Simple question 🙋‍♀️

[la****]

Snapping on latex gloves in front of my sub

[Mr****]

The deliberateness of it. Your sub places complete faith and confidence in you over time, eventually coming to the understanding that, win, lose, draw, or die, that was chosen in your honor. As such, at least for me, every action is a choice. Did I lose my shit? OK, I have to own that and adjust accordingly. Did I choose what worked well for my sub? I own that as well. Did I allow my sub to schism, to become submissive in my presence but dominant in other areas of life? That is me-colored. Did my sub become utterly codependent on me and, in my absence, may simply fade into oblivion? That is also me-colored, and I must recognize the consequences of that series of trainings and decisions.

I love it because there are no excuses and there is nobody else to hide behind. It is not a duty that one can simply shirk. Win, lose, draw, or die: the Dominant is such not because they master others but because every day, in myriad circumstances, they must master themselves and be deemed worthy of submission. It looks the way it looks, and this is always correct insofar as it is always authentic.

[wa****]

I like giving women an escape from social norms. Where girls are taught to be chaste from a young age, then not to be "easy" as adults, and other women use a woman's sensuality to judge or demeanor her. While it being consensual, giving a woman a reason not to have to accept responsibility for her desires (he made me), which allows her to experience full body sensations of release without the guilt or "walk of shame". It's why women drink before sex, they can blame the alcohol. MY WAY, allows her to expierence full sensuality without the sensory numbing, calories, and hangover that comes with drinking.

I'll take the shame on my shoulders, so you can give me the present of watching you full body O.

[Ne****]

No favorite thing I need pure manipulation from multiple people that are truly up for the way I've been trying to get my strength into it. I'm going on a 24/7 situation with someone who is willing to accept this and why I am so controversially in the instances I am.

[Deleted Member]

My favorite thing about being a Dom? The depth and the fire underneath it.

When a submissive chooses me, she’s not just handing over control... she’s handing me her trust, piece by piece, until I can feel it in her breath, in her body. That trust is sacred to me.

It’s the moment her shoulders drop and she exhales, knowing I’ve got her. It’s watching her eyes soften as she realizes she doesn’t have to carry it all anymore.

And that trust calls me higher. Every word I speak, every decision I make, carries weight because she’s looking to me to create something intentional. That keeps me sharp, deliberate, and accountable.

But beneath the calm, there’s heat. I love knowing that when she surrenders, she isn’t just safe... she’s alive. She feels the pulse of my control in her chest, in her skin, in the way her body responds when I take her exactly where she’s been aching to go.

That’s what I love: the connection, the intensity, the knowing that what we’re building is real and the fire that comes from her choosing to give herself fully, over and over again.

[Deleted Member]

Giving up control for pleasure is amazing especially when the connection is right. It makes me feel so free.

[MasterDwight]

For me its when she let's me have total control and gives in to her wants and needs and lets me give her the pleasure she is in need of

[Ki****]

I like being a sub because I get to live in the moment and give control over to someone. My days are packed full of responsibilities and decisions to be made everyday day it’s nice to let go and breathe

[Jo****]

Pleasing my Domme!! It's truly unlike anything else

[Deleted Member]

I love doing things for my owner. Showing them they mean the world to me. Small things like good morning messages. Knowing I made you smile or laugh.

[am****]

The best thing about being a sub/dom is you have a little control you can make them back because they like it too

[am****]

You can smack them back because they like it too

[Deleted Member]

I’m a switch, but desire to be more submissive when I can. I have a stressful career where I have to make big decisions on a regular basis, so I think a lot of the appeal is to just let go and be “free” as someone else is in control. It helps me to forget about everything else and shut off my brain to everything outside and exclusively focus on doing as I’m instructed.
I also love the times when I’m dominant, seeing the reactions I cause, hearing the sweet whimpers and naughty sounds she makes as I take control and have my way.

[Wh****]

Im very dominant in every aspect of my life. I have. Great career im well known in my community as a leader. In the bedroom I want to let go of all control. I dont want to be responsible for everything.

[sl****]

I'm a Dom. I just like to be in control. Not just in the bedroom but like even at work. Alot of my jobs made me manger cuz I was good at having control. In school I was called a leader where ppl came to me for help.

[Deleted Member]

I am more dominant and I like it because it allows me to provide an atmosphere of trust for the sub. I think a Dom is one who actually communicates and actually provides emotional/moral support. That's what I like about it, because I'm pretty chill.

[Wa****]

Controlling pleasure, letting it build, not allowing release until the pressure has become nearly unbearable... Then... With one word, releasing it all at once

[Ni****]

Holding my subs happiness, desire, and fulfillment in my control.

[Deleted Member]

I love the way my sub looks at me with adoration, like i’m just a gift sent to them from heaven to take care of them and let them earn praise and much love❤️ that, and also how flustered and shy they get from submitting to me😊i love a blushing boy

[Da****]

I take care of every aspect of family life and work over more than 50-80 hours a week. So, im private times. I need to be able to trust enough to give all control over to my partner and just let it all go.

[wi****]

I just enjoy the small things. I'm a dude so it's a little weird, but I like sitting in my partners lap while we talk. I like cuddling where they are the one who initiates it. I just like the everyday dynamic where I have a little less control.

[Deleted Member]

I love being a Dom, basically I get to control pretty women and they enjoy it. I really enjoy making them do whatever I tell them to. I'm a guy who has ADD and social anxiety and that aspect makes me feel so gratified and confident in telling pretty women what to do. When I was younger in high school and in my twenties I was afraid of pretty women, but now realizing that women like to be told what to do. Really open my eyes and my confidence has really soared

[Ja****]

I’m here to absolutely agree with ^^^^! As a pretty sub I love to do whatever daddy says whenever he says it. It’s something about him having control and authority over me that turns me on. I like having to ask my daddy can I do certain things, even if it’s not sexual!

[To****]

My favourite part of being a Dom is simple:
the moment she stops thinking and starts feeling.
That shift.. when she lets go and trusts me to guide her... is what makes the whole dynamic real.