Best orgasm control you ever experienced

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Would love to hear your best experience with edging, orgasm control, tease and denial. Whatever flavor does it for you, or maybe why you don’t like it!

[Deleted Member]

Early on in my kink experience I bottomed to a heavy sadist. She had me on all fours and she was spanking me with a heavy wooden paddle.
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It’s not the type of *** I actually enjoy, but the swats were indirectly affecting my genitals. Having read enough online about kink to not want to get on her bad side (the fact that THIS was her good side was worrisome enough) I let her know that I was close.
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She informed me that I wasn’t allowed to orgasm until she said so, which initially alarmed me: how?!? Having also attended some light sacred sexuality events, I started breathing deep and picturing a light racing in an oblong circle from my head to my crotch, over and over. It wasn’t exactly muttering baseball statistics or calculating Pi in my head, but it did the trick: pretending that I was manipulating the erotic energy kept me from orgasming until she let me.
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It was weird, a full-body reaction that seemed to be coming (har, har) from multiple points in my body at once. I shook *a lot*.
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I’ve since only topped for orgasm control.

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I love reading about peoples experiences and trying to imagine being at that level! Thank you for your experience!!

[lo****]

Lifting ur balls as you feel it coming can stop it on its tracks most times

[su****]

As a female I hardly ever get told no, slow down, or had anyone control my orgasim. So when I had a partner that we both worked for the same company -we had to kept our relationship secret. That was the catalyst for the edging and denied orgasims as we could never really go full effort until later and would just get short opportunities through out the day. I definitely belive the restrictions and the increased wanting just made the relationship much stronger. Something holding us back once released just flooded the experience and the desire to more intense levels.

[su****]

10/10 we would both apply at a pointless job just to do it again

[My****]

I'm a man of commitment, focus and sheer f**king will.

[Ti****]

Got my very first notice and removal on this one. Got excited to share my story and forgot where I was! lol.
To restate more appropriately, I hadn’t seen my bf in a few weeks and was feeling pretty primal. Kind of physically hurt how bad I needed it.
Things got hot and heavy pretty quickly. Just before I was “done,” he stopped. It killed me!! Same thing again, and I was roaring at him. By the 5th time, I was screaming into my pillow. Then, he FINALLY let me finish, and it was so intense, I felt like I was going to pass out.
5/5, highly recommend, but also not for everyone. lol.

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49 minutes ago, sunnyDazed said:

10/10 we would both apply at a pointless job just to do it again

I’m down for that! 😂😂😂

[su****]

1 hour ago, blayslay666 said:

I’m down for that! 😂😂😂

I see ur a member of the same company... the tan tshirt crew. So u prob know how scandalous it would have been to find out the only female in the company was doing the dirty in the portapottys with one of her section leaders

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34 minutes ago, sunnyDazed said:

I see ur a member of the same company... the tan tshirt crew. So u prob know how scandalous it would have been to find out the only female in the company was doing the dirty in the portapottys with one of her section leaders

Can neither confirm nor deny!

[Dr****]

My last Daddy Dom controlled me completely several times so far. The first time together, I couldn't have a regular Orgasm but he made me squirt 6 times in a row with his 9" member. It was AMAZING!

[Ki****]

For me, the combination of frequent edging / denial for my sub builds up the anticipation for days/weeks... followed by overwhelming orgasms (my oral is legendary) causing wave after wave of unstoppable orgasms... i enjoy seeing those undulations as she has dozens back to back... adjusting rythem but not stopping... seeing if she can handle more than 3 dozen (and keep accurate count)

[Do****]

Best I had was my recently divorced ex wife was striking me while I was lying back in bed, both of us are fully dressed.
It's after dinner is served for the kids, we go up to "nap" ... She's kneeling by the edge of the bed, stroking me, slow and then faster..slow, fast.
.then, straight into jackhammer mode, beating it like it owed her ***.
Smoochy, kissy lips slowly wrap around my bulbous head, she licks, sucks on it incredibly well, much better than normal...
A muscle cramp had her freeze mid stroke, she let go just before I popped. The excitement on her face was great.... She waited a minute and then pumped ferociously for another 5 minutes....she felt it swelling, getting hard and she knew I was about to cum. She let out a huge shriek of joy, and I've never seen her happier. She said another few seconds and my load would have, no doubt, ***rr the ceiling

[Dr****]

As a slave, I love it.. my Master let's it build before I get permission to do so.. with training he almost has me cum on command now. It's not for everyone but I really enjoy it.

[lo****]

I’m new to the scene but my approach has always been slow and progressive with light flirting maybe a light finger graze her underwear as I walk by and slight brush against a nipple when I head to the kitchen . Slow teasing is my pace does that make me more dom than I’m aware of. I like to control her by her never knowing how I’m going to flirt next . When I was dating and living with my ex,s this was my approach now that I’m single mode again it will have to be adjusted for the situation.

[cu****]

I follow the cues of her body... That let's me determine when to start, slow down, hold or go for the full flourish.

[Deleted Member]

I cannot edge!!!!!!

[me****]

My wife says I never have her one

[Di****]

It’s simple for me to make someone orgasm over 30-40 times I have a secret that I’m scared to tell

[Je****]

With my ex, one 3-day weekend we had blocked out for fun times involved edging her from the moment she woke up. Whether it was me personally, or via a toy.
The first entire day she wasn't allowed an orgasm.
The following day she was starting to break down around lunch, desperate and real pleading, getting to the point of the first safeword, so ofcourse I helped her finish multiple times, she swore she passed out for a moment.
The last day my goal was to make her finish, often. We kept a record, and it ended at 86.

[St****]

Having a closeted feral Christian gf 10 years ago has given me so many fond memories. Even the smallest, most subtle approaches would have her face flushed so red that she would mask it by blaming anxiety. Everyone knew her as the anxious, innocent, quiet girl, but oh boy, they had no idea. Very subtly playing on bus rides, friends' couches, in cars, or other public spaces for literal hours at a time was so intoxicating. Hearing "please" or "f**k" whispered in your ear, masked as an innocent hug, would make anyone sweat. It's about the journey, not the destination 😇

[Ka****]

She was strapped into missionary position. I started with light whipping across her ass and labia. Followed up with a nice Yoni massage avoiding any clitoral stimulation. Spent about an hour massaging her lips, all of her walls, and finished it off by circling her cervix with my fingers not letting her cum. The started with a small and curved dildo on a f***ing machine to put pressure on her gspot and whipped her every time she got close to cumming and stopped the machine to let her know she could only cum on my command. Then replaced the smaller dildo with a longer and thicker one to hit her back wall just under her cervix. timed the intensity and s***d to slow it down when she was close to climaxing to remind her she could only cum on command. Then after about 30 minutes of making her hold it turned it on full blast massaged a round her clit with an hitachi magic wand. Have her the command and she had about a 30 second orgasm, kept commanding her to cum until the last orgasm tears ran from her eyes as she smiled. Then for after play gently kissed and licked her hot lips and gently flicked her clit with the tip of my tongue. Overall, the session lasted for about 3 hours.

[JC****]

If I’m being honest it wasn’t even me orgasming it was my girlfriend at the time feeling her squirting on my face made me so happy and then when she begged me to cum inside her I can’t explain that feeling but accepted/happy at the moment only her and I existed in the world it felt special who knows if it was

[JC****]

And now reading up I’m disgusted maybe I should be disgusted by my own comment but idk I’m trying to explain a situation between someone I love and the previous comments don’t seem to be doing that