Popular Post Ra**** Posted October 15 Popular Post Posted October 15 Long story short. My heart is broken. I left my dom today. Once a long time ago he "ignored" my safe word in a scene. He claimed it was by accident and he didn't hear me. Which given the scene at the time....was possibly true. However a week ago he completely disregarded my safe word. He clearly heard me. And refused to stop pushing me past my limits. I gave it a few days for the hurt to calm. But made the decision to leave today. I took off my collar. And went to his to hand it back. I feel so so broken. And completely alone. I dont have many bdsm friends so many of my friends just don't really understand. I'm somewhat doubting if I made the right decision. He has apologised a lot since. He didn't really have an excuse. Just that he thought I wasn't at my limit really and needed pushing further. I needed teaching what was right. Did I do the right thing?