We are a couple looking for at another girl to bring into our sex life. Things will start with the male of the couple watching with some touching/ fondling and telling you what he wants to see. More info will be provided in conversations as will pics. We are not looking to trade partners with other couples. Out of the to of us the male is the DOM but he has given the female control of if or when he becomes fully involved sexually. Its his way of keeping the trust in the relationship intact and unshaken, just as the female will info form and share any messages between her and any possible playmates that are being considered or are newly added to our sex life.