Cybersex & Women

[Goddess_Fifi]

Having an online long-term relationship for me is pointless, I would become bored.

[Ka****]

2 hours ago, Goddess_Fifi said:

It would take someone who is very skilled with his vocabulary to keep interested in this cyber world, in my experience I find it men seem to be very crass and basic with their word's and descriptions, my imagination is quite vast so I am lover of literacy and creative writing, my mind needs be seduced before my body even responds.

Graduate of one of the finest creative writing programs of the late Seventies, early Eighties. Studied under James Lee Burke (before he became famous & successful.)

[ch****]

I find it exciting when girls watch especially with someone I never met before

[Ul****]

To get each other off cyber sexing

[me****]

I've known many women (myself included) who enjoy cybersex. In fact, I quite prefer it to physical intimacy at times. I feel like cyber intimacy offers me a way to be more *** than I would in an in person setting, for the simple fact that I'm able to maintain that control from my side of the intimacy, if that makes any sense.

[Tr****]

Well 1st Off there’s NOT Just Men and Women in This World TRANS People Exist Everywhere as Well … Yes I’m a TRANS Person Myself and People Fail to Realize Our Existence… I Personally Enjoy online fun just the Problem I Find is Finding Someone Respectful to Me as I Am Human too

[Deleted Member]

are there women who do look for an online only engagement, and do they actually enjoy it....or is it more done because they know that a guy can get off on it?
 

I’ve found it easier to date or interact with men easier online. It’s not so live an in the moment, I can prepare things I want to say. I actually like online engagement. It’s not necessarily my main preference, I want physical engagement more. As long as my wants are met I’m happy. I have a couple online engagements that I’m totally satisfied with. No expectations it’s fun, there’s intimacy, connection, support. Plus I know men will get off to it. An I get off making other people get off. I like to top ( giving stimulation or controlling the scene not necessarily a Dominant ). I like knowing I’m the reason a man c*ms. 

[DL****]

On 7/17/2023 at 11:08 PM, DuchessFeuille said:

Not long ago some k***end on here sent me one single, albeit imperfectly spelt, message:
“Send me pics to **** too 👅💦”
- I maintain that if that approach has *ever* worked for him, then there are some women out there who are ruining it for the rest of us.

Hello everyone ! I agree totally with you but, even if that won't make you feel better, if you knew how many men are ruining it for a few others ones. And not only for Cybersex. I guess that this is the price to pay to finally make some nice encounters. 🌹

[ge****]

1 hour ago, DLoren said:

Hello everyone ! I agree totally with you but, even if that won't make you feel better, if you knew how many men are ruining it for a few others ones. And not only for Cybersex. I guess that this is the price to pay to finally make some nice encounters. 🌹

Now here's the thing - the *only* person that can ruin my experience on sites like this, is myself - blaming other men is both an easy way out, and actually does a dis-service to the ladies here, as it suggests they're incapable of seeing the good from the bad.
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Just be your genuine self, show some respect and courtesy and don't "compete" with others is all it takes.

[DL****]

1 hour ago, gemini_man said:

Now here's the thing - the *only* person that can ruin my experience on sites like this, is myself - blaming other men is both an easy way out, and actually does a dis-service to the ladies here, as it suggests they're incapable of seeing the good from the bad.
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Just be your genuine self, show some respect and courtesy and don't "compete" with others is all it takes.

Hi, thanks for your answer. I think you misunderstood my comment or, probably my English it's still too poor. I never said that the ladies are incapable to seeing the good from the bad, that's your interpretation. I just said that some men's comments and attitude really upset the ladies and make everything more complicated for genuine and respectful gentlemen. I admit that using the word " ruin" was a mistake. Sorry for that. 🙏

[br****]

July 18, 2023, justine88 said:

Yeah I guess I’m a weird chick but I’m not really that interested in an emotional connection before I get to sleep with the guy.. I wanna know for sure that the physical connection is solid and gauge how attracted he is to me, as well as how comfortable I feel around them before I bother trying to build a relationship or get feelings for them. I’m not going to waste my time falling in love with someone who isn’t going to satisfy my needs in the bedroom. Getting people to understand that has been a challenge. sure, I’ve got more than a few unsolicited d**k pics in my DMs, but I generally don’t care — sometimes it’s a good thing because I’m able to weed out some that I can easily see won’t do the job, sometimes I find one so big I take it as a personal challenge and have to see it in person.. and sometimes I turn someone down based on how filthy the room in the background looks. Pictures do say much more than people realize.

Personally I don't think it's weird at all although there are many ingredients to successful relationship if you have that amazing over the top physical sexual relationship it's a lot easier to look past a lot of the little things that would in a non satisfying relationship become annoying nothing wrong with that at all why would anyone want to spend a lot of time according somebody just to find out they won't be the physical match that you're looking for