Distance

[Sp****]

In Texas, everyone is 2hrs away 🤣 heck, I’d drive 2hrs just for good food.

Guys just want guaranteed p**sy. It’s a thing.

Yall leave her alone. It’s a legit question.

[mi****]

Cause its easier to get d**k than pussy we dont need to drive they come to us Cause were lazy like u

[do****]

If the person is interesting enough and you want to get out of town and have the freedom to go.. why not?

[bh****]

People these days are desperate for human interaction and touch. Its kinda just how our society has become.

[An****]

Men are not women. Men don’t receive advances daily (not the majority. Men are more often than not expected to pay for dinner and dates. Men have to seek and earn consent. You think driving 2 hours is ridiculous, men think paying someone to ***t their nails is ridiculous. It’s likely a good percentage of men would happily drive 6 hours to get laid. They could get snacks and listen to podcast. There’s a difference between men and women and it might be more beneficial to try and understand the other side rather than judge (or compare).

[pr****]

I have travelled 17 hours just for a night of fun… I felt fulfilled after… Men are wired differently from women especially if you a Hunter 😊😈😝

[mi****]

I dont mind 45 mins an hr but thats about it unless someone wants to meet halfway and get a hotel

[GJ****]

Because 1 of yours gets 10 of ours...

[So****]

Because people are desperate and if they feel that's their only chance they'll take it.

The type of person to drive 17 hours as someone commented just to hook up, is desperate or certifiably insane.

[Deleted Member]

45 minutes ago, GJdude81503 said:

Because 1 of yours gets 10 of ours...

More like 1 to 1500

[pr****]

2 hours ago, bhindblueyes said:

People these days are desperate for human interaction and touch. Its kinda just how our society has become.

I disagree, When there’s a Genuine connection you will cross oceans 😊

[sl****]

I wont go past an hour or 50 miles.

[Ev****]

When I was younger, I would drive a couple hours in a heartbeat for a girl. Now, it’s gotta be something pretty damn special.

[Sa****]

It’s in hopes of finding somebody with a better attitude than everyone else that’s around you.
There’s also the Numbers game women typically have a cornucopia overflow of people asking for their attention, and men are the ones asking for that attention and might get one response for every 50 messages they put out there .
30 years ago, I dated a girl on the Eastern shore, it was 3 to 4 hours drive time for me
Now I work in Richmond and live in Gloucester, that’s over an hour drive just to go to work, and I’m considering within an hour and a half of Richmond instead of Gloucester, because I won’t cross the Hampton Ridge Bridge tunnel because traffic is an hour and a half just to get across the tunnel not to mention the extra hour or so driving. But if the right person showed up, yeah.
I’d be sitting in the traffic in a heartbeat.
There’s lots of fish in the sea. And I guess men are expected to be less picky than women are, but we’re not. We are very picky especially today. The dating scene is so much different than it was 30 years ago.
As far as hook ups go?
I’m not much in the hookups, and my guess would be that the guy hiding his relationship with somebody else by driving that far. I know my ex was doing that. I questioned her a couple of times about where she had filled up her car, trying to make sure that we weren’t getting scammed or somebody hadn’t stolen our card. And her reaction let me know what she was doing. No, I wasn’t spying on her. I was just complete being diligent about paying the bills.
So there you go women will do it too!

[si****]

For some people driving is the***utic. For some they do so much their brain is on autopilot. For others a certain kink is worth the effort. There is probably desperation in there for some. I guess some would also see that it shows effort. Taking a negative viewpoint there is less likelihood that you'll be known/spotted, the ramifications across state could be less and/or harder.

[Me****]

For me the normal is to meet people in same area , traveling to meet the unknown is not in my agenda .

[pr****]

When you enjoy and understand the Art of Sex and Love making. 2 hours drive will seem like 20 mins drive, not because you are thirsty or p**sy starved… come to think of it there is nothing more enjoyable in this life we all live in other than Sex when you are in control of your Manhood.

[Ze****]

The reason is love. I am virtually dating someone in Bolivia. She wants to move to the United States for us to get Married. She’s in a whole other continent. Love, Freedom, Affluence, Opportunity, Adventure, Experience, Entertainment. Some people want more out of life than 7-11s, a small bedroom and spending 24/7 on their phones. Some people want to LIVE while they’re alive. If it’s only for sex, then it is a sense of conquest and adventure as well. The trip itself isn’t only for the sex, you’re thinking the objective is only you, sorry, people are traveling to travel, fucking you is a bonus to their adventure especially if you’re not enthused with the distance at which they’re traversing. I also would like to ask you what is distance and time but a construct or obstacle to block you from those rewards?
Think of the distance as a distraction. It’s only there to try to stop you, it takes a true go getter to overcome it time and time again, someone willing to make that journey should be more important to you than someone who doesn’t. A lot of risk goes into the travel as well, cost as well, If they’re going an hour or more, it means two major things, you’re dating an adventurer, a conquistador and secondly he really really is into you.

[Bi****]

Not to dumb this down too much, but you may just be underestimating how much certain people enjoy sex. They’d drive two hours bc they have to if they want sex, and that’s where the thought process stops

[Va****]

That’s because females have different standards than guys… females are lazy and don’t wanna work for d**k but men have to do everything just to get a hi… not all females are like this but a good 80% or they say I know what I want and never find what they want cause they wanna be picky and then still be single for years to come… sometimes men can’t get the women around us cause they’re either taken or don’t wanna fwu unless we are giving *** out or something that these females want… men are expected to go out of there way to make a woman happy… on another hand some guys just love having sex so they will drive 2+ hours to get it. But why does it matter? Like you said you aren’t driving 2 hours for d**k so why is it a problem for ya?

[ca****]

There are numerous reasons.. TBH my main partner is 3hrs away I go down to see him every other week.. it’s an escape from my life- the sex is good the companionship is even better but I know we will never be a “couple” he wants kids I can’t hav them an want to travel

[bi****]

People drive 2 hrs one way just to go golfing on a weekend or go to Disneyland. Doesn't seem weird to me that someone would drive 2 hrs for sex

[sardonicus87]

As a man, if you won't look beyond 30 minutes, you're told it's your fault and you'll never find anything because you're too picky/limited. Look further and now it's your fault because you're too desperate.

Send too short a message and you're boring, send too long and you're too much work.

It's almost like it's impossible and no matter what we do, it's wrong.

*eye roll*

I f--king hate the Internet.

[B1****]

You may haven’t met the right man if you barely wanna drive 45 min. When a man wants what he wants he’ll do what it takes to get it if he ambitious and driven, not to mention he has to feel like it’s worth it. I personally love driving and will for the right person/situation but even if I don’t drive I’ll figure out a way. I’m from Philly and I’ve drove from here to Miami and back multiple times (not for a female tho)

[on****]

Men date locally and the dates ends dry. Why wouldn’t a man want to drive to a woman he’s intrigued by? We travel the world to make our living. A 100 miles to find out if we’re compatible with someone is nothing but a drop in the bucket of what me do to find love and adventure. I’ve flown across the world for a paycheck. I’ll drive to a woman for pleasure without a problem. Shouldn’t be hard to grasp. We go after the things we want in life.