Be Fucked, Not Just Used

[da****]

I’m not just out here “getting fucked.” That might be fine for some, but I’m not just a sub, I’m a princess. My submission isn’t about being used like a toy off the shelf. It’s about being treasured and taken like something rare. To be fucked properly is to be undone, adored, broken down into a moaning, trembling yes. And it’s a privilege, not a given.
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Choose partners who see you: Anyone can thrust. But it takes a real Dom to look in your eyes, read your body, and know when to pull hair and when to stroke your cheek. Only offer your submission to those who fuck you with intention.
Prioritize aftercare: A real dynamic doesn’t end when the orgasm hits. Aftercare, be it cuddles, praise, or check-ins, is part of being properly fucked. You should feel cherished after, not discarded.
Be vocal about your needs: Being a pillow sub doesn’t mean being silent. Tell your Dom what melts you. Let them know how you want to be taken. Your pleasure is part of the power exchange.
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Your Dom doesn’t just take your body. They take ownership. Sex becomes service. Obedience becomes foreplay. Whether you’re tied down and used or soft and slowly unravelled, the act is about deepening the bond. A good Dom learns your tells, your triggers, your holy spots, and uses them with both cruelty and care.
They don’t just fuck you. They make you theirs, over and over!
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Example:
> He whispers, “Open your legs, princess.”
You obey, because that’s what good girls do.
He takes his time, watching you squirm, whimper, beg.
When he finally pushes in, you melt, because you’re not just being fucked.
You’re being claimed. Owned. Loved in the most wicked way.
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Now It’s Your Turn:
What does “getting fucked” mean to you in your dynamic? Do you crave slow, worshipful control, or hard, ruthless use? How do you define being well-fucked as a submissive? Let’s talk openly, no shame, only real, raw truth. Whether you’re vanilla-curious or deep in the lifestyle, your voice matters here.

[Gumdrop1337]

this is so well written! and it encompasses everything I look for in a Dom partner. I still haven't found the perfect match but I'm sure he is out there!

[4heruse]

Most definitely how it should be. My sub is treated like a princess on a pedestal, she knows I appreciate and admire her ,not only for her submission as I slowly build her arousal while she is *** and exposed in a spreader bar, but for her trust, which is a top priority. She may get what she wants, but when I decide she can have it. It's a journey that should take time, reading her body, her eyes, her moans, she don't beg to cum because she is submissive, she begs because she needs to, the anticipation, the arousal, and collectively bringing it all together so when she is allowed to release her sweet nectar, its an explosion of not only physical enjoyment, but emotional ecstacy. Anyone can tie a woman's legs open and fuck them, but does she beg because that's what you want, or because you have brought her to the point of that's what she needs. If she's not smiling, drained, soaked, and exhausted... you haven't done your part properly.

[On****]

This is powerful, and beautifully expressed thank you 🙏 Trust in it's truest sense is the cornerstone of bdsm. When your submissive feels safe and protected at their most ***, their most exposed, only then can they let go in your possession. In a 24/7 dynamic this transcends the bedroom, they trust in your structure, your discipline and relish and grow in your praises, your growls and...your humbleness. For the new here learning, submission or dominance isn't your play toy, it's trust on both sides of the slash, it is a precious part of who they are. Good Dominants and good submissives will protect that part of themselves, given only to those worthy of it's possession.

[Na****]

Spot on ❤️

[Ca****]

I love this and completely agree. Ur awesome 😻

[Si****]

Indeed

[Su****]

Gratefully put in words ❤️

[HucowFarmer_DannyD]

#PowerExXxchange

[lukaspot]

Fucking you well means bending you to my will, slow worship or rough punishment depends on my mood, not your cravings. A well-fucked sub is one left trembling, marked, and utterly drained, whether from relentless pounding or the sweet torm*nt of denial. Your pleasure is mine to give or withhold, and your best moments are when you break just right under my hands. Now beg for what you think you deserve.

Edited May 26, 2025 by lukaspot

[Deleted Member]

This is just, well I don’t have the words really. Just wow!

[ve****]

I agree with you completely!!!! A REAL and GOOD Dom has respect, will make us feel special, and it’s claiming in the best possible way. I love how u wrote this because it’s exactly how I feel but didn’t know how to put it into words. Ty❤️

[ve****]

Monday at 08:18 PM, lukaspot said:

Fucking you well means bending you to my will, slow worship or rough punishment depends on my mood, not your cravings. A well-fucked sub is one left trembling, marked, and utterly drained, whether from relentless pounding or the sweet torm*nt of denial. Your pleasure is mine to give or withhold, and your best moments are when you break just right under my hands. Now beg for what you think you deserve.

Definitely hot!!!! I love the denial but also trembling. That’s what I want. A real dom.

[De****]

This is what I preach to my sub all the time. When she’s not being my plaything, she is to expect to be treated like a queen, a goddess. Anyone who treats her as anything less doesn’t get the reward of the experiences I’ve earned over a lifetime. This is the best kind of submission in my eyes. The more royalty-like or god-like they act all the rest of the time, the better their submission truly is

[Ur****]

I love your stories and the way you write and depict everything.. well done