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Howdy humans Im charms a 47 year old switch. Please dont call me anything ever apart from charms. My dominant side tends to be sadistic. My sub side i like to do all sorts of things. But what ever I do consent between me and the person Im playing with is a must along with safe words and aftercare πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ Im an extremely lucky person I have made some amazing freinds on here few who I class as family and I love them unconditionally. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ Im a big beliver in manners an treating people the way I would want them.to treat me. Im a big beliver in consent in my day to day vanilla life and my kink life. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ If i see that you have pictures of your pets on your profile i will no dought message you and have questions about them . I love all all ***s apart from rats. I actually have a major rat phobia. Alot of people tend to have a spider phobia but I totally love spiders. 🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱 At the moment I have a retired x raceing Greyhound that i adopted called Derek. I also have 2 cats called Checkers and Rusty. Although over the years I've had a wide variety of ***s. I often adopt people's unwanted pets. 🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢 My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. But I also love the 3 Blade films and the 8 Harry Potter films. I will watch most films but im not into romance or chick flicks. I prefer a good horror or action film. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 I also love books both paper form an audio books. I read alot of James Patterson. I also like vampier an weare *** books. My favourite books like this are the Anita Blake vampier hunter books. Iv read and listened to the 7 Harry Potter books so many times I can rember them all. But If anyone ever wants to drop me a pm with book recommendations I'd be really greatful. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 Music is a very important part of my life. To me music is like oxygen. I can not live without it. I like all sorts of music . Depending on my mood but my favourite band is the prodigy 🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡 Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the kink world. I dont think you ever stop learning I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Or if you have a disability and want talk to another disabled kinkster feel free to drop me a message. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to one and other. πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–
Well hey there, I'm not looking for the love of my life. I'm married but our marriage is open for me to explore sex, relationships and a bit of taboo I've been craving. I am looking for strength and prowess in a partner. I do enjoy more than one man groping, fucking taking from me at a time. I crave strong personalities to dominate me to meet their needs unapologetically. I want to not be hurt but yes all cnc scenarios are goood. Ask me privately what ones excite me the most! If I interest you that is.....
Female (67) Golden, Colorado
The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention. I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time. Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours. If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.
Female (48) Springfield, Missouri
Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.
Female (30) Moline, Illinois
after my break up with my exs of 18 years. It's time for me to step out of my confert zonem take my fantasy that have been locked in my headcand had threatened to never tryed in real life. if u was still w my exs. he wasn't into exploring anything kink at all. i want to find someone i can trust. I feel It's going to be around to want to explore my kink side. truly, I've wanted to bring my kink out for many years ago, but in my relationship, i was in that it would never happen. I want to experience new things and push my boundaries and my comfort zone. Have fun, l life is too short to be afraid to bring your true self out. I don't really know all my limits as if yet.. i want a need to finally feel satisfied sexual... meassge me if u would like to be more than ome off, help me explore my new world where i believe i always should have been. anything else I want to know, juat asks...
Female (49) Rochester, New Hampshire
Not looking for anything to serious but if your in my area might be down to hang, but if you message and i dont respond either take it as your answer or ill message back whenevr i see it but blowing up the feeed will just upset me. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 86% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Masochist 72% Non-monogamist 71% Voyeur 62% Degradee 48% Exhibitionist 35% Vanilla 8% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch
Female (22) Eugene, Oregon
Happy married in open relationship. I not new to this world, into many things some not mention. Look for most a woman for relationship, friends, shopping I🀣 I prefer mature men/women I not interest use other apps so please do not ask. Also do not always ask more more pics or live show I just block you. I like to chat others here about desires and different things πŸš‚ 🐾
Female (47) Buderim, Queensland
I'm a Queen and i got on here to be treated as one and along that i'm a domme with quite some experience and am looking for a sweet submissive baby boy that has a strong devotion to serving me and being a naughty bitch that i can build a dominance companionship with
Female (29) Daytona Beach, Florida
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
I am a High Protocol Pro-Domme in Northwest Alabama. I will educate, train, discipline, punish, hurt, and nurture you all in one or separately if that's what you desire. RACK, SSC, & PRICK aware! Honorifics: Mistress, Madam, Ma'am Things that I'm into: CFNM Foot & Ass Worship CBT Bondage Impact Play Role Play Pegging Sensation Play Chastity Facesitting Pet Play Wax Play Anybody wishing to be educated or serve me needs to be vetted. The form is on my website! Website: academyofvalencia.com I'm open to making new friends in the community!
Female (37) Huntsville, Alabama
I am an open minded woman on a journey of sharing, caring, enjoying, experimenting, developing. And, of course, having fun. Better to do in a community.
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❀ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
On the search for a master / mistress to entertain and become their play thing. Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me πŸ’‹ Looking for occasional meet ups need someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) Even if we don’t connect I love to hear what you’d like to do to me or what I can do to you. That’s part of the fun especially if there’s photos πŸ’‹ update September 2025: sorry I’m not as active on here as I used to be but now working 5 nights so less time to play x
Female (50) Denecroft, Gloucestershire
Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (19) Fernhill, Otago
If you don't have a profile photo or if you're wearing a mask in it, just scroll on by. No cybersex or pen pals. No married or otherwise committed men. Single only! I am not going to fuck you in your ass with anything, and I'm not going to fuck the first time we meet. I can't make that any more clear. Please don't waste either of our time! My messages are open because I love to meet and communicate with interesting, intelligent, open-minded people. If that doesn't describe you, please just move along. No sexting!!!!!!!! It is a turn off for me if I don't know you. Please note, I'm an alpha submissive. I am in control in every aspect of my life. I'm independent, self-sufficient and can fix my own shit. I take care of my farm, ***s and home. My ultimate goal here is to find a natural, intelligent, Dominant man who can't help me release control and give it to him. Giving someone control who knows how to take control can be the most sensual and erotic experience. It is rare to find a Dominant capable. I crave that kind of submission, and I know how rare and difficult to find it truly is. However, I'm also a masochist and need regular floggings, paddlings and spankings. I sub to a couple Service Tops, but there's always room for another. That is where the D/s relationship I crave will start. My true submission must be earned. Sex can be great as part of the Dom/sub relationship, but it isn't why I'm here. I haven't had sex in a long time and I don't do hookups or ons. Please note that I am demisexual and sapiosexual. I need a mental connection or my brain shuts my body down. I don't want a serious relationship and fwb is a possibility, but the friendship and connection have to come first. That could take months to foster. So, if you're in a hurry or just want to get laid, please don't waste either of our time. History - I was in a completely vanilla marriage for almost 25 years. I would say never again, but for a love like we had until he got brain cancer and died, I would give up anything. Before that I had been collared by two different Masters. Vanilla life - I would rather be outside doing anything than inside. I want to travel everywhere and read everything. I work too much. I'm not your typical tax and accounting person. I don't like wine, but I love wineries. Things I love - ***s, kayaking, hiking, horse back riding, white water rafting, adventures, dancing (including in the rain), tequila, the smell of horses - rain - flowers - fresh cut grass and fresh tilled earth - a man, friendly people, honesty, intelligence, compassion, letting other people have their own opinions and discussing them, letting other people do whatever it is that makes them happy, positive people, masculine men, gentlemen, women who straingten another woman's crown without pointing out it was crooked, fun people, living in the country, floggers, paddles, candle wax, rope on my skin, short skirts, high heels, all kinds of music, a good party, a quiet night at home, a good movie but I'd rather read the book, getting dressed up and going to a nice dinner and the theater, getting dirty & sweaty working on my land, fixing things, DIY projects, and so many more things. Things I don't like - judgmental people, ignorance, people who don't think for themselves, poor grammar, mean people, *** cruelty, beans, mushrooms, soda, rudeness, jealousy, and like all women, we don't want to see your dick so please stop showing it to us. Put it in your pictures and we'll go find it when we want to see it.
Female (59) Cleveland, Georgia
Something about a big strong man putting me in my place and telling me what to do really intrigues me. I like being praised but I love being treated like shit even more x Humiliate me, degrade me, use me however you’d like, it only turns me on more I’d love to be someone’s cute little princess
Female (22) Belfast, Belfast
5'6 , Brown Eyes , Curvy Body , Short hair and perfect lips ;) Not looking for casual hookups so don’t text if that’s what you’re looking for ..
Female (22) Detroit, Michigan
Elissa here pic when asked.. im looking for a connection and shared interests. The perfect Dom and sub relationships. A dom who is steady consistante, and trustworthy. Does not just take control but has a self awareness that They take the responsibility using great care to communicate listen and lead. This can create a good bond with their sub that let's vulnerability feels safe, that disapline and strength means so much more. A true dom with empathy, patience and a respectful nature has the best qualities not just for me. Other qualities, being consistante and precise with their words follow with consistante actions. This will in turn make submition come naturally and is deeply fulfilling. Kinks. Outdoors. MMF. FFM. Bondage. Spanking. Big cock queen.
Female (46) Hamilton, Scotland
Hi im new to all this . But have a great imagination. Im sick of being a prude. Its time to live and explore. Rope play , sub , lingerie fettish ,not into insults or ***. Treat me like a queen you wont regret it .looking somewhere to start my journey
Female (49) Albury, New South Wales
Hello!! I absolutely LOVE being put in my place, tease me, edge me, tie me up and make me beg for my orgasm. Yes, I’m a brat who will push your buttons from time to timeπŸ˜‰ Need someone who can give me cute kisses but also ruin my life🀭
Highly affectionate Babygirl needs a kind and caring Daddy, who craves attention and affection as well. He must offer lots of praise, but will be stern when needed. He will always be honest and never go silent on her for any reason.
Female (47) Bensalem, Pennsylvania
This soul lives in the Sky and Sea. The girl has been isolated a majority of her life and chooses to be so now. I am a Dominant, Master, and Sadist. girl is a submissive, slave, and Masochist. We are a great many other labels, wearing 10,000 faces. We were born to serve and be served. We are the whole spectrum, becoming... Love, embodied. We listen to music 24/7, dance blindfolded at night, write endlessly in devotion to the Divine, which We define as a Higher and Lower (sub)Consciousness, Life and Death, Love, Lust, Hate... Air, Fire, Water, Earth... these descriptors going on and on. girl and her Master(We in One Body, Heart, and Mind) exist equally as chaos and order. We are exceptionally grounded, well-read, empathic, understanding, and maniacal. If one would like to experience Us before reaching out, Our user on fetlife is REMQuill, which has many writings and photos, though most are private. If We have a decent chemistry and I believe We won't scare you away, I will allow friendship to see deeper. Don't blind friend request, send a message as well. We are Philosophical, Psychological, Intellectual, and so much more... We are metaphysical and that is what I am seeking to reflect across the table. Another that has ascended/ descended to my level or we will not vibrate and resonate. I respond to eloquence, someone that actually attempted to write more than a hello. Someone that shows they see more than a body to fuck. I am a Limitless slave and an Infinity Master. Impress Us. Humble Us. Offer Us your wisdom, attention, fervor and favor, and We will do all We can to meet you half way. We are a Switch, but do not generally flip in a singular dynamic. Master remains as Master and slave would never dare to order Them around. We have 20 years in the lifestyle. girl was raised in 1950s household and was trained to be a slave since childhood. We grew into Mastery and Sadism as the stupid and curious child experienced the world and took control of her life with accountability and responsibility. Even when We are not owned, We perform rituals for the Spirit of BDSM daily. This is a belief system and the only way We exist. BDSM is Our breath. Acts of Service is Our Love Language. Extremes at hedonistic and starvation levels are Our die-hard romance. Above all, We are hopelessly hoping for heart-wrenching, mind-fucking Alchemical Twisted-Metal Romance. β™‘
Female (35) Firestone Park, California
Hello, it's nice to join the kink community, I joined this site to learn more about the world of kink, events and places.I'm excited to make lot of friends. I'm new to kink and have no exposure with women yet im owned, but we are open im not interested in hookup with people with male genitalia. that choice is a trauma driven preference, yes my owner is a man, but he is my safe space. im only comfortable with women I'm also very shy, so sorry if my messages seem dry lol also im Nerospicy 😊
Female (20) Indianapolis, Indiana

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Well hey there, I'm not looking for the love of my life. I'm married but our marriage is open for me to explore sex, relationships and a bit of taboo I've been craving. I am looking for strength and prowess in a partner. I do enjoy more than one man groping, fucking taking from me at a time. I crave strong personalities to dominate me to meet their needs unapologetically. I want to not be hurt but yes all cnc scenarios are goood. Ask me privately what ones excite me the most! If I interest you that is.....
Female (67) Golden, Colorado
I'm a Queen and i got on here to be treated as one and along that i'm a domme with quite some experience and am looking for a sweet submissive baby boy that has a strong devotion to serving me and being a naughty bitch that i can build a dominance companionship with
Female (29) Daytona Beach, Florida
Hello!! I absolutely LOVE being put in my place, tease me, edge me, tie me up and make me beg for my orgasm. Yes, I’m a brat who will push your buttons from time to timeπŸ˜‰ Need someone who can give me cute kisses but also ruin my life🀭
Something about a big strong man putting me in my place and telling me what to do really intrigues me. I like being praised but I love being treated like shit even more x Humiliate me, degrade me, use me however you’d like, it only turns me on more I’d love to be someone’s cute little princess
Female (22) Belfast, Belfast
On the search for a master / mistress to entertain and become their play thing. Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me πŸ’‹ Looking for occasional meet ups need someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) Even if we don’t connect I love to hear what you’d like to do to me or what I can do to you. That’s part of the fun especially if there’s photos πŸ’‹ update September 2025: sorry I’m not as active on here as I used to be but now working 5 nights so less time to play x
Female (50) Denecroft, Gloucestershire
I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention. I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time. Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours. If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.
Female (48) Springfield, Missouri
I am an open minded woman on a journey of sharing, caring, enjoying, experimenting, developing. And, of course, having fun. Better to do in a community.
Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.
Female (30) Moline, Illinois
I am a High Protocol Pro-Domme in Northwest Alabama. I will educate, train, discipline, punish, hurt, and nurture you all in one or separately if that's what you desire. RACK, SSC, & PRICK aware! Honorifics: Mistress, Madam, Ma'am Things that I'm into: CFNM Foot & Ass Worship CBT Bondage Impact Play Role Play Pegging Sensation Play Chastity Facesitting Pet Play Wax Play Anybody wishing to be educated or serve me needs to be vetted. The form is on my website! Website: academyofvalencia.com I'm open to making new friends in the community!
Female (37) Huntsville, Alabama
Hi im new to all this . But have a great imagination. Im sick of being a prude. Its time to live and explore. Rope play , sub , lingerie fettish ,not into insults or ***. Treat me like a queen you wont regret it .looking somewhere to start my journey
Female (49) Albury, New South Wales
If you don't have a profile photo or if you're wearing a mask in it, just scroll on by. No cybersex or pen pals. No married or otherwise committed men. Single only! I am not going to fuck you in your ass with anything, and I'm not going to fuck the first time we meet. I can't make that any more clear. Please don't waste either of our time! My messages are open because I love to meet and communicate with interesting, intelligent, open-minded people. If that doesn't describe you, please just move along. No sexting!!!!!!!! It is a turn off for me if I don't know you. Please note, I'm an alpha submissive. I am in control in every aspect of my life. I'm independent, self-sufficient and can fix my own shit. I take care of my farm, ***s and home. My ultimate goal here is to find a natural, intelligent, Dominant man who can't help me release control and give it to him. Giving someone control who knows how to take control can be the most sensual and erotic experience. It is rare to find a Dominant capable. I crave that kind of submission, and I know how rare and difficult to find it truly is. However, I'm also a masochist and need regular floggings, paddlings and spankings. I sub to a couple Service Tops, but there's always room for another. That is where the D/s relationship I crave will start. My true submission must be earned. Sex can be great as part of the Dom/sub relationship, but it isn't why I'm here. I haven't had sex in a long time and I don't do hookups or ons. Please note that I am demisexual and sapiosexual. I need a mental connection or my brain shuts my body down. I don't want a serious relationship and fwb is a possibility, but the friendship and connection have to come first. That could take months to foster. So, if you're in a hurry or just want to get laid, please don't waste either of our time. History - I was in a completely vanilla marriage for almost 25 years. I would say never again, but for a love like we had until he got brain cancer and died, I would give up anything. Before that I had been collared by two different Masters. Vanilla life - I would rather be outside doing anything than inside. I want to travel everywhere and read everything. I work too much. I'm not your typical tax and accounting person. I don't like wine, but I love wineries. Things I love - ***s, kayaking, hiking, horse back riding, white water rafting, adventures, dancing (including in the rain), tequila, the smell of horses - rain - flowers - fresh cut grass and fresh tilled earth - a man, friendly people, honesty, intelligence, compassion, letting other people have their own opinions and discussing them, letting other people do whatever it is that makes them happy, positive people, masculine men, gentlemen, women who straingten another woman's crown without pointing out it was crooked, fun people, living in the country, floggers, paddles, candle wax, rope on my skin, short skirts, high heels, all kinds of music, a good party, a quiet night at home, a good movie but I'd rather read the book, getting dressed up and going to a nice dinner and the theater, getting dirty & sweaty working on my land, fixing things, DIY projects, and so many more things. Things I don't like - judgmental people, ignorance, people who don't think for themselves, poor grammar, mean people, *** cruelty, beans, mushrooms, soda, rudeness, jealousy, and like all women, we don't want to see your dick so please stop showing it to us. Put it in your pictures and we'll go find it when we want to see it.
Female (59) Cleveland, Georgia
after my break up with my exs of 18 years. It's time for me to step out of my confert zonem take my fantasy that have been locked in my headcand had threatened to never tryed in real life. if u was still w my exs. he wasn't into exploring anything kink at all. i want to find someone i can trust. I feel It's going to be around to want to explore my kink side. truly, I've wanted to bring my kink out for many years ago, but in my relationship, i was in that it would never happen. I want to experience new things and push my boundaries and my comfort zone. Have fun, l life is too short to be afraid to bring your true self out. I don't really know all my limits as if yet.. i want a need to finally feel satisfied sexual... meassge me if u would like to be more than ome off, help me explore my new world where i believe i always should have been. anything else I want to know, juat asks...
Female (49) Rochester, New Hampshire
Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (19) Fernhill, Otago
Elissa here pic when asked.. im looking for a connection and shared interests. The perfect Dom and sub relationships. A dom who is steady consistante, and trustworthy. Does not just take control but has a self awareness that They take the responsibility using great care to communicate listen and lead. This can create a good bond with their sub that let's vulnerability feels safe, that disapline and strength means so much more. A true dom with empathy, patience and a respectful nature has the best qualities not just for me. Other qualities, being consistante and precise with their words follow with consistante actions. This will in turn make submition come naturally and is deeply fulfilling. Kinks. Outdoors. MMF. FFM. Bondage. Spanking. Big cock queen.
Female (46) Hamilton, Scotland
Not looking for anything to serious but if your in my area might be down to hang, but if you message and i dont respond either take it as your answer or ill message back whenevr i see it but blowing up the feeed will just upset me. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 86% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Masochist 72% Non-monogamist 71% Voyeur 62% Degradee 48% Exhibitionist 35% Vanilla 8% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch
Female (22) Eugene, Oregon
Highly affectionate Babygirl needs a kind and caring Daddy, who craves attention and affection as well. He must offer lots of praise, but will be stern when needed. He will always be honest and never go silent on her for any reason.
Female (47) Bensalem, Pennsylvania
5'6 , Brown Eyes , Curvy Body , Short hair and perfect lips ;) Not looking for casual hookups so don’t text if that’s what you’re looking for ..
Female (22) Detroit, Michigan
Happy married in open relationship. I not new to this world, into many things some not mention. Look for most a woman for relationship, friends, shopping I🀣 I prefer mature men/women I not interest use other apps so please do not ask. Also do not always ask more more pics or live show I just block you. I like to chat others here about desires and different things πŸš‚ 🐾
Female (47) Buderim, Queensland
The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❀ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
Howdy humans Im charms a 47 year old switch. Please dont call me anything ever apart from charms. My dominant side tends to be sadistic. My sub side i like to do all sorts of things. But what ever I do consent between me and the person Im playing with is a must along with safe words and aftercare πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ Im an extremely lucky person I have made some amazing freinds on here few who I class as family and I love them unconditionally. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ Im a big beliver in manners an treating people the way I would want them.to treat me. Im a big beliver in consent in my day to day vanilla life and my kink life. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ If i see that you have pictures of your pets on your profile i will no dought message you and have questions about them . I love all all ***s apart from rats. I actually have a major rat phobia. Alot of people tend to have a spider phobia but I totally love spiders. 🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱 At the moment I have a retired x raceing Greyhound that i adopted called Derek. I also have 2 cats called Checkers and Rusty. Although over the years I've had a wide variety of ***s. I often adopt people's unwanted pets. 🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢 My favourite film is the lost boys. The first one is great but the 2nd and 3 rd one are rubbish. But I also love the 3 Blade films and the 8 Harry Potter films. I will watch most films but im not into romance or chick flicks. I prefer a good horror or action film. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 I also love books both paper form an audio books. I read alot of James Patterson. I also like vampier an weare *** books. My favourite books like this are the Anita Blake vampier hunter books. Iv read and listened to the 7 Harry Potter books so many times I can rember them all. But If anyone ever wants to drop me a pm with book recommendations I'd be really greatful. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 Music is a very important part of my life. To me music is like oxygen. I can not live without it. I like all sorts of music . Depending on my mood but my favourite band is the prodigy 🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡🎡 Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the kink world. I dont think you ever stop learning I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 3 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Or if you have a disability and want talk to another disabled kinkster feel free to drop me a message. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to one and other. πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–
I am very easy-going and open-minded person, with good sense of humor. I have an inquiring nature, always open for new knowledge. Also I am very active and communicative. I am passionate if to speak about love, and I am able to give a lot to my man. I am very defoted and faithful. I am able to support my man and not to leave him in difficult life situations.
Female (37) Denver, Colorado
You can call me Mistress or Goddess, nothing else. If you’re going to message me with no photos, don’t even bother you will not get a response. I am a sadist. You know what that means, I get off on breaking you and hearing you whimper to my power. I am looking for lifestyle subs, service subs, *** sluts and more importantly little piggies. Male and female subs may apply. You must tell me why you are a good submissive, what your limits are, and why you want to serve. Include photos of yourself or I will not reply!
Female (55) Worcester, Worcestershire

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