Addressing the Scammer/*** seeking Influx. STAY SAFE!

[Je****]

Sad to be writing this, but it may be beneficial, and if I can help one person with this post then it will be worth it.

 

 

Being on Fetish.com, is challenging at the best of times. It is for kinky dating, Fetish dating and D/s dynamics as well as making friends and alternative dating styles.

 

Please know that many people hear this and see $£ signs. 

This is NOT ok. This is not what this community needs. 

 

Let's be real, it is mostly young (under 23yr old) women from USA and that side of the water that I have noticed being the main ***r in this area. Many new profiles, that are minutes old, blurred photos and messaging like crazy every male profile they can see. The select few will come into chat and outright ask if people want to buy content. 

 

I want to write this to help people be safe and vigilant. Keep themselves and their wallets/purses safe.

 

 

1. This site / app has a 0 *** policy. Besides paying for membership perhaps, no one should be asking for ***. No one should be expected to part with ***. 

2. Sugar babies / daddies / mommies are NOT allowed ANYWHERE on this site. Not even on Dominatrix profiles.

3. No one should be paying for someone's time or attention, nor should they be expected to pay "tributes". 

4. Profiles that say "sugar baby" etc, "paypig" etc, are usually the culprits for trying to scam men / others.

5. People who have OF (only fans) advertised can be subject to this also, as can those who mention "I have content..." 

6. Usually people should be wary of profiles with usernames of ANY financial inclination in the username, people who are very young, new profiles that say Goddess, Queen etc also, I have noticed a common sight. 

 

HOW TO KEEP SAFE????

 

Please if you see any profiles, that have these usernames, report them to mod/admin of the site. 

Visit the profile, hit report on the 3 dots on the side and report with a reason on the drop down menu, and put screenshots and a brief explanation if you can. 

 

If someone comes into chat and is advertising / asking for *** etc, please click the exclamation mark beside the comment, which will allow you to report them. 

Alternatively hit the little cog in chat to "call a mod", and let them deal with them. 

If someone comes into your inbox and asks for *** or enquires if you wish to buy, PLEASE hit the "report conversation" button in the chat itself, and block them. 

If you see any adverts, status updates or profiles that are seeking *** or offering content, again report and block. 

 

Do NOT let these people away with it. 

There is rumour of a Tik Tok trend mentioning easy *** to be gained from *** and "desperate" people on these kinds of sites and these people are preying on people looking for a connection. Especially men. This is not fair. NO man should ever be taken advantage of or extorted for wanting a decent and genuine connection.

 

Please keep yourself safe. Please keep other members safe. Keep your *** safe.

In hard times in which the world is facing, no one should be made to pay for love affection and sex. 

There is no shame in sex work, but there is other sites for that. This is NOT one of them. 

If you want to sell, go to another site. Not here. This is a community, do NOT *** it. 

If you want to buy, same rules apply. 

 

Love and peace folks and may you remain safe and enjoy your time on this site, as it was intended!

Edited June 22, 2023 by Jeneral_Whore

[Lo****]

Very well written and very true, all of it🐶

[Alex_Rondo]

Amen Jen 🙏

[Ke****]

I only joined yesterday and had 4 already

[Da****]

It's about time someone addressed this issue, as a male sub id say 98% of Dommes iv spoken too want tributes and/or are fake accts. Key qords thay give it away to me is when we're called " dear", or when asked for a possible facetime sessions, then all of a sudden their camera ismt working and needs air time fill up or in call have their thimgs over the camera lense. A TON of fakes on these sites unfortunately

[Je****]

I also want to note , any profile that says "i want to be spoiled or have a man look after me properly" are also profiles I have noted, that I later look back to, and see the financial aspect brought in. So please also be aware of these phrases too. 

[Ke****]

Honestly, This whole *** thing from these people have all but ruined my experiences with these apps. because Fetish.com isn't the only app I encountered with people like this and ir is always frustrating to find someone I like based on what they have in their bio only to then end up turning them away because they asked for ***. like I came here to enjoy myself. if I wanted to waste my ***/be drained of it. i would invest in the stock market because at least in the stock market there's a chance that investment could work in my favor. paying to be pegged for example isn't a good trade off in my opinion.

[Deleted Member]

❤️❤️

[Be****]

Well written

[Deleted Member]

GREAT post. I've been reporting all I see

[Deleted Member]

Very well written Jen. Hopefully people see it and take your advice.

[nineinside]

well said, the power is with us, to maintain a health safe community. report and block, *** of people or the rules shall not be tolerated

[Deleted Member]

Thank you I had read through your post. There was a person asking for *** to setup via agent in dungeon. I searched for dungeon it no where exists in search

[Deleted Member]

Trying to report as many of these as possible. Not sure why the devs of the site aren't doing more to stop this. It should be quite easy to stop the most obvious profiles.

[br****]

Spot on. Seems to be 100s of new accounts

[ic****]

I didn't realise it was an issue, I was approached yesterday (Findom) , declined then noticed they were quickly banned/deleted. I'll report next time.

[St****]

Tinder is absolutely full of younger women that want SD/SB but when you ask if it’s a true SD relationship or just *** they’re after, it’s always just the ***. Or the profile says “swipe right if you’ll send me *** without meeting” or “send me food without meeting.”
Also loads selling content or a link to Snapchat where they then want you to buy content.
Sadly men simping on OF has done a lot of the damage. Young girls without jobs think they can get easy *** by asking guys for *** and many men will give it to them sadly.

[Cu****]

The new profile below your message, on news feed, is an 18 year old female, asking for SD. A guy a couple of days ago was wanting pay pigs. Both of these were from uk, so not all from USA.

If you’re in the mood, then please also write something about the people who tell readers to use their twitter, SC, IG, email, WhatsApp accounts…some of these miscreants are VIP members.

[Deleted Member]

Agree wholeheartedly. A lot of people have very questionable morals. It's a real shame. Stay safe people

[Je****]

********** IF ANYONE KNOWS WHERE THIS INFLUX HAS COME FROM PLEASE CONTACT A MOD OR SITE ADMIN MEMBER TO LET THEM KNOW THE SOURCE. ITS BEEN RUMOURED FROM TIKTOK BUT IF ANYONE KNOWS PLEASE CONTACT THE TEAM AND LET THEM TRY TO DEAL WITH IT FROM THERE. ***************

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[Je****]

3 minutes ago, CumbriaLeather said:

The new profile below your message, on news feed, is an 18 year old female, asking for SD. A guy a couple of days ago was wanting pay pigs. Both of these were from uk, so not all from USA.

If you’re in the mood, then please also write something about the people who tell readers to use their twitter, SC, IG, email, WhatsApp accounts…some of these miscreants are VIP members.

None of these personal details are allowed on profiles. 

Yes there are some from the UK but the majority have been under 23yr old women from the USA. I am extremely active on here and I am raising awareness as a whole, but the influx from USA is what has prompted it, the above advice on how to protect yourselves and report etc, is for everyone anywhere in the world where this is happening! 

And yes anyone also promoting their outside personals and whatnot, need reported too. 

[Ri****]

Thanks for the post, I did notice a few profiles that didn’t look totally legit. Will keep this in mind when scrolling from now on. Thanks again ✌🏻❤️

[cl****]

Yeah they ruin the community that’s why I report them any chance I get

[ni****]

this is why I love Fet. I think most of us agree that Findoms ruin the kink community, Fet has a problem with attracting prostitutes and for pay dominatrix and such.

it's very important people don't feed into them because they will keep coming back and abusing the community.

[Kingkow101]

Thanks. Was wondering about this. I usually just ignored them .