Genuine Conversations

[Ma****]

I just wanted to ask something.
“Does genuine conversations stimulate your brain”?

For me, I know it does. Something about holding a deep conversation especially about learning something new about someone; it intrigues me and gets the brain stimulated. Making the gears start rotating a lot faster.

I like to dig deep, deeper than anything in this world. There so much that one person’s brain can hold and that knowledge and experience is something worth knowing. It’s like a soft kink for me. The lust for another intellectual being. So, again, does genuine conversations stimulate your brain?

[li****]

Yes

[Da****]

Yes and no. Genuine conversations stimulate my brain but the ones that hook my focus and make time pass in blinks, breaths, laughs, and 8-9 topics later you keep talking like its the most natural thing in the world those conversations stimulate my soul. I want that type of intellectual understanding between two people, being able to explore so many facets of another person's mind is an incredible thing that should be cherished respected and appreciated especially safe spaces.

[El****]

25 minutes ago, DarkLordsEnvy said:

Yes and no. Genuine conversations stimulate my brain but the ones that hook my focus and make time pass in blinks, breaths, laughs, and 8-9 topics later you keep talking like its the most natural thing in the world those conversations stimulate my soul. I want that type of intellectual understanding between two people, being able to explore so many facets of another person's mind is an incredible thing that should be cherished respected and appreciated especially safe spaces.

Apologies if I’m being dense but what is a genuine conversation if not one that flows in the manner you described? It feels like you’ve defined a genuine conversation but mentally labelled it something else.

[Ma****]

Depends, sometimes yes, sometimes no.

[po****]

Conversations, discussions, point- counterpoint, anything that makes this old brain keep spinning, looking outside the box is orgasmic in it's effects. Knowledge is an aphrodisiac if your thought processes are good enough to find that pleasure you will seek knowledge forever.

[Go****]

In a real, long lasting relationship, yes. Do explore another’s philosophy and personal world view and find similarity with your own is, without a doubt, the sexiest thing I could encounter. Through deep conversations and shared experiences, you can get there.

[Da****]

3 hours ago, ElHombre87 said:

Apologies if I’m being dense but what is a genuine conversation if not one that flows in the manner you described? It feels like you’ve defined a genuine conversation but mentally labelled it something else.

I explained the feeling of a deeply intellectual connection, anyone can have a genuine conversation prime example a small child could have a genuine conversation with you but it lacks the mental stimulation because of the different levels of mastery (feels offensive to say intellect here). I welcome your question and appreciate the chance to offer clarity 🫶🏽🥰

[Mo****]

Depends is the conversation just bout u or we getting with time

[Ba****]

Wait
Is there anyone who would disagree??
Even the ones i know don’t enjoy too much conversation are more likely to be overstimulated and whether or not people like it wasn’t the question here

[Ma****]

They do actually, yes. It's a firm if becoming closer with the person. Connect in deeper levels that you can feel being created as they happen.

[PresentisPeculiar]

Intellectual curiosity is my favorite trait. This feeds directly to that

[si****]

I find intellectual conversations sexy & stimulating. I find them very alluring. I'm not talking Sheldon, but someone who puts thought behind their questions and answers. Someone who makes me think about my answers. I'm not saying I don't like the general what do you do, hobbies do you have, etc of course we all want to know those things. But the ones that catch my attention and hold it are the ones that are unexpected. Even if we're not a match, I would still want to continue conversation with that person just for the sheer satisfaction of having an intellectually stimulating conversation.

[de****]

Yes.. especially when have a connection..and if crave attention..most definitely stimulates the beain

[Da****]

Yes. Very much so.

[pi****]

Sounds like you’re a Demisexual. So am I and mental stimulation fills my brain with happy endorphins.

[su****]

I need a partner capable of stimulating me on some level and I love when people really open up and trust you and you can talk about deeper things

[My_Little_Secret]

Genuine conversation is a huge kink for me. Being able to hold a deep, intelligent conversation and then having amazing sex later is the ultimate climactic orgasm for the mind and body.

[ta****]

Absolutely. In the shortest form, conversations help me feel invested in someone

[La****]

With the absence of genuine compelling conversations or intelligence, then it won’t lead to anything. Big a** turn off. Makes me dry as hell.

[Newmasterhere]

Yes, genuine conversations, thoughtful questions, follow up questions, communication leads to understanding, understanding leads to knowledge and that knowledge allows for further depth of conversation

[in****]

Genuine conversation is definitely something I find deeply attractive. Conversely, I find it very difficult to emotionally engage with or be very attracted to those unwilling or unable to engage via conversation. I don’t require deep philosophical or existential discourse, but I want to learn about and engage with others though discussions of their interests and passions beyond what kinky fuckery they enjoy. Not that the kinky fuckery talk isn’t also great, but it’s nice to chat about more than that.

[Ba****]

Yeah, but the topic of the conversation matters for that, too. Like, something that I don't have any interest in is not going to stimulate anything for me besides boredom.