Kinky women in Cheltenham

New here so still filling things out. Looking for a connection with someone for now, want to take things at my s***d, I travel quite a lot so someone to text regularly would be nice I don’t respond to low effort or demanding DMs, please be nice :)

Hi! I'm looking to make friends and connections with like minded people. I am in a dynamic with Kalton, who takes care of me and I'm not looking to replace him. I am a submissive, not a Domme so please don't message me asking me to be your dominant or mummy. I enjoy going to munches and events, being part of the wider kink community. In my 'vanilla' life I am a divorced mum of a young child whom I co parent 50/50 with his dad. I enjoy being out in nature, seeing changing of the seasons. I'm very crafty and particularly enjoy crochet.

Hi I am Melissa. I am 20 years old. I am interested in exploring the idea of a dominant and submissive relationship, where I am the submissive and I have a dominant partner to guide me and control me through sexual activities but also through a relationship aswell. I am a kept to myself person. I have a dog. I am loving, caring and respectful. I would prefer nights in on the sofa watching movies or long drives as I am a petrol head over going out clubbing. I have a beginner interest for modifying cars and am slowing increasing my knowledge day by day. I love tattoos and am wanting more. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do ***, I don’t like the idea of clubbing but I do vape to calm my anxiety in public. I suffer with anxiety, IBS and undiagnosed ADHD.

looking for a regular dom with experience and soft tendencies , I like to be spoken to nicely and treated like a princess as well as being punished and treated like a slut when I act like a brat. Looking to explore my switch side with women and also looking for kink friends especially women to be able to chat and go to meets together I enjoy having an emotional connection as well and I need that and trust before I meet let alone anything else. I'm not here to just send nudes online. *** play, wax, knife play, breath play, bondage are my faves! also a lover of someone spitting in my face and mouth! call me a good girl I love my praise, love tattoos and piercings, NO complete beginners I am not interested in feet and age play is on the line I won't be acting like a child for someone's pleasure. I'm more than happy to call you daddy though ;p love breeding interested in exploring shibari more

I'm still relatively new to the lifestyle, but I am developing a strong understanding of my submissive/slave identity and what I'm looking for in both a relationship and a D/s dynamic. I'm also continuing to explore and embrace my masochistic side. It's mainly an escape for me, a place where my mind can go quiet but I do also have a deep desire to surrender and serve. I'm a single mum, neurodivergent, Christian, tall (5ft 10) and a big girl (150kg — although I'm working on becoming healthier), with a love of reading, music and the great outdoors. I value meaningful, intelligent conversations just as much as some lighthearted fun. I'm a strong and independent woman, although I can be a little quiet to begin with. There are a lot of layers to me, and I don't necessarily show all of them straight away. Getting to know me properly takes time, patience and genuine connection. I'm monogamous, intentional about dating and looking for my person. I'm demisexual, so friendship, emotional intimacy and an intellectual connection are essential to me. Attraction develops through getting to know someone. I have no interest in rushing intimacy or handing over authority before that foundation exists. I'm not looking for D/s alone, nor do I want a relationship where D/s exists as something separate. I want a loving, committed relationship where D/s is naturally intertwined with the love, trust, affection and intimacy we share. I'm looking to develop a genuine D/s relationship that grows naturally from friendship, attraction, trust and emotional intimacy, with the possibility of exploring M/s as our connection deepens. I'm looking for a man who is a Dom (not a switch) at his core, rather than someone simply playing a role. Someone naturally confident, protective and decisive, but also emotionally intelligent, self-aware and emotionally available. Honesty, kindness, integrity, loyalty, respect and accountability matter enormously to me. I want a man whose words and actions match; someone who communicates openly, takes responsibility when he's wrong, treats people with respect and brings the time, energy, consistency and commitment needed to build a genuine relationship. I want a man whose Dominance makes me feel safe enough to surrender. Someone whose strength is reassuring, whose tenderness makes me feel loved and whose presence makes me feel that I can finally let my guard down. I'm attracted to that natural, quiet Dominance — the things that don't necessarily need explaining. A look that says "mine", a firm hand, the way he carries himself, his voice, a hand around my neck as he kisses me. I want to feel his Dominance without him having to perform it. His protection makes me feel safer, not smaller; his possessiveness makes me feel cherished, not controlled. Submission isn't about weakness for me. It's about being strong enough to consciously choose to surrender something incredibly precious to someone I trust deeply. In my 40 years, not one person has known me in my entirety. I have so many layers. To eventually feel safe enough and secure enough to surrender my mind, body, heart and soul fully would be quite something for me — and quite a responsibility for the man I entrust it to. I don't expect that trust instantly. I want it earned. I want someone with the patience, care and commitment to get to know me properly, learn me, understand my boundaries and guide me as I grow into my submission. I want a relationship where the deeper the trust becomes, the deeper the submission can become. And I want to be that woman for him too. I want to be someone he can trust, rely on and be *** with; someone who makes him feel wanted, respected and appreciated. I want to serve him because I love him, submit because I trust him, and ultimately belong to him because I have chosen him. Character is far more important to me than physical traits, but I won't pretend I don't have a type. I tend to be particularly submissive to men who happen to be over 6'2", bearded and tattooed. Add a deep voice and a strong build and I'm probably going to struggle to behave. 😉 But a man who can make me laugh, challenge me intellectually, make me feel cherished and genuinely hold my attention will always be more attractive than someone who simply ticks the physical boxes. I respect everyone's choices, but I'm not looking for non-monogamy, open relationships, online-only relationships, threesomes, hookups, casual play partners, purely sexual arrangements, or exhibitionism/pornography-based interactions. I'm not interested in a connection that exists primarily through sexual conversations or D/s exchanges, or in being rushed into submission, ownership or a power exchange before we've established genuine trust. I understand that compatibility matters from both a D/s and vanilla perspective, but I want to get to know the man before I get lost in the Dominant. I'm not willing to compromise on the kind of relationship I'm looking for, and I'd rather take my time finding the right connection than settle for the wrong one. I'm looking for someone to share a life with, not just a scene.

if ur gonna block me after a day, don’t even pop up to me i don’t want to deal with it

chubby tattooed fading rocker looking for a tall bearded Viking identify as Demisexual I've only been an active sub for a couple of years ,still learning what my limits are and how submissive I am , I have discovered I'm into mild *** and getting tied up also have ADHD so my attention can wander . looking for someone who is willing to spend time and patience on me , I still get a little overwhelmed and unsure at times so looking for someone who's understanding and willing to forgive mistakes personal preference over 40's , not looking for anything casual but would consider a one on one FWb

Looking for someone who’s genuinely kinky and curious about exploring together. I value emotional maturity, honesty, and mutual respect—communication and consent aren’t just buzzwords to me, they’re the foundation of everything. I’m attracted to people who know what they want but are open to discovering new things. Open to something that could develop into a real, lasting connection if the chemistry and trust are there.

New here so still filling things out. Looking for a connection with someone for now, want to take things at my s***d, I travel quite a lot so someone to text regularly would be nice I don’t respond to low effort or demanding DMs, please be nice :)

Hi! I'm looking to make friends and connections with like minded people. I am in a dynamic with Kalton, who takes care of me and I'm not looking to replace him. I am a submissive, not a Domme so please don't message me asking me to be your dominant or mummy. I enjoy going to munches and events, being part of the wider kink community. In my 'vanilla' life I am a divorced mum of a young child whom I co parent 50/50 with his dad. I enjoy being out in nature, seeing changing of the seasons. I'm very crafty and particularly enjoy crochet.

Hi I am Melissa. I am 20 years old. I am interested in exploring the idea of a dominant and submissive relationship, where I am the submissive and I have a dominant partner to guide me and control me through sexual activities but also through a relationship aswell. I am a kept to myself person. I have a dog. I am loving, caring and respectful. I would prefer nights in on the sofa watching movies or long drives as I am a petrol head over going out clubbing. I have a beginner interest for modifying cars and am slowing increasing my knowledge day by day. I love tattoos and am wanting more. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do ***, I don’t like the idea of clubbing but I do vape to calm my anxiety in public. I suffer with anxiety, IBS and undiagnosed ADHD.

looking for a regular dom with experience and soft tendencies , I like to be spoken to nicely and treated like a princess as well as being punished and treated like a slut when I act like a brat. Looking to explore my switch side with women and also looking for kink friends especially women to be able to chat and go to meets together I enjoy having an emotional connection as well and I need that and trust before I meet let alone anything else. I'm not here to just send nudes online. *** play, wax, knife play, breath play, bondage are my faves! also a lover of someone spitting in my face and mouth! call me a good girl I love my praise, love tattoos and piercings, NO complete beginners I am not interested in feet and age play is on the line I won't be acting like a child for someone's pleasure. I'm more than happy to call you daddy though ;p love breeding interested in exploring shibari more

I'm still relatively new to the lifestyle, but I am developing a strong understanding of my submissive/slave identity and what I'm looking for in both a relationship and a D/s dynamic. I'm also continuing to explore and embrace my masochistic side. It's mainly an escape for me, a place where my mind can go quiet but I do also have a deep desire to surrender and serve. I'm a single mum, neurodivergent, Christian, tall (5ft 10) and a big girl (150kg — although I'm working on becoming healthier), with a love of reading, music and the great outdoors. I value meaningful, intelligent conversations just as much as some lighthearted fun. I'm a strong and independent woman, although I can be a little quiet to begin with. There are a lot of layers to me, and I don't necessarily show all of them straight away. Getting to know me properly takes time, patience and genuine connection. I'm monogamous, intentional about dating and looking for my person. I'm demisexual, so friendship, emotional intimacy and an intellectual connection are essential to me. Attraction develops through getting to know someone. I have no interest in rushing intimacy or handing over authority before that foundation exists. I'm not looking for D/s alone, nor do I want a relationship where D/s exists as something separate. I want a loving, committed relationship where D/s is naturally intertwined with the love, trust, affection and intimacy we share. I'm looking to develop a genuine D/s relationship that grows naturally from friendship, attraction, trust and emotional intimacy, with the possibility of exploring M/s as our connection deepens. I'm looking for a man who is a Dom (not a switch) at his core, rather than someone simply playing a role. Someone naturally confident, protective and decisive, but also emotionally intelligent, self-aware and emotionally available. Honesty, kindness, integrity, loyalty, respect and accountability matter enormously to me. I want a man whose words and actions match; someone who communicates openly, takes responsibility when he's wrong, treats people with respect and brings the time, energy, consistency and commitment needed to build a genuine relationship. I want a man whose Dominance makes me feel safe enough to surrender. Someone whose strength is reassuring, whose tenderness makes me feel loved and whose presence makes me feel that I can finally let my guard down. I'm attracted to that natural, quiet Dominance — the things that don't necessarily need explaining. A look that says "mine", a firm hand, the way he carries himself, his voice, a hand around my neck as he kisses me. I want to feel his Dominance without him having to perform it. His protection makes me feel safer, not smaller; his possessiveness makes me feel cherished, not controlled. Submission isn't about weakness for me. It's about being strong enough to consciously choose to surrender something incredibly precious to someone I trust deeply. In my 40 years, not one person has known me in my entirety. I have so many layers. To eventually feel safe enough and secure enough to surrender my mind, body, heart and soul fully would be quite something for me — and quite a responsibility for the man I entrust it to. I don't expect that trust instantly. I want it earned. I want someone with the patience, care and commitment to get to know me properly, learn me, understand my boundaries and guide me as I grow into my submission. I want a relationship where the deeper the trust becomes, the deeper the submission can become. And I want to be that woman for him too. I want to be someone he can trust, rely on and be *** with; someone who makes him feel wanted, respected and appreciated. I want to serve him because I love him, submit because I trust him, and ultimately belong to him because I have chosen him. Character is far more important to me than physical traits, but I won't pretend I don't have a type. I tend to be particularly submissive to men who happen to be over 6'2", bearded and tattooed. Add a deep voice and a strong build and I'm probably going to struggle to behave. 😉 But a man who can make me laugh, challenge me intellectually, make me feel cherished and genuinely hold my attention will always be more attractive than someone who simply ticks the physical boxes. I respect everyone's choices, but I'm not looking for non-monogamy, open relationships, online-only relationships, threesomes, hookups, casual play partners, purely sexual arrangements, or exhibitionism/pornography-based interactions. I'm not interested in a connection that exists primarily through sexual conversations or D/s exchanges, or in being rushed into submission, ownership or a power exchange before we've established genuine trust. I understand that compatibility matters from both a D/s and vanilla perspective, but I want to get to know the man before I get lost in the Dominant. I'm not willing to compromise on the kind of relationship I'm looking for, and I'd rather take my time finding the right connection than settle for the wrong one. I'm looking for someone to share a life with, not just a scene.

Looking for someone who’s genuinely kinky and curious about exploring together. I value emotional maturity, honesty, and mutual respect—communication and consent aren’t just buzzwords to me, they’re the foundation of everything. I’m attracted to people who know what they want but are open to discovering new things. Open to something that could develop into a real, lasting connection if the chemistry and trust are there.

if ur gonna block me after a day, don’t even pop up to me i don’t want to deal with it

chubby tattooed fading rocker looking for a tall bearded Viking identify as Demisexual I've only been an active sub for a couple of years ,still learning what my limits are and how submissive I am , I have discovered I'm into mild *** and getting tied up also have ADHD so my attention can wander . looking for someone who is willing to spend time and patience on me , I still get a little overwhelmed and unsure at times so looking for someone who's understanding and willing to forgive mistakes personal preference over 40's , not looking for anything casual but would consider a one on one FWb