Trying to understand me

[Ja****]

So here's my conundrum, I thoroughly enjoy femininity and every way shape or form I love the sissy lifestyle, cage, clothes, hypno, captions but I am present is masculine and I'm not sexually attracted to masculine presenting men, also even though I am submissive by nature when it comes to My sexual characteristics, I absolutely 100% unequivocally know what it is I want in and from a partner and refuse to settle for anything less, All of this being said should I just pick a side to be all in on, in the sense of submissiveness/dominant, masculine/feminine because it would be easier to find a partner or should I stand firm on how I feel and even if it takes forever to find a partner that checks all the boxes that I need in a partner

[BruiseWayne]

Who says you have to pick a side? You do know switches exist right? The right one for you will love that you can play both sides in your kink roles and gender presentation.

Idk who put it in your head that you HAD to be on or the other but no, you can do whatever you like.


That's the beauty of kink in the first place. 🙃

[BruiseWayne]

And just FYI neither thing ( picking one or staying fluid ) is going to make it any easier or harder to find someone too heh. :)

[wh****]

Write to Dear Abbie. She solved all the mysteries in my life by asking me “ why don’t we do it in the road?” Good luck

[Ms****]

It's more fun being a switch anyways!!!!