Find kinky women in South Yorkshire

This really could be the start of an exciting adventure, couldn't it........ So let me start by introducing myself, I'm El ✨️hiiii, you gorgeous people. In vanilla life, I am a mother to two ***age boys, this takes up a reasonable amount of time and it is my main responsibility to care for them, though now they are growing older and more independent I want to plant some seeds for myself. For my life and my future. I want to find/expand my tribe, I'm nurodiverse, I am adventurous, I am empathic, I am anti conformist. About my likes. I am a lover of all the beautiful things in life such as art, music, dance, oh and Mother Nature is my one true love. I would describe myself as spiritual, and i guess some would call me a pagen. I go to the gym regularly, I lovvve me some Yoga. I have done a lot of learning in my life, I know what I don't want, and now I am ready to do some discovering, could you be what I am looking for? In terms of kink, I am naturally a sub, but being a bit of a rebel, I definitely have a bratty side 😂😇😘 there's lots I want to explore with the right person. But first, I want to establish a solid foundation with trust being at the core. Mutual respect and trust will come before I explore anything sexual with you after care is a must. You don't have to be the most experienced person. We can learn and grow together. But, if you want to be in my circle, in my space, and especially in my...i want to know you, you need to feel safe to me, to be kind, considerate and respctful ect. If you got to the end of that, you deserve a medal for concentration 😂. I know my concentration is questionable at times. Anyyyywayyyy. That's me. See you on the other side, maybe.
Female (39) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (35) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy 😉
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ ‘LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry 😅 I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
Open honest caring blah blah I'm much better at a conversation. I believe I'm open minded but still time to shock the hell out of me ! I'm a tad of a brat often speak an opinion/make a joke without being asked or sparing a thought for the consequences. Maybe I need a firm hand ?!
Female (50) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive (though now I have some amazing domme energy from my girlfriend I'm tempted to explore the other side of me!). I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online ***, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Soft spoken Midlander living in North(ish) England. Be nice to me, and I'll be nice to you. 😘 I love to read books and poetry, write and wouldn't say no to actually watching Netflix and chilling with someone. I'm a huge fan of board/video games, walking, sci fi, D&D, Disney, Mandalorian and Star Wars to name a few things What is V looking for? I'm here to find events and communities, where I can get to know people and have fun. Please respect my marriage - my husband will always be my priority, he's my favourite human. When it comes to ENM... I am not interested in a meaningless shag.. I'm open to new kinky friends (not you, anonymous dick pic), if we can develop something beautiful, playful and fun, I'm so here for it(!) so don't be shy! Don't ask, don't get... If you've paid attention long enough to reach this section, and you're on my wavelength - why don't you slide into my DM's and we can get to know each other? 😘
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
35, American(Texan, and no. I don’t sound like a hick/redneck lol) in the UK. Category 5 cock tease. If you can hold my attention, make me regret not being a good wife. Limits: absolutely no weird bodily fluids or fisting. Oh, no gimps/full latex, seriously -hard pass, you degenerates haha. 😈
Female (37) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Currently single , just exploring options and finding out what I want I’m sick of hearing “your pretty” or “hey” if your gonna text me at least say something that spikes an interest im a big music lover, gamer , artist and I read dark romance smut books that you’d probably think I need to see a therapist for my type is tall , dark hair, preferably tattoos anddd can pull of a mask (I loveeee masked men💕)
Female (21) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Quick Version * Ethically non-monogamous * Demisexual, switch. * No hook-ups, hotels, or car meets * Connection, consent, chemistry first. * Active lifestyle, gym, walks, being outdoors, swimming and hiking. * Regular testing & honesty matter --- What I’m Looking For People I can actually do life with, events, gym sessions, long walks, getting out and about. I don't cope well being caged indoors. I’m open to friends, event partners, something that grows into FWB, or a primary partner, but it has to start with genuine connection and that takes time. I need someone whose energy matches mine. If you love staying active, getting outside, and pushing yourself a bit, then I'm def interested. If your ideal day is mostly indoors or you avoid effort, we’re definitely not a good fit. I will take a walk in the woods or a deadlift over a takeaway, movie or gaming any day. Sorry, but it's ok to have preferences and those are mine. --- Lifestyle The gym isn’t a phase for me, it’s part of how I look after myself, physically (working progress) and mentally. It means a lot to me and I will not give it up. Same with getting out for walks and fresh air. I’m not looking for someone to drag along, or someone who’ll discourage it. I want someone who wants to be there too. --- Real Life My life isn’t conventional in any sense, my mum and ***, live with me and I’m a full-time carer to my disabled child. That means time, energy, and logistics can make meets difficult and meeting outside of events isn’t always simple or doable. My family aren't supportive in the sense they will look after my kids while I meet folks so the preference for meets at events are the easiest way to do that. I’m open minded, but also realistic. If you need something spontaneous and easy, I’m probably not your person. I'm also not into discreet meets, your partner(s) must be aware of your online and offline activities and encourage it. If you’re patient, understanding, and can work with me instead of against me, then we'll see how we get along over chats and then eventually meets, if it's possible. --- Boundaries No unsolicited NSFW photos in my inbox. No copy-paste or ai messages. Respect and patience go a long way No kink dispenser requests. --- Health Last test: January 2026 all clear I expect the same level of care and honesty, will test again when Im active. --- Kink me I like my kink slow, deliberate, and a little dangerous. I’m a switch with a sharp Domme edge. I choose when to submit, if you're patient enough to earn my trust and respect, which that seems to be a quality lacking in a lot of people these days. I have bratty tenancies but it's not a dominant part of who I am, that is more when I'm comfortable and more relaxed around someone, time is a big factor with that. Play is about tension, consent, and teasing the edges of control, not checklists and unconsented demands. Wit, curiosity, and a willingness to meet me halfway is the way to go.
Female (40) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
hey 39 year old ball of mischief looking for another chaos maker to help make my husbands life difficult, I enjoy bratting out and being put in my place and I'd love another brat you join us, I also have a kink of watching my husband with other women, please feel free to message if this sounds fun to you 😊 willing to explore new things with new people in a nm marriage x
Female (39) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Trans woman, space nerd Trying to be more gothic, obsessed with shinies and anything I can cuddle. very kinky and freaky but talk to me first open to most things I'm not the best at small talk but will talk your ear off about my interests like MTG, space or percy Jackson
Female (24) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm a female sub looking for a regular male Dom to play with (or should I say, play with me!). 💫 -I am extremely kinky. Not just trying it out because I watched 50 Shades of Grey once (although I did watch that and it was terrible!). -I love bondage, being gagged, impact play (happy to be bruised, just not permanently marked), anal play (love my anal hook!), having toys used on me, giving oral, and rough sex (face slapping, hair pulling, etc.) -I like to be an obedient sub, but can be bratty sometimes if it works in the dynamic. -I am single, live alone and drive. Can meet up evenings and weekends. -Would like a FWB-type Dom. Not actively looking for a relationship, but may consider if everything matches up. -Not interested in 24/7 dynamics or online-only stuff. -Don't try to dominate me over message before we've even met. I'm not sending you pictures/videos just because you say you're a "Dom". -My pictures are private on here for my safety. Will happily share if we get along. - My limits are lower down in my profile. 💫 My Dom needs to be; -My age or older. Won't play with anyone younger than 26/27. -Sadistic. -Share a lot of the same kinks as me. -Single. I do not engage with people who are trying to cheat on their partners. -Honest, respectful and good at communicating. I hate rudeness and emotional immaturity! -Not into DDLG or call themselves a "***". This is a hard limit for me and if it is mentioned anywhere on your profile, I won't be interested. 💫 If you fit the above, and fancy chatting, just drop me a message!
Female (30) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
31 years.,.. apparently the bdsm test has me down for a typical switch, not going to deny that I like a dominant male but also like to take charge on occasion new here so feel free to message il perv over your profile and maybe message but also open to receiving those messages
Female (32) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Very curious... Looking to explore. No men please! Looking for ladies only, preferably 420 friendly. I'm a music and movie nerd, looking for someone who is fun to be around and not into anything too extreme. I'm pretty vanilla, looking for genuine connections.
Female (36) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hey my nickname is Ducky and if you wanna know more message me. if you wanna see me message otherwise here is stitch as a placeholder im abit of a geek and nerdy so those topics always get me hooked. just got out of a relationship so not looking for anything serious
Female (26) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hey o/ Me and My partner are experimenting. Hence why being on here. I'm the sub of this relationship so you'll mainly have to go through him, but I have permission to message back. I love my teddies and playing games such as minecraft, I also enjoy a good hoodie theft. I enjoy baking, cuddles, exploring, ***ting warhammer. VERY DYSLEXIC 🥲 SLIGHT TISM
Female (22) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire

New members in South Yorkshire

So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Open honest caring blah blah I'm much better at a conversation. I believe I'm open minded but still time to shock the hell out of me ! I'm a tad of a brat often speak an opinion/make a joke without being asked or sparing a thought for the consequences. Maybe I need a firm hand ?!
Female (50) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry 😅 I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online ***, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy 😉
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ ‘LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
This really could be the start of an exciting adventure, couldn't it........ So let me start by introducing myself, I'm El ✨️hiiii, you gorgeous people. In vanilla life, I am a mother to two ***age boys, this takes up a reasonable amount of time and it is my main responsibility to care for them, though now they are growing older and more independent I want to plant some seeds for myself. For my life and my future. I want to find/expand my tribe, I'm nurodiverse, I am adventurous, I am empathic, I am anti conformist. About my likes. I am a lover of all the beautiful things in life such as art, music, dance, oh and Mother Nature is my one true love. I would describe myself as spiritual, and i guess some would call me a pagen. I go to the gym regularly, I lovvve me some Yoga. I have done a lot of learning in my life, I know what I don't want, and now I am ready to do some discovering, could you be what I am looking for? In terms of kink, I am naturally a sub, but being a bit of a rebel, I definitely have a bratty side 😂😇😘 there's lots I want to explore with the right person. But first, I want to establish a solid foundation with trust being at the core. Mutual respect and trust will come before I explore anything sexual with you after care is a must. You don't have to be the most experienced person. We can learn and grow together. But, if you want to be in my circle, in my space, and especially in my...i want to know you, you need to feel safe to me, to be kind, considerate and respctful ect. If you got to the end of that, you deserve a medal for concentration 😂. I know my concentration is questionable at times. Anyyyywayyyy. That's me. See you on the other side, maybe.
Female (39) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (35) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive (though now I have some amazing domme energy from my girlfriend I'm tempted to explore the other side of me!). I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hey o/ Me and My partner are experimenting. Hence why being on here. I'm the sub of this relationship so you'll mainly have to go through him, but I have permission to message back. I love my teddies and playing games such as minecraft, I also enjoy a good hoodie theft. I enjoy baking, cuddles, exploring, ***ting warhammer. VERY DYSLEXIC 🥲 SLIGHT TISM
Female (22) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Soft spoken Midlander living in North(ish) England. Be nice to me, and I'll be nice to you. 😘 I love to read books and poetry, write and wouldn't say no to actually watching Netflix and chilling with someone. I'm a huge fan of board/video games, walking, sci fi, D&D, Disney, Mandalorian and Star Wars to name a few things What is V looking for? I'm here to find events and communities, where I can get to know people and have fun. Please respect my marriage - my husband will always be my priority, he's my favourite human. When it comes to ENM... I am not interested in a meaningless shag.. I'm open to new kinky friends (not you, anonymous dick pic), if we can develop something beautiful, playful and fun, I'm so here for it(!) so don't be shy! Don't ask, don't get... If you've paid attention long enough to reach this section, and you're on my wavelength - why don't you slide into my DM's and we can get to know each other? 😘
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
hey 39 year old ball of mischief looking for another chaos maker to help make my husbands life difficult, I enjoy bratting out and being put in my place and I'd love another brat you join us, I also have a kink of watching my husband with other women, please feel free to message if this sounds fun to you 😊 willing to explore new things with new people in a nm marriage x
Female (39) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
if you want to know anything just ask me. its just like that, only looking for certain people
Female (33) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
very new to BDSM, wanting to explore my likes and dislikes with a Dom who will communicate and look after me if things become overwhelming, whilst making me feel safe to explore.
Female (21) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Hey my nickname is Ducky and if you wanna know more message me. if you wanna see me message otherwise here is stitch as a placeholder im abit of a geek and nerdy so those topics always get me hooked. just got out of a relationship so not looking for anything serious
Female (26) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hiya! You can call me by *** or call be "Sunflower". It is an online name until I trust you with more. I enjoy diapers, abdl, *** holding and desperation, ***, punishments, pussy *** and nipple ***, cnc, private play, spanking, whipping, *** and more. I am curious to try enemas, semi public play, little play (ddlg) and pet play I am not into feet, wax, or ice. Other than the kinky side of things, I enjoy being spontaneous and adventuring. I want to jump off cliffs (with safety obviously), climb volcanoes, surf in the coral reefs and more. I enjoy writing, coding, volunteering, and saving lives.
Female (20) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Looking for friends/like-minded people. If you come straight in with sexual talk, I will block. The quickest way to a man's heart is through the 4th & 5th rib. My ex looks like Peter Sutcliffe and I miss him. Males 30-50 years.
Female (37) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
hi, I'm new to this whole thing, idrk what to put here
Female (19) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Currently single , just exploring options and finding out what I want I’m sick of hearing “your pretty” or “hey” if your gonna text me at least say something that spikes an interest im a big music lover, gamer , artist and I read dark romance smut books that you’d probably think I need to see a therapist for my type is tall , dark hair, preferably tattoos anddd can pull of a mask (I loveeee masked men💕)
Female (21) Sheffield, South Yorkshire

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