Dominant men who want to submit

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12 minutes ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

Why would I label myself a switch if I haven't been submissive to even know if I enjoy it or even have experience in it? Curiousity doesn't define the "persona". You're entitled to respond and react as you wish, but I see many holes in the rationalizing of the public presentation angle.

No bad *** at all with men who are genuinely curious and willing to change their label as a condition for experiencing submission with me ;)

[se****]

13 minutes ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

Why would I label myself a switch if I haven't been submissive to even know if I enjoy it or even have experience in it? Curiousity doesn't define the "persona". You're entitled to respond and react as you wish, but I see many holes in the rationalizing of the public presentation angle.

I feel a basic curiosity or want is vastly different from a desire, which is where the experimentalist tag would be appropriate.

But that's also where actually reading the profile would come into play. Even if it's someone just wanting to try it out, that would be the bare minimum first step of submission.

[ps****]

majority of the time they want to top from the bottom, relinquish responsibility, and be mothered. brat-core except they refuse to call themself brat. i’ll train them, but it comes with material devotion until i believe the brat is tamed and their actions alone serve me without irritation.

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4 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

majority of the time they want to top from the bottom, relinquish responsibility, and be mothered. brat-core except they refuse to call themself brat. i’ll train them, but it comes with material devotion until i believe the brat is tamed and their actions alone serve me without irritation.

Are you talking about doms who want to submit or submissive men in general?

[ps****]

2 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

Are you talking about doms who want to submit or submissive men in general?

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

[li****]

2 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

Interesting, thank you for your answer 😊

[Bi****]

10 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

I'm curious about submitting though I'm a bit anti-authority in a sense I don't submit easily. Think it more to do when they demand I call them mistress or goddess right off the bat without any communication. I'm dominant with my wife but want to see how it is being a submissive.

[Illeatazz]

Yes, you did but the second half is a little unclear just so I can understand better how do you deal with a dom man that wants to try being a sub ? But yes it is hypocrisy by definition which is perfectly fine if you have no interest suppressing your Kinky side in order to respect someone’s wishes by keeping their secret, opposed to someone that wants to scream it from the rooftops, but my but how I see it is that the term “ in the closet” way is a better way of describing this specific situation ☺️🫶

[li****]

10 minutes ago, Bidude_69 said:

I'm curious about submitting though I'm a bit anti-authority in a sense I don't submit easily. Think it more to do when they demand I call them mistress or goddess right off the bat without any communication. I'm dominant with my wife but want to see how it is being a submissive.

It's a huge red flag when somebody demands being called a title without having established a consensual dynamic first.

[mr****]

we need answers answers to l!

[li****]

10 minutes ago, Illeatazz said:

Yes, you did but the second half is a little unclear just so I can understand better how do you deal with a dom man that wants to try being a sub ? But yes it is hypocrisy by definition which is perfectly fine if you have no interest suppressing your Kinky side in order to respect someone’s wishes by keeping their secret, opposed to someone that wants to scream it from the rooftops, but my but how I see it is that the term “ in the closet” way is a better way of describing this specific situation ☺️🫶

I always passed on them cause they never read my profile. If they had, and were interested in some kind of dynamic/relationship, then I would've requested that they change their profiles to or add something different than dominant.

[Country-boi]

Those men I don’t understand! Not always asserting my dominance is one thing but being dominated never

[Sa****]

If they can't own being switchy then not worth it

[li****]

4 minutes ago, Country-boi said:

Those men I don’t understand! Not always asserting my dominance is one thing but being dominated never

You sure? 😃

[py****]

7 minutes ago, Sabrina_Ivvy said:

If they can't own being switchy then not worth it

What she said

[mr****]

26 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

I always passed on them cause they never read my profile. If they had, and were interested in some kind of dynamic/relationship, then I would've requested that they change their profiles to or add something different than dominant.

In BDSM culture, consent and transparency are the baseline. Preference is acceptable. Deception is not. Misleading advertising erodes the ethics it claims to represent. Respect to Lilith for naming that clearly because real dominance requires integrity, not deceptive false advertising

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Its a red flag for me. I also get alot of messages from male doms

[li****]

3 minutes ago, mrvetnotthepet said:

In BDSM culture, consent and transparency are the baseline. Preference is acceptable. Deception is not. Misleading advertising erodes the ethics it claims to represent. Respect to Lilith for naming that clearly because real dominance requires integrity, not deceptive false advertising

That's so nice of you, thank you 😊

[No****]

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

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6 minutes ago, Nonnahs said:

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

I can respect it but I don't think it's so black and white. I'm dominant in almost every aspect of my life, careers, hobbies, previous partners, ect. It's nice to be able to let someone else take charge in your private life. As others have said earlier, it's a spectrum and depends on the partner.

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20 minutes ago, Nonnahs said:

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

It's not a matter of not knowing what we want but to experience new things.

[jo****]

No you aren't wrong. If someone feels the need to hide such desires i would consider that a red flag. Communication and transparency are important baseline.

[da****]

I consider myself a dominant man but I am wanting to give up control. My profile reflects that want I believe. In all other relationships I have been the dominant and I don’t feel that admitting to the desire of being submissive is a question mark against my manhood at all

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3 minutes ago, dannygaertner said:

I consider myself a dominant man but I am wanting to give up control. My profile reflects that want I believe. In all other relationships I have been the dominant and I don’t feel that admitting to the desire of being submissive is a question mark against my manhood at all

💯 nothing unmanly about submitting to a woman

[da****]

I agree 100%