How to approach kinks with your male partner

[Go****]

How do I tell him I’m bored and what to be tied up and flogged a little sometimes.

[Deleted Member]

You use your mouth to speak people words

[Ja****]

men r simple just tell him directly

[ge****]

Exactly like that - perhaps not whilst in the freezer section at the supermarket perhaps, but could suggest it next time you're snuggled up and being intimate, or as part of a wider conversation about kinks and fantasies.
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Either way the only way he'll know is if you tell him

[ki****]

... use your words and communicate?

[ca****]

Maybe leave it the "I'm bored" stick to the positive side of it ha

[ch****]

The key is open and honest communication. As has been stated in previous comments, men are quite simple in that aspect.

Ask him about his fantasies and see if they align with yours. Another way is to show him what you want through pictures or erotica. Only you know your relationship.

Good luck and happy kinking.

[Deleted Member]

Open the conversation with the aspects of his personality that appeal to you and lead it toward his dominance (of there are good links there) and what you see in him that could potentially feed those needs you have. it may open the door to further the conversation. It’s a journey, not always a destination and can contribute positively to your relationship. Alternatively, it can reveal his limits and how he feels about it, which is good for both to know.

[Deleted Member]

Same. Maybe go out for a nice lunch or something. And then say to him there is something you want to chat about.

[Deleted Member]

Timing is sometimes good.

[Deleted Member]

Ask if he have any fantasies and kinks

Starts discovering him
First then you confess you would like to try this

[Deleted Member]

That's actually good idea amd makes semse👍! Then you can both find a compromise. If i know my girlfriend has kinks id be happy to do them foe her of she is ok with mine

[to****]

Say "I'm getting bored and I'd like if you tied me up and flogged me sometimes."

Ultimately these things are about clear communication.

[ki****]

Would recommend leaving out the 'im bored' bit though, its a bit unproductive. Try saying it more like 'it would be exciting to try something new like xyz' instead

[Deleted Member]

I’d just tell them, a lot of the time the worry and *** is nothing

[Deleted Member]

Lol , in our relationship, she is very reserved outwardly can't even acknowledge sex exists.
But Inside her lives a perverted sexual slut. She will share a porn video, or write me letters and hide them, that I constantly find. Or here favorite is in a text,
Personally I would love her to just share with me verbally, but it works for us.
When I want to explore, experiment or just play for a couple hours. I just talk to her in vague terms, she either agrees, by not disagreeing. Or will shake her head if she doesn't want to.
Point being, communicate. It's up to you to figure out what works for you.

[No****]

Just be honest and open; maybe don’t use the word bored. Explain that you feel things are a bit routine in the bedroom and you are curious about exploring some more together. Have a frank and open chat about your wants and needs when it comes to intimacy and sex.

[x2****]

Yel direct and willing to answer questions

[Deleted Member]

Show him some porn that involves what you like and tell him what you like about it. Make sure to use you and him as the examples when you explain it.

[BruiseWayne]

I think you've already gotten the two best pieces of advice from several people in this thread.

 

Definitely don't say 'I'm bored' because that sounds kinda sh**ty TBH.

 

And aside from that just be direct, tell him what you want. Most guys are usually thrilled when their special lady friend wants to spice things up a lil like that lol.

[Ro****]

Use your words

[Cu****]

Do you have a tongue in your head? Your opinions should be listened to, and your satisfaction is what you’re trying to achieve. If you’re not being listened to, find someone else.

[co****]

Be open and honest . Hell he might be into some fetishes himself

[be****]

Just like you did. Honesty is paramount and should come easily with your partner.

[Pa****]

Is it difficult to talk to him about it? Let him catch you shopping for floggers. Let him look over your shoulder and ask “what is that?” You answer “I’m shopping for new toys to spice things up a bit. Care to join me?” That could be a good opener. Remote controlled vibrating eggs might be fun as well.