How did I become dominant?

[GentleDominationMale]

Starting as a submissive and then ending up as a Dominant :)
In my 16's when I entered puberty for the first time, I started sexuality with wanting to be trampled by cruel women. However, I had serious contradictory thoughts related to this, sometimes annoying, sometimes funny phenomenon. One part of me enjoyed being humiliated, ***d while the other part of me wanted to get rid of this annoying fantasy that I saw as threat to my Maledom. After 5 or more years, I finally taught myself to enjoy being at the opposite side of my previous way of communicating with women. I took it up to reverse orgasm. I finally proved my Maledom :) This time, after proving my Maledom, I started to feel guilty because I enjoy doing something that needs not to be done to myself to someone else. I thought God got angry with me. After that, a lot of submissive girls insisted me to play this emotionally dangerous game with me. I changed my mind. So long as I see this only as a fantasy no problem. If both sides are happy, there is no real ***, it is just a game; no problem. I know myself as dominant for, at least, 10 years. By the way, I am no longer ashamed of old version of myself anyway. Having felt submissive emotions years ago makes me a better Dominant. I know how it is like to be a submissive. This makes me more empathetic towards my sub and inspires me a lot of methods when it comes to how to give pleasure to women since I know how it feels to be a sub :)

[Mr****]

I’m glad you’re no longer ashamed of wanting to submit. There’s plenty of stigma on either side of the coin, but the truth is; there is no “right” way to be. No manual. I hope nobody feels they have to earn a certain title to fit into a box they feel they should. If you enjoy being a sub, be so. Likewise in a Dom role, or switch if you enjoy both. I agree that having experience on both sides helps you give a better experience to your submissive. If you aren’t willing to test out what the experience of how hard to get hit with a switch on yourself, how do you reeeeeally know what a safe level of strength to use is?

[Ni****]

I started out as Daddy Dom dressing twinks in lingerie believe it or not, now im naturally submissive, eager to please and have "Daddy Issues"

Well, not so much issues... more like yes, Daddy whatever you say :)

[Philo_DD]

At around 17 years old, I received a punishment that consisted of doing housework and having to wear a full apron while working.

At first, I felt ashamed when someone from the outside saw me dressed like that and fulfilling the punishment.

Fortunately, whoever punished me never let me back down; even ashamed, I obeyed the orders.

As time went on, I became confused. I felt ashamed and submissive, but I liked the feeling.

From then on, I started to accept it and do the occasional silly thing to increase the punishment 🙂 and that's how a submissive person, educated in domestic discipline, began to emerge.