Distance

[ro****]

They're married and cheating

[Sh****]

For me it's not really about sex. If I like spending time with a person, I'll make the trip there and back hours both ways. It's just about the dynamic and people involved.

[Saucy1963]

It's easier for women. They just have to open their legs to get filled. The majority of men have really work hard for it. The woman could have a face like a Rhinos bum but all she would have to do is open it's legs and any dopey young stud will drive for hours to empty his sack. Men don't know the difference between a woman and a bus.

[SH****]

I wouldn't do it specifically for just hooking up but I do travel pretty far because I like long drives, exploring nature, seeing new cities and taking photos so if I find someone very sexually attractive and they're in the area I plan on visiting I would be down to hookup.

[po****]

I could see driving a few hours if I met someone and went there for the weekend, but not for just a hookup, it’s not worth the gas or wear and tear on my car.

[Is****]

The male sex drive specifically testosterone is a hell of a negotiator

[il****]

When it’s good distance shouldn’t matter

[Sw****]

I mean if the girl is sexy and freaky/kinky enough I would drive 2 hours for a hookup hell we can even make it a 2-3 hour long session taking breaks and going for 2-3 rounds

[la****]

Aren’t you worth the drive?

[lo****]

I can’t even see all the comments lol

[bo****]

For the right connection I would gladly drive 2 hours or more. Women take more than 2 hours sometimes just bathing and getting ready, makeup and lotions and outfits. I'm not driving 2 hours for sex, I'm driving 2 hours so that I can experience hours of pleasure with a tattoo'd submissive brat who playfully pushes all my buttons till I grab her by the throat and take care of things like a gentleman. I'm driving 2 hours because our souls are quantumally entangled, I'm driving 2 hours because my thirst for her is not quenched until I drink from her cup of life. Sex is something else. Passionless married couple have sex and it's over in 5 minutes, I'm not driving for that. I'm driving because 3 days after i leave, She calls me at midday from work saying she can still feel my hands on her body and that she needs me to come back, that's what I'm driving 2 hours for.

[Ti****]

Male vs female ratio where i live is ridiculous, by the time some new girl decides to start a profile she's already got thousands of messages and even more if she posts a profile picture

[Qu****]

So of the guys here have had a different experience than I have. I met a woman in NC and she regularly took an 8 hour train up to Boston for a good session. Her issue was the locals she dated never got her kink - she was a sub/***slut. Only coming to visit did she actually enjoy sex wildly.

This was repeated with a lawyer from SC who flew up, people who drove 6 hours for a long weekend session, etc.

For them, to have a great experience, see a cute town, have a little vacation with some great sex, it made sense. Btw, as I have gotten older, men pursue women less and women pursue men more. They know their own bodies, their own kinks and desires and want that sexual component in their lives.

[Ba****]

Well „someone in particular“ with the potential to become a longtime connection is worth a bit of effort and around 2hours is still commuting distance so it doesn’t seem that long

I have to be really horny to even think about a hookup an hour away but for a whole person with a real name and face 2 is still reasonable

If you would drive 45minutes for a regular date how much travel time would you tolerate for a weekend trip??
To it’s basically that difference

[Ne****]

Not every man is that way. I am not driving 2 hours. Or even an hour for a hook up. I am not personally interested in just a hook up for the most part. Not as much fun. Once you get I know someone and what turns them on things will be so much better.

[sh****]

I felt that crazy thing is ill be in FL this upcoming weekend

[po****]

With gas prices what they are, I would think there would be a reason for their travelling so far from home

[yo****]

I’ve driven three hours from Southern California, LA Market to San diego I multitask the situation went to go visit a customer then went to go visit the play partner. Had sex for six hours. Left the next morning. We are still friends to this day3 years ago. we’ve seen each other six times only she’s coming my way now and I go her way. Depends what event we wanna go to you. Never know who you’re going to meet and click with.

[yo****]

for somebody to find you that attractive is the greatest compliment ever at least in my mind

[De****]

I'm a disc golfer as a passionate hobby so I see that as a double whammy to check out a course after getting nicely satisfied

[Jj****]

Because that opens one's circle so to speak. There are millions of people just within 2-3 hours, if one is willin to put in the effort to find them, you never know whom you may meet or just how well the vibe is. And just doesn't have to be a quick-like trip, make it a few days, meet halfway and explore somewhere new. Personally, I don't like to be limited on just local options. I'll actually be driving 3 hrs in a few weeks to meet someone, have an air bnb booked for a few days. New people, new experiences and it's a very very good vibe too that could be more than just a hot n wild long weekend. Never know unless you try.

[ra****]

Wait till you find out how far queer people are willing to go

[fa****]

Idk in the moment it seems like a good idea. I always hate myself when I have to drive back afterwards like what are you DOINGGGG

[si****]

For me it’s connection! I tend not to be attracted to men in my state! I’m trying to move I know it’s insane but that is why I travel!!!

[lo****]

59 minutes ago, funburlingtonmale said:

My luck is I’d drive 2 hours and get ghosted. Then find someone local and get ghosted again 😂

THATS WHAT I MEEEAAANNNN