If you’ve watched the little ad on my page…
then you already know my inbox isn’t quiet.
So no. You’re not the only one talking to me.
I will not rush for anyone.
Do not spam.
Do not guilt trip.
Do not pester.
If you cannot wait at least 24 hours for a reply, you do not have the patience for me.
I am building my life. I will answer when I can or if I choose to. 🤭🖤
Switch energy. Always.
1- Sub
2- MDLB (caregiver)
3- DDLG (with boundaries)
4- Dom
4- Brat/Bitch
What you get first depends entirely on your energy, your tone, your confidence.
Main things I look for:
Trust. Honesty. Emotional intelligence.
But let’s make something clear.
Sub is the first thing I am.
I melt for praise and composure, the kind of patience that slowly turns firm, that doesn’t flinch when I test it.
I enjoy pushing buttons and seeing if you stay steady oh and I fully expect you to handle the consequences.
I know my limits and my kinks.
I’ll share them when the vibe is right.
I want to explore them, challenge, pushed but never pushed past.
CNC is something I enjoy but only where trust is built, boundaries are clear, and control is intentional. If you don’t understand the responsibility behind that dynamic, we won’t align.
I want control taken confidently.
Not asked for. Not performed. Taken.
I’m not looking to be owned.
But if you’d like to be owned for a little while… you can try your luck.
Messaging me does not entitle you to my attention.
Viewing your profile does not guarantee a reply.
If we do connect, I will send you something to read.
It outlines expectations, communication, care, control, and how I like dynamics to run.
Titles I accept: Ma’am, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, Goddess. 👑
I expect honesty.
I expect patience.
I expect communication.
Don’t ask me for pictures, I reward good behaviour. 📸
I don’t demand *** but generosity is noticed. 🐷💷
Care. Communication. Control.
Do you understand?
DDLG / MDLB:
Care and comfort will always exist first.
DDLG is new to me.
No period talk. No baby ages. No nappies.
MDLB: Structure, reassurance, praise… but still respect. 🍼🖤
Dom side:
It’s been interesting discovering how assertive I can be. I’ve enjoyed watching someone on their knees, grateful for my attention.
If you want more from me, you earn it.
Tell me.
Show me.
Questions:
Im single after a long relationship. Now I’m exploring what I like, what I don’t, and having fun.
“Do you have nice feet?”
Yes. size 6. Pretty. Always tapping to music. 🎶
sc: Yes, same username. follow me, I’ll only accept if we’re already talking on here.
“Can I take you out?”
If we vibe, yes.
I don’t drink (medical reasons so neither can you).
Activities: dinner. Something fun. Slightly chaotic.
Things that make me happy:
Thumb-hole jumpers.
Blueberry muffins.
Dancing/Singing around the house.
Oat milk coffee.
Stormy beach walks.
Anime.
Cleaning & organising.
Halloween heists.
Boho living. 🍃
Mediterranean food.
Music 24/7:
Sleep Token. James. Anastasia. Simon and Garfunkel. Radiohead. R.E.M. Nirvana. Teddy Swims. Foo Fighters. Aitch. Alanis Morissette. Eesderkid. DnB. Lofi. Acoustic.
You know when you hear a word and your brain auto-continues a lyric? Yep. That’s me. 😂
Things that annoy me:
Jazz.
Leaving lids off things.
Dog owners who don’t clean up.
Slow walkers.
Small reminder:
This much attention is new to me and sometimes a little overwhelming.
I’m doing my best to respond thoughtfully while still living my life. Patience and understanding are very attractive. And if you’ve read all of this… thank you. That already tells me something about you. 🖤
