Are friend off limit on open relationships?

[Bl****]

Ask your partner not a bunch of strangers..

[yo****]

That would depend on whose friend it is. Her friends are always off limits without permission. Why simply because you don't shit where you sleep.

[JC****]

It’s depends on your partner

[Kn****]

Generally, in polyamory, the consensus is that poly ***ps have autonomy, meaning they can date whoever they want. Now, while partnered, you can talk to your partner(s) and discuss feelings on the matter. You still have the right to date whomever, but knowing your partners feelings can help guide you through potentionally sticky situations. Your partners may put up boundaries, but remember their boundaries are for THEIR response to your actions. They can say "I want you completely happy, so if you're interested in my friend go for it, but I will ask to be parallel. If we can't be parallel, I will step back from us". Something along those lines.

[li****]

Yes and no, for my relationship. Depends on how close the friend is, if there super close no, but if there just a mutual acquaintance then yes

[my****]

Yes because jealousy is a bitch and it could ruin what you already have. Unless if it's a three sum with ur girls BFF scene like highschool/ college

[br****]

In my experience it really depends on the bond between you and your partner. But it's also rational to consider that friend may no longer be a friend if things go sour. Strong communication can yield pretty good results.

[JC****]

So from my experience I was a friend with the girl for years never really knew the boyfriend except a couple time we saw each other at entertainment work events there was a healthy barrier established that I respected and for a while it worked out fine

[Ri****]

Yes. I don’t like my private life known to my friends and family

[Deleted Member]

Yes - too close for comfort for the level of intimacy, in my opinion.

[Deleted Member]

I know this member deleted their account, but f*** yes. I don't want to hit up my friend and then find that they can hang out 'cause they're busy just so I hit up my partner and find out if they can hang out because they're busy doing my friend. That would make me feel really bad. .... But if I meet one of my Partners of the Partners and a friendship happened, that would be a little different and you couldn't get jealous.

[Deleted Member]

Yessss

[Deleted Member]

Friends and family are off limits on both sides of the slash. I ended a dynamic for *** of this rule.

[Cass]

On 4/14/2025 at 9:17 PM, bobcatty said:

Don't shit where you sleep. As I've been told

A perfect answer,  bravo Sir

My answer too !!

[Em****]

Yes, family, friends and workmates

[ki****]

I don’t mind friends as long it’s closer to my area with in 1000 km to visit each other

[Be****]

Depends on the person and their personality in my eyes. I know friendship and sex doesn't usually mix well together, its great in the beginning then 99% of the time the friendship winds up ending cause of this and that.
Im able to say that I can have fun with my friends and It never affects the friendship. Sex is sex, once the session is done its done.

[Ca****]

April 14, CastityPleasureGiver said:

Been in two cuckold relationships and our contract stated she could have any bull she wished as long as they were family friends or colleagues .

I meant as long as they weren't family, friends or colleagues, they were all off limits

[st****]

I love when my girlf seduce my friend

[Ot****]

In polyamorous relationships it’s not uncommon to have a list of people who are “off limits”. This is referred to as a “messy list”. It could include best friends, cousins, co workers, etc.

[Sl****]

It's about whatever you and your partner/s agree to. That's it. Maybe it does and maybe it doesn't. It may or may not include: Friends, Family, Exes, and Mutual Aquatences.