Kinky women in Bury St Edmunds

Assertive yet submissive and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance. . It’s fire and softness coexisting side by side. I will absolutely dominate you if you give me nothing to follow. Confident-ish. Intelligent. Independent. I know how to take care of myself, so am never going to blindly hand over trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it. My independence is how I survive the world. My submission is how I feel safe, I know the rules, the structure. It's predictable, it means that I can rest within it whilst testing the structure from time to time. . if you are truthful, respectful and grounded in the way that creates safety, not chaos and insecurity, I will submit, not out of weakness, but out of trust. Submission is a choice, not a default/starting position. . I require a man who knows where he’s going. A man with purpose, with presence, with consistency. I don’t and won't respond to control, I respond to clarity. I’m not impressed by power plays or ego. I want connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect. A D/s relationship starts with each party having equal power else, what power am I giving up when I surrender mine? . I will not follow a man who doesn’t value my mind, my heart, my soul. I will not shrink just to make you feel big. But I will soften, let my guard down, and become the biggest cheerleader you’ve ever known. I just need to feel safe enough to show that side. . I don’t need a man to control me. I need a man who knows how to lead, without loosing myself in the process. .

I live in Bury St Edmunds I work in Cambridge She/Her. 36 Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile Switch. Sadomasochist. Bi. Married. (33 He/Him) American in the UK Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician) Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats) Originally from Miami,FL. Latina. Colombian LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd. Lover of food Let’s explore a new restaurant together Relationships I’m currently interested in Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country) Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me MissCybrid on most social platforms

NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!

someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨

little bit naughty, little bit nice… Not sure what I’m here for. Newly single. Not looking for anything serious at the moment. Intelligence is important to me, I need to feel intellectually kept on my toes otherwise I will get bored

I live in Bury St Edmunds I work in Cambridge She/Her. 36 Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile Switch. Sadomasochist. Bi. Married. (33 He/Him) American in the UK Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician) Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats) Originally from Miami,FL. Latina. Colombian LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd. Lover of food Let’s explore a new restaurant together Relationships I’m currently interested in Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country) Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me MissCybrid on most social platforms

Assertive yet submissive and no, that’s not a contradiction. It’s balance. . It’s fire and softness coexisting side by side. I will absolutely dominate you if you give me nothing to follow. Confident-ish. Intelligent. Independent. I know how to take care of myself, so am never going to blindly hand over trust or energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it. My independence is how I survive the world. My submission is how I feel safe, I know the rules, the structure. It's predictable, it means that I can rest within it whilst testing the structure from time to time. . if you are truthful, respectful and grounded in the way that creates safety, not chaos and insecurity, I will submit, not out of weakness, but out of trust. Submission is a choice, not a default/starting position. . I require a man who knows where he’s going. A man with purpose, with presence, with consistency. I don’t and won't respond to control, I respond to clarity. I’m not impressed by power plays or ego. I want connection. Emotional leadership. Mutual respect. A D/s relationship starts with each party having equal power else, what power am I giving up when I surrender mine? . I will not follow a man who doesn’t value my mind, my heart, my soul. I will not shrink just to make you feel big. But I will soften, let my guard down, and become the biggest cheerleader you’ve ever known. I just need to feel safe enough to show that side. . I don’t need a man to control me. I need a man who knows how to lead, without loosing myself in the process. .

someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨

NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!

little bit naughty, little bit nice… Not sure what I’m here for. Newly single. Not looking for anything serious at the moment. Intelligence is important to me, I need to feel intellectually kept on my toes otherwise I will get bored