Dom types

[de****]

It seems to me, and I say this as feed back meant to help you grow. That maybe you can’t fully let go, i personally find it very difficult. As a result I tend to lean soft/pleasure dom. I’ve done some impact play and seen that older femmes don’t let go so easy in terms of submmiting . I trust you’ll find the right dom, good luck

[Ma****]

I would suggest that expecting you to isolate BEFORE any relationship or commitment is reached, is a huge warning sign. It indicates an insecurity, and more of a control freak attitude than genuine dominance. Might be valid closer to reaching the point of starting a relationship (submitting to them), but at the getting to know stage, they probably realise they're just pretending, and a real Dom would really highlight their inadequacies.

Rejecting that behaviour is not a Dom thing - nor something to avoid, just avoid the idiots who make unreasonable demands. your submission is more precious than they deserve - there's no reason for you to be a doormat for every pretender, player or predator to walk over.