TRIBUTE

[Miss_Jessie]

Why do  mistress take tribute??

[ey****]

I'm not sure if this is a rhetorical question as you state you work professionally.   

But, yeah - those who work professionally use a tribute as a payment for their time

[Deleted Member]

because is nice to see the effects of my nude body on a man and makes me horny to think about been there with them in the moment of orgasm ☺️

[Nikki_Hexy]

Personaly i dont think i would pay for play but i think it sounds like an interchangable word for payment. It sounds like a way to keep the imersion of a scene rarther than saying payment. For example if the sub was paying the Domme then i think it could sound like "the customer paying for a service" vs "the sub offering tribute to the Owner"

[Deleted Member]

Because it enables them to do something they adore for a living,lucky devil's.I can't think of a better way to pay the bills.

[Sp****]

To me a tribute is the biggest clue that the person is a scammer. How many Dom men ask a lady sub for a financial tribute? I would hazard a guess that the answer is zero so why would a Mistress require a tribute unless it’s a scam. I believe that a massive proportion of findoms are just girls trying to fund their lifestyle without having to do anything except send a few pics to their poor victims. If anyone approaches you online and asks for *** end the conversation there and then unless your like me and enjoy antagonising these pathetic thieves!!

[Deleted Member]

SCAMMERS if they ask for *** they obviously don’t want a relationship they want *** ! So for me when I hear that I’m out

[Deleted Member]

That's exactly right but there are so many men who will pay,You call them scammers,I disagree.They are completely honest about what they are so it's no scam.If some men wish to pay then that's their look out.

[ey****]

2 minutes ago, Spanksy said:

How many Dom men ask a lady sub for a financial tribute? 

you'd be surprised. 

There are a fair few Male Masters with female clients.

[Deleted Member]

There has been a massive increase on here all of a sudden aswell of findoms.

[Deleted Member]

There was a findom on here and at the end of your bio section on your profile it asks your Fantasies.She put "your ***"ha ha ha psml.

[sissy_petra_uk_slut]

I have found this to be increasing common. There must be a fine line between a professional dominatrix and the mistress expecting gifts, which is usually ***. What I find very hard to digest, is the Mistress that expects a large sum of ***, in excess of several hundred pounds before any form of compatability is formed. This is wrong, and to me these are not Mistresses interested in BDSM , but a route to easy ***. If after discussions there is a connection, then I feel a gift should be made if the mistress requests one

 

[Cd****]

Of all the females that have contacted me about me being there sub/slave everyone has so far asked for tribute or payment.  Ok it's only been 5 Mistress but still. 

[Deleted Member]

Just now, Shamlok said:

Of all the females that have contacted me about me being there sub/slave everyone has so far asked for tribute or payment.  Ok it's only been 5 Mistress but still. 

And that confirms an earlier point.Most,not all but most do it to make a living.Are they really into kink??debatable.

[ey****]

I've said this on other threads but...

- if a woman you don't know contacts you and says "do you want to be my slave, for tribute" - then answer should always be no.  If it's a scam, you're about to be diddled - and if it isn't a scam then if they're 'good enough' to be worth tribute then why are they contacting you?

if someone like this contacts you, report them as they need a € on their profile.

- if you contact somebody, with a view of being theirs... and they respond that they require tribute.   They still need a € on their profile but in this case it was you that expressed an interest in them? If you approached a lady at a bar to talk to and she smiled and asked you to get her a drink you probably would.  If, however, this raises questions to you as of if they're a real person, this is the kind of due diligence you should have carried out before contacting them

- if someone contacts you who you *do* know - perhaps you've interacted on the forum or in chat and says that they require tribute but would like to discuss - that's different.  But, of course, be dilligent 

[BeardedSi]

Maybe try getting to know people first before trying to jump into a dynamic. If the ask for some kind of payment I'd suggest telling them to get fucked

[ey****]

it's also true that *most* women who ask for tribute are not looking for a relationship - at least unlikely above "regular client"

what they are looking for is generally people who are seeking experiences, fulfilling fantasies, so on. 

we live in muddled times where some people do form more-than-a-client type relationships.   And yeah, this occurs only if/when a connection is formed via the paid sessions and doesn't necessarily result in free sessions.

I had been seeing a Pro-Domme who suggested to me "ownership" and, well, this wouldn't make sessions free (because she still has to pay to hire the dungeon, her own overheads, and time spent with/on me is a time away from a paid client) but would have a relationship outside of sessions.  So we were speaking every day pretty much and hanging out outside of sessions.   But, not every Pro would want that.

But, it doesn't mean they're not kinky.

 

 

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Donnykinkster said:

 

 

[Deleted Member]

Thinking about it for some it will be part if the kink;more ***.Paying for it so I can understand how it works.

[ey****]

I think if you think of it in *** you're in the wrong tree.

if you went out on a date with someone is it humiliating if you pay? or if you tip generously to give a good example?  

if you wanted to go to a gig - would it be humiliating to pay an entry fee if there was another gig in town that was free entry?

 

 

[Deleted Member]

No that I understand and agree,sometimes it's a business arrangement and nothing more but for some men I think that paying a monetary price will enhance the experience.Im just envious,,what a way to make a few quid 😁

[ey****]

some of the rip-off stuff yes, absolutely.

There's a lady I follow who posted a video up where she met a guy in the street.  She slaps him. Has him on his knees, puts a L on his forehead in lipstick and then walks off with £200+

£200+ for, effectively, 45 seconds work.

and for him, absolutely - the kick in there was the sudden instant and public ***.  

And I think there's people who get aware of this and think "I want that - to just turn up and slap somebody and walk off £200 better off" but the truth is this was exception, not the norm - and that the two did ultimately know each other  enough to know that's the experience he wanted.

Wouldn't work for me - but still  

[sissy_petra_uk_slut]

It's interesting to note , that not one mistress that charges , sorry expects a tribute had commented to explain why, and then claim they are not charging for a service. 

[Deleted Member]

Because some people get off on being conned I guess ? Still, each to their own .

[ey****]

51 minutes ago, pappaman said:

It's interesting to note , that not one mistress that charges , sorry expects a tribute had commented to explain why, and then claim they are not charging for a service. 

why should they?

They're probably either (a) working (b) tired of having the same circular discussions