Control & Pleasure

[Deleted Member]

What physical aspects of control do you find most irresistible in a D/s dynamic?

[Ta****]

I would control your pleasure and you squinting

[Bl****]

Blindfolding, restraining and spanking

[nobodynow]

The senses , restricting movement with rope , taking s***ch and sight with gags and blindfold , all thats left is to feel now

[Ta****]

The bond that ties you mentally, emotionally & physically that feels so safe & grounded that everything feels so connected between both Dom & sub

[Da****]

That I have total control of my submissive!!! 😈😈😈

Handcuffs, gagballs and paddles. I love when she whimpers so sexy and looks at me with that "more daddy, please more"

[Deleted Member]

For me physical and mental goes hand in hand.

Usually handcuffs (maybe sometimes), definitely no bondage. Just obedience NOT to move and close her eyes.

Every move and noise you make, touches - she will never know what happens next.

This is psychological bondage I enjoy.

She must never even guess what happens next.

Best sessions I ever had. It's about the mindfuck.

[subjoe101]

I love when she pins my arms by my side with her legs when she queens me. I love when she is rough with me when I give her oral sex and I struggle to breathe. It is super hot when I can feel her foot or leg pressing on my back during oral.

[ab****]

Had a partner who couldn’t stop touching herself. Restraining her hands so she couldn’t became quite arousing. Seeing her squirm and writhe, desperate for some stimulation between her legs. She loved it too cos she wasn’t in control of when she orgasmed.

[Deleted Member]

I find the power play and energy exchange most exciting. I’m a brat so I love a playful Dom. Light cnc, wrestling and being wrapped up like a ‘pretzel’. Powerless but with a word I’m free. His control of me, knowing my desires and showing care for me, my body and mind, and my submission. Giving up control. Subspace. I like rules and tasks. I like to find loop holes and I love to tease. I like to give and receive care and aftercare. Giving to each other a piece of ourselves given to no other. Deep. Primal. Connection. Trust. Care.