Race play / degrading …

[Ky****]

9 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

race play is usually verbal/humiliation based using racial slurs or abuse

 

ah I see, seems pretty standard in sissy porn, black guys degrading white guys as sissies with racial abuse about real place for white bois, never found that for real but enjoy the porn, mind u if it were real I'd be up for it big time

[se****]

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

race play is usually verbal/humiliation based using racial slurs or abuse

 

Once in a while, ethnic style of clothing is involved. That would be a hard "I Do Not Think So"!😅 

[sl****]

4 hours ago, TheBookCollector said:

Do you support a.more tratitional race play.where the PoC is submissive to a white person?

As I said, the degradation aspect is definitely a hard limit for me personally. However, if a PoC is into it that's their business; its just not a kink I could help them explore because it's something I'm uncomfortable with as a white person.
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Also, don't get me started on how racism is alive and well within the porn industry to the detriment of non-whites.

[Ky****]

31 minutes ago, kiseu said:

Once in a while, ethnic style of clothing is involved. That would be a hard "I Do Not Think So"!😅 

ethnic style clothing can also be difficult, I personlly luv belly/turkish/indian dancing and its clothes so wear them for kink play too

[se****]

9 hours ago, Kymi said:

ethnic style clothing can also be difficult, I personlly luv belly/turkish/indian dancing and its clothes so wear them for kink play too

It is not for me, but I am sure it would look great on others. The chinese dresses are cheap, and sold in Chinatown or tourist Chinese shops.💖

[Deleted Member]

If I'm having sex with you ultimately I consider you OK to breed with and I'm not interested in having a child I would have some latent issue with due to their ancestry. So it's not my deal, but I admit I probably am only really interested in women with a roughly similar ethnic background to myself.  

Edited August 4, 2022 by Deleted Member

[Ky****]

10 hours ago, kiseu said:

It is not for me, but I am sure it would look great on others. The chinese dresses are cheap, and sold in Chinatown or tourist Chinese shops.💖

being also a kung fu teacher i do have some chinese dresses myself, never used those for kink play though, perhaps strangely i'd find that insulting don't know why since I'e gone full Japanese geisha b4

[se****]

5 hours ago, Kymi said:

being also a kung fu teacher i do have some chinese dresses myself, never used those for kink play though, perhaps strangely i'd find that insulting don't know why since I'e gone full Japanese geisha b4

It is interesting, you are not into Chinese dresses. I only recommended, because it is a simple dress, and still looks nice if it is cheap. My traditional dress looks very UGLY if it is cheap!!😅 Anyways wearing the entire outfit would take the poor guy one hour to take off. I don't think he would be too happy about No Easy Access. Also, he better not get the idea with the scissors.😂

[Ky****]

9 minutes ago, kiseu said:

It is interesting, you are not into Chinese dresses. I only recommended, because it is a simple dress, and still looks nice if it is cheap. My traditional dress looks very UGLY if it is cheap!!😅 Anyways wearing the entire outfit would take the poor guy one hour to take off. I don't think he would be too happy about No Easy Access. Also, he better not get the idea with the scissors.😂

oh i luv to wear them, just never for kink, even those who know i'm transitioning don't know i've got them

[IL****]

Raceplay is A huge turn on for me and I do not fw A chick unless she says the N word wit no regrets about it 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[RacePlay]

I am Black and I have done RacePlay as a way to explore my racial trauma. 
 

For me white people have no jurisdiction when it comes to the issue. You can’t try to dictate how people of color express or reclaim racial trauma when you are fundamentally the cause of the racial trauma. 
 

I have JustForFans so I do other kinds of BDSM such as religious play, consensual non consent, and sissy play (homophobia/masculinity), but for some reason people can’t accept the concept of race play because it hits too close to home for them. They tend to project their own sins of racism and “what if’s” onto the participants instead fully seeing the bigger picture. 
 

There’s also this need to view black people as a collective instead of individuals with our own personal agency. Me participating in raceplay is not a detriment to all black people, I’m still my own person. 

 

 

[Chloebear]

Thursday at 04:40 PM, RacePlay said:

I am Black and I have done RacePlay as a way to explore my racial trauma. 
 

For me white people have no jurisdiction when it comes to the issue. You can’t try to dictate how people of color express or reclaim racial trauma when you are fundamentally the cause of the racial trauma. 
 

I have JustForFans so I do other kinds of BDSM such as religious play, consensual non consent, and sissy play (homophobia/masculinity), but for some reason people can’t accept the concept of race play because it hits too close to home for them. They tend to project their own sins of racism and “what if’s” onto the participants instead fully seeing the bigger picture. 
 

There’s also this need to view black people as a collective instead of individuals with our own personal agency. Me participating in raceplay is not a detriment to all black people, I’m still my own person. 

 

 

I don’t have any objections to any play as long is it’s not harmful to players. But I wouldn’t play myself with this area. It is my own discomfort, absolutely, but still, would be against my consent and limits to engage in. Whatever the reasons, people don’t have to play in ways that make them uncomfortable. This has been an interesting thread to discuss this topic though, as with many things people will have different perspectives but we set our boundaries and must respect each other’s limits and put communication at the forefront when playing.

[ta****]

i would love to know if its wrong to want to be racially abused and degraded in a private setting to the point where it would be a crime and at the point of historical racial abuse 

[Umeandshe]

No, if two individuals consent, its all good. 

[ThumperG]

As someone who grew up in a town next to one of the headquarters of the KKK and had to adjust my life in many major ways just in order to survive. I actually had to learn to pass and I lived undercover AS a  white person for almost a decade.  I am a member of the the IBPOC community. So for me~this is a hard no in any way, shape or form as a Native. 

[Deleted Member]

The question to ask too where is the line between preference and race play? Are you seeing the person for everything they are or just their race? I have issues when people say they are into interracial sex. Isn’t it just sex? Does it matter what race they are?

[Ma****]

January 18, Umeandshe said:

No, if two individuals consent, its all good. 

BDSM is all about consent !
So including consent, knowing that both side are okay with it
What do you think in general

[Ma****]

January 19, ThumperG said:

As someone who grew up in a town next to one of the headquarters of the KKK and had to adjust my life in many major ways just in order to survive. I actually had to learn to pass and I lived undercover AS a  white person for almost a decade.  I am a member of the the IBPOC community. So for me~this is a hard no in any way, shape or form as a Native. 

I understand ! But knowing that it’s a kink as others and both sides are okay
Do you still think that race play is a negative kink ?

[Ma****]

January 24, Deleted profile said:

The question to ask too where is the line between preference and race play? Are you seeing the person for everything they are or just their race? I have issues when people say they are into interracial sex. Isn’t it just sex? Does it matter what race they are?

The thing is that race play is a kink it’s just a fantasy same for people who enjoy public play or any other things
But because it’s about race, it can be seen in a negative way
We all know that BDSM is about consent so which means both sides like it
But in general what do you think

[ThumperG]

17 hours ago, MasterDomKZ said:

I understand ! But knowing that it’s a kink as others and both sides are okay
Do you still think that race play is a negative kink ?

So if you say that you understand~well, then you understand. Other people can do is they will. It is not my job to watch people. I AM NOT the Night Manager. Nor am I here to play into the role of the Devil's Advocate when it comes to what other people do. 

[Ky****]

having fully accepted that I am a trans woman and started transitioning I must say my take on this post has changed, but only to make me realise how much of kink crosses someone elses boundaries, if we were to regard race play as problematic then so would other forms of play, eg sissy/cd fetishes could be seen as offensive to trans ppl since it degrades the person in the 'wrong' identity, no I don't believe we should abandon those either, but its definitely shaped my view that if ppl want to do race play as consenting adults then its no more degrading than any other consent based play

[su****]

I'm a white, Scottish masochist, so here's my tuppenceworth.

I can enjoy cuckold porn, but the BBC factor is a massive NO for me. It's orientalism - fetishising something the other has no control over. Which, to me, is white privilege writ large.

Conversely, my primary kink is phobic play - which is *me* fetishising something *I* have no control over.

So I suppose my take on race play is, I don't judge consensual kinks, but that one's *REALLY* not for me.

Similar to Adult/little play, I guess. Intellectually, I can understand the inherent power disparity - and that others may choose to meet in that space - but I can't grok the erotic dimension in these situations.

[Chloebear]

8 hours ago, sunkenRags said:

I'm a white, Scottish masochist, so here's my tuppenceworth.

I can enjoy cuckold porn, but the BBC factor is a massive NO for me. It's orientalism - fetishising something the other has no control over. Which, to me, is white privilege writ large.

Conversely, my primary kink is phobic play - which is *me* fetishising something *I* have no control over.

So I suppose my take on race play is, I don't judge consensual kinks, but that one's *REALLY* not for me.

Similar to Adult/little play, I guess. Intellectually, I can understand the inherent power disparity - and that others may choose to meet in that space - but I can't grok the erotic dimension in these situations.

Vast majority will not engage sexually in little space, just for info… it’s a different ballpark really.

[Ma****]

July 28, 2022, TheBookCollector said:

Personally i dont like race play, and while i get the dynamic i dont understand it.

However i have no problem with others who enjoy it. I also have similar views towards who dress in WWII SS uniforms as part of thier kink.

Each to thier own.

What makes the kinky word so different is diversity. We all have different desires
The main problem about race play is that some people see racism while it comes to race play
Which is not because both side are consent

[su****]

50 minutes ago, MasterDomKZ said:

What makes the kinky word so different is diversity. We all have different desires
The main problem about race play is that some people see racism while it comes to race play
Which is not because both side are consent

Yeah, it's like the difference between rape play and *actual* rape. Only one of these involves consent.

Similarly, while I'm not judging anybody's kink, race play - and orientalism play - really aren't for me.