Brat, 40, allergic to idiots.
Ghost, cats (7, don’t ask…), tattoos (37) and piercings (34, some hidden) — I collect the good things.
If you don’t like the taste of metal we won’t get along… 😈
Hard limits are non-negotiable, so don’t test them.
But if you can flirt, respect boundaries, and hold a conversation… you’ve got my attention.
Griftwood on repeat, Fortnite is my chaos outlet and I will bite back.
Bonus points if you know your Papas.
Can often be found in the Lobby, lurking.
Friend described me as “Charming, feral brat. Can be a very good girl. Probably in need of taming. Or something. Definitely in need of a Daddy. Loves DD/lg, praise, breeding and toys.”
Not looking for anything other than a long term relationship…
Nell 🖤
Ask for my socials.
I am in a monogamous relationship so I’m not looking for anything or anyone else. I am on here to stay in touch within this community in a completely friendly way not sexual.
I’m mainly a bratty sub and no this won’t change for just anyone. I am not looking to be ‘trained’ I’m happy with my level of submission.
For a while there has been this thing that I’ve felt I have been missing from kink and it does have a lot of controversies against it which I can appreciate it, but as I have said with my little side I am done with being ashamed and hiding aspects of myself to please others.
I am a switch and whilst I do enjoy irl dominating others, I absolutely love being a *** (financial dominatrix).
I have been dabbling in and out of this for years and researching this.
So time to introduce my switch side to you guys, I am a soft ethical *** and love psychologically dominating men in a way that benefits me.
I am on other websites which you can message me about if you want to (This place prohibits against this which I respect) where I post mainly about my *** journey and *** content. For me Fet will always be for my submissive side and my switch side (without the financial bit). However of course if anyone is curious or interested then you can message me (in no way am I advertising this or pushing this onto anyone, and I am not using this account for ***, I’m just being honest about my own journey in kink). ❤️
I am in a monogamous relationship and I am happy in this relationship and I am NOT seeking anything else. I hope this is respected and I hope that any sexual comments or messages are refrained unless it’s just a general question or having a general conversation. If I deem the conversation or question or message to be anything but respectful to my partner I will either respond harshly (if I am bored) or I will simply ignore.
If you come into my messages saying anything along the lines of what you want to do to me without establishing that I’m an actual human being first of all and getting to know me then remove yourself or I will be nasty to you without any care and remove you myself and if you’re extra lucky and disgusting expose you myself, have a wonderful day.
If you also come into my comments expecting me to ignore my own message filters which are there to protect me and my interests all because you think you are a god and are entitled then you are very sadly mistaken, take a look at yourself and your behaviour and either correct it or move on and carry on with your sad life, okay thank you.
Ps I promise I’m a nice person, I’m just also a fed up person as well. Just treat me like a human being please, it’s shocking I have to repeat this several times in my own bio.
Just a quick warning I have scars on my body due to my mental health, if that is something that triggers you or disgust’s you then don’t message me or look at my pictures where they can potentially be seen.
I am 100% a sub through and through however I have switch tendencies I just don’t identify myself as a switch. When I do switch it’s mainly I play out my fantasies that I want to do to others and it’s a strict list which I’m only comfy doing to others which include:
-Bondage
-Mild to moderate impact play
-Orgasm control/***
-Mild to extreme ***/***
-Ass/Anal play
With this list I don’t alter it for just any stranger and I also don’t just ‘switch’ for any stranger
Again to make this very clear I not a dominant nor am I a switch so no I will not switch just for u and I will not agree to ever be anyone’s dominant and I am not experienced enough to add anything else onto that specific list those kinks I am experienced in giving safely to others.
I am more than happy to answer any questions on this just be respectful and not ***ful
Do not and I mean it DO NOT attempt to message me if you are not a Dom (u don’t have to be experienced to be a Dom btw). What I mean by this is if you just want a fuck or aren’t respectful then fuck off and do not flood my inbox because I won’t be nice in the slightest and that is your warning
I have every right if you slide into my inbox requesting things or asking questions that are within my limits which I clearly display on my profile at the very end to then not be respectful and nice- READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME if you want to avoid a non friendly message or a simple block from me.
In my opinion the psychological side is the most important aspect and for me to fully submit to u I need to trust u and build a connection and for u to earn that side of me otherwise no can do.
Respect is one thing I value. If I notice red flags or lack of respect then I won’t hesitate to let u know.
I don’t send pics or videos of me naked or doing sexual videos of touching myself so if u even attempt to ask don’t expect anything.
Don’t send me creepy message or demanding messages or don’t use honorific’s when u first message me otherwise I will just block u as there was no consent shared at all. Give me respect when messaging I’m sick of not getting respect. Manners and respect aren’t a turn off btw…
I will NOT take any clothing recommendations from anyone so what I decide to wear is what u get from me so if u don’t like that then don’t message me
If your goal or aim or fantasy is to make someone safeword then do not message me or interact with me. Personally I find it disturbing that anyone would want to get someone to safeword but hey just my opinion.
Don’t message me or interact with my profile if you’re transphobic, racist, sexist, homophobic, or just downright disrespectful.
LITTLE SIDE
(If u are not into the whole caregiving or little thing skip this part and don’t let it put u off)
IF YOU ARE A LITTLE AND WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS JUST GIVE ME A MESSAGE ALL GENDERS WELCOME! (just be around my age that’s all I ask)
I do have a little side which I ***ly switch into mostly from mental health issues I’m pretty protective over that side of me so I don’t discuss it unless I believe who ever asks is genuinely curious or interested or is a genuine non sexual daddy dom. (Yet again I don’t purposely switch into a little it’s an *** thing due to my mental health issues)
My little age is between 1-4 I’m a non verbal and mute little most of the time
When I do switch to little (again I can’t control this I am genuinely at a little age) I am FULLY dependent on someone else to help keep me safe as when I come back from being a little I don’t remember much about what happened hence why I have to trust the other person and build a very strong connection before I show that side to me.
For now I can hold back which isn’t healthy for me but also if I wasn’t to hold back it would be unsafe for me so either way it’s unhealthy.
When I’m little I do like:
Pacis
Teddies
Baby clothing
Colouring books
Baby toys
Cuddles
Praise
Affection/being cared for
Cute nicknames
Sippy cups
Things I have tried and don’t enjoy:
Diapers (I haven’t tried pull ups so I would try them)
Being dressed in skirts/dresses and specifically pink baby clothes or any type of over-sexualising ‘trendy’ baby clothes (because again I’m strictly a NON-SEXUAL LITTLE)
Being ***d to talk or ***d to come out of being a little (it will get me distressed and will psychologically harm me)
Being ignored and having my comfort things and things I like taken away from me (again it distresses me)
I’m usually a good behaved little with some tantrums which all that is needed is a stern warning and a talking to and if required non sexual soft spankings are fine if I’m still not listening then something is wrong mentally and I’m in distress which I then just need to be held and looked after and understood as again me being a little is not my choice it stems from trauma and my mental issues
Now yes I have detailed this which I have never done before but I think it’s time to end the shame with being a little I have shamed myself into thinking something is wrong with me for sometimes being a literal child and it has embarrassed me but I’m coming to terms with this is healthy and helping me heal my inner child and that it doesn’t make me less a person in fact it makes me strong and brave for being able to understand myself whilst I’m still young and new to this whole scene myself.
Anyways moving on..
END OF THE LITTLE PART
*VERY IMPORTANT*
I LOVE CUDDLES SO IF U DON’T LIKE CUDDLES THEN DO NOT MESSAGE ME THANK U… hehe I just need cuddles :)
Now I do realise that my profile makes me come across as a bitch but all I’m really asking for is just some respect and just be open minded not thick minded and get to know me before you decide to judge what type of person I am.
**Desires and Fantasies**
I am a very open minded person and willing to try new things as long as my hard limits and ur hard limits are avoided!
Few current fantasy ideas:
Edging and denial session (giving or receiving)
Sensual deprivation with wax play (receiving)
Primal play with *** play involved scene (receiving)
Rope bondage session (receiving)
Very submissive woman in person, love to serve, please and obey. In a dream world I would die to be someone's personal slave for them to use and *** me however they please.
From the age of 16 I have had a lot of experience in kinky Dom/Sub situations and couldn't get enough of it... the past few few years have been fairly vanilla so now I'm truly craving to find someone who can take advantage and break me back into being a perfect slave for someone quite a bit older than me.
Loves/Desires:
gags
harnesses
rope
cuffs
cages
spreader bars
whips
floggers
plugs
hoods
blindfolds
cnc
restrained
outdoors (wooded areas/fields)
petplay
Daddy daughter scenarios
edging
Want to try:
Anal
clamps
DP
hey!
Im 18 years old, I have a little bit of experience in BDSM but would love even more.
I’m incredibly submissive (but purely in a sexual manner as day to day I tend to be the mist stubborn person you’ll ever meet)
I love soft domination, edging, praise and spanking
Brat, 40, allergic to idiots.
Ghost, cats (7, don’t ask…), tattoos (37) and piercings (34, some hidden) — I collect the good things.
If you don’t like the taste of metal we won’t get along… 😈
Hard limits are non-negotiable, so don’t test them.
But if you can flirt, respect boundaries, and hold a conversation… you’ve got my attention.
Griftwood on repeat, Fortnite is my chaos outlet and I will bite back.
Bonus points if you know your Papas.
Can often be found in the Lobby, lurking.
Friend described me as “Charming, feral brat. Can be a very good girl. Probably in need of taming. Or something. Definitely in need of a Daddy. Loves DD/lg, praise, breeding and toys.”
Not looking for anything other than a long term relationship…
Nell 🖤
Ask for my socials.
Very submissive woman in person, love to serve, please and obey. In a dream world I would die to be someone's personal slave for them to use and *** me however they please.
From the age of 16 I have had a lot of experience in kinky Dom/Sub situations and couldn't get enough of it... the past few few years have been fairly vanilla so now I'm truly craving to find someone who can take advantage and break me back into being a perfect slave for someone quite a bit older than me.
Loves/Desires:
gags
harnesses
rope
cuffs
cages
spreader bars
whips
floggers
plugs
hoods
blindfolds
cnc
restrained
outdoors (wooded areas/fields)
petplay
Daddy daughter scenarios
edging
Want to try:
Anal
clamps
DP
hey!
Im 18 years old, I have a little bit of experience in BDSM but would love even more.
I’m incredibly submissive (but purely in a sexual manner as day to day I tend to be the mist stubborn person you’ll ever meet)
I love soft domination, edging, praise and spanking
I am in a monogamous relationship so I’m not looking for anything or anyone else. I am on here to stay in touch within this community in a completely friendly way not sexual.
I’m mainly a bratty sub and no this won’t change for just anyone. I am not looking to be ‘trained’ I’m happy with my level of submission.
For a while there has been this thing that I’ve felt I have been missing from kink and it does have a lot of controversies against it which I can appreciate it, but as I have said with my little side I am done with being ashamed and hiding aspects of myself to please others.
I am a switch and whilst I do enjoy irl dominating others, I absolutely love being a *** (financial dominatrix).
I have been dabbling in and out of this for years and researching this.
So time to introduce my switch side to you guys, I am a soft ethical *** and love psychologically dominating men in a way that benefits me.
I am on other websites which you can message me about if you want to (This place prohibits against this which I respect) where I post mainly about my *** journey and *** content. For me Fet will always be for my submissive side and my switch side (without the financial bit). However of course if anyone is curious or interested then you can message me (in no way am I advertising this or pushing this onto anyone, and I am not using this account for ***, I’m just being honest about my own journey in kink). ❤️
I am in a monogamous relationship and I am happy in this relationship and I am NOT seeking anything else. I hope this is respected and I hope that any sexual comments or messages are refrained unless it’s just a general question or having a general conversation. If I deem the conversation or question or message to be anything but respectful to my partner I will either respond harshly (if I am bored) or I will simply ignore.
If you come into my messages saying anything along the lines of what you want to do to me without establishing that I’m an actual human being first of all and getting to know me then remove yourself or I will be nasty to you without any care and remove you myself and if you’re extra lucky and disgusting expose you myself, have a wonderful day.
If you also come into my comments expecting me to ignore my own message filters which are there to protect me and my interests all because you think you are a god and are entitled then you are very sadly mistaken, take a look at yourself and your behaviour and either correct it or move on and carry on with your sad life, okay thank you.
Ps I promise I’m a nice person, I’m just also a fed up person as well. Just treat me like a human being please, it’s shocking I have to repeat this several times in my own bio.
Just a quick warning I have scars on my body due to my mental health, if that is something that triggers you or disgust’s you then don’t message me or look at my pictures where they can potentially be seen.
I am 100% a sub through and through however I have switch tendencies I just don’t identify myself as a switch. When I do switch it’s mainly I play out my fantasies that I want to do to others and it’s a strict list which I’m only comfy doing to others which include:
-Bondage
-Mild to moderate impact play
-Orgasm control/***
-Mild to extreme ***/***
-Ass/Anal play
With this list I don’t alter it for just any stranger and I also don’t just ‘switch’ for any stranger
Again to make this very clear I not a dominant nor am I a switch so no I will not switch just for u and I will not agree to ever be anyone’s dominant and I am not experienced enough to add anything else onto that specific list those kinks I am experienced in giving safely to others.
I am more than happy to answer any questions on this just be respectful and not ***ful
Do not and I mean it DO NOT attempt to message me if you are not a Dom (u don’t have to be experienced to be a Dom btw). What I mean by this is if you just want a fuck or aren’t respectful then fuck off and do not flood my inbox because I won’t be nice in the slightest and that is your warning
I have every right if you slide into my inbox requesting things or asking questions that are within my limits which I clearly display on my profile at the very end to then not be respectful and nice- READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME if you want to avoid a non friendly message or a simple block from me.
In my opinion the psychological side is the most important aspect and for me to fully submit to u I need to trust u and build a connection and for u to earn that side of me otherwise no can do.
Respect is one thing I value. If I notice red flags or lack of respect then I won’t hesitate to let u know.
I don’t send pics or videos of me naked or doing sexual videos of touching myself so if u even attempt to ask don’t expect anything.
Don’t send me creepy message or demanding messages or don’t use honorific’s when u first message me otherwise I will just block u as there was no consent shared at all. Give me respect when messaging I’m sick of not getting respect. Manners and respect aren’t a turn off btw…
I will NOT take any clothing recommendations from anyone so what I decide to wear is what u get from me so if u don’t like that then don’t message me
If your goal or aim or fantasy is to make someone safeword then do not message me or interact with me. Personally I find it disturbing that anyone would want to get someone to safeword but hey just my opinion.
Don’t message me or interact with my profile if you’re transphobic, racist, sexist, homophobic, or just downright disrespectful.
LITTLE SIDE
(If u are not into the whole caregiving or little thing skip this part and don’t let it put u off)
IF YOU ARE A LITTLE AND WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS JUST GIVE ME A MESSAGE ALL GENDERS WELCOME! (just be around my age that’s all I ask)
I do have a little side which I ***ly switch into mostly from mental health issues I’m pretty protective over that side of me so I don’t discuss it unless I believe who ever asks is genuinely curious or interested or is a genuine non sexual daddy dom. (Yet again I don’t purposely switch into a little it’s an *** thing due to my mental health issues)
My little age is between 1-4 I’m a non verbal and mute little most of the time
When I do switch to little (again I can’t control this I am genuinely at a little age) I am FULLY dependent on someone else to help keep me safe as when I come back from being a little I don’t remember much about what happened hence why I have to trust the other person and build a very strong connection before I show that side to me.
For now I can hold back which isn’t healthy for me but also if I wasn’t to hold back it would be unsafe for me so either way it’s unhealthy.
When I’m little I do like:
Pacis
Teddies
Baby clothing
Colouring books
Baby toys
Cuddles
Praise
Affection/being cared for
Cute nicknames
Sippy cups
Things I have tried and don’t enjoy:
Diapers (I haven’t tried pull ups so I would try them)
Being dressed in skirts/dresses and specifically pink baby clothes or any type of over-sexualising ‘trendy’ baby clothes (because again I’m strictly a NON-SEXUAL LITTLE)
Being ***d to talk or ***d to come out of being a little (it will get me distressed and will psychologically harm me)
Being ignored and having my comfort things and things I like taken away from me (again it distresses me)
I’m usually a good behaved little with some tantrums which all that is needed is a stern warning and a talking to and if required non sexual soft spankings are fine if I’m still not listening then something is wrong mentally and I’m in distress which I then just need to be held and looked after and understood as again me being a little is not my choice it stems from trauma and my mental issues
Now yes I have detailed this which I have never done before but I think it’s time to end the shame with being a little I have shamed myself into thinking something is wrong with me for sometimes being a literal child and it has embarrassed me but I’m coming to terms with this is healthy and helping me heal my inner child and that it doesn’t make me less a person in fact it makes me strong and brave for being able to understand myself whilst I’m still young and new to this whole scene myself.
Anyways moving on..
END OF THE LITTLE PART
*VERY IMPORTANT*
I LOVE CUDDLES SO IF U DON’T LIKE CUDDLES THEN DO NOT MESSAGE ME THANK U… hehe I just need cuddles :)
Now I do realise that my profile makes me come across as a bitch but all I’m really asking for is just some respect and just be open minded not thick minded and get to know me before you decide to judge what type of person I am.
**Desires and Fantasies**
I am a very open minded person and willing to try new things as long as my hard limits and ur hard limits are avoided!
Few current fantasy ideas:
Edging and denial session (giving or receiving)
Sensual deprivation with wax play (receiving)
Primal play with *** play involved scene (receiving)
Rope bondage session (receiving)
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