Top 10 Fetish Sex Parties in the UK | fetish.com

Where the kink’s hot, the rules are clear, and no one’s faking vanilla.

Let’s be honest: regular swingers clubs can be fun, but sometimes you want the dungeon, not the dance floor. If your idea of a good night out involves latex, rope, a few moans from the next room, and someone whispering “yes, Sir” into the dark, you're our kind of people.

Whether you like to swap partners, play hard, watch from the shadows, or be the main attraction, the UK’s fetish sex party scene is ready to wreck your expectations — in the best possible way.

So, where do you go for a kinky sex party that actually delivers?

Right here: we've rounded up the 10 best fetish sex parties in the UK where BDSM, swinging, and unapologetic lust collide. These aren’t your average hotel-key-in-a-bowl affairs. We’re talking leather-soaked lounges, strict dress codes, and spaces where consent, play, and creativity rule.

 

What Makes the UK’s Fetish and Sex Party Scene So Unique

The UK’s not just a hotbed for swingers clubs — it’s a full-blown fetish playground where kinky sex parties go way beyond the basics. Think BDSM parties with strict dress codes, queer-friendly orgies, power exchange rituals, and themed events that range from velvet elegance to raw hedonism.

Why the UK is the ultimate playground for fetish party lovers:

• Consent is queen — and king, and everything in between.
• Dress codes are taken seriously. You’ll need more than just good intentions.
• The vibe? Inclusive, creative, filthy — and proud of it.
• Whether you want to be spanked, watched, worshiped, or just vibe in latex, you’ll find your crew.

No pressure to perform. No boring small talk. Just real connection, raw energy, and a space where your kinks aren’t just accepted — they’re celebrated.

 

TOP 10 Fetish Sex Parties in the UK

 

 

1. Liberty Elite – Classy sex parties in Leicester

If you want to experience the crème de la crème of the swingers party world, a Liberty Elite fetish event is not to be missed! This Leicester establishment is an upscale private members club for lovers of the liberated lifestyle, and their sensuous environs are sure to get frisky couples in the mood for a full-on night in a seductive sex club.

 

This classy and clean swingers club is kitted out with a variety of dungeon equipment, and the resident House Master and House Mistress are on hand to take your BDSM party play to the next level. There is also a spa area where you can relax…or continue the kinky times! This is one seriously hot swinger party you will definitely want to get involved in!

Fetishes: Liberty Elite caters to a broad spectrum of consensual adult interests, providing a safe and respectful environment for various kinks.

Who is it for: The club welcomes a diverse membership, with most attendees aged between 30 and 50, though members outside this range also participate.

Address: Watling Street (A5), Lutterworth, Leicestershire, LE17 4HU, United Kingdom.

 BDSM Leicestershire, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

2. BiZarre Events - Kinky extreme fetish sex parties in London

Do regular swingers parties bore you? Are you craving a sex party that pushes the envelope? If so, BiZarre Events has just the adult party you’re looking for. BiZarre Events organizes London’s most extreme fetish sex parties that you can imagine, whether you’re a lover of latex, a fan of flogging, or a wet and wild watersports enthusiast. Expect dimmed lights, pulsating music, and naughty play equipment to excite and ignite your kinkiest fantasies. Their BDSM sex parties are LGBT friendly and welcome poly-groups, couples, and individuals of all sexual persuasions. So whatever your fancy, come experience a kinky night like no other with BiZarre Events. 

Fetishes: BiZarre Events hosts parties that embrace a wide array of fetishes, including latex, watersports, and BDSM, all within a safe, sane, and consensual environment.

Who is it for: These events are inclusive, welcoming individuals of all sexual orientations, including LGBTQ+ communities, polyamorous groups, couples, and singles.

Address: Specific event locations vary; attendees should refer to event listings for details.

 BDSM London, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

3. Torture Garden - The World's Largest Fetish Club & Sex Parties

The grandaddy of all fetish parties,Torture Garden is a veritable institution in the BDSM party scene. Established in 1990, it is now Europe’s largest fetish club, offering regular parties in London at various venues featuring musical acts, performance art, fashion shows, and, of course, delightfully kinky playrooms desired by all swingers.

 

 

The Torture Garden pushes the fetish club boundaries and dares you to explore your deepest, darkest fantasies. Dress to impress and prepare to be whipped into a frenzy of wild ecstasy at one of their debauched sex parties. This is a swingers club with a difference!

Fetishes: As Europe's largest fetish club, Torture Garden offers diverse experiences, including BDSM, performance art, and themed events, all emphasizing consensual play.

Who is it for: The club is inclusive, attracting a mix of straight, gay, and LGBTQ+ individuals who appreciate elaborate dress codes and theatrical environments. 

Address: Events are held at various venues; for example, the Scala venue is located at 275 Pentonville Road, London, N1 9NL, United Kingdom.

 BDSM London, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

4. Jaydees – Friendly Fetish Fun Near Cambridge

If you’re looking for a fetish party in a friendly and welcoming environment, thenJaydees is the place to go. Located in the Cambridge area, Jaydees offers an adult club like no other. Private playrooms, a large dance floor, dungeon furniture, cinema, hot tub, and sauna are just a few of the amenities at your disposal to help kickstart the sex party shenanigans. Dare to be kinky in this inviting and luxurious swingers club.

Fetishes: Jaydees provides facilities for a range of consensual adult activities, including BDSM, with amenities like dungeon furniture and private playrooms.

Who is it for: The club welcomes both newcomers and experienced individuals, offering a friendly and inclusive atmosphere for all.

Address: Specific address details are available upon contacting the club directly.

 BDSM Cambrideshire, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

5. The Hellfire Club - Devilishly Fetish Sex Parties at the Hottest Swingers Club

Let loose and unleash your sinful side at The Hellfire Club, where naughty boys and girls are rewarded for their pervy predilections! Combining swinging and fetish, this sex club located in Greater London (Surrey) hosts monthly BDSM party nights where kinksters can meet, mingle, and get down to sexy business. Leave your halo at home if you’re coming to play at this swinging den of delights.

Fetishes: The Hellfire Club hosts events that blend swinging and BDSM, accommodating various consensual fetishes in a safe setting.

Who is it for: The club is open to all adults interested in exploring their kinks, providing a welcoming environment for both singles and couples.

Address: Located in Greater London; exact address details are provided upon event booking.

 BDSM Surrey, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

6. OurPlace4Fun - The Place to Go for a Kinky Sex Party

OurPlace4Fun is a private members’ sex club with a difference. Centrally located in the capital, this swingers club in London provides the perfect opportunity for libertines to let loose and explore their most erotic fantasies.

 

 

Monthly fetish party events (aptly named Paddlez n Chainz) bring the BDSM, poly, and swinger crowds together to form a sexy blended community where anything goes. So slip on your loveliest latex, pack your naughty sex toy bag, and get ready to enjoy a fetish sex party that you’ll never forget!

Fetishes: The club's "Paddlez n Chainz" events cater to a variety of fetishes, including BDSM, within a consensual and safe framework.

Who is it for: OurPlace4Fun is inclusive, welcoming individuals and groups from the BDSM, polyamorous, and swinger communities.

Address: Located in central London; specific address details are shared with members upon event registration.

 BDSM London, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

7. The Annex - An Alternative Swingers Club for Alternative Sex Parties

Looking to get naughty in Norfolk? Well then, The Annex is the spot for you! This erotic sex club specializes in fetish parties for dommes, submissives, and everyone in between. The three playrooms and fully equipped modern BDSM party space provide the perfect setting to mix your kinks with sexy scenarios. Tease, tempt, and torment to your heart’s content in this swingers club that caters to your fetish needs.

Fetishes: The Annex specializes in BDSM and other consensual fetish activities, offering well-equipped playrooms for various kinks.

Who is it for: The club welcomes all adults interested in exploring their fetishes in a respectful and inclusive environment.

Address: Specific address details are provided upon contacting the club directly.

 BDSM Norfolk, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

8. The Playgrounds - The naughtiest themed sex parties around

Established by swingers for swingers,The Playgrounds host alternative adult parties and events with a naughty twist. The Playgrounds provide a platform where guests can act out their fetish party fantasies in a safe and secure environment at sex clubs around the UK. Many venues have dungeons and themed adult parties, so you can get creative and dress to impress. Play away with kinky swingers like you at The Playgrounds delightfully wicked BDSM parties.

Fetishes: The Playgrounds host themed events that accommodate a range of consensual fetishes, including BDSM, in various venues across the UK.

Who is it for: These events are designed for swingers and fetish enthusiasts, welcoming individuals and couples alike.

Address: Event locations vary; attendees should refer to specific event listings for details.

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9. The GateHouse - Your gateway to a sex party like no other

For naughty Northerners looking for fetish party fun, The GateHouse opens up endless possibilities of swinging good times. Located in Bolton, this multi-roomed sex club hosts a monthly BDSM party event – appropriately named “Ouch” – for people who enjoy bondage, dominance, submission, and a little bit (or a lot!) of pleasurable pain.

 

 

Spanking benches, paddles, floggers, St Andrew’s cross, suspension bed, and mummification bag are just a few of the toys in the kitted-out dungeon room that will have you writhing in exquisite ecstasy. Bring your partner or find new ones as you happily mingle, play, and explore all your fetish party fantasies. If you love to live on the edge, make sure to stop by this swingers party!

Fetishes: The GateHouse offers facilities for various consensual BDSM activities, including spanking, suspension, and mummification.

Who is it for: The club is open to all adults interested in exploring their kinks in a safe and welcoming environment.

Address: Located in Bolton; specific address details are available upon contacting the club.

 BDSM Bolton, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

10. ClubF - Friendly & frisky sex parties at this top-rated fetish swingers club

ClubF has quite the reputation in the swingers party scene and for good reason. Voted the friendliest club in the UK, this fetish sex club in County Durham offers a welcoming space to play and stay. With a sauna, steam room, hot tub, dungeon, and multiple playrooms at your fingertips, the swinger in you won’t ever want to leave!

 

 

And you won’t have to, since they also have several luxurious hotel rooms you can rent to continue the sex party fun. A classy establishment for classy kinksters, this is the place to go for discerning fetish fans who like their BDSM parties with a touch of sophistication.

Fetishes: ClubF provides amenities for a range of consensual adult activities, including BDSM, with facilities like a dungeon and multiple playrooms.

Who is it for: The club is known for its friendly atmosphere, welcoming both newcomers and experienced individuals interested in the fetish lifestyle.

Address: Located in County Durham; exact address details are shared with members upon registration.

BDSM County Durham, UK - Kinksters, Sex Parties & More

 

 

Let the Fetish Fun Begin

The UK’s fetish and sex party scene is as diverse as it is electrifying – from elegant private members’ clubs to edgy underground events. Whether you're an experienced kinkster or curious newcomer, there’s a place for you to explore your desires, connect with like-minded people, and celebrate your sexuality in safe, welcoming spaces.

Each party and venue offers its own unique vibe: some seductive and luxurious, others wild and boundary-pushing. But they all share the same core values – consent, respect, and open-minded exploration. Whether you're into latex, domination, roleplay, or simply want to dance among the daring, the UK has something for every flavour of kink.

So what are you waiting for? Dive into the world of fetish sex clubs and discover unforgettable nights, thrilling adventures, and a community that celebrates who you are.

If there's a Sex Party in the UK or a Fetish Sex Club you think we should include, get in touch with us! 

 

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