Would women pay for sex/oral

[Deleted Member]

I've often wondered about becoming a male prostitute (let's face it, which straight male hasn't considered this) but whilst also satisfying my kinks (I don't know if you could call it that but I absolutely cannot get enough of giving a girl oral sex)

Would there be a market per se for specifically guys giving oral sex to women?

[SK****]

Lol no

[Ra****]

Im going to say no. As a female I would never pay for oral. And if I had to I’d pay another female not male. But that’s just me.

[ra****]

Women have wayyyy more opportunities than men. Cause just like you, most men enjoy giving oral for free so why pay you? 🤷🏻‍♂️ You’re your own competition 😅

[Fr****]

Yes they will.
Hence while there are male prostitutes.
But it's very much a smaller market

[ey****]

there's assorted women-who-pay-for-sex articles on the wider web and in terms of women who pay *men* the general demographic is that they're a little older, have a high sex drive, and for whatever reason are struggling for a regular partner

I am aware of women in the sex industry who have female clients.  but the men in the sex industry a lot who do meets tends to be bi.

 

There was a good blog I read I'd never be able to find again which was from a lady who did full service and the phrase guys would say which would make her die inside, if she was moaning to make them feel good and they laughed, "maybe you should be paying me!" and nearly rightfully enough the amount of guys when then switched their adultwork from client to provider was embarrassing

Especially as they then do start to decline bookings when they see the demographic they get requests from.   Totally non committal and delusional. 

[Am****]

Lucky woman and hell no they wouldn’t. Why pay for it when you could get it from any single guy if they will let the man fuck them. I don’t give her oral if I’m not getting my dick in her.

[Clarakink]

On 5/31/2023 at 8:03 PM, Aman94 said:

Lucky woman and hell no they wouldn’t. Why pay for it when you could get it from any single guy if they will let the man fuck them. I don’t give her oral if I’m not getting my dick in her.

You >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> [ Removed by FETMOD ]

[CopperKnob]

I love how, a question aimed at women, about women, is being answered by men 🙄

[Fr****]

I was not aware that my gender invalidated my lived experience

[Clarakink]

5 minutes ago, FreudianSlip76 said:

I was not aware that my gender invalidated my lived experience

Not at all. We all have our own thoughts and experiences which are valid and true.
Hey, sex is not something you do on your own, well apart from the obvs.

I think it's just that they're were some uneducated and naive comments that had been made.

As a woman. No. I would not pay. There are few Dommes, and I recieve regular requests to worship my cunt.

But I'm particular about who I invite to the party.

But I see nothing wrong in paying for a service if it meets a need.

[do****]

Oh, the generalizations and stereotyping I see on this site is nauseating. For the ones in the back, EVERYONE is different. I use to be a former male escort and bull in my 20s. Never had to be bi and I made good ***. Yes some women are mature but not all. But you will also find good looking professional women that do not have the time to be meeting men and dating. Just want you for an event, impress the parents, or just a friendly date, no sex. The world is large. Please stop putting people in boxes. Get out, live a little. You'll be surprised by what you can learn and experience. If you believe you can do it, do it. Last I checked it was 15 women to 1 man on the planet. You think at least 2-3 not willing to pay a couple dollars for a licky licky? Yeah right. Some will pay just for stimulating conversation and safety. And it's not Findom. It's a bartering system

[Fr****]

So first off I can't figure out how to quote here :)
So apologies for that.

Secondly. I do not disagree that the absolute vast majority of women would never pay for sex.
That being said, some will.
Just probably for different reasons than most men do.
Although, having only been the product and not the customer, I'm arguably not in the best position to make that judgement call.

And yeah. There were a lot of naive and reductive comments.

Bottom line is, people in a position to pay for what they want, will do so when that is a more viable option than not

[do****]

4 minutes ago, FreudianSlip76 said:

So first off I can't figure out how to quote here :)
So apologies for that.

Secondly. I do not disagree that the absolute vast majority of women would never pay for sex.
That being said, some will.
Just probably for different reasons than most men do.
Although, having only been the product and not the customer, I'm arguably not in the best position to make that judgement call.

And yeah. There were a lot of naive and reductive comments.

Bottom line is, people in a position to pay for what they want, will do so when that is a more viable option than not

That's it right there. People in positions to pay for what they want will. Just need to know where to advertise 🤷🏾‍♂️

[Fr****]

Right. And the reasons/needs were as varied as the people themselves

[Clarakink]

8 minutes ago, FreudianSlip76 said:

Right. And the reasons/needs were as varied as the people themselves

Completely. It's a personal, informed choice.

Just fed up with the idiots on here making uninformed and ill considered comments that don't add to the discourse

[Fr****]

Hah i would say welcome to the internet, but judging by the rest of my life it seems to be a universal part of life :)
But yeah. It gets tiring

[Ae****]

1 hour ago, FreudianSlip76 said:

I was not aware that my gender invalidated my lived experience

💯
The mental gymnastics used for silencing people is always interesting to see.

[Du****]

1 hour ago, Aman94 said:

Lucky woman and hell no they wouldn’t. Why pay for it when you could get it from any single guy if they will let the man fuck them. I don’t give her oral if I’m not getting my dick in her.

With that attitude, I’m so glad there’s absolutely zero chance we’ll ever meet. Maybe ask yourself why “women on here are so picky”, my dude

[do****]

19 minutes ago, DuchessFeuille said:

With that attitude, I’m so glad there’s absolutely zero chance we’ll ever meet. Maybe ask yourself why “women on here are so picky”, my dude

🤣😂🤣

[Am****]

Ok I’m sorry in my comments were sort of rude but I think what I said has some truth to it. Why would any woman pay for oral if they didn’t have to? I think that a total valid point and if woman don’t like it sorry. I want not trying to be sexiest at all.

[CopperKnob]

4 minutes ago, Aman94 said:

Ok I’m sorry in my comments were sort of rude but I think what I said has some truth to it. Why would any woman pay for oral if they didn’t have to? I think that a total valid point and if woman don’t like it sorry. I want not trying to be sexiest at all.

That's not the part of your comment I think some had issue with

[Clarakink]

14 minutes ago, Aman94 said:

Ok I’m sorry in my comments were sort of rude but I think what I said has some truth to it. Why would any woman pay for oral if they didn’t have to? I think that a total valid point and if woman don’t like it sorry. I want not trying to be sexiest at all.

Oh dear. Clearly you haven't quite grasped why what you said was so offensive.

It would also explain the ongoing issue to have with women ghosting you.

Being a Dom isn't about taking or doing what you want, and treating your sub orcwomen in your case, as beneath you.
A sub gives a Dom the gift of their trust and submission.

It is about who you are and how you act. Not about an *** or power or misogyny.

To say as you did that you would only give a woman oral if you knew you would get a fuck in return is transactional at best.

It is not how this should be. It is a nuanced relationship where each knows the wants and needs of the other.

May I suggest that if you approach things in the future by considering what might make the other person feel fulfilled, be that spanked black and blue or used by a 3rd party, that this will make your interactions abd experiences much more fulfilling

[Du****]

13 minutes ago, Clarakink said:

Oh dear. Clearly you haven't quite grasped why what you said was so offensive.

It would also explain the ongoing issue to have with women ghosting you.

Being a Dom isn't about taking or doing what you want, and treating your sub orcwomen in your case, as beneath you.
A sub gives a Dom the gift of their trust and submission.

It is about who you are and how you act. Not about an *** or power or misogyny.

To say as you did that you would only give a woman oral if you knew you would get a fuck in return is transactional at best.

It is not how this should be. It is a nuanced relationship where each knows the wants and needs of the other.

May I suggest that if you approach things in the future by considering what might make the other person feel fulfilled, be that spanked black and blue or used by a 3rd party, that this will make your interactions abd experiences much more fulfilling

Thank you, Clara, for being so kind as to provide a thorough explanation of the responder’s error. I was not inclined to be so generous, which must be my own shortcoming; but I hope your valued contribution will not go unheeded.

[Clarakink]

6 minutes ago, DuchessFeuille said:

Thank you, Clara, for being so kind as to provide a thorough explanation of the responder’s error. I was not inclined to be so generous, which must be my own shortcoming; but I hope your valued contribution will not go unheeded.

Thank you Duchess, we have a duty to maintain our kink lifestyle, nurture the naive and ignorant (we have all been there) turf out the wanna be idiots and show the red card to those who do not hold true to the values that are just basic and non negotiable.

I was very controlled. I could have unleashed hell, but there is no learning to be gained from that.
Fingers crossed on this one that it has been a moment of enlightenment. Xx