Most definitely how it should be. My sub is treated like a princess on a pedestal, she knows I appreciate and admire her ,not only for her submission as I slowly build her arousal while she is *** and exposed in a spreader bar, but for her trust, which is a top priority. She may get what she Read more… wants, but when I decide she can have it. It's a journey that should take time, reading her body, her eyes, her moans, she don't beg to cum because she is submissive, she begs because she needs to, the anticipation, the arousal, and collectively bringing it all together so when she is allowed to release her sweet nectar, its an explosion of not only physical enjoyment, but emotional ecstacy. Anyone can tie a woman's legs open and fuck them, but does she beg because that's what you want, or because you have brought her to the point of that's what she needs. If she's not smiling, drained, soaked, and exhausted... you haven't done your part properly.