What's your favorite safe word?

[Si****]

Gumdrop is mine. Makes me think of Gingerbread Man from Shrek lol. Not the button, not the gumdrop button!!

[my****]

Jellybeans... although ive never used it during sex lol

[On****]

I always joke with my subs that the safe word is “mesembryanthemums” and watch them panic 😆

[Ceejayuk]

I use celery, for the same reason as some people use pineapple etc as its not a word that would be commonly used while in the bedroom....Well unless someone has a celery fetish I suppose :p

[Ak****]

8 hours ago, On-the-rocks said:

I always joke with my subs that the safe word is “mesembryanthemums” and watch them panic 😆

Diabolical 🤣🤣🤣

[Th****]

Mine personal safe word is "Don't Stop"

[to****]

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. It's a really bad safe word but it's funny as hell to tell people that's what they have to say if things get too much.

[Mi****]

I had Eingelbert Humerdink...
Try that in a moment when you need things to stop immediately🚫
My new Dom asked me what I wanted, maybe a place I'd been. So Singapore it is. I even had to use it once and it made our communication and relationship stronger. He knows I will use it if I really need to. I now know that if I say it, just how fast he responded.
Keep it simple,

[Th****]

Mine is " Don't Stop"

[No****]

Red

[je****]

22 cause if you can’t say it you can signal it with your fingers, eyes blinking twice, tapping your feet twice etc

[cu****]

We use the traffic light system but we also have BLACK. This means it’s all become too much. Cut me out of this as quickly as possible and stop the scene for tonight.

[Ha****]

“Pelosi” because it absolutely kills the moment.

[pl****]

Oklahoma because not a normal thing to say during sex if you live in Iowa! And if unable to speak the MMA double “tap out”.

[ch****]

Unicorn becuase it’s so unexpected 😂

[Deleted Member]

Keep going

[Deleted Member]

Colors are the best in my opinion. >.<
Mine is "Red"!

[BruiseWayne]

I used to make an ex sub of mine say the three words she hated the most in rapid succession which for some strange reason happened to be 'moist' 'turd' and 'squirt' and as you can imagine would bring things to a screeching halt lol.

[po****]

bedrock (my sub loves minecraft lmao)

[Deleted Member]

I have used pineapple but I'm liking the traffic light system

[Deleted Member]

Red

[La****]

I use a stoplight system of universal consent for all interactions... Green, yellow, and red. Adds flexibility without haulting the interaction outright (unless Red is used, of course!) Asking and getting consistent Green as feedback helps you gather real-time feedback on your actions and increases trust and communication with a partner. Yellow allows you to "edit" the scene as you go to maximize outcomes and avoid discomforts. I know that, even as a Dom, I have used this system to "take a break", or cease an unenjoyable experience. Checking for feedback consistently and respecting the mechanics of the system creates a culture of consent and an expectation that feedback and consent are a non-negotiable part of all interactions. I posted the rules in my play space, and review them actively with each new interaction, even with a repeat partner.

[Stepfunk4]

Yeah, gotta go with the standard and straight forward

Yellow - i'm near my maximum tolerance level.

Red - STOP RIGHT NOW!!!

[Mz****]

I also use a cat toy with a bell in it for when I've gone non verbal in subspace. Shake is my yellow and a drop is Red

[De****]

Jambalaya, I just think it’s a funny word.