Older Women and Having a belly

[Deleted Member]

Love women’s bodies completely. All of it. If only all women would see their bodies like the goddesses they are

[Chazz-9912]

And looks are only part of the equation! If we have chemistry, laugh a lot, flirt a lot, kiss a lot, kink a lot...... believe me, you are sexy as hell! I'd never let you go!

[Deleted Member]

Life is a wonderful, individual journey and it shapes us all. What you have achieved you should never feel shame for. You did good.

[Th****]

If someone doesn’t find you attractive for you and are shallow they do not deserve you mor your time. You are a parent and nobody will look like Barbie. Yes all women feel self conscious about looks but remember if the person wants you they will want ALL OF YOU.

[Assinvader]

Honestly most men don't care or even pay attention, I don't!

[Laycette]

Corsets! :-D you can shape your body how you like. They are great fun and can really reshape.

[Se****]

You shouldn't care what other people think about you anyways. Your opinion about you is the only thing that matters.

[cy****]

There are guys out there that actually like women's bellies, regardless of shape or size.

[SilkieOne]

I've had multiple surgeries belly wise. My tummy will never be like it used to be. No amount of exercising will ever make it flat again. My last surgery was due to Stage 4 Kidney Cancer. I'm a survivor

[Mi****]

Honestly if I'm with someone I'm with them. The idea of us sharing our bodies kind of makes it a non issue for me. If I like you, I will find your body sexy regardless.

Everyone is different and those differences can be beautiful

[sl****]

I love women so my comment doesn't matter if you're sexy it's awesome if you could talk to me like a real person that's awesome if we can laugh during sex that is the best so I like a little belly but we are all older we all got a little belly on us

[As****]

I think bellys are sexy. I would caress and kiss all the time

[Da****]

I tell my lady all the time the stretch marks are the road map to the good good

[ga****]

Baby I bet every inch of you is so incredibly beautiful!!!

[Dr****]

I have had 4 kids (one pregnancy was twins), and Im in my mid thirties.. I have always been extremely self-conscious. I was squeezing into a size 18 two years ago.. I really hated myself at that point. My kids were even pointing out that mommy got fat. It's taken this long to get to a healthier size 6. I always go with if im questioning myself it's up to me and me alone to fix it or change my point of view. If your comfortable, live your best life comfortably. If you're doubting yourself, make some changes..

[Sh****]

We ❤️ fupas!

[ar****]

Does the belly come with a booty ;) love a Tommy with a tushy ;)

[Ho****]

My wish for you is not to be self conscious. So much of what we explore here in this community is about connections that transcend physical appearance. A good partner, lover, Dom, whoever, will show appreciation for every inch of you…Especially the ones that are unique to you. Don’t fall into the body image trap! 

[Sp****]

Thing is, while you're worried about that, same thing is probably going on with your partner. My guess is he's not paying attention to what you got going on because he's worried about his own. I mean after 40 we all have a little extra baggage.

[Deleted Member]

I’m remembering a bit of dialogue from “Pulp Fiction” between Etienne and Butch where she’s talking about wanting to develop a pot belly because she thinks it’d feel good and is sexy. Butch tries teasing her about to but she won’t back down.
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If you can do all the things you want to in the body you have, you’re golden. Mom bods are like Dad bods: comfy for cuddling and mad, passionate snugglebunnies.
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Now, if you want to compete in something like a Scottish Highland Games then by all means work on your core before you throw your back out or some such horror. Otherwise, just maintain the body you have so you can have the adventures you want to have.

[oh****]

Natural bodies are the best bodies.

[no****]

I get the self conscious thing tho, I’ve always been embarrassed about my size

[ja****]

The human body is perfectly balanced. Over time, it goes through some aesthetic changes, but these changes also happen in a balanced way. For example, when fat increases in the body, it is usually distributed evenly. However, what society sees as “beautiful” is often affected by trends and modern standards.

On the other hand, changes caused by diseases are a different matter. They are usually the result of organs failing to do their job properly.

If we look at beauty standards in the past, for example in ancient Greece, the goddess Venus had a round belly and a full body, which was seen as beautiful and desirable. In some African cultures, a woman’s belly after childbirth is seen as a divine sign of care and femininity.

But then came Hollywood, which presented a different idea of beauty — a slim and tight body — and that view started to influence many around the world

[Ch****]

Everything an Everybody's body is Sexy,GORGEOUS an hot just how it is an becomes. Every one in there own ways. If a person looks at a FLAW an is judgmental ,THEN THEY DONT KNOW WHAT IT BEAUTIFUL! You are very GORGEOUS,etc.with a belly or not. You earned it!!

[Ch****]

Love your self as you are!!