Good way to get BDSM bruises?

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

So.. I've had a few sessions where I feel like my butt has had a pretty good beating. At the time it hurts pretty bad but the sensation dulls quite quickly after it stops and I rarely have any kind of bruising. I really want a bruised butt so I can be reminded of it for at least a couple days later.. Any advice on getting BDSM bruises?? It's really frustrating!

[Wo****]

There's a good article on it in the magazine...

Describes the different methods and explains BDSM bruising.

How to take a bdsm beating.

[Deleted Member]

What are you using to make BDSM bruises? We have a fibre whip that leaves a hell of a mark and bites like a bitch, marks Still visible 10 days on. Picture on my profile if your interested.

[LovingSadistBstd]

Yes it is a problem with young fit bodys sometimes. Use a solid wooden baton, it had a deeper impact that will create darker and longer lasting bruises. Shiuld last a a week at least if I inflict them lol

[BigPolly]

You may find if you are being bruised/beaten regularly it becomes harder to bruise the same area as you almost get used to it. A cane/horse whip leaves good welts which bruise but when the BDSM bruises fade you are still left with scars for quite some time.

[Deleted Member]

Like others have said, it does depend on what you use. It also depends on your physical make up. Some people are just harder to bruise than others. I am one of those people. Particularly on my butt. I researched it once. It had something to with the iron level in your *** apparently. A good iron level means less bruising.. Anyway!! I'd definitely say deeper impact things like a sjambok work better for BDSM bruises. Canes and whips just leave red marks on my bum, and my sadist isn't a light handed one either! I get quite frustrated when I know I've had a good beating and there's barely anything there. Luckily my tits bruise wonderfully!!

[Rehmani]

Hiii

[Mi****]

I find a good hard wood paddle leaves BDSM bruises nicely. I have two, one made of oak and one of mango, neither of which I would be without

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

Sorry guys! Only just thought to check back!

I've only ever had paddles and hands.. I have a wooden paddle and a thinner leather one. I tend to prefer hands cause it's more of a thud then stingy. I haven't had that many serious sessions.. only a handful probably. 

I've been interested to try belts and canes but I'm not sure how much I'd like them as I'm not a huge fan of stingy *** 😬

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

20 hours ago, LazyPiratesBounty said:

There's a good article on it in the magazine...

Describes the different methods and explains bruising.

How to take a bdsm beating.

Thank you I shall try find it!

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

19 hours ago, TheMagiciansSub said:

What are you using? We have a fibre whip that leaves a hell of a mark and bites like a bitch, marks Still visible 10 days on. Picture on my profile if your interested.

Just a leather and wooden paddle or hands.. I'm not good with too much stingy *** 🤭

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

19 hours ago, LovingSadistBstd said:

Yes it is a problem with young fit bodys sometimes. Use a solid wooden baton, it had a deeper impact that will create darker and longer lasting bruises. Shiuld last a a week at least if I inflict them lol

I don't suppose you'd have a link or something for something like that? 

I'm still relatively green to impact toys 🤭🙈

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

On 7/30/2019 at 12:15 PM, MissTillysue said:

I find a good hard wood paddle bruises nicely. I have two, one made of oak and one of mango, neither of which I would be without

I don't suppose you could give me a link to a good one? I do have a wooden paddle.. I struggle with it a bit though as I find it quite stingy.  It's on my profile if you wanted to have a look. I prefer thumpy can I get BDSM bruises from that?

I'm a bit green still with impact toys 🤭

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

Any tips for my Dom to inflict more thud then stingy type *** that bruises well? Or is it more down to the implement used? He's more green to everything then I am 🤭

[BigPolly]

Ooooooo I love stingy sharp shocking *** 😁

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

Im a total wuss with that 😂

I really like thumping, deep muscular *** 😍

Might just ask him to punch my ass 😂😂😂

would that make BDSM bruises?

[BigPolly]

50 minutes ago, DaddiesLittleGirl said:

Im a total wuss with that 😂

I really like thumping, deep muscular *** 😍

Might just ask him to punch my ass 😂😂😂

What about kicking you whilst you’re bent over

[Wo****]

2 hours ago, DaddiesLittleGirl said:

Thank you I shall try find it!

This is a good read x

[Mi****]

20 hours ago, DaddiesLittleGirl said:

I don't suppose you could give me a link to a good one? I do have a wooden paddle.. I struggle with it a bit though as I find it quite stingy.  It's on my profile if you wanted to have a look.

I'm a bit green still with impact toys 🤭

Mine where hand made for me by a friend. I believe mango wood is quite difficult to get hold of but you should be able to get a decent oak paddle fairly easily

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

1 hour ago, MissTillysue said:

Mine where hand made for me by a friend. I believe mango wood is quite difficult to get hold of but you should be able to get a decent oak paddle fairly easily

Oooh, I believe I saw some on Etsy! Thank you!

[GentDom]

Heavy wooden paddle best for BDSM bruising - but some folks don't bruise that well 

 

Sadly bruises without any *** just isn't really a thing 🙄

[DaddiesLittleGirl]

4 hours ago, GentDom said:

Heavy wooden paddle best for bruising - but some folks don't bruise that well 

 

Sadly bruises without any *** just isn't really a thing 🙄

I like the *** 😂😂😂

Just not keen on stingy as I am on thuddy

[Am****]

Not sure if this is still open, but a slipper/flipflop can leave a fair amount of BDSM bruising with some long lasting effects, leaves a good thud too.

I got spanked with one not so long ago and my bottom was sore for about 2 days after. I wasn't looking for bruising so the session was stopped before this was due to happen (was around 20mins).