Kink vs fetish, where do you draw the line?

[Sa****]

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

there's a lot of stuff within kink/fetish that seems quite widespread - but yeah, your average married couple doesn't go home and partake in rope bondage. However common rope may be, or may appear to be.   Rope is not a sexual object.

I feel like the average couple is quite boring these days.

[ey****]

13 minutes ago, SassyGRUNGEgiRL26 said:

 

I feel like the average couple is quite boring these days.

it's part the reason websites like this became so popular.

Like there's interests if people thought they could take about on mainstream/larger dating platforms, or when meeting people in bars or socially, or so on.  Then everyone would just be there.

[Yi****]

I think the definition of a fetish means you need that to get off. A lot of our fetishes are just for fun, like I occasionally look at a woman's feet. But I don't have a feet fetish. Kink, perhaps is more of a lifestyle designation. I like all kinds of role. Play watch yourself not just B. D s m characters, maybe that's my kink, or my fetish, is the role play that does get me off vanilla b*******, don't get me off