hello everyone i am new here seeling a serious sub / sissy to train or for a long time relationship and i am half greek half belgian i only live and work here in netherlands so sometimes i visit belgium to see my family
**GEEN REACTIE IS GEEN INTERESSE**
NOT FROM THE NETHERLANDS? PLEASE SKIP ME!
Hallo daar!
Aangezien je dit aan het lezen bent, heb ik dus toch je interesse.... dan zal ik maar eens wat over mijzelf vertellen;
Transparantie, respect, hygiΓ«ne, ruimte en vertrouwen zijn voor mij de welbekende standaards. Als dit er is, ontstaat connectie vaak vanzelf...... Ik ben goed gezelschap voor leuke mensen met een lekkere energie, en houd van contact dat oprecht en ontspannen is.
Na een tijdje uit de scene geweest te zijn, wil ik nu weer voorzichtig de temperatuur van het water aanvoelen. Van nature ben ik wat gereserveerd en kijk eerst graag de kat uit de boom.
Als ik mij onder druk gezet voel, ben ik pleiten. Dat werkt bij mij niet. Geduld maakt het juist leuker!
Ik ben nieuwsgierig en verkennend ingesteld; ik ontdek liever gaandeweg wat past, met open communicatie, een beetje humor en af en toe een ondeugende knipoog π
Feestjes zijn ook echt mijn ding! Ik geniet van nieuwe ervaringen en vind het leuk om af en toe iets uit te proberen. Spannende situaties, creatieve ideeΓ«n of onverwachte wendingen? Daar zeg ik niet snel nee tegen, zolang het veilig en met wederzijds respect gebeurt.
Bij mij draait alles om de connectie. Ik dien je alleen als ik ook echt die natuurlijke onderdanigheid naar je voel. Daar zijn geen trucjes of methodes voor om die te kweken, dat is er, of het is er niet.
Schreeuwen, disrespect of niets anders geven dan spanks en tikken is voor mij geen vorm van dominantie.
De rustige, chille, iets wat sensuelere man die zelfvertrouwen uitstraalt is het voor mij.
Opbouw en afwisseling vind ik belangrijk in een spel. Als ik je dien, geef ik mij volledig wat betekent dat ik mij veilig voel. Ik. vind het dan ook heerlijk mij klein en kwetsbaar te voelen en verlang daarom ook naar een goed balans tussen het dienen en de zorg.
Mijn absolute go is teasen. Het net-niet, Laat me erom smeken en laat me er voor werken.
Ik heb grenzen, harde en zachte. Grenzen zijn er om te verleggen, maar dat vertrouwen moet je verdienen,
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here!
(also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta.
Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh)
Rope artist
My own photographer
Baldie for a few years
A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra
Switch
Cat mom of three.
Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect.
Iam looking for a sub who knows his place.
**Desires and Fantasies**
TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
_____________
Who is me
.
*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
_____________
Rules to Love by:
.
*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and itβs not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
Talking about my self,I love friends and family, I am a fun person and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special man.π€β€οΈ
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response!
Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am
usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
Searching for older lesbians who are dommes. But willing to try being a dom :)
Also rather shy, but I love a lot of kinks and I am just a lil weird.
Also NO MEN!
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl?
Daddy's rope bunny
Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***π°
I am driven by the urgency of the senses. The sharp, chemical rush where life and decay/rot meet. My fixation on the smell of secondday rot isnβt a quirk; itβs how I read fragility of existence. It is how I feel alive!
I do not play a role. In my protocol I operate from a deeply rooted identity to reshape my subject. I deconstruct and reassemble you fully, maintaining guidance over your transformation. Iβm drawn to the look of the immobile, lastday wasted hooker. I worship that lastday hooker completely. The muffled/restrained form receives my full attention and focus.
Want to just chat, that is also fine.
Results of https://bdsmtest.org/
100% Brat Tamer
100% Primal (Hunter)
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Switch
100% Degrader
93% Dominant
81% Experimentalist
73% Master/Mistress
50% Owner
36% Voyeur
29% Exhibitionist
16% Vanilla
13% Daddy/Mommy
8% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because itβs very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i donβt meet lots of new people in my daily life since iβm still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because iβm bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
Lived and long time in south holland and now the next chapter moving to and other part of the Netherlands
Luna 27 years old looking for and caregiver. Sweet and loyal
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write!
I am poly. My partners are fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding.
Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference.
Note: with only saying hi to , or want to show me your dig and saying that you are so horny, you don't trigger me to respond.
Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven.
Ik ben poly en mijn partners zijn volledig op de hoogt. Dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen.
Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil.
Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen, je dickpick sturen of zeggen dat je zo geil bent, word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard βhop, afspraak, klaarβ-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwenβ¦ dΓ‘t.
Hello there fellow horny earthlings π
I'm Kim, 27 years old from Amsterdam. I'm new into the bdsm world and learning new things with every experience but that doesnβt mean i donβt know anything π, i am shy person at least in start and it's really difficult for me to break that barrier easily, but I am eager to learn and try new things and once i break that barrier you will see a slut and horny bitch who can squeeze you like a lemon everyday at least 2 3 times π.
Currently in a Non-monogamist relationship and we both agreed to date/experience separately but i mostly do it with him because i feel safe with him and he is my protector, my teddy bear because he is hairy af π and my soft pillow π
I have Adhd, Autism and Hypersexuality, I love video games, art, cosplay, anime and reading dark romance, recently i have developed new hobby doing nail art, it really makes me feel more energetic and happy.
I am hypersexual and thatβs something i want to make clear, I am looking for any gender besides male because i have one and there is nothing new you can bring so keep your distance.
i love eating girls out i mean π the way they beg me to stop and my devilish side make them beg for everything thatβs insane π.
besides that i like every gender βΊοΈ but to make it clear itβs not easy to dominate me because i am bratty af and i fight back and bite hard so if you are sensitive and canβt handle then just be on your knees and be a good slutty sub for mommy π
I hope you read it properly because i donβt like to repeat myself again and again π
important note: i am not from Germany so if we will meet in Germany i will come with my boyfriend because i donβt know the ways and donβt have license so i have to rely on public transportation and the condition of public transportation you all know very well. i get anxious and stressed when i have no clue where i need to go.
feel free to send a message or like β€οΈ
Hey! Im Olivia, 19 years old and live in Amsterdam.
Im quite curious for the BDSM / Sub world and love to be spoiled.
Iβll do everything for daddy, even try new things
I like and have tried: Toys, bondage, CNC, roleplay
I want to try: Spanking, Threesome
Looking for a pleasure dom with experience. someone to have fun with, but ultimately would like a partner in life.
I prefer my dom to be taller than 190cm tall, so that even in heels I will still be shorter. But am open to doms that are able to make me forget about that with presence, intention, and experience. I am bicepsual too, if you have big arms, and can lift me with ease, let me bite themβ¦.. π€€
Single mom, so my time is precious, sometimes short, mostly scheduled.
Languages: English, maar ik spreek ook NL.
Message boundaries:
Sorry, but if I canβt see your face on your profile Iβm not answering your messages. No dpics. No asking for feet pics. Tell me what you want, be honest, but donβt come in running.
hello everyone i am new here seeling a serious sub / sissy to train or for a long time relationship and i am half greek half belgian i only live and work here in netherlands so sometimes i visit belgium to see my family
Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because itβs very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i donβt meet lots of new people in my daily life since iβm still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because iβm bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
I am driven by the urgency of the senses. The sharp, chemical rush where life and decay/rot meet. My fixation on the smell of secondday rot isnβt a quirk; itβs how I read fragility of existence. It is how I feel alive!
I do not play a role. In my protocol I operate from a deeply rooted identity to reshape my subject. I deconstruct and reassemble you fully, maintaining guidance over your transformation. Iβm drawn to the look of the immobile, lastday wasted hooker. I worship that lastday hooker completely. The muffled/restrained form receives my full attention and focus.
Want to just chat, that is also fine.
Results of https://bdsmtest.org/
100% Brat Tamer
100% Primal (Hunter)
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Switch
100% Degrader
93% Dominant
81% Experimentalist
73% Master/Mistress
50% Owner
36% Voyeur
29% Exhibitionist
16% Vanilla
13% Daddy/Mommy
8% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
**GEEN REACTIE IS GEEN INTERESSE**
NOT FROM THE NETHERLANDS? PLEASE SKIP ME!
Hallo daar!
Aangezien je dit aan het lezen bent, heb ik dus toch je interesse.... dan zal ik maar eens wat over mijzelf vertellen;
Transparantie, respect, hygiΓ«ne, ruimte en vertrouwen zijn voor mij de welbekende standaards. Als dit er is, ontstaat connectie vaak vanzelf...... Ik ben goed gezelschap voor leuke mensen met een lekkere energie, en houd van contact dat oprecht en ontspannen is.
Na een tijdje uit de scene geweest te zijn, wil ik nu weer voorzichtig de temperatuur van het water aanvoelen. Van nature ben ik wat gereserveerd en kijk eerst graag de kat uit de boom.
Als ik mij onder druk gezet voel, ben ik pleiten. Dat werkt bij mij niet. Geduld maakt het juist leuker!
Ik ben nieuwsgierig en verkennend ingesteld; ik ontdek liever gaandeweg wat past, met open communicatie, een beetje humor en af en toe een ondeugende knipoog π
Feestjes zijn ook echt mijn ding! Ik geniet van nieuwe ervaringen en vind het leuk om af en toe iets uit te proberen. Spannende situaties, creatieve ideeΓ«n of onverwachte wendingen? Daar zeg ik niet snel nee tegen, zolang het veilig en met wederzijds respect gebeurt.
Bij mij draait alles om de connectie. Ik dien je alleen als ik ook echt die natuurlijke onderdanigheid naar je voel. Daar zijn geen trucjes of methodes voor om die te kweken, dat is er, of het is er niet.
Schreeuwen, disrespect of niets anders geven dan spanks en tikken is voor mij geen vorm van dominantie.
De rustige, chille, iets wat sensuelere man die zelfvertrouwen uitstraalt is het voor mij.
Opbouw en afwisseling vind ik belangrijk in een spel. Als ik je dien, geef ik mij volledig wat betekent dat ik mij veilig voel. Ik. vind het dan ook heerlijk mij klein en kwetsbaar te voelen en verlang daarom ook naar een goed balans tussen het dienen en de zorg.
Mijn absolute go is teasen. Het net-niet, Laat me erom smeken en laat me er voor werken.
Ik heb grenzen, harde en zachte. Grenzen zijn er om te verleggen, maar dat vertrouwen moet je verdienen,
Talking about my self,I love friends and family, I am a fun person and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special man.π€β€οΈ
Searching for older lesbians who are dommes. But willing to try being a dom :)
Also rather shy, but I love a lot of kinks and I am just a lil weird.
Also NO MEN!
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl?
Daddy's rope bunny
Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***π°
Lived and long time in south holland and now the next chapter moving to and other part of the Netherlands
Luna 27 years old looking for and caregiver. Sweet and loyal
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response!
Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am
usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here!
(also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta.
Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh)
Rope artist
My own photographer
Baldie for a few years
A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra
Switch
Cat mom of three.
Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect.
Iam looking for a sub who knows his place.
**Desires and Fantasies**
TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
_____________
Who is me
.
*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
_____________
Rules to Love by:
.
*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and itβs not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write!
I am poly. My partners are fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding.
Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference.
Note: with only saying hi to , or want to show me your dig and saying that you are so horny, you don't trigger me to respond.
Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven.
Ik ben poly en mijn partners zijn volledig op de hoogt. Dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen.
Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil.
Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen, je dickpick sturen of zeggen dat je zo geil bent, word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard βhop, afspraak, klaarβ-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwenβ¦ dΓ‘t.
Hey! Im Olivia, 19 years old and live in Amsterdam.
Im quite curious for the BDSM / Sub world and love to be spoiled.
Iβll do everything for daddy, even try new things
I like and have tried: Toys, bondage, CNC, roleplay
I want to try: Spanking, Threesome
Guys Iβve dated usually describe me as funny, feminine, and educated :)
Slavic, 30 yo, living in Amsterdam. Looking for a sub/dom dynamic (Iβm a sub). Iβm really obedient and want to find someone I can listen to and follow, someone who can make decisions for me. In sex, of course, but maybe we could bring some of that dynamic outside the bedroom too.
Iβm 171 cm, a bit curvy (but no oneβs ever complained), clean, intelligent and bratty.
Looking for a dom who is caring but rough, tall, and able to host IN AMSTERDAM. Not interested in ONS or online.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
99% Submissive
80% Masochist
79% Brat
79% Degradee
79% Rope bunny
75% Non-monogamist
63% Experimentalist
61% Vanilla
48% Voyeur
44% Switch
38% Pet
37% Slave
23% Sadist
19% Primal (Prey)
14% Rigger
14% Exhibitionist
8% Degrader
8% Dominant
2% Primal (Hunter)
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Little
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
LONG DESCRIPTION ALERT! π¨
Somewhere in 2016 I was introduced to various kinks through my then boyfriend who had a fantasy of being humiliated by me. I thought that was totally fine, as long as I wasn't the one getting down on her knees and taking the beating. Unfortunately it never happened in the end because right after he shared his fantasies with me we broke up. After that I had some random contacts here and there via Tinder (yuck..) where I occasionally attracted some sissy boys. That didn't develop that much either but it's an experience to look back on. π
I left the BDSM world for a few years after that. Even while watching porn, BDSM wasn't my go-to. In 2022 I suddenly decided, without any real experience, to jump in with both feet and was looking for slaves to work out my frustrations on. (Still partially the case..). It was a stressful year for me and I was looking for an outlet. I was hungry for it.
I found out the hard way that for me personally that is not the way to go about it. I ran into time wasters who could almost smell how desperate I was to find a slave.. and that is not a good start. I kept it up for about half a year and actually learned a lot, for which I am grateful. I watched much more advanced Dommes at work and did some sessions online myself. In that short time I wasn't completely comfortable in my position. I was very focused on my appearance to the subs. I wanted every sub who encountered me to know that I was the ''dominant Domme'' in the dynamic and put more energy into portraying that role than actually being truly dominant. As a result I suffered from imposter syndrome, which was right and wrong. Right, because I was acting like a caricature version of a Domme, but wrong because I actually do have a naturally dominant personality. All that extra fuss was completely unnecessary and also brought me into contact with horny weirdos who just wanted my time and energy to be able to pull on their little dicks.
Now I open my doors again to the BDSM world and I'm starting completely over. Even though I have not had an official slave yet and I have not had any real-life 1on1 experience with a sub, I still want to make it clear that I am not willing to activate my switch side. I am open to learning but in the end I of course like things to go my way.
What exactly am I looking for? π€
I want subs who
-are looking for a purpose in life
-are not hellbent on wanting to do roll-play. (It makes me cringe but maybe that's because I'm not that experienced yet)
-have a high level of self control or are willing to be trained into that
-have decent comprehension skills
-are willing to assist me in daily tasks
-can handle a good deep conversation
-want to be humiliated
-are willing to give themselves to me completely and do whatever I want them to do
-want to see me win in life and dedicate their lives to it
-have few boundaries when it comes to kinks. I'm interested in pretty extreme things.
-are no younger than 25 years of age
FL: StarLuxOG
I'm curious about the kink scene and want to explore it. I'm seeking genuine connections with respectful people! I'd love to find a beautiful heart who can be gentle and support me.
Looking for a daddy dynamic, short or long term, whatever feels right. Iβm not here for one night stands or nudes.
Connection first, always.
On the flip side: I also hold space for a finD/*** dynamic if youβre looking to serve. Know your place before sliding in.
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