Threads and discussions that include: kink

  • Impact play that surprised you? Sensory deprivation wins? Role reversal stories? Service/submission turning into obsession? “Vanilla” things that suddenly got filthy? For me it was Spanking! Ne ...
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  • kink exclusivity

    How to maneuver kink exclusivity? You don’t care if someone is intimate with someone else, but only in a vanilla space, not a BDSM dynamic like they have with you. I thought at first I wanted full mon ...
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  • For me, it’s how seriously they take safety. Not just saying, “I’m safe,” but being able to actually talk through limits, consent, risks, safe words, aftercare, and the reasons behind certain precauti ...
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