Looking for More Than “Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am”
I’m here to find someone I can connect with on multiple levels — physically, intellectually and socially.
Sexually, I’m a Submissive (yes, I know it’s a cliché these days). But for me, it’s about more than just a quick fling. I’m looking for chemistry that ignites both mind and body. I fully understand what’s involved in a healthy D/s dynamic.
If you’re looking for a woman with a firm and toned body, I’m not the girl for you. But if you appreciate curves and very big boobs, we might be a good match.
I’m not rushing into anything. I like to take the time to get to know someone, so expect our first meet to be a social meet
What I’m Attracted To:
My ideal man is aged between 35 to 52, ideally over 5ft 11
While I enjoy the physical, I’m much more interested in the quality of your conversation than the size of your, well, you know… ;)
Bonus Points if you’ve got tattoos, short hair, and a 5 o’clock shadow or a short beard.
Dislikes:
• Men with long hair, wild Viking-style beards, man buns, or those who carry man bags.
• Ghosting. Seriously, don’t be a coward; just message a simple, polite “thanks, but no thanks.”
And guys, if you live 100+ miles away, it’s not realistic to meet. Don’t tease a girl.
Things to Know About Me:
• I’m very sub with the right person. I’ll know when I’ve found them.
• I’m kind and sensitive but have no patience for rudeness or disrespect. How you treat me (and others) means a lot.
• I’m straightforward and expect honesty in return. If we click, I’m here for fun, trust, and consistency.
• I'm traditional in the sense that I believe men should pursue women and I believe in letting the man take the lead. I never make the first move. I never chase.
The Basics:
• I don’t leave anything for chance so expect to be fully vetted.
• Always, always: a social meet first. No naughtiness. During the social meet we can ….
— discuss and agree soft and hard limits, protection, contraception and consent
— Check there is real chemistry
— Maybe have a little flirt
And if all that goes well we can arrange our play session.
• Never send unsolicited pics of your dick, or ask to exchange pictures (I’m not interested in pic exchange or cyber sex)
• PLEASE SEND A FACE PIC WITH YOUR INTRO MESSAGE. MESSAGES WITHOUT A FACE PIC WILL BE AUTOMATICALLY DELETED.
If you’ve read this far, you might be what I’m looking for. Feel free to send a message (with mandatory face pic), and we’ll see if that spark is there.
I don’t spend all day on here (it just looks that way thanks to the app), so don’t worry if I don’t respond immediately.
NONE NEGOTIABLE REQUIREMENTS:
• Respect my time.
• Match my effort.
• Be honest.
• Be consistent.
• Don't treat me like an option.
• Communicate, meaning: if you are busy, say so; If you are not in the mood to talk, say so; if you are done with me, say so.
Please don’t ask to view my private gallery photos without at least sending a message to introduce yourself.
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