Distance

[Lu****]

Because they're desperate

[re****]

4 hours.. it'd gave to be some real A grade p**sy to go to that extent. Id go interstate, but f**k driving, fly all day long. I guess theres a element of mystery to the whole thing. Random flight, unfamiliar city, the excitement of the rendezvous with someone you're heavily attracted to.. its all a part of it I guess. So yeah, I'm not sure you should be ***ting it in a desperate light, and I wouldnt put a negative spin on it before doing it at least once.. it can be exhilarating.. especially if the sex is all that it was expected to be in the lead up.

[71****]

It's called "strange". It pretty much garuntees NSA and 2 hours isn't a long trip at all. Done that to buy shoes, a car, concerts... There was no vagina involved in those trips... Hell it takes 40 minutes to get across the city...

[69****]

Ok .... all these answers are terrible. Its very simple. Men n Women are not the same! A female can be horny n get sex the same day if not I. A couple hours if she wants. It's WAAAY harder for men to even get a women to talk to them let alone sex.
So if one is already agreeing to sex, and all we gotta do is drive around lik bit, many men will do so!
Most women dont understand that most men only have sex a few times a year! The women who are sexuality active are having relations with the same 20-30% of men

[SA****]

I've driven over hrs and flown for work. So driving 1-2 hours for dinner and the possibility of an connection and a potentially amazing future dynamic seems reasonable.

[Mr****]

Sometimes they want what they want..

[bi****]

Personally, being desperate was never a reason for something like that. When I was young, I’ve driven from PA to Boston to meet someone, just for the experience of it all. That one in particular ended up being a hell of a story, and we didnt even make it past the bar we met before I bounced (some people hide their toxicity well, until you meet in person). But all in all, whether planned or spur of the moment, all the road trips were just for the f of it

[so****]

Well I can't necessarily say I've driven that far JUST to get laid. Usually it's a location I'm interested in traveling to either for food or views, and that is just a bonus.

A couple years ago I had a fling with a woman who was a 300 mile trip away. And while I was very interested in her, I also went every weekend because it was on the Oregon Coast which is fantastic both for food and views.

Unfortunately I don't have that kind of free time anymore.

[Deleted Member]

Depends on how the conversation has gone before, the connection. And if you’re going to go for a date before anything else. If it’s someone really special then yeah a couple of hours drive is certainly worth it

[Du****]

It's ALL about the chemistry.

[xD****]

If im going that far out I hope its for an actual connection/experience plus action.

[jayrule13]

I see nothing adverse or peculiar about it. Men can't always just walk out of their house and get laid. Women can. And you never know, all men do not get that closeness or intimacy. A woman can literally go out with no *** and get drunk, eat at a nice restaurant, end up in a nice hotel and get smashed with a nice percentage possibility. For a man, not happening, and we don't expect it to. Sometimes, if certain things check out and you've got the time and the means, do what pleases YOU. You ain't hurting anyone. And the fact of the matter is, he could do all that and still get stood up. But at the end of the day, the only person that got screwed was him, and NOT the way he wanted to be screwed. And he'll be right back on that horse the next day because shooter's shoot and you miss 100 % of the shots you don't take.

[tr****]

Well no one is attractive to me in the area. There is a cute guy about an hour and a half that I’ve banged and I’d travel for him

[Da****]

I literally just drove 8hrs round trip last weekend to spend the weekend with a girl I met via certain groups on FB its not so much about the effort but the experience and seeing if its worth doing again

[Th****]

I live in Salt Lake City for the most part the women over here are Mormon or prude or lame or all three non-adventurous no spur of the moment basically want to come out the gate true loving and getting married. So if you reach over out of into another state women are a little more free spirited and laid-back and more adventurous that's why I would drive 2 hours

[Po****]

Considering how easy is it to find someone on just about any app as a woman and guys have an exponentially harder time getting any traction... Most guys are willing to go the extra... literal miles. I once flew across the country to be with someone and they wouldn't even leave their rinky dink little town for me at the end. So yeah...

[Be****]

It’s different when a woman has the right kinks, or likes exactly what you do. If I know I’m going to get my world rocked in the best way possible, I’ll travel a little for that. But I also prefer quality over quantity. But best believe if I’m traveling for it I expect to get a lot more than one round out of the trip lol. If I can walk straight the next day I didn’t achieve what I wanted

[Pe****]

1 hour ago, DaltonDom413 said:

I literally just drove 8hrs round trip last weekend to spend the weekend with a girl I met via certain groups on FB its not so much about the effort but the experience and seeing if its worth doing again

What group🤣🤣

[bt****]

Some people genuinely like driving, maybe try to have a more open mind

[Bl****]

Man people are crazy haha. I'm like, 45min tops and you better be f**king smoking

[Rb****]

My wife and I lived in a semi truck and traveled the country. We like road trips. So driving to meet a unicorn is just part of the adventure, part of the excitement, we make memories along the way try new restaurants etc.

[ke****]

I have drove 10 hours in a blizzard to stay with a stranger for a week of sex, we had a great start of a New Year together.

[Al****]

WTF?? Omg take whatever you can get. You can’t make this sh*t up.

[In****]

Because the state of datings completely ridiculous. Most men are getting nothing even compared to 1-2 year ago(got laid off the apps twice a week 1 year ago and years previous, literally almost nothing nowadays) It’s never been this bad. You have 500 men competing HARD for a frankly unattractive woman, and thousands doing the same for an average one. It’s literally impossible, men are programmed to desire sex more and are getting less than ever.

[Ha****]

Its harder for men to get laid than women so we have to do more sometimes