Firstly I cannot vouch for everyone on my friends list, they have been

As a update 2021, I've recently taken up a interest in photography and would love to get into tasteful fetish shoots so if your interested please get in touch.

I will usually be found at Chelmsford Munch and Play or Chelmscolmunch and possibly The Colchester Munch, of course i will attend many others but these would be my place of choice.

I know what I bring to the table but at times I will choose to eat alone rather than compromise and you too should appreciate and use the same standard of measuring.

There are two kinds of **. The sort of that makes you strong, or useless . The sort of that's only suffering. I have no patience for useless things*

I have been in and around the lifestyle for over 25 years and take my role very seriously, I have my own way of doing things and I do not say that is the only way or the right way just what is right for me. Safe Sane and Consensual is a must or as people prefer now RACK


Notes for Potential play partners*

  1. I am a light vaper and if this is an issue to you then you cant compromise and its best you move along

  2. I do not wish to find a doormat, I need you to have opinions that you share with me and if your a wee bit playful and bratty at times I find that side of you amusing, providing the setting is correct.

  3. I have rules and protocols I will expect you to adopt these will be discussed during negotiation

  4. I will always honour and respect your hard limits, soft limits are fluid and will be pushed

  5. Communication is key, you should be articulate and able to communicate well and without ***.



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BDSM Play Partner30 to 55 years ● 25km around UK, Braintree one year ago

I’m a confident not cocky, calm, intelligent and down to earth guy, who loves great conversation and the simple pleasures in life, especially when it comes to walking, photography, cooking or a good boxset. I’m also naturally dominant, know what I want and like to be in control, but I am not controlling, nor am I pushy. Think of me as a gentleman, with a Dominant and kinky undercurrent.

I will always support, cherish and treat you as my equal, nor will I ever belittle or shout at you. However, I will use you for my pleasure (within agreed limits) and put you in your place when I feel it is appropriate.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys a mix of Ds and vanilla, who likes to be challenged and who challenges me, where trust and a mental connection are built organically, which would ideally lead to a friendship or LTR. I also live in the real world and appreciate we all have real life responsibilities and commitments.

For me, everything is about respect, trust, and being safe, sane and consensual (SSC). Additionally, it’s about structure, consistency, fulfilling her need to please, submit and having a deep mental connection with her Dom.

In terms of my Dominant side, I’m strict and demanding but also caring and imaginative, with a particular interest in the psychological side of Ds. For me, I love nothing more than building anticipation, seeing her relinquish control (within the agreed limits), mentally letting go and her body following. However, she always knows that she is in a safe place and will be given lots of aftercare, TLC and cuddles.

My interests are varied and ever evolving. I particularly like impact play, including spanking, floggers, canes, paddles, belts, whips, crops. As well as mental BDSM, dressing to please, restraint, collars, belts, rope, gags, hoods, orgasm control, protocol, service positions, giving oral and outdoor play. I also enjoy rough play and CNC on occasion, although nothing at the extreme end of the scale.

Always happy to have a conversation or meet for a coffee without any expectation or pressure.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK, Winchester 2 years ago

Hi
I'm your fun and adventurous guide into the realm of BDSM. I'm an open-minded and experienced individual seeking a compatible submissive partner for exciting and fulfilling kinky encounters. As a dominant, I understand the importance of trust, communication, and mutual respect in exploring our shared interests.

Interests:
I have a deep passion for exploring the intricacies of BDSM. From light bondage and sensory play to more intense scenes, I find joy in pushing boundaries, experimenting, and expanding our horizons together. Safety and consent are paramount to me, and I am dedicated to creating a space where we can both thrive and explore our desires without judgment

What I'm Looking For:
I'm seeking a submissive partner who shares my enthusiasm for the BDSM lifestyle. Someone who understands the importance of trust, communication, and consent and is willing to embark on a journey of exploration together. Whether you are new to the scene or have previous experience, sincerity and a genuine desire to explore your submissive side are what matter most to me.

Communication and Connection:
Open and honest communication is key to any successful BDSM dynamic. I believe in establishing a foundation of trust and respect, where we can openly discuss our desires, limits, and expectations. Beyond the realm of kink, I value building a connection that extends beyond our play sessions, creating a space where we can support and understand each other on a deeper level.

Confidentiality:
Privacy and discretion are of utmost importance to me. I understand the need for maintaining our personal lives and interests separate from the outside world. Rest assured, any personal information shared between us will be treated with the utmost respect and confidentiality.

Let's Connect:
If you're ready to embark on an exhilarating journey into the world of BDSM, I encourage you to reach out. Let's have a conversation, exchange thoughts, and see if our desires align. Together, we can create unforgettable experiences filled with pleasure, growth, and exploration.

BDSM Play Partner25 to 55 years ● 100km around UK, Canterbury 10 months ago

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