who aren't into bondage but I like it rough.
Male (60) Casper, Wyoming
Kinky, hung and young dom/switch looking to get his freak on Introverted and straight forward as fuck. Looking to connect, so say hey Don't be shy. Looking for a consistent play partner or a LTR if we have a beautiful connection. I'm in need of a new slut slave partner or a fellow Dom that's not afraid to try new things, Huge Hung and long BBC over here by the way I'm into Bondage Hoods & Masks Light CBT TT/nipple play Light impact play Dom/sub Pit worship Muscle worship Kissing Fucking Sucking Edging Lots of toys and exotics! (VERY IMPORTANT) Also cosplay and roleplay HIV free and STIs Free, On PreP Fully vaccinated Sig.nal: bdsmcock.01
Male (23) New York, New York
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Male (42) New York, New York
I’m a chilled 34 year old guy, who is vastly inexperienced and looking to change that. I’m totally up for chats, meets, nsa or some commitment. Whilst I’m not 100% sure on all the kinks out there so many intrigue me and I’m open to trying most things at least once or twice before making judgment. I do like wearing some diapers have done for a few years but totally get that some aren’t into it and equally happy to ditch it if needed. More of a DL than an AB but again open to it. 💦 only in the padding though, 💩 is just messy, stinks and *** to cleanup What I lack in experience I make up for in not being a timewaster, committed and open minded
Male (34) Canterbury, Kent
Top dl man expressing extreme contrasts of sweetness and sadism setting strict rules for complete unconditional service. I am interested in filling up your feeling and desires of surrendering and peace of mind from finding the right match that will allow you to stop living on constant desire and finally find you meaning. My clear like: guys that are muscled strong and fit but inside the bed they are absolutely powerless.
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Am 57 Gay male looking to explore Sub/Dom dynamic as a sub with other Gay male. Completely new to this so not sure what to expect. looking for someone to show me ropes,
Male (58) Wirral, Merseyside
Not sure about my BDSM Test results to be honest!! I am looking to expand my kinky fetish world with new experiences and new friends and more regular play with people I can get to know so we can both have a good time. Only have basic version so far so cannot see Spanks or Likes. Please DM me if you want to chat or are interested in more.
Male (69) Carmarthenshire, Wales
Easygoing, genuine, and looking for a meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, trying new things, and spending quality time with someone special. I’m here to meet someone honest, caring, and open to seeing where a real connection can lead.
Male (39) Sacramento, California
If I am made the way I am there must be at least one men the way he is as he is in this universe where 2 of us are perfect one for another. Positive believer in dreams,life itself and matching souls for the purpose of mutual love and fulfillment. Lover of art,music,walks,nature,good people,***s,travels,flowers,motorcycles. I would like to find true master for long term relationship. Beyond bdsm there must be love,trust,responsability,honesty. During chat online we can discuss every detail of mutual desires,expetations etc. I am good looking men,worthy,have lot of skills. Little fantasy story how I see us and our energy exchange ;) We are in love,in trust,mutual support. I would like you are taller,smarter and stronger than me. We pay attention to our diet,appearance, and some workouts. I am capable of working and have a lot of experience; I’m a hard worker. I’ve often been the stronger partner In relationships,one more committed to making things work out—including being willing to relocate and live together—which is totally fine :) Now I would like to find a strong man I can count on and lean on, while simultaneously being a source of support for him.You are the one who ensures we have a good life; I’m not promiscuous or a gold digger, but I would love to be a stay-at-home partner. In that case, I would take care of the house, apartment, and garden, manage groceries and the fridge, and handle general household chores. I cook well—though it’s not exactly a passion of mine, I’m sure I’d grow to love it for a great Master—and I am tidy; I like the space to be clean and organized. I am very creative: I can ***t on canvas, ***t walls, refinish and restore furniture, and handle some construction work and various home maintenance tasks without needing a professional. I know how to build beds, sofas, tables, and wardrobes out of solid wood. I could build us equipment, beds, and various furniture for BDSM sessions—things that might not even exist yet, or things we dream up and I can create with tools and time in the garage you tell me build me that so I can restrain you and do that to you and have nearby that toy,maks,whip,plug whatever fantasy you have in your mind when you are horny and I say YES and just watch what I can do :D I love flowers and tending to the garden and yard. I can say without ego that I know how to renovate and beautify the space around me. I would love to receive plenty of love and support from you, as well as the freedom to be exactly who I am. In return, you would have all of me to yourself; I would be your support system, your sex toy, and a good homemaker. That way, when you come home tired or stressed from work, you wouldn't be met with chores and obligations, but with me—my smile and a hug. I would be overjoyed not to have to worry about daily life concerns like a career, as I don't have those kinds of ambitions (even though I do like working); the feeling of my dominant partner being in charge of everything is just *so* sexy to me. I’m really turned on by BDSM and master/slave dynamics; I love sex, though it doesn't necessarily have to happen every day. I would do a lot for a good, emotionally available Master who really take care of me. I’ve tried bondage, mouth gag,anal play, nipple play, sock sniffing, anal sex, and various vibrating toys. I’d love to try breathplay, a sleep sack, a cage, and other similar things.The more you care about my well-being, the more I’ll surrender to you; you’ll feel that I am truly *your* little one—belonging exclusively to you—and together we can enjoy this beautiful Master/slave dynamic as we grow in love and connection, expanding our world of play. As a reward—provided I’m doing everything right—it’s enough for you to take me out for dinner, a drink, or just somewhere nice while holding my hand. I’ll have an electric toy inside me, too, so if I get a little naughty, you can tame me instantly. I’m not materialistic and you can’t buy me, but you can definitely win me over. I am really serious about all of it and dont want some wishy washy games. Trust me, I’ll make you laugh when you least expect it ;D Just make me feel safe and protected in this rough and crazy world,but life can be wonderfull also :)
My main kinky dream is having fun with others in sportswear, mainly soccer (or football?) or basketball. Just would like guys who share this fantasy of mine.
Male (19) Roma, Lazio
I'm a young, positive guy looking for interesting connections and genuine conversation. I'm a versatile person and value flexibility in everything, whether it's a relationship or just a pleasant evening with friends. I'm a decorator, so I'm surrounded by beauty and creativity. I love transforming spaces, finding harmony in details, and creating a cozy atmosphere.
Male (52) Boise, Idaho
Native English speaker living in Germany. I'm naturally submissive gay bottom with a service-oriented personality. I have a lot of responsibility professionally and in my private time I like to hand over power. I'm very interested in EROTIC HYPNOSIS, and hypnosis in general, and I've been told that I make a great, easily induced subject. I enjoy being spanked, and spanking as well, but that's my limit of *** I enjoy. Kinks that interest me are bondage (as a bunny), being prey, exhibitionism, public play (with the risk/thrill of near discovery), being a little. I enjoy some ***, but I have fairly tight boundaries around *** and objectification. I hope that gives you a general idea. I might sound careful in my writing, but I'm actually quite a slut once you get to know me. Hugs!
Male (52) Goldbach, Bayern
i am a gay dom who values confidence,loyalty,communication and mutual respect.i naturally take the lead,but i believe real dominance is built on trust consistency, and understanding not simply control.i am looking to meet a submissive man who appreciates structure,honesty,affection,and strong connection.i enjoy getting to know someone mentally and emotionally before taling things further.chemistry matters,but so do compatibility,boundaries,and trust
Male (46) Fort Pierce, Florida
Looking for a sir or dom to take control of my underwear, shove used socks and underwear in my mouth, stretch my briefs over my face, kick or slap my balls, laugh at me, spank me, bully me, hang me up, tie me up, and eventually control my life, mind, and cock 🔐😭 26M
Male (27) Dover, Tennessee
My names david looking for a casual *** to feed my wallet i want to watch my ***s do things for my enjoyment im very dom and commanding if this is what your looking for give me a message
Male (18) Oldham, Lancashire
I’m looking for a warm, thoughtful man who is ready to build a meaningful, long-term relationship grounded in trust, respect, emotional maturity, and shared values.
I'm passionate about what i do and my purpose here is undoubtedly Goal oriented. i try to start each day with a smile and to stay positive. life can be a struggle, it is how we handle it that matters. i tend to be passionate about what i do. what i think and how i live my life. i am looking forward to all the new adventures, new places, and especially the new people(maybe you) that i will have the good fortune of meeting. i am hoping to meet a confident, intelligent man who has a big heart. Note: I have only dated an older man, so that’s my preference. So don’t text me if you are not an older man, and if you are not into younger men as an older man please don’t come and waste my time. Read before texting please. If you can message, inside of of spanks just message 🙄
I am mainly into men, I came out gay at 27, but recently have the desire to have sex with women as well. I am into underwear and everything about it. I live wearing other mens dirty underwear, especially my husbands, but also men that we are playing with. I love having my dick where his has been, and smelling them. I am into ripping them, the other guy ripping my underwear and sucking or fucking me. I love arm pits, and the musky smell. I like to fist my husband. I like sucking balls and the guy holding me down, wrapping legs around my my head and neg holding me down into his C&B . I am finding out I am also into feet. Would like to try some pup play, role play, I have not really tried bondage but I definitely curious.
Male (50) Cheyenne, Wyoming
Young submissive cub with a fetish for uncut… love to sniff, worship and suck musky/sweaty dick and sniff ripe underwear. Love to receive WS. Also love heavy cummer/precummers and love to milk and edge my dom while swallowing all of his juices. Love to receive rough, passionate anal and enjoy being dirty talked to while getting used, especially in other languages.
Male (34) Toronto, Ontario
Matured, Lonely-widowed, mud-guy(Oil-Driller-guy). I'm looking for friends and more. I'm looking forward to chatting with profiles with real informations. I don't nag or yell but don't write me if you are not who you are on that app or profile. I will block and report you. I don't want any military men or nurses deployed on any military bases. Looking for LTR but I'm ok if you're just looking for a hookup. We all need a release. I'm a true edged and functionable Versatile here but also love to cuddle, rim ass, oral giving and receiving, massages and very submiive. Very curious to be your slave, inexperienced and wanted to be an experienced student, no degraders, no porn artists. Tested regularly, on PreP. DDF -, HIV- as of November 2025.. Fully vaccinated for COVID and Monkeypox. I like swimming, fishing, drilling, gardenning, cooking, travelling, shopping, bowling, amusement parks, musics, SCI-FI Movies, walking, skating, petting and camping. No man is an island so hit me up and let's see where chemistry takes us next.
Male (50) Chicago, Illinois
Dom top nerd looking for a submissive bottom that will worship ans serve uncut cock. Oo pen to alot of kinks. honestly looking for that we can go from shilling playing video games enjoying movies to just serving worshiping me
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