Distance

[pr****]

A 2 hour drive is a small price to pay

[Ap****]

My town is the largest for 5 hours but may have few women that have a similar of interests. That after work trip is worth exploring.

[yu****]

Driving is fun. Calms my mind. Im not into driving 2 hours to just f**k but I'd drive 4 for some romance.

[Mr****]

I'll answer your scenario with a hypothetical?

If you're not prepared to put the effort in and go the extra mile (or 100), then why should you even be on "my" radar? Why should I even bother outlaying the mental energy, time and effort on you?

If you're not prepared to bring anything to the table, as far as even BASIC effort is concerned, then why should I provide you with a chair and cutlery?

Your social persona belies that of one behind closed doors.

No thanks.

[Mr****]

I think it is relative to your life experience. I used to drive 13 hours from GA to PA once a month to visit family for a weekend and then drive 13 hours back two days later. And I did that for years. So for me a two hour drive feels similar to a 30 min drive for other people. It is also partly cultural. Long drives are often common in America but if you went to Europe I think you would find far less people willing to drive two hours to meet someone.

[fe****]

I'm Canadian so we think driving across the country is a leisurely drive lol 😆

[au****]

I d rather have you here

[mu****]

Save your gas on this one guys and gals..

[Deleted Member]

I have flown across the country before. It was well worth it

[ha****]

Long distance only works for a while. I relocated to make my slave my wife. Eventually, I became hers. Long story

[Di****]

Well mainly due to the high number of men to women on these apps. A complete change in dating culture/communication. The standards and dynamic overall make it difficult for a man to get a females attention on these apps. Mainly because women's DMs are constantly full and most men's are pretty much a ghost town. So when you do connect with someone it might be worth the drive, especially if it's something you've always wanted to experience. Maybe you've found a person you might like to spend the rest of your life with.

Men won't recieve DMs unless they have specific physical qualities or offer gifts and monetary value. Women just have to post a picture of literally anything and you'll get 20x more likes than the average male along with DM's and nice comments. So when a female does message the average male on these apps... theyre willing to travel to fulfill basic human needs as well as any kinks theyre into. Otherwise they go through life missing out on many experiences and won't learn about that side of them. Not every woman is into a mans kinks... Hope this was insightful and isn't taken the wrong way somehow.

[Ut****]

I agree 100%. I usually don’t want to drive more than an hour at the very most.

[si****]

I met someone on another app and we talked for a few weeks. I took a weekend off, drove 8 hours each way, and spent $300 on a motel room plus gas, food and entertainment just to meet them irl. I will be moving nearer to them(roughly 1 1/2 hrs away) by the end of the year but right now they are over 8 hrs away. I don't want to commit more time, energy, and emotional connection to a more in depth long distance relationship if we won't vibe on a personal level. I want to know now if we have a shot irl. I live in a smaller town and it's hard to find a partner that's interested in kink. I still worry that I'll share my thoughts with someone and it will become community gossip. We all just want to be accepted but are scared of what others think. I think it's easier to connect with someone when your "playing outside your own sandbox". Far less chance if something goes wrong of it getting messy at home.

[fe****]

35 minutes ago, silentknight67846 said:

I met someone on another app and we talked for a few weeks. I took a weekend off, drove 8 hours each way, and spent $300 on a motel room plus gas, food and entertainment just to meet them irl. I will be moving nearer to them(roughly 1 1/2 hrs away) by the end of the year but right now they are over 8 hrs away. I don't want to commit more time, energy, and emotional connection to a more in depth long distance relationship if we won't vibe on a personal level. I want to know now if we have a shot irl. I live in a smaller town and it's hard to find a partner that's interested in kink. I still worry that I'll share my thoughts with someone and it will become community gossip. We all just want to be accepted but are scared of what others think. I think it's easier to connect with someone when your "playing outside your own sandbox". Far less chance if something goes wrong of it getting messy at home.

Fellow small rural conservative town kinkster, I've driven across provinces to meet people lol 😆

[ha****]

I'd move a mountain, 1 shovel at a time, for the right woman

[Ki****]

U not a tree if she I vibe im there

[Sw****]

It’s honestly the curiosity and the Unknown that really drives people . We all want something that we can’t have in the moment we do we’ll go out of the way for it. 

[ki****]

I rather same town or half hour max if I go to far away going for other reason I consider it

[ha****]

I met my late wife on a fetish site. We were in 2 different cities in the same state. After 6 months I moved to her town. A few months later and were engaged and living the kinky life 24/7

[il****]

I can go miles if my instincts tells me it’s going to be a good match

[Yo****]

I haven't done it just to get laid but to fulfill certain fetishes with girls who fit a type led me to do it. I don't mind driving and I just make it a weekend day trip when I've done it.

[Gi****]

I like to travel or Road Trip anyway & live in a rural area driving 35-50 minutes commuting is normal for me. On weekends I go about 3 hrs to visit friends or go to the lake.

I won't drive hrs on a daily basis but if If I have someone I enjoy and they're down for an overnight or weekend I'll easily make plans to drive a couple hours

[os****]

45 minutes is nothing