Every Dom is little in disguise

[So****]

Not because they’re hiding weakness..
but because they’ve met it…
and built their power around it.

True dominance isn’t about control.
It’s about integration.

The best Doms..of any gender..
have held their own inner child in the dark…
and learned to hold others in the light.

That “little” inside?
It’s not gone.
It’s woven into the care, the precision, the pause after the command.
It’s in the craving to be chosen, not just obeyed.
To be safe enough to soften.

Masculine Doms carry boyhoods of unmet needs beneath their stillness.
Feminine Dommes rule like goddesses..but still ache to be seen beyond the throne.

This is the paradox:
The hardest Doms are often the softest souls.
The softly ones?
They’re the most dangerous of all.

Because they don’t dominate to be ***ed.
They dominate because they’ve been there
and now they know how to bring you back.

[Ji****]

Absofuckinglutely

[Su****]

Fuck yes 🖤💜

[Ch****]

Poignant!

[On****]

Wow, nicely done 👏

[Ri****]

Well said. Thanks.

[18****]

I loved reading that.

[Deleted Member]

Beautifully written

[hu****]

Exactly. The thrive to give the pampering and love we didn't receive. True doms are caring and aim to pleasure not hurt. Most "doms" these days are just rude aholes saying they're doms.

[Th****]

This hit so hard in my feels. , 😔.

[Gr****]

A lovely and accurate piece of writing.