Kinky women in Gloucestershire

Updated July 2026: Still looking for fun. Presently in a dynamic with a fantastic Sir. Exploring my puppy side and loving it. Would love to find other puppies to join us for walkies and more. Especially if female. I am Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me 💋 Looking for occasional meet ups, someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 to 30 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) I will be a very loyal sub if you’ll let me but trust must be earned first. Don’t expect me to call you master / mistress after just a few messages. I’ve been in the lifestyle since my twenties so safety checks are high on priorities. Not willing to show your face or give car registration when required then don’t bother. If you’ve read this far then thank you. I’m not as active on here as I used to be as now working 5 nights so less time to play but I will do my best to answer messages x

Hi! I'm looking to make friends and connections with like minded people. I am in a dynamic with Kalton, who takes care of me and I'm not looking to replace him. I am a submissive, not a Domme so please don't message me asking me to be your dominant or mummy. I enjoy going to munches and events, being part of the wider kink community. In my 'vanilla' life I am a divorced mum of a young child whom I co parent 50/50 with his dad. I enjoy being out in nature, seeing changing of the seasons. I'm very crafty and particularly enjoy crochet.

Brat, 40, allergic to idiots. Ghost, cats (7, don’t ask…), tattoos (37) and piercings (34, some hidden) — I collect the good things. If you don’t like the taste of metal we won’t get along… 😈 Hard limits are non-negotiable, so don’t test them. But if you can flirt, respect boundaries, and hold a conversation… you’ve got my attention. Griftwood on repeat, Fortnite is my chaos outlet and I will bite back. Bonus points if you know your Papas. Can often be found in the Lobby, lurking. Friend described me as “Charming, feral brat. Can be a very good girl. Probably in need of taming. Or something. Definitely in need of a Daddy. Loves DD/lg, praise, breeding and toys.” Not looking for anything other than a long term relationship… Nell 🖤 Ask for my socials.

I’m a 26 year old whose looking to explore more of a d/s dynamic, not looking for anything too much straight away and I would like to be able to chat and see how we get along and discuss anything further from here **Desires and Fantasies** Primal/Prey, Dom/Sub, impact play, ***

I am a 38yrs Submissive, I’ve been in the lifestyle for just under 6years. I can never say I stop learning as I love trying new things and always willing to give something new a chance. but I do have a few limits. My partner and I have decided to bring a woman into our bedroom either as a one off arrangement or for whenever we fancy it.

Submissive looking for an experienced Dom to help guide me back into the kink world after a long break. Starting as friends and building trust, have emotionally intelligent, be consistent, present, and honest.

i started my kink journey properly about December 2019 after joining fetlife at the suggestion of a couple of kinksters on a vanilla dating site . A bit about me i am a bit of a geek i like anime and such thinks im ideally looking for a longterm romantic partnership to explore my kinky side (i am open to poly( although im not interestedin being sexual with women in any shape of form)/enm) and as i am looking to settle down i should state i dont want kids. i also dont drive so i am not interested in people 100s of miles or hours away from me i dont think ldr or a virtual ones dont work for me as my top love languge is physical touch. I am currently in a dynamic with a a dom ( he is sadist) and have been in this dynamic for a while , ( started playing in person in January 21 after vetting since October 2020) I am keen to keep this dynamic but I am open to other dynamics/relationships (my dom is married happy for me to see others) . not looking for casual/one offs (they dont work for me as im demi), in fact would perfer to date and build to something serious and long-term ( ideally I want my own nesting/anchor partner) . I'm not a big fan of age gaps being with people 5+ years younger makes me feel like a child snatcher as your brain is only just finished cooking and I just don't see what I would have in common with some 15+ years my senior outside of a teacher/student setting. **Desires and Fantasies** i have a long held fantasy of being in a triad with 2 dominant bi men thanks to a now deleted YouTube role play series lol but I no stable/healthy triads/ thurples are rare so just being in a right princess in a dd/lg dynamic would be great too .

Super plus-size, sarcastic, mouthy and completely new to the kink world. 😏 I know that I’m submissive and that I’m looking for someone genuinely dominant, but beyond that I’m still figuring out exactly what I like. So ideally I’d like someone experienced, confident and patient enough to show me the ropes… pun absolutely intended. 😂 I’m naturally quite stubborn and I have a mouth on me, so apparently choosing submission while also being incapable of shutting up is the path I’ve chosen. Good luck. 😂 For me, dominance needs to come with trust. I’m attracted to someone who can take control and make me feel safe enough to actually let them, rather than someone who thinks calling themselves a Dom automatically gives them authority over me.

I've had limited experience. Mainly a few meet ups but nothing long term. id love a Dom play partner to get comfortable enough with that we really start to experiment. I'm always up for trying new things but definitely more comfortable in a submissive role. oh and I'm fat. working on that at the gym and if that's not your thing that's fine. I'd just rather be upfront about it.

Somewhat new to this. Looking to be shown the future. Nervous to get started but excited for what could happen. Much more a sub than a dom. Who is ready to educate me. Slightly bigger lady looking for a sexy dom for education

Hey you! I’m Rosie, your friendly neighbourhood introvert with a sparkling wit! Sometimes a little quiet, but give me the right person and it’s like fireworks at a music festival! I’m a single mum rediscovering the dating scene after a five-year hiatus - ready to create new memories with someone who loves a good laugh as much as I do. I adore long walks and turning everyday moments into creative masterpieces. If you're into witty banter, spontaneous music sessions, and a dose of cheekiness, come say hi! I've always been into slightly kinky things but want to explore that side of me more. I love power play with the guy taking the control. I'm mostly a "good girl" who's dirty minded and a little cheeky 😜. Curious mind, creative heart, and a bratty streak I won’t deny. I'm looking for someone sharp, respectful, and fun to explore dynamics with online first. Once I feel comfortable, then maybe we'll see what happens next. Good vibes, good chat, and good control go a long way. If you’re not fluent in aftercare, keep scrolling. Likes: banter that bites rules I pretend to hate simmering tension whispered instructions power exchange teasing and denial brat/Brat tamer control (being taken) edging - I'm still learning this one. sensation play nipple play Oral Sex - on both sides praise and gentle correction D/s with emotional depth double stimulation/toy stacking aftercare & intimacy

looking for a regular dom with experience and soft tendencies , I like to be spoken to nicely and treated like a princess as well as being punished and treated like a slut when I act like a brat. Looking to explore my switch side with women and also looking for kink friends especially women to be able to chat and go to meets together I enjoy having an emotional connection as well and I need that and trust before I meet let alone anything else. I'm not here to just send nudes online. *** play, wax, knife play, breath play, bondage are my faves! also a lover of someone spitting in my face and mouth! call me a good girl I love my praise, love tattoos and piercings, NO complete beginners I am not interested in feet and age play is on the line I won't be acting like a child for someone's pleasure. I'm more than happy to call you daddy though ;p love breeding interested in exploring shibari more

Hi I am Melissa. I am 20 years old. I am interested in exploring the idea of a dominant and submissive relationship, where I am the submissive and I have a dominant partner to guide me and control me through sexual activities but also through a relationship aswell. I am a kept to myself person. I have a dog. I am loving, caring and respectful. I would prefer nights in on the sofa watching movies or long drives as I am a petrol head over going out clubbing. I have a beginner interest for modifying cars and am slowing increasing my knowledge day by day. I love tattoos and am wanting more. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do ***, I don’t like the idea of clubbing but I do vape to calm my anxiety in public. I suffer with anxiety, IBS and undiagnosed ADHD.

Important note: I am not currently looking for/exploring connections. I just don't want to delete my profile yet. I need to take some timeout. I am also on Fetlife where I have more indepth writings ✍️ My username is Sovareth 😊 I'm relatively new to the lifestyle and still finding my feet, learning more about myself and discovering where I fit. I strongly identify with the submissive/slave side of submission, although I'm still exploring what that means for me, particularly within a genuine D/s relationship. I'm also discovering my masochistic side along the way. My main interests include impact play, particularly spanking and whipping, as well as bondage and restraint, although there are quite a few others listed in my fetishes. I'm a single Mum, Christian, tall (5ft 10), a big girl (150kg — although I'm working on changing that) with a love of reading, music and the great outdoors. I value meaningful and intelligent conversations just as much as some lighthearted fun. I'm a strong and independent woman, although I can be a little quiet to begin with. There are a lot of layers to me, and I don't necessarily show all of them straight away. Getting to know me properly takes time, patience and genuine connection. Relationship/Dynamic - I am strictly monogamous. - I'm looking for my person — a genuine relationship alongside the D/s dynamic. - I'm looking for a D/s dynamic initially, with the possibility of eventually developing into M/s if that feels right for both of us. - I want that dynamic to grow from friendship, attraction, trust, emotional intimacy and a deep connection, rather than being rushed - I am NOT looking for an online relationship. Submission isn't about weakness for me. It's about being strong enough to consciously choose to surrender something incredibly precious to someone I trust deeply. I'm looking for a man who is a Dom at his core, rather than someone simply playing a role. Someone naturally confident, protective and decisive, but also emotionally intelligent, self-aware and emotionally available. Honesty, kindness, integrity, loyalty, respect and accountability matter enormously to me. I want a man whose words and actions match; someone who communicates openly, takes responsibility when he's wrong, treats people with respect and brings the time, energy, consistency and commitment needed to build an actual relationship. I want a man whose Dominance makes me feel safe enough to surrender, rather than small enough to obey. Someone whose strength is reassuring, whose tenderness makes me feel loved and whose presence makes me feel that I can finally let my guard down. I'm attracted to that natural, quiet Dominance — the things that don't necessarily need explaining. A look that says “mine”, a firm hand, the way he carries himself, his voice, a hand around my neck as he kisses me. I want to feel his Dominance without him having to perform it. His protection makes me feel safer, not smaller; his possessiveness makes me feel cherished, not controlled. In my 40 years, not one person has known me in my entirety. I have so many layers. To eventually feel safe enough and secure enough to surrender my mind, body, heart and soul fully would be quite something for me — and quite a responsibility for the man I entrust it to. I don't expect that trust instantly. I want it earned. I want someone with the patience, care and endurance to get to know me properly, learn me, understand my boundaries and guide me as I grow into my submission. I want a relationship where the deeper the trust becomes, the deeper the submission can become. And I want to be that woman for him too. I want to be someone he can trust, rely on and be *** with; someone who makes him feel wanted, respected and appreciated. I want to serve him because I love him, submit because I trust him, and ultimately belong to him because I have chosen him. Character is far more important to me than physical traits, but I won't pretend I don't have a type. I tend to be particularly submissive to men who happen to be over 6'2", bearded and tattooed. Add a deep voice and a strong build and I'm probably going to struggle to behave. 😉 I respect everyone's choices, but I am not looking for online-only relationships, threesomes, polyamory, hookups, casual play partners (particularly those already in open relationships), or exhibitionists/porn. I'm also unlikely to continue conversations that are purely sexual in nature. While I understand that compatibility matters from both a D/s and vanilla perspective, I want to get to know the man before I get lost in the Dominant. Photos/Privacy I won't be posting identifiable photos of myself on this platform. I do have a private gallery for limited viewing. I definitely will not be posting/sending any explicit photos. Messages Please only message if you intend to have a normal conversation

New on here and to experiencing the world of kink.. always wanted to deep dive and explore but never had anyone willing or knew where to start by myself. - Naturally dominant, tall, sassy and sarcastic but would like to experience sub. Yet to find someone on my par that can make that happen. Beneficial and mutual switch partner is the goal. - Here to talk, explore and delve into all aspects. May ask stupid questions but willing and wanting to learn. Honesty, communication and respect is a requirement. Pleasure is your reward. -

I am 26 year old plus size women. I am from Gloucestershire. I like reading( smut), walks. Best way to get me reply send me a paragraph of things you like Helps me to now if I think we have the same interest ;) (smut if brave enough) Also, looking for someone in the Uk. I am not into online relationships.

I am in a monogamous relationship so I’m not looking for anything or anyone else. I am on here to stay in touch within this community in a completely friendly way not sexual. I’m mainly a bratty sub and no this won’t change for just anyone. I am not looking to be ‘trained’ I’m happy with my level of submission. For a while there has been this thing that I’ve felt I have been missing from kink and it does have a lot of controversies against it which I can appreciate it, but as I have said with my little side I am done with being ashamed and hiding aspects of myself to please others. I am a switch and whilst I do enjoy irl dominating others, I absolutely love being a *** (financial dominatrix). I have been dabbling in and out of this for years and researching this. So time to introduce my switch side to you guys, I am a soft ethical *** and love psychologically dominating men in a way that benefits me. I am on other websites which you can message me about if you want to (This place prohibits against this which I respect) where I post mainly about my *** journey and *** content. For me Fet will always be for my submissive side and my switch side (without the financial bit). However of course if anyone is curious or interested then you can message me (in no way am I advertising this or pushing this onto anyone, and I am not using this account for ***, I’m just being honest about my own journey in kink). ❤️ I am in a monogamous relationship and I am happy in this relationship and I am NOT seeking anything else. I hope this is respected and I hope that any sexual comments or messages are refrained unless it’s just a general question or having a general conversation. If I deem the conversation or question or message to be anything but respectful to my partner I will either respond harshly (if I am bored) or I will simply ignore. If you come into my messages saying anything along the lines of what you want to do to me without establishing that I’m an actual human being first of all and getting to know me then remove yourself or I will be nasty to you without any care and remove you myself and if you’re extra lucky and disgusting expose you myself, have a wonderful day. If you also come into my comments expecting me to ignore my own message filters which are there to protect me and my interests all because you think you are a god and are entitled then you are very sadly mistaken, take a look at yourself and your behaviour and either correct it or move on and carry on with your sad life, okay thank you. Ps I promise I’m a nice person, I’m just also a fed up person as well. Just treat me like a human being please, it’s shocking I have to repeat this several times in my own bio. Just a quick warning I have scars on my body due to my mental health, if that is something that triggers you or disgust’s you then don’t message me or look at my pictures where they can potentially be seen. I am 100% a sub through and through however I have switch tendencies I just don’t identify myself as a switch. When I do switch it’s mainly I play out my fantasies that I want to do to others and it’s a strict list which I’m only comfy doing to others which include: -Bondage -Mild to moderate impact play -Orgasm control/*** -Mild to extreme ***/*** -Ass/Anal play With this list I don’t alter it for just any stranger and I also don’t just ‘switch’ for any stranger Again to make this very clear I not a dominant nor am I a switch so no I will not switch just for u and I will not agree to ever be anyone’s dominant and I am not experienced enough to add anything else onto that specific list those kinks I am experienced in giving safely to others. I am more than happy to answer any questions on this just be respectful and not ***ful Do not and I mean it DO NOT attempt to message me if you are not a Dom (u don’t have to be experienced to be a Dom btw). What I mean by this is if you just want a fuck or aren’t respectful then fuck off and do not flood my inbox because I won’t be nice in the slightest and that is your warning I have every right if you slide into my inbox requesting things or asking questions that are within my limits which I clearly display on my profile at the very end to then not be respectful and nice- READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME if you want to avoid a non friendly message or a simple block from me. In my opinion the psychological side is the most important aspect and for me to fully submit to u I need to trust u and build a connection and for u to earn that side of me otherwise no can do. Respect is one thing I value. If I notice red flags or lack of respect then I won’t hesitate to let u know. I don’t send pics or videos of me naked or doing sexual videos of touching myself so if u even attempt to ask don’t expect anything. Don’t send me creepy message or demanding messages or don’t use honorific’s when u first message me otherwise I will just block u as there was no consent shared at all. Give me respect when messaging I’m sick of not getting respect. Manners and respect aren’t a turn off btw… I will NOT take any clothing recommendations from anyone so what I decide to wear is what u get from me so if u don’t like that then don’t message me If your goal or aim or fantasy is to make someone safeword then do not message me or interact with me. Personally I find it disturbing that anyone would want to get someone to safeword but hey just my opinion. Don’t message me or interact with my profile if you’re transphobic, racist, sexist, homophobic, or just downright disrespectful. LITTLE SIDE (If u are not into the whole caregiving or little thing skip this part and don’t let it put u off) IF YOU ARE A LITTLE AND WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS JUST GIVE ME A MESSAGE ALL GENDERS WELCOME! (just be around my age that’s all I ask) I do have a little side which I ***ly switch into mostly from mental health issues I’m pretty protective over that side of me so I don’t discuss it unless I believe who ever asks is genuinely curious or interested or is a genuine non sexual daddy dom. (Yet again I don’t purposely switch into a little it’s an *** thing due to my mental health issues) My little age is between 1-4 I’m a non verbal and mute little most of the time When I do switch to little (again I can’t control this I am genuinely at a little age) I am FULLY dependent on someone else to help keep me safe as when I come back from being a little I don’t remember much about what happened hence why I have to trust the other person and build a very strong connection before I show that side to me. For now I can hold back which isn’t healthy for me but also if I wasn’t to hold back it would be unsafe for me so either way it’s unhealthy. When I’m little I do like: Pacis Teddies Baby clothing Colouring books Baby toys Cuddles Praise Affection/being cared for Cute nicknames Sippy cups Things I have tried and don’t enjoy: Diapers (I haven’t tried pull ups so I would try them) Being dressed in skirts/dresses and specifically pink baby clothes or any type of over-sexualising ‘trendy’ baby clothes (because again I’m strictly a NON-SEXUAL LITTLE) Being ***d to talk or ***d to come out of being a little (it will get me distressed and will psychologically harm me) Being ignored and having my comfort things and things I like taken away from me (again it distresses me) I’m usually a good behaved little with some tantrums which all that is needed is a stern warning and a talking to and if required non sexual soft spankings are fine if I’m still not listening then something is wrong mentally and I’m in distress which I then just need to be held and looked after and understood as again me being a little is not my choice it stems from trauma and my mental issues Now yes I have detailed this which I have never done before but I think it’s time to end the shame with being a little I have shamed myself into thinking something is wrong with me for sometimes being a literal child and it has embarrassed me but I’m coming to terms with this is healthy and helping me heal my inner child and that it doesn’t make me less a person in fact it makes me strong and brave for being able to understand myself whilst I’m still young and new to this whole scene myself. Anyways moving on.. END OF THE LITTLE PART *VERY IMPORTANT* I LOVE CUDDLES SO IF U DON’T LIKE CUDDLES THEN DO NOT MESSAGE ME THANK U… hehe I just need cuddles :) Now I do realise that my profile makes me come across as a bitch but all I’m really asking for is just some respect and just be open minded not thick minded and get to know me before you decide to judge what type of person I am. **Desires and Fantasies** I am a very open minded person and willing to try new things as long as my hard limits and ur hard limits are avoided! Few current fantasy ideas: Edging and denial session (giving or receiving) Sensual deprivation with wax play (receiving) Primal play with *** play involved scene (receiving) Rope bondage session (receiving)

Very submissive woman in person, love to serve, please and obey. In a dream world I would die to be someone's personal slave for them to use and *** me however they please. From the age of 16 I have had a lot of experience in kinky Dom/Sub situations and couldn't get enough of it... the past few few years have been fairly vanilla so now I'm truly craving to find someone who can take advantage and break me back into being a perfect slave for someone quite a bit older than me. Loves/Desires: gags harnesses rope cuffs cages spreader bars whips floggers plugs hoods blindfolds cnc restrained outdoors (wooded areas/fields) petplay Daddy daughter scenarios edging Want to try: Anal clamps DP

if ur gonna block me after a day, don’t even pop up to me i don’t want to deal with it

Ultimately, I’m looking for a genuine D/s dynamic with a long-term relationship wrapped around it. My preference leans more toward a Daddy-type Dom — and not just behind closed doors. I’m drawn to structure, trust, guidance, consistency, and earned control woven into everyday life. But equally important to me are the softer sides: protection, affection, patience, reassurance, and genuine care. I can be bratty, stubborn, and challenging in all the best ways. My submission isn’t automatic — it’s something built, earned, and strengthened through trust, effort, and connection. I carry some past experiences that have shaped me, so I value emotional maturity, communication, and someone willing to build something real rather than expecting perfection from day one. I’m not looking for casual fun, games, or temporary entertainment. I’m serious about what I want, and I’m hoping to find someone equally intentional. Outside of kink? I’m a mum of two — my *** are with me during the week and with their dad on weekends. Dirty, nerdy, inked, curvy… and probably plotting mild chaos.

If you don't have pics yourself, don't ask for mine. Don't send me dick pics... and don't ask for pssy pics. You'll get pics if I see fit to send them. I don't use Snap, so don't ask for it.

chubby tattooed fading rocker looking for a tall bearded Viking identify as Demisexual I've only been an active sub for a couple of years ,still learning what my limits are and how submissive I am , I have discovered I'm into mild *** and getting tied up also have ADHD so my attention can wander . looking for someone who is willing to spend time and patience on me , I still get a little overwhelmed and unsure at times so looking for someone who's understanding and willing to forgive mistakes personal preference over 40's , not looking for anything casual but would consider a one on one FWb

Bratty sub, looking for someone to play rough and completely dominate and use me. Happy to meet people of all genders and couples. Not here to endless chat or get into cybersex, and I won’t message back if I’m not interested in your photos. Sorry if this seems harsh but trying to be honest. I’m a curvy girl so if that’s not you’re thing please move on. Also like people I speak to to be able to hold a decent conversation, if you message “hey babe how r u” you won’t get a reply. **Desires and Fantasies** Would love to dip my toe into a bit of CNC and vampire role play. I love to be used and want to explore this more with the right people.

shy , bratty submissive girl, always been in vanilla relationships, wanting to explore more 🤭☺️ I’m not going to talk if you want just quick cyber fun, or just to trade pictures. I’m very open minded, want to try all the things i possibly can except the obvious limits.. I have barely any experience with women but it’s one of the things I want to experience I will not meet after talking for seconds, not here for a one time thing. I am definitely not here for cyber fun, I will decline my private album to people who only speak for seconds, if you want a one night stand, go on tinder, respectfully ☺️ found out I’m a little and really would love an older man to explore this with (explains the daddy issues🤭🤭) I am not interested in one night stands, that’s what tinder is for 🙄

Updated July 2026: Still looking for fun. Presently in a dynamic with a fantastic Sir. Exploring my puppy side and loving it. Would love to find other puppies to join us for walkies and more. Especially if female. I am Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me 💋 Looking for occasional meet ups, someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 to 30 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) I will be a very loyal sub if you’ll let me but trust must be earned first. Don’t expect me to call you master / mistress after just a few messages. I’ve been in the lifestyle since my twenties so safety checks are high on priorities. Not willing to show your face or give car registration when required then don’t bother. If you’ve read this far then thank you. I’m not as active on here as I used to be as now working 5 nights so less time to play but I will do my best to answer messages x

Super plus-size, sarcastic, mouthy and completely new to the kink world. 😏 I know that I’m submissive and that I’m looking for someone genuinely dominant, but beyond that I’m still figuring out exactly what I like. So ideally I’d like someone experienced, confident and patient enough to show me the ropes… pun absolutely intended. 😂 I’m naturally quite stubborn and I have a mouth on me, so apparently choosing submission while also being incapable of shutting up is the path I’ve chosen. Good luck. 😂 For me, dominance needs to come with trust. I’m attracted to someone who can take control and make me feel safe enough to actually let them, rather than someone who thinks calling themselves a Dom automatically gives them authority over me.

Submissive looking for an experienced Dom to help guide me back into the kink world after a long break. Starting as friends and building trust, have emotionally intelligent, be consistent, present, and honest.

Hi! I'm looking to make friends and connections with like minded people. I am in a dynamic with Kalton, who takes care of me and I'm not looking to replace him. I am a submissive, not a Domme so please don't message me asking me to be your dominant or mummy. I enjoy going to munches and events, being part of the wider kink community. In my 'vanilla' life I am a divorced mum of a young child whom I co parent 50/50 with his dad. I enjoy being out in nature, seeing changing of the seasons. I'm very crafty and particularly enjoy crochet.

Hi I am Melissa. I am 20 years old. I am interested in exploring the idea of a dominant and submissive relationship, where I am the submissive and I have a dominant partner to guide me and control me through sexual activities but also through a relationship aswell. I am a kept to myself person. I have a dog. I am loving, caring and respectful. I would prefer nights in on the sofa watching movies or long drives as I am a petrol head over going out clubbing. I have a beginner interest for modifying cars and am slowing increasing my knowledge day by day. I love tattoos and am wanting more. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do ***, I don’t like the idea of clubbing but I do vape to calm my anxiety in public. I suffer with anxiety, IBS and undiagnosed ADHD.

Hey you! I’m Rosie, your friendly neighbourhood introvert with a sparkling wit! Sometimes a little quiet, but give me the right person and it’s like fireworks at a music festival! I’m a single mum rediscovering the dating scene after a five-year hiatus - ready to create new memories with someone who loves a good laugh as much as I do. I adore long walks and turning everyday moments into creative masterpieces. If you're into witty banter, spontaneous music sessions, and a dose of cheekiness, come say hi! I've always been into slightly kinky things but want to explore that side of me more. I love power play with the guy taking the control. I'm mostly a "good girl" who's dirty minded and a little cheeky 😜. Curious mind, creative heart, and a bratty streak I won’t deny. I'm looking for someone sharp, respectful, and fun to explore dynamics with online first. Once I feel comfortable, then maybe we'll see what happens next. Good vibes, good chat, and good control go a long way. If you’re not fluent in aftercare, keep scrolling. Likes: banter that bites rules I pretend to hate simmering tension whispered instructions power exchange teasing and denial brat/Brat tamer control (being taken) edging - I'm still learning this one. sensation play nipple play Oral Sex - on both sides praise and gentle correction D/s with emotional depth double stimulation/toy stacking aftercare & intimacy

Somewhat new to this. Looking to be shown the future. Nervous to get started but excited for what could happen. Much more a sub than a dom. Who is ready to educate me. Slightly bigger lady looking for a sexy dom for education

I am a 38yrs Submissive, I’ve been in the lifestyle for just under 6years. I can never say I stop learning as I love trying new things and always willing to give something new a chance. but I do have a few limits. My partner and I have decided to bring a woman into our bedroom either as a one off arrangement or for whenever we fancy it.

Brat, 40, allergic to idiots. Ghost, cats (7, don’t ask…), tattoos (37) and piercings (34, some hidden) — I collect the good things. If you don’t like the taste of metal we won’t get along… 😈 Hard limits are non-negotiable, so don’t test them. But if you can flirt, respect boundaries, and hold a conversation… you’ve got my attention. Griftwood on repeat, Fortnite is my chaos outlet and I will bite back. Bonus points if you know your Papas. Can often be found in the Lobby, lurking. Friend described me as “Charming, feral brat. Can be a very good girl. Probably in need of taming. Or something. Definitely in need of a Daddy. Loves DD/lg, praise, breeding and toys.” Not looking for anything other than a long term relationship… Nell 🖤 Ask for my socials.

looking for a regular dom with experience and soft tendencies , I like to be spoken to nicely and treated like a princess as well as being punished and treated like a slut when I act like a brat. Looking to explore my switch side with women and also looking for kink friends especially women to be able to chat and go to meets together I enjoy having an emotional connection as well and I need that and trust before I meet let alone anything else. I'm not here to just send nudes online. *** play, wax, knife play, breath play, bondage are my faves! also a lover of someone spitting in my face and mouth! call me a good girl I love my praise, love tattoos and piercings, NO complete beginners I am not interested in feet and age play is on the line I won't be acting like a child for someone's pleasure. I'm more than happy to call you daddy though ;p love breeding interested in exploring shibari more

I’m a 26 year old whose looking to explore more of a d/s dynamic, not looking for anything too much straight away and I would like to be able to chat and see how we get along and discuss anything further from here **Desires and Fantasies** Primal/Prey, Dom/Sub, impact play, ***

I've had limited experience. Mainly a few meet ups but nothing long term. id love a Dom play partner to get comfortable enough with that we really start to experiment. I'm always up for trying new things but definitely more comfortable in a submissive role. oh and I'm fat. working on that at the gym and if that's not your thing that's fine. I'd just rather be upfront about it.

i started my kink journey properly about December 2019 after joining fetlife at the suggestion of a couple of kinksters on a vanilla dating site . A bit about me i am a bit of a geek i like anime and such thinks im ideally looking for a longterm romantic partnership to explore my kinky side (i am open to poly( although im not interestedin being sexual with women in any shape of form)/enm) and as i am looking to settle down i should state i dont want kids. i also dont drive so i am not interested in people 100s of miles or hours away from me i dont think ldr or a virtual ones dont work for me as my top love languge is physical touch. I am currently in a dynamic with a a dom ( he is sadist) and have been in this dynamic for a while , ( started playing in person in January 21 after vetting since October 2020) I am keen to keep this dynamic but I am open to other dynamics/relationships (my dom is married happy for me to see others) . not looking for casual/one offs (they dont work for me as im demi), in fact would perfer to date and build to something serious and long-term ( ideally I want my own nesting/anchor partner) . I'm not a big fan of age gaps being with people 5+ years younger makes me feel like a child snatcher as your brain is only just finished cooking and I just don't see what I would have in common with some 15+ years my senior outside of a teacher/student setting. **Desires and Fantasies** i have a long held fantasy of being in a triad with 2 dominant bi men thanks to a now deleted YouTube role play series lol but I no stable/healthy triads/ thurples are rare so just being in a right princess in a dd/lg dynamic would be great too .

Important note: I am not currently looking for/exploring connections. I just don't want to delete my profile yet. I need to take some timeout. I am also on Fetlife where I have more indepth writings ✍️ My username is Sovareth 😊 I'm relatively new to the lifestyle and still finding my feet, learning more about myself and discovering where I fit. I strongly identify with the submissive/slave side of submission, although I'm still exploring what that means for me, particularly within a genuine D/s relationship. I'm also discovering my masochistic side along the way. My main interests include impact play, particularly spanking and whipping, as well as bondage and restraint, although there are quite a few others listed in my fetishes. I'm a single Mum, Christian, tall (5ft 10), a big girl (150kg — although I'm working on changing that) with a love of reading, music and the great outdoors. I value meaningful and intelligent conversations just as much as some lighthearted fun. I'm a strong and independent woman, although I can be a little quiet to begin with. There are a lot of layers to me, and I don't necessarily show all of them straight away. Getting to know me properly takes time, patience and genuine connection. Relationship/Dynamic - I am strictly monogamous. - I'm looking for my person — a genuine relationship alongside the D/s dynamic. - I'm looking for a D/s dynamic initially, with the possibility of eventually developing into M/s if that feels right for both of us. - I want that dynamic to grow from friendship, attraction, trust, emotional intimacy and a deep connection, rather than being rushed - I am NOT looking for an online relationship. Submission isn't about weakness for me. It's about being strong enough to consciously choose to surrender something incredibly precious to someone I trust deeply. I'm looking for a man who is a Dom at his core, rather than someone simply playing a role. Someone naturally confident, protective and decisive, but also emotionally intelligent, self-aware and emotionally available. Honesty, kindness, integrity, loyalty, respect and accountability matter enormously to me. I want a man whose words and actions match; someone who communicates openly, takes responsibility when he's wrong, treats people with respect and brings the time, energy, consistency and commitment needed to build an actual relationship. I want a man whose Dominance makes me feel safe enough to surrender, rather than small enough to obey. Someone whose strength is reassuring, whose tenderness makes me feel loved and whose presence makes me feel that I can finally let my guard down. I'm attracted to that natural, quiet Dominance — the things that don't necessarily need explaining. A look that says “mine”, a firm hand, the way he carries himself, his voice, a hand around my neck as he kisses me. I want to feel his Dominance without him having to perform it. His protection makes me feel safer, not smaller; his possessiveness makes me feel cherished, not controlled. In my 40 years, not one person has known me in my entirety. I have so many layers. To eventually feel safe enough and secure enough to surrender my mind, body, heart and soul fully would be quite something for me — and quite a responsibility for the man I entrust it to. I don't expect that trust instantly. I want it earned. I want someone with the patience, care and endurance to get to know me properly, learn me, understand my boundaries and guide me as I grow into my submission. I want a relationship where the deeper the trust becomes, the deeper the submission can become. And I want to be that woman for him too. I want to be someone he can trust, rely on and be *** with; someone who makes him feel wanted, respected and appreciated. I want to serve him because I love him, submit because I trust him, and ultimately belong to him because I have chosen him. Character is far more important to me than physical traits, but I won't pretend I don't have a type. I tend to be particularly submissive to men who happen to be over 6'2", bearded and tattooed. Add a deep voice and a strong build and I'm probably going to struggle to behave. 😉 I respect everyone's choices, but I am not looking for online-only relationships, threesomes, polyamory, hookups, casual play partners (particularly those already in open relationships), or exhibitionists/porn. I'm also unlikely to continue conversations that are purely sexual in nature. While I understand that compatibility matters from both a D/s and vanilla perspective, I want to get to know the man before I get lost in the Dominant. Photos/Privacy I won't be posting identifiable photos of myself on this platform. I do have a private gallery for limited viewing. I definitely will not be posting/sending any explicit photos. Messages Please only message if you intend to have a normal conversation

Looking for someone who’s genuinely kinky and curious about exploring together. I value emotional maturity, honesty, and mutual respect—communication and consent aren’t just buzzwords to me, they’re the foundation of everything. I’m attracted to people who know what they want but are open to discovering new things. Open to something that could develop into a real, lasting connection if the chemistry and trust are there.

New on here and to experiencing the world of kink.. always wanted to deep dive and explore but never had anyone willing or knew where to start by myself. - Naturally dominant, tall, sassy and sarcastic but would like to experience sub. Yet to find someone on my par that can make that happen. Beneficial and mutual switch partner is the goal. - Here to talk, explore and delve into all aspects. May ask stupid questions but willing and wanting to learn. Honesty, communication and respect is a requirement. Pleasure is your reward. -

Very submissive woman in person, love to serve, please and obey. In a dream world I would die to be someone's personal slave for them to use and *** me however they please. From the age of 16 I have had a lot of experience in kinky Dom/Sub situations and couldn't get enough of it... the past few few years have been fairly vanilla so now I'm truly craving to find someone who can take advantage and break me back into being a perfect slave for someone quite a bit older than me. Loves/Desires: gags harnesses rope cuffs cages spreader bars whips floggers plugs hoods blindfolds cnc restrained outdoors (wooded areas/fields) petplay Daddy daughter scenarios edging Want to try: Anal clamps DP

BRISTOL/CARDIFF/BATH PEOPLE ONLY - UNABLE TO TRAVEL FURTHER Shy. nerdy. VERY demi-sexual ,wishing to explore her submissive side with a patient, understanding and thoughtful (Caregiver) Dom who is experienced, firm ,yet has a soft side; makes me feel safe, secure, able to trust and give. Not after TPE, perhaps leaning towards TiH or DD , not up for living the lifestyle, just behind closed doors to enjoy and explore a D/s dynamic with the right person. POLITE NOTICE: If you do not understand what demi sexual means, please don't bother waste our time, move on. Not here for casual encounters, one night stands, try before you buy, being your slave or sexting. If chatting goes well we MAY arrange to meet in a safe, public meeting place to confirm things, this does not mean I am yours, agreeing to anything other than a safe meet. You won't expect/ask anything of me before we've met - if you do this, you will get blocked; read my profile and general info carefully, I've tried to be as clear as I can with my tags . I will repeat, I will need to meet in person before proceeding further - this is really important, being demi I like to see if there's a vibe before getting asked too many questions. Outside in the world, I'm a nerd - big into D&D (I'm in 3...yes 3...campaigns atm), board games, musical theatre and Shakespeare (would love to read aloud for you), nights in over clubbing and all that jazz and love the water.

I am shy, can be awkward getting to know people & occasionally miss cues of interest. Thrives off of being a chaos goblin.

Casual but I'd like to be friends/comfortable. Don't be weird or possessive. Not looking for love. Don't freak out if I don't reply, I am a grown woman with a busy life. Switch & vers (strap included), mainly sub. Mistress/Domme, pet/puppy/brat (looking to explore more.) Praise only. Be respectful. Looking to be treated like a princess. Feel free to send a voice note. x

Looking for dominant men, woman, or couples who can dish out a punishment or two and keep my attitude in check… Enjoy impact play, hair pulling, rough sex, bondage, anal, oral and more

Please respect my age range of 25-50. if you are outside of this i will not respond. Men - I want an online good boy to praise and degrade who wants to please me. Women/trans/NB - you can hit me up for whatever you like!

I’m naturally quite soft and feminine, and I’m drawn to a grounded, respectful man who enjoys taking the lead… the kind who makes me feel safe enough to relax into that side of myself. I really value intimacy, trust, and affection, and I’m someone who appreciates open communication and exploring boundaries in a way that feels mutual and secure ✨

If you don't have pics yourself, don't ask for mine. Don't send me dick pics... and don't ask for pssy pics. You'll get pics if I see fit to send them. I don't use Snap, so don't ask for it.