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[Deleted Member]

To the subs, what is your favourite aftercare?My old sub had an unusual one, which was having her hair with and having a frozen bottle of water to hold.

[Deleted Member]

I have no idea… I’m dying to find a dom/mistress, but I guess I’m approaching people the wrong way, because almost nobody is answering me…

[DemonicVampire666]

Not experienced but I would like simple things as a sub for aftercare. Cuddling, my hair being brushed, being read to etc.. Feeling safe/protected.

[da****]

Cuddling, shower/bath if needed, water, reassurance, appraisal, just having a convo or just being weird together n laughing n stuff

[Ch****]

I dont have after care as such, but sometimes i need to talk about things. There has been a few times ive needed something but dont always ask for it, i find another way, this is generally after being emotionally overwhelmed.

I know i dont cope well going from very intense to straight out the door. 

Edited March 13, 2022 by Cheekysub247

[ey****]

Boob hugs.

[Firefox_]

lots of cuddles, a drink, maybe some chocolate, praise and general love and kindness ^-^

[Deleted Member]

It depends on the sub, but I’ve found that cuddles, soft talking, warm blankies, a couple of stuffies, brushing hair, caresses, a nice hot bath, reassuring, review of the evening, are all faves of my girls. Also lollipops are a big fave!

[MissTakenDeep]

That doesn’t sound too odd to me tbh, sometimes when in sub space, I can disconnect a little psychologically…the frozen water bottle maybe helped her regain her senses and bring her back to now ❤️

For me personally, it’s affection and communication. A nice long bath, maybe my D washing my hair, if he’s made a mess of it 🤭😂. Laying down together and cuddling, maybe talking listening to music or relaxing watching a film…anything that is affectionate and makes me feel wanted and safe.