Dominant men who want to submit

[li****]

4 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

majority of the time they want to top from the bottom, relinquish responsibility, and be mothered. brat-core except they refuse to call themself brat. i’ll train them, but it comes with material devotion until i believe the brat is tamed and their actions alone serve me without irritation.

Are you talking about doms who want to submit or submissive men in general?

[ps****]

2 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

Are you talking about doms who want to submit or submissive men in general?

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

[li****]

2 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

Interesting, thank you for your answer 😊

[Bi****]

10 minutes ago, psybermamii said:

doms who are curious to submit. but i certainly think there is crossover with those who claim submission too, but i notice that more so with the younger generation

I'm curious about submitting though I'm a bit anti-authority in a sense I don't submit easily. Think it more to do when they demand I call them mistress or goddess right off the bat without any communication. I'm dominant with my wife but want to see how it is being a submissive.

[Illeatazz]

Yes, you did but the second half is a little unclear just so I can understand better how do you deal with a dom man that wants to try being a sub ? But yes it is hypocrisy by definition which is perfectly fine if you have no interest suppressing your Kinky side in order to respect someone’s wishes by keeping their secret, opposed to someone that wants to scream it from the rooftops, but my but how I see it is that the term “ in the closet” way is a better way of describing this specific situation ☺️🫶

[li****]

10 minutes ago, Bidude_69 said:

I'm curious about submitting though I'm a bit anti-authority in a sense I don't submit easily. Think it more to do when they demand I call them mistress or goddess right off the bat without any communication. I'm dominant with my wife but want to see how it is being a submissive.

It's a huge red flag when somebody demands being called a title without having established a consensual dynamic first.

[mr****]

we need answers answers to l!

[li****]

10 minutes ago, Illeatazz said:

Yes, you did but the second half is a little unclear just so I can understand better how do you deal with a dom man that wants to try being a sub ? But yes it is hypocrisy by definition which is perfectly fine if you have no interest suppressing your Kinky side in order to respect someone’s wishes by keeping their secret, opposed to someone that wants to scream it from the rooftops, but my but how I see it is that the term “ in the closet” way is a better way of describing this specific situation ☺️🫶

I always passed on them cause they never read my profile. If they had, and were interested in some kind of dynamic/relationship, then I would've requested that they change their profiles to or add something different than dominant.

[Country-boi]

Those men I don’t understand! Not always asserting my dominance is one thing but being dominated never

[Sa****]

If they can't own being switchy then not worth it

[li****]

4 minutes ago, Country-boi said:

Those men I don’t understand! Not always asserting my dominance is one thing but being dominated never

You sure? 😃

[py****]

7 minutes ago, Sabrina_Ivvy said:

If they can't own being switchy then not worth it

What she said

[mr****]

26 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

I always passed on them cause they never read my profile. If they had, and were interested in some kind of dynamic/relationship, then I would've requested that they change their profiles to or add something different than dominant.

In BDSM culture, consent and transparency are the baseline. Preference is acceptable. Deception is not. Misleading advertising erodes the ethics it claims to represent. Respect to Lilith for naming that clearly because real dominance requires integrity, not deceptive false advertising

[cl****]

Its a red flag for me. I also get alot of messages from male doms

[li****]

3 minutes ago, mrvetnotthepet said:

In BDSM culture, consent and transparency are the baseline. Preference is acceptable. Deception is not. Misleading advertising erodes the ethics it claims to represent. Respect to Lilith for naming that clearly because real dominance requires integrity, not deceptive false advertising

That's so nice of you, thank you 😊

[No****]

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

[se****]

6 minutes ago, Nonnahs said:

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

I can respect it but I don't think it's so black and white. I'm dominant in almost every aspect of my life, careers, hobbies, previous partners, ect. It's nice to be able to let someone else take charge in your private life. As others have said earlier, it's a spectrum and depends on the partner.

[Bi****]

20 minutes ago, Nonnahs said:

I ignore those. They dont know what they want. They probably downloaded the app
Cause they were bored on tinder. Or married and mad at spouse. Idk. I want dominant only men. I dont think half way this m that looks dominant. I dont think seeing a dominant in a submissive position is something you unsee… so choose a side. My opinion

It's not a matter of not knowing what we want but to experience new things.

[jo****]

No you aren't wrong. If someone feels the need to hide such desires i would consider that a red flag. Communication and transparency are important baseline.

[da****]

I consider myself a dominant man but I am wanting to give up control. My profile reflects that want I believe. In all other relationships I have been the dominant and I don’t feel that admitting to the desire of being submissive is a question mark against my manhood at all

[li****]

3 minutes ago, dannygaertner said:

I consider myself a dominant man but I am wanting to give up control. My profile reflects that want I believe. In all other relationships I have been the dominant and I don’t feel that admitting to the desire of being submissive is a question mark against my manhood at all

💯 nothing unmanly about submitting to a woman

[da****]

I agree 100%

[me****]

Ok to be honest I didn’t think my post was that bad as I was being honest but I will take your feedback on board. I am very direct and say what is to be correct in my mind. I don’t do the whole process of interview and trying to prove myself as a slave to potentially new masters if they don’t like my approach or how I present myself then to be honest that’s there issue not mine . I have no time for people who are precious about how they want there slave to be interviewed

[se****]

4 minutes ago, melbourne87814 said:

Ok to be honest I didn’t think my post was that bad as I was being honest but I will take your feedback on board. I am very direct and say what is to be correct in my mind. I don’t do the whole process of interview and trying to prove myself as a slave to potentially new masters if they don’t like my approach or how I present myself then to be honest that’s there issue not mine . I have no time for people who are precious about how they want there slave to be interviewed

It's not an interview, it's a discussion of boundaries and expectations.

Having no time for their wants and slave are two things I never thought I'd see in the same sentence 😮

[li****]

10 minutes ago, sensins said:

It's not an interview, it's a discussion of boundaries and expectations.

Having no time for their wants and slave are two things I never thought I'd see in the same sentence 😮

I have no idea what interview or feedback he's talking about. I haven't interacted with this person at all 😆
Just ignore him, please. Do not waste your time on him.