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How to Deal with a BDSM Breakup

A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers

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What is Gooning?

You may have recently heard of gooning, but what exactly is involved in this mastubatory method? Victoria Blisse discusses this trending topic and

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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on

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Struggling for bondage ideas? Searching for fetish or BDSM advice? Let our BDSM guides and how-to's shine a kinky light.

What Is Degradation Kink? Meaning, Examples & How it Really Works

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Curious about degradation kink? You’re not alone. Maybe you’re a little intrigued, maybe you’re wondering, “Wait… is this for me?” First things first: you’re not strange or “too

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Brat Tamer: Meaning, Roles, and How to Play the Sassiest Game in BDSM

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Ever seen “brat tamer” in a Fetish.com profile and wondered what that actually means? Maybe you keep catching brat tamer threads in the Forum or spot the phrase in a cheeky Kinky Ad. Spoiler alert:

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What Is a Rope Bunny? Quick Guide to Rope Bondage Roles

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Ever thought about handing over control and letting rope decide how you move, pause, or stay still for a while? For some people, it‘s the quiet focus that draws them in — the moment when your body is

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Hotwifing Explained – Desire, Power, and Why Couples Choose This Dynamic

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Hotwifing gets thrown around a lot in kink circles, relationship chats, and every fetish forum going — but let’s be honest, most explanations leave a lot to be desired. Ditch the myths and spicy

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Corrupt Me, Please: Exploring Corruption Kink and the Psychology Behind It

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Let’s be real. Kinks are what make the world go round. And if there’s one that has some serious psychological power, it’s corruption kink. This one’s all about pushing you into the unknown, leading

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Guide to the Best BDSM Clubs in Dallas

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Dallas hides more than high-rises and cowboy hats; it’s home to a thriving underground of sensual, respectful, and adventurous kinksters. From social lifestyle lounges to private play venues, the

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BDSM Clubs In Chicago: Exploring the Scene and Where to Start

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Hunting for the best BDSM clubs in Chicago? The Windy City’s kink scene is equal parts gritty and gorgeous — discreet dungeons on the North Side, leather institutions with decades of history, queer

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Free Use Kink: Definition, Consent Rules & How This BDSM Fantasy Works

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Curious about the free use kink? This fascinating kink taps into fantasies of constant sexual availability, where one partner can be "used" at any time — but always with clear consent and boundaries.

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The Ultimate New York BDSM Clubs and Kinky Bar Guide

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Looking for the hottest BDSM clubs in New York or craving a wild night in the city’s best kinky bars? Whether you're into leather, latex, or lace, NYC's kink scene is bold, diverse, and

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So, Exactly What is Squirting?

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Squirting is one of the most talked-about yet misunderstood aspects of pleasure. Whether you're curious about how it works, eager to try it, or just wondering what’s really going on, we’ve got the

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5 Basic Bondage Ties You Need to Know

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We want you to get knotty! Whether you're new to ropes or a seasoned pro, catching up on the BDSM basics is always good. Here are the top five bondage ties you should know – and some devilish bondage

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Begging For Sex? Exploring Kink and Consent

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How do you ensure that there's no confusion about kink and sexual consent? Sienna Saint-Cyr explores boundaries, negotiation, and the joy of begging for sex.
 
Not too long ago, I

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How to Introduce Bondage Into Your Sex Life

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Are you curious about bondage, but in doubt about what it exactly is all about? And how do you introduce it to your partner? Those dipping their toes into bondage for the first time will have many

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Demystifying Fetishes | ABDL (or Adult Baby Diaper Fetish)

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We explore the world of ABDL- commonly known as adult diaper fetish. Amma and DippedUpMama open up and share their fond memories in the scene and some reasons why ABDL appealed to

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Talk About My Tights Fetish?

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Whatever your kink or fetish, sometimes it can be hard to gauge how an established (or potentially new) partner might react when introducing kink to the relationship. This week, our Molly hands out

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should I Take My Cuckold Fantasy Further?

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Stuck on how to take cuckolding to the next level? This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly helps out one of our members who'd like to take his cuckold fantasy from bedroom role play with his

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Am I Alone with My Blood Play Fantasies?

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This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives one of our members looking to explore their blood play fantasies some guidance on how to live them out. Plus, some advice on finding someone to enjoy

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Bondage Ideas for Bedroom Bondage Fun

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If you're starting your journey into bondage or looking to introduce it into your relationship(s), our BDSM advice columnist Molly, gives one of our members looking for some bedroom bondage ideas,

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The Submissives' Guide to Taking a BDSM Beating

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Over the years, BDSM has helped our writer, Abi Brown to develop a few useful techniques for processing discomfort. Here, she shares the submissives' guide to taking a

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What's the Secret to Nailing a Great Profile Picture?

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Taking and choosing a good dating profile picture can be just as challenging as writing out a slick dating profile. This week, one Fetish.com member asks our Molly for tips on how to take the best

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BDSM Safety Etiquette ​|​ Rules That Are Sometimes Broken

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Most of us are probably familiar with the fetish play etiquette term ‘Safe, Sane and Consensual’ when it comes to BDSM safety. Even so, rules are sometimes broken, says writer Abi

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BDSM Sex Tips | Help! I'm A Domme Stuck In A Rut

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a Domme looking for advice on

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Fetish and BDSM Explained | What's the Difference?

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Bondage, BDSM versus Fetish, D/s - all this can be quite confusing once you decide to dig deeper into the scene. But hey, don't worry about all that, here are the differences between fetish and BDSM

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What You Need to Know About Kinky Safe Sex Practices

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We all know how important safe sex practices are, and for Condom Week, we want to make sure you’re wrapping it up properly. Kinky safe sex practices come with a few extra challenges of its own, so

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Essential Guide for Better Trust Dynamics in BDSM Domination

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Trust dynamics in BDSM Domination can be a confusing discussion topic, especially for those not in the community. What does each partner involved expect and how that can work for everyone's benefit?

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