Genital Torture

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Genitorture is an aspect of pain play that focuses on the genitals. CBT - or 'cock and ball torture' - is probably the most widely discussed form of genital torture, but any and all genital configurations can be tortured. Popular options include zippers made from clothes pegs and string, clamps and clips, spanking and beatings or the use of candlewax. Safety is of course doubly important in this particular area. Genitals are delicate things, and need a little extra TLC. You can play safely by discussing boundaries in advance even more than usual, paying extra attention to the submissive's pain threshold. Make it clear that communication via a safeword is often expected in a scenario like this rather than some super serious worst-case-scenario.

What is genital torture?

Inflicting pain on the genitals for the purpose of pleasure. This can be done by the use of floggers and spankers or clamps or hot wax. There are a lot of different ways to be wicked to genitalia of all kinds and sometimes just talking about it is torture enough in itself!

Is genital torture the same as CBT?

CBT or Cock and Ball Torture is a kind of genital torture that focuses on the penis and testicles. It often includes clamps and sometimes involves electric but can be slapping, biting and pinching too.

Does genital torture have to be extreme?

As with any BDSM activity, it’s up to you. There are all different levels of pain you can inflict on genitals but you should only ever experiment with ones that you’re comfortable with.

Is genital torture safe?

There are risks associated with this kind of play. Be sure not to leave clamps on for too long, or to leave weights attached for a long time. Make sure you don’t cut off circulation and don’t use heavy, hard hits to genitalia. Make sure you constantly communicate with your play partner and if there’s any numbness or sharp pain stop immediately. If the genitals change colour ie turn blue stop play immediately.

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