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Heyyyy I recently moved to London only been here since June, and living by myself rn. (Originally from LA) I’ve always been a sub, idk why but I LOVE it when a strong dom can just shut me up and put me in my place where I belong, under his control. I can deffo be a brat at times so don’t say I didn’t warn you😝 And yes I’m very picky so if I don’t find you hot I will not be responding sorry
Female (20) London, Greater London
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one. • I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned. • I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them. At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Howdy humans Im charms a 47 year old switch. Please dont call me anything ever apart from charms. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 My dominant side tends to be sadistic. My sub side i like to do all sorts of things. But what ever I do consent between me and the person Im playing with is a must along with safe words 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Im an extremely lucky person I have made some amazing freinds on here few who I class as family and I love them unconditionally. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 Im a big beliver in manners an treating people the way I would want them.to treat me. Im a big beliver in consent in my day to day vanilla life and my kink life. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 If i see that you have pictures of your pets on your profile i will no dought message you and have questions about them . Im not hiting on you or am I? 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞 I also love books both paper form an audio books. I read alot of James Patterson. I also like vampier an weare *** books. My favourite books like this are the Anita Blake vampier hunter books. But If anyone ever wants to drop me a pm with book recommendations I'd be really greatful. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 Music is a very important part of my life. To me music is like oxygen. I can not live without it. I like all sorts of music . Depending on my mood but my favourite band is the prodigy 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵 Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the kink world. I dont think you ever stop learning 🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷 I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 5 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Or if you have a disability and want talk to another disabled kinkster feel free to drop me a message. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to one and other. 🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
On the search for a master / mistress to entertain and become their play thing. Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me 💋 Looking for occasional meet ups need someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) Even if we don’t connect I love to hear what you’d like to do to me or what I can do to you. That’s part of the fun especially if there’s photos 💋 update September 2025: sorry I’m not as active on here as I used to be but now working 5 nights so less time to play x
Apologies, I'm no longer available. INTP My inbox is overflowing with messages, if I haven't replied, contact me again as it's hard to filter through. Looking for a sub partner/pet I can explore domming, I'd like to explore my dominant side with a male/male identifying partner. Potentially involving pegging. Not keen on brats/overall clinginess. Also happy to share sexting moments, and pics. Entertainment with no strings attached. Erotic writing is fun too. I have already found fun subs, you might have to wait your turn.
Female (32) Jersey, Jersey
Looking for an experienced, confident Dom who’s into real discipline and structure in everyday life, not just in the bedroom. I’m into punishments, regular spankings, boundaries, aftercare, and a dynamic where the man naturally takes control. I’m bratty by nature and want someone strict enough to handle that properly, but still caring and emotionally intelligent. I’m new to this and still exploring, but open-minded with the right person. Physical attraction matters a lot to me — ideally taller, older, dominant, and someone I genuinely connect with.
Female (25) London, Greater London
Sapiosexual Demisexual Holosexual, Electro-switch. I love to photograph sessions. Been doing it for around 15 years. Happy to talk about doing BDSM photoshoots for you or with you. If you would like to support my art and see some of my work, I take all the photographs for the OF of Mistress Blackcat and you can check it out by contacting me and I'll pass you the link 🐈‍ 🖤 **Desires and Fantasies** My fantasy is that someone will take time to talk to me and get to know me and build a deep connection with me. Maybe even let me sit on their tiramisu and destroy it. I enjoy being the bringer of entropy. And I enjoy being allowed to indulge in that feeling. I consider myself an intellectual and need someone who can keep up with me. I am quite strong and powerful for a woman, as my ancestors were Spartans. So if that prospect would be an issue for you, then I'm not the right person for you! As for me day to day, I am into Art, Biology, Botany, Paleontology, Archaeology, Physics. Some of my favourite genres of movie are Horror and Sci-fi. I grow and cook all my own food and compete in those areas for awards. One of which is the largest marrows 😉 I also love to go to fetish events and compete for best dressed. Always up for some company for a fetish event!
Female (37) London, Greater London
hey im ivy and looking for a daddy/mommy dominant I'm a little/sub and im a psychology student so might not be very active and I'm into older men and women but men I love big guys but fit big or just big I'm super open minded and I have a love for metal and men in bands Im a huge music person and it's something I can't go without in a day I love getting to know people and the way they are/thing but im a very shy person and get flustered easily but don't be afraid to text i'll get back to any text when i can xx
True authority is never demanded, it is earned through trust, consistency, and unwavering control. I don't seek passing amusement or temporary obedience. I expect commitment from those who understand that true submission is built over time, grounded in loyalty, honesty, and mutual respect. My dominance is calm, calculated, and intentional, balancing firm discipline with emotional awareness to create a dynamic where limits are honored, communication is clear, and personal growth is inevitable. I value protocol, obedience, accountability, psychological control, and the quiet satisfaction of knowing your place. A submissive who is attentive, disciplined, and eager to serve with purpose will find a Mistress who rewards dedication as readily as she corrects failure. The strongest power exchange extends beyond a single scene, it thrives through trust, meaningful conversation, and genuine connection.
Female (42) Knowsley, Merseyside
I AM NOT FOR EVERYONE, & EVERYONE IS NOT FOR ME 💯🔥 I definitely have a weakness for the alternative look. Long hair, beards, tattoos, piercings, and a quirky personality are usually a winning combination for me. Now onto ME 😅 Spiritual (Pagan-based), neurodivergent woman (not formally diagnosed), walking a path rooted in intuition, healing, and self-expression. In my spare time, I enjoy exploring places of historical interest—museums, castles, and the like—as well as attending spiritual events. I love going to gigs and music festivals (mainly Rock & Metal), going to the theatre, dancing, and occasionally joining paranormal investigations or ghost walks. On a more personal level, I’m interested in exploring aspects of kink, particularly the art of Shibari and other forms of Bondage. I’m also curious about Sensory BDSM Play, Exhibitionism, and Roleplay.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
I get bored easily - show me something new. My wife is my priority 😘 I have a lot of messages to get through, patience required 🙏🏻
An elegant and self-assured Mistress seeking a genuine, long-term connection with a dedicated submissive. I value honesty, mutual respect, trust, and consistency, believing that the strongest dynamics are built on a solid foundation rather than short-lived interactions. With a naturally commanding presence and a calm, confident approach, I enjoy leading, inspiring, and helping my submissive reach their full potential. I appreciate someone who is attentive, loyal, communicative, and willing to invest in a meaningful relationship that grows over time. I expect maturity, respect for boundaries, and a sincere desire to build something lasting. In return, I offer guidance, stability, encouragement, and a dynamic where both individuals feel valued and understood. I am looking for a submissive who understands the importance of commitment and takes pride in devotion and personal growth. If you seek a strong, authoritative woman who values depth, connection, and long-term compatibility, I would be pleased to hear from you.
Female (43) Cardiff, Wales
Elegant, firm, and naturally commanding, I am a Mistress who appreciates loyalty, respect, and genuine devotion. I am interested in building a meaningful long-term connection with a Sub who values honesty, consistency, and the strength found within a structured dynamic. For me, true submission is not about temporary excitement but about trust, understanding, and mutual growth. I enjoy taking the lead, setting expectations, and guiding a willing partner who takes pride in pleasing and improving himself under my direction. I admire intelligence, good manners, ambition, and clear communication. I have little interest in drama or time-wasters and prefer someone serious about creating a lasting bond built on respect and dedication. In return, I offer stability, guidance, attention, and a deeply rewarding dynamic with a confident woman who knows her worth and expects the same level of commitment from her Sub.
Female (40) Belfast, Belfast
heyy kinkers and frauds! I'm Sass thanks for having a nosey at my profile 😉 ✨I'M NOT INTERESTED IN BEING A SUB FOR ANYONE!✨ ✨I'M NOT YOUR DOMME, SUB, MUMMY, QUEEN OR GODDESS , PRINCESS✨ I'm not new to the lifestyle or to being a domme connection is a must for me.... vetting is a must....I will not just be a sexual domme it's a damn insult to the lifestyle! 😈SOME OF MY KINKS😈 ***/period play knife play domination Praise kink,(not just being called good girl 🙄) BDSM CNC *** and degrading *** Rough sex Voice kink cum play "cyber" play breeding CBT POT piggies ***d & orgasm denial
Female (34) Renfrewshire, Scotland
I believe true power is earned through trust, consistency, and genuine connection. I’m not here for fleeting encounters, I’m open to building a long-term dynamic with someone who values loyalty, honesty, and the beauty of surrender. My style blends firm guidance with emotional intelligence, creating a space where boundaries are respected and growth is encouraged. I enjoy exploring power exchange, discipline, obedience, teasing, protocol, and psychological control, always rooted in clear communication and enthusiastic consent. I appreciate a submissive who is attentive, respectful, and eager to embrace their role while we build something meaningful together. Beyond the dynamic, I value conversation, laughter, and mutual understanding because the strongest connections extend beyond the scene. If you're seeking a confident, commanding Mistress who knows what she wants and is interested in a lasting, authentic relationship, you may find exactly what you've been searching for.
Female (41) Wrexham, Wales
I am a Dominant who thrives on control, passion, and the intoxicating surrender of a willing submissive. Attractive, confident, and unapologetically commanding, I don’t roleplay dominance, I embody it. What I seek is a real exchange of power, where my slut offers complete submission and I take absolute control, mind, body, and desire. My nurturing side exists, but it is woven with sadism, discipline, and the thrill of ownership. I crave obedience, service, and devotion that goes beyond words, rituals, kneeling, offering yourself entirely at my feet. I want a submissive who finds pleasure in restraint, freedom in protocol, and arousal in punishment, knowing that every moan, every mark, every surrender is mine to claim. This is not casual play. With me, you will live in a constant state of belonging, collared, controlled, and utterly owned as my devoted slut.
Step into my realm—where control is mine, and surrender is yours. I'm a commanding presence who thrives in the art of psychological dominance, sensual power plays, and strict obedience. I value cleanliness, intelligence, devotion, and the thrill of power. Whether you're a curious sub or a loyal pet, you'll learn that in my world, your pleasure is earned... not given. Let’s explore control, boundaries, and your desire to please. Message only if you're ready to serve.
Female (30) Wycombe, Buckinghamshire
PAWG with a degree. Looking for a summer of fun. Uncomplicated. I have a particular thing for bwc, bbc and women who have larger pillowy soft bodies. I suppose I am what you would call a switch but only because often the men I meet I feel I’m generally more dominant and it’s very hard to submit to someone who you donate more confident than socially etc, this means that because of the scarcity of me who bring out my pure submissive side I also dabble a little bit in the idea of being more dominant myself or indeed *** sex. Anyway - I’m hoping this information streamlines some of the messages I get because I find myself repeating this. Have a lovely day xxx G https://giftful.com/wishlists/GpZbJcgerNQVV1thtKbQ I love lingerie
Female (37) London, Greater London
Slave looking for my people. Preferably something long-term, but I’m open to more casual play too, especially if you’re a rigger. I’ve got plenty of experience and a genuine passion for the scene. This isn’t roleplay, it’s an orientation🙃 Please be intentional with your messages. I don’t respond well to assumed ownership, ***, or D/s dynamics without negotiation first. Once trust is established I can be pretty extreme🥹 try me on instagram as I don’t come on this app too regularly: Kemi.in.vinkulis
Female (23) London, Greater London
I’m here for a good time, not to take things too seriously... but I definitely know what I like 😏 I’ve got a man at home who keeps me very well taken care of but that doesn’t stop me enjoying a bit of attention, teasing, and fun along the way. Think playful energy, a little bit cheeky, and just enough mischief to keep things interesting. Just to be clearI don’t meet without my man present. He’s straight, very much part of my world, and everything we do is on our terms. If anything ever goes further, it’s something we experience together. I’m into connection, banter, and building a bit of tension... not just jumping straight to the obvious. If you can hold a conversation and make me laugh, you’re already doing better than most. Yes, I create content over on *** and anything we do is filmed, so as long as everyone’s comfortable and happy, it may be used for content. Transparency is important to me, and I like people to know exactly what they’re stepping into. I’m on here because I genuinely enjoy the vibe, the people, and the freedom to explore and flirt a little without pressure. If you’re respectful, a bit bold, and know how to tease without being over the top... we’ll get along just fine. Come say hi......don’t be boring about it 😉 check out my socials https://www.instagram.com/lealeacage/ and https://***.com/lealeavip @LeaCage on Snap
Female (36) Portsmouth, Hampshire
For those who prefer a quick read: • I am a Domme, not a Mistress. • I am not interested in casual play, random strangers, or hook ups. • I am not interested in poly dynamics that do not belong to me. • I am a voyeur and genuinely enjoy watching, my interests can be found in the fetish list below. • I do not seek male slaves. • I am not interested in sissies, cross dressing, or financial domination (***). I identify as bisexual but this is often misunderstood, I train both male and female submissives, which is why I use that label however I am only interested in women on an intimate or romantic level. I have no sexual interest in men and that is not something that will change. To be absolutely clear: I train male submissives, I do not seek intimate relationships with men. If your message ignores the information above, it is unlikely to receive a response. BIO UPDATE: Because Apparently People Don't Read The First One Who Am I? I suppose it's time for a bio update because a lot has changed and judging by some of the messages i've received, some people are operating on information older than an archaeological dig. I'm Sensory and yes, the name comes from Sensory Deprivation before anyone asks for the 47th time. I'm a Dom within the BDSM lifestyle and have been involved in the scene for over 12 years, during that time i've dated and connected with men, women and transgender people. These days i'm open to meeting either a male or female partner for something that could be short term, long term or somewhere in between depending on the connection. What I Actually Do My life revolves around two things, rock music and training submissives within the BDSM lifestyle. Both take up a considerable amount of my time, so if your dream relationship involves someone being available 24/7 to discuss what sandwich you had for lunch, we may not be compatible. If however, you appreciate ambition, passion, creativity and someone who genuinely loves what they do, we'll get along just fine. Communication: The Lost Art Form Let's discuss communication, if you message me enthusiastically on Monday and then disappear until next Thursday like you've been recruited into a witness protection programme this won't work. Consistency matters, communication matters and effort matters. I tend to match people's energy, whatever you bring to the table I'll reflect back. If you don't like what you're seeing, there's a reasonable chance you're staring directly into your own mirror. Please don't complain to management. The INFJ & Pisces Problem I'm an INFJ and a Pisces, which essentially means I notice things. The story doesn't match, the energy changes, the details don't add up, the explanation gets rewritten three times. You know it, I know it and the dog knows it. So lying is a massive red flag, save us both the time. Things I Enjoy * Rock music * Metal music * Alternative music * Horror films * True crime * Psychology * History * Architecture * Travelling * Coffee * Cooking * Baking * Deep conversations * Museums * Historical locations * Exploring new places Fantasy films generally aren't my thing, if your personality is built entirely around watching The Holiday every Christmas, we may encounter our first diplomatic incident fairly quickly. Coffee I need coffee, I love coffee, I think about coffee before i've finished my current coffee. Any successful relationship with me will eventually involve coffee, resistance is futile. Family & Values Despite the sarcasm, i'm actually a very family oriented person. I'm empathetic, loyal, protective and deeply invested in the people I care about. I enjoy creating memories, travelling, discovering new places, trying new foods and building genuine connections with people who are capable of being authentic. Final Disclaimer If you're looking for someone surface level, permanently attached to one word replies, emotionally unavailable or allergic to communication, this probably won't work. If you're looking for meaningful conversation, dark humour, adventure, coffee, loyalty, history, music, occasional chaos and a woman who can discuss psychology, architecture, true crime and why people make terrible life choices all before breakfast... You might just be in the right place. If your opening message is sexual, asks intimate questions before we've even exchanged basic conversation or involves sending pictures I never asked for you will be ignored, blocked or become a funny story told over coffee later.
Female (37) Gateshead, Tyne and Wear

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Heyyyy I recently moved to London only been here since June, and living by myself rn. (Originally from LA) I’ve always been a sub, idk why but I LOVE it when a strong dom can just shut me up and put me in my place where I belong, under his control. I can deffo be a brat at times so don’t say I didn’t warn you😝 And yes I’m very picky so if I don’t find you hot I will not be responding sorry
Female (20) London, Greater London
• I’m shy at first, but very responsive once I feel safe. I value depth, emotional intelligence, and genuine connection. Kink is important to me, but it lives within a relationship - not a replacement for one. • I’m sub-leaning and happiest staying in that lane. I don't Dom or switch - not even a little. I enjoy being guided with intention, measured control and self-assured energy that is always collaborative and attuned. • I tend to fantasise more about the emotional side of kink than ticking off specific acts. I’m always open to new experiences when there’s trust, communication, and care behind them. At this point I’m looking to build something with one person rather than navigating group dynamics. Depth over novelty.
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
On the search for a master / mistress to entertain and become their play thing. Mainly looking to meet new friends and get back into the lifestyle . I’m bi and married. Husband is aware I play. Very open and honest . To many boxes to tick what I like so how about you just ask me 💋 Looking for occasional meet ups need someone firm in the bedroom but protective and loving outside. I take aftercare seriously it’s not just an on the day thing, it needs following up for both parties from a quick reassurance cuddle to check in texts. . I will try to answer messages but being female I’m fussy, there does have to be a connection. 18 year olds do not apply, I’m after someone with experience and I’m not out to be used as your grab a granny or to mother you ( although I can care for adult babies in a none sexual way ) Even if we don’t connect I love to hear what you’d like to do to me or what I can do to you. That’s part of the fun especially if there’s photos 💋 update September 2025: sorry I’m not as active on here as I used to be but now working 5 nights so less time to play x
Apologies, I'm no longer available. INTP My inbox is overflowing with messages, if I haven't replied, contact me again as it's hard to filter through. Looking for a sub partner/pet I can explore domming, I'd like to explore my dominant side with a male/male identifying partner. Potentially involving pegging. Not keen on brats/overall clinginess. Also happy to share sexting moments, and pics. Entertainment with no strings attached. Erotic writing is fun too. I have already found fun subs, you might have to wait your turn.
Female (32) Jersey, Jersey
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
The most dangerous thing about Me isn’t what I do, it’s how easily you’ll want it. I don’t bark. I don’t chase. I command with a whisper, and often, with nothing at all. Most obey before they even realise they’ve submitted. I’ve existed within the fetish world for over a decade. What began as curiosity became deep practice, and a precise understanding of how power moves between people. Some of you already know who I am. If not, you will. I am a creator. A Domme. **The Madame.** I don’t merely create content, I engineer conditions for exquisite surrender. I’ve produced over 1,000 full-length videos and audio confessions, each designed to draw you deeper, reveal what you crave, and let you choose how far you’ll fall. Personally, My style - My dynamic, evolves with the mind I’m shaping. I don’t inflict sensation for spectacle, I delight in what’s offered in reverence. Mind games. Chastity. Silent suggestion. Denial. Restraint. Curiosity becomes obedience. Obedience becomes pleasure. And pleasure becomes devotion. Devotion, when desperately, _freely_, given, tastes the sweetest. Beyond the screen, I run multiple companies, shape creative ecosystems, and study everything from strategy to sound, systems to seduction. I’m enthralled by My own life and what I create within it. My hours are claimed by purpose, not distraction. But I’m always watching for the rare few who can match Me, and earn their place beside what I’m building. Because I build self-sustaining ecosystems that will change the world. If you found Me through another mask, business, leadership, the voice of FemDom command, know this: You weren’t lost. Your curiosity led you here. And if you return to Me, in any context, I’ll know. UK-based (not London). Inbox: _Crowded._ Choose your words wisely. You’ll kneel long before I ever ask. You won’t know when it started. _Only that you never want it to end._
Female (32) London, Greater London
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
Howdy humans Im charms a 47 year old switch. Please dont call me anything ever apart from charms. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 My dominant side tends to be sadistic. My sub side i like to do all sorts of things. But what ever I do consent between me and the person Im playing with is a must along with safe words 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Im an extremely lucky person I have made some amazing freinds on here few who I class as family and I love them unconditionally. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 Im a big beliver in manners an treating people the way I would want them.to treat me. Im a big beliver in consent in my day to day vanilla life and my kink life. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 If i see that you have pictures of your pets on your profile i will no dought message you and have questions about them . Im not hiting on you or am I? 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞 I also love books both paper form an audio books. I read alot of James Patterson. I also like vampier an weare *** books. My favourite books like this are the Anita Blake vampier hunter books. But If anyone ever wants to drop me a pm with book recommendations I'd be really greatful. 🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭🎭 Music is a very important part of my life. To me music is like oxygen. I can not live without it. I like all sorts of music . Depending on my mood but my favourite band is the prodigy 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵 Im open to pms as long as you DONT CHAT SEXUALY OR SEND ME X RATED PHOTOS I love to talk about all sorts of things kink and none kink Im just here to make freinds an learn more about the kink world. I dont think you ever stop learning 🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷🕷 I have FIBROMAILGA witch iv had for 21 years since I was 25. I also have TRIGEMINAL NUROLGA. Witch iv had 5 years since I was 43. If you have questions or just want to chat about either of them drop me a pm. Or if you have a disability and want talk to another disabled kinkster feel free to drop me a message. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Rember words hurt more than physical ***. You can take *** meds for physical *** but nothing mends emotional or mental ***. So be kind to one and other. 🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐
I’m a bold, confident woman who revels in my power, teasing and captivating those brave enough to kneel at my feet. I’m here to explore your deepest desires, stir your senses, and push boundaries with a playful yet commanding touch. Whether you’re charmed by my spicy questions or craving the thrill of my attention, I demand devotion and commitment in return. Tell me, sub what stirs your soul when you imagine me in control? I Specialize in sensual domination, teasing power dynamics, and confidence-driven play, I create a space where admiration meets submission. My sessions are for those who appreciate a mature, fiery mistress who knows exactly what she wants and how to make you want it too.
Female (37) London, Greater London
I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship with a huge focus on a D/s or DDlg dynamic. So, if you're miles and miles away or in another country then don't bother. I want to meet someone in person. Not interested in chatting online only or any long-distance type relationship. I have a high sex drive and I'm looking for a man who has the same drive as me. I love being dominated and I want to explore more. I have limited experience so I need someone to teach me. I also wouldn't mind being with a Dom who would "***" me to satisfy other men as well. It's a big turn on and a life-long fantasy of mine. My non-kink related interests include: Reading. Huge fantasy nerd. Going for walks Travelling Foodie Baking and cooking TV Series and Films
Female (35) Cardiff, Wales
True authority is never demanded, it is earned through trust, consistency, and unwavering control. I don't seek passing amusement or temporary obedience. I expect commitment from those who understand that true submission is built over time, grounded in loyalty, honesty, and mutual respect. My dominance is calm, calculated, and intentional, balancing firm discipline with emotional awareness to create a dynamic where limits are honored, communication is clear, and personal growth is inevitable. I value protocol, obedience, accountability, psychological control, and the quiet satisfaction of knowing your place. A submissive who is attentive, disciplined, and eager to serve with purpose will find a Mistress who rewards dedication as readily as she corrects failure. The strongest power exchange extends beyond a single scene, it thrives through trust, meaningful conversation, and genuine connection.
Female (42) Knowsley, Merseyside
Hey thanks for checking out my profile x x A mistress looking for a little piggy to chat with and dominate 🐷 x x Looking for specific pictures or videos? Let chat 💋 x x Sorry I do NOT do meet ups for my own safety thank you for understanding. ❤️ x x
Female (29) Durham, Durham
As it seems not clear enough, I am NOT submissive, I am NOT looking for a dom, master, daddy, whatever. As of now, I am NOT looking for meet ups, calls, videocalls, etc. That might, and I stress 'might' come with trust. I decide when that trust is enough. I am into younger men, androgynous, so no 6 packs please, medium/long hair are very much appreciated. CFNM is welcome.
Female (44) Tendring, Essex
I believe true power is earned through trust, consistency, and genuine connection. I’m not here for fleeting encounters, I’m open to building a long-term dynamic with someone who values loyalty, honesty, and the beauty of surrender. My style blends firm guidance with emotional intelligence, creating a space where boundaries are respected and growth is encouraged. I enjoy exploring power exchange, discipline, obedience, teasing, protocol, and psychological control, always rooted in clear communication and enthusiastic consent. I appreciate a submissive who is attentive, respectful, and eager to embrace their role while we build something meaningful together. Beyond the dynamic, I value conversation, laughter, and mutual understanding because the strongest connections extend beyond the scene. If you're seeking a confident, commanding Mistress who knows what she wants and is interested in a lasting, authentic relationship, you may find exactly what you've been searching for.
Female (41) Wrexham, Wales
Looking to gain experience for my husband to be a Dom I am a Submissive also looking to learn.
Female (36) Sefton, Merseyside
I get bored easily - show me something new. My wife is my priority 😘 I have a lot of messages to get through, patience required 🙏🏻
I’m a dominant attractive brunette, looking for fem subs only, possibly a bull to cuckold my male slave with, I might consider a mentor too.
Female (40) Didcot, Oxfordshire
Commanding, confident, and discreet. Earn my trust through respect, honesty, and consistency. Address me as mistress, and know your place.
Female (49) Hereford, Herefordshire
I’m a confident, caring woman who values honesty, integrity, and meaningful connection. I believe in clear communication, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Family is important to me, and I approach life with both heart and purpose. I’m passionate about creativity, travel, and surrounding myself with beauty—whether that’s through inspiring spaces, new cultures, or thoughtful conversations. Life has taught me that true attraction comes from a person’s character and inner world, not just appearances. I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and values partnership, loyalty, and laughter. Someone who is comfortable being himself and ready to build something real together. I want to form a real connection with someone WITH GOOD adventures. I’m straight and single. so I suppose a normal loving relationship with with someone who is serious in a LTR.
Female (51) Midlothian, Scotland
I'm someone who values honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humour. I work hard, enjoy keeping busy, and like to challenge myself—whether that's learning something new, taking on a project, or stepping outside my comfort zone. Life's too short to stand still. Outside of work, you'll usually find me taking on small household projects, improving the house, planning a weekend away, firing up the BBQ for friends and family, or relaxing with a good film after a long week. I enjoy creating things, fixing things, and keeping busy, but I also appreciate the simple moments. I'm looking for someone who wants to grab life by the horns and make the most of it. Someone who's not afraid to get stuck into a project, doesn't mind getting their hands dirty, and enjoys building a life together rather than just talking about it. A good sense of humour, open communication, kindness, and emotional maturity all go a long way with me. If you're genuine, enjoy making memories rather than collecting things, and are looking for something real, I'd love to hear from you.
I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiments when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like the country's peace, I like the metropolis' noise. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh.
Female (40) Swansea, Wales
I'm more of a brat who enjoys some back and forth and being put into submission, I won't just go into it. Got many interests in different kinks but don't want to share with the whole site 😂 Looking for fun but if something comes of anything then also a bonus. I anyone tends to use the term princess please don't message me, hearing that makes me feel instantly turned off, I'm not a child or less than you, as much as I like to be dominated in the bedroom it's not for those reasons and I am very fierce, outspoken and independent outside the bedroom, i like a man (or masc woman) who is masculine in terms of leadership, protectiveness, decisiveness not the macho connetation of what people think being masculine is and i will give femininity in return for a good man but i will not take orders or be told what to do by any man outside the bedroom, im not someone you can walk all over, dont undrestimate me. GOddess or queen I would prefer if you want to do affectionate name calling.
Female (44) Halifax, West Yorkshire
Not sure why i'm here to be honest, was told about it from a friend and thought would see what it's about. Come and say hello any age/location welcome! I'm not vanilla but not tried something like this.
Female (47) Bristol, City of Bristol
I’m drawn to confidence, respect, and people who embrace who they are. If you’re authentic, adventurous, and believe that trust is the foundation of any great connection, we might have something worth exploring.
Female (39) London, Greater London

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