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Assertive and submissive aren’t opposites to me, they’re balance. Strength and softness, side by side… like hot chocolate and marshmallows (or me sneaking the blanket and your last bit of Ben and Jerrys). . I’m confidentish, mostly intelligent, and very independent. I don’t hand over my trust or energy lightly. Independence is how I navigate the world; submission is how I feel safe, through clear structure, rules, and predictability. That structure lets me rest (and yes, I’ll test it occasionally, because a little mischief keeps life spicy). . If you lead with honesty, respect, and grounded presence, create safety not chaos, and can actually communicate effectively, without making me guess, I’ll submit. Not from weakness, but from trust. Submission is a choice, never a default, and definitely not something I hand out like Haribo. . I respond to clarity, not ambiguity. Purpose, consistency, and connection matter more than ego or power games (save the posturing). In D/s, power starts with me being equal to you, otherwise what am I actually surrendering? . I won’t shrink to make you feel bigger. But when I feel safe, I’ll soften completely and become your personal cheerleader, maybe with occasional jazz hands. . I don’t want to be controlled, I want to be led without losing myself. Bonus points if you can flirt back, laugh at my sarcasm, and maybe even keep up with my mischief. If you’re cheeky enough, I might even let you steal the ice cream. Sometimes. .
Female (47) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I live in Bury St Edmunds I work in Cambridge She/Her. 36 Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile Switch. Sadomasochist. Bi. Married. (33 He/Him) American in the UK Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician) Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats) Originally from Miami,FL. Latina. Colombian LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd. Lover of food Let’s explore a new restaurant together Relationships I’m currently interested in Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country) Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me MissCybrid on most social platforms
Female (35) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (21) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (26) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
little bit naughty, little bit nice… Not sure what I’m here for. Newly single. Not looking for anything serious at the moment. Intelligence is important to me, I need to feel intellectually kept on my toes otherwise I will get bored
Female (41) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk

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I live in Bury St Edmunds I work in Cambridge She/Her. 36 Poly. I don’t do unicorn hunters and my partners and I all date separately but I enjoy the polycule shenanigans every once in awhile Switch. Sadomasochist. Bi. Married. (33 He/Him) American in the UK Lab Cat. (Radiochemistry Laboratory Technician) Aspiring Crazy Cat Lady. (2 cats) Originally from Miami,FL. Latina. Colombian LARPer, Table-topper and all around nerd. Lover of food Let’s explore a new restaurant together Relationships I’m currently interested in Friends (I don’t know many folx since moving to this country) Play Partners (been sorely missing some kink time) ** caveat kink doesn’t necessarily mean sex to me so if you have to have sex with your kink then maybe I’m not the right person Terrible at messaging first but good at answering if you do message me MissCybrid on most social platforms
Female (35) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Assertive and submissive aren’t opposites to me, they’re balance. Strength and softness, side by side… like hot chocolate and marshmallows (or me sneaking the blanket and your last bit of Ben and Jerrys). . I’m confidentish, mostly intelligent, and very independent. I don’t hand over my trust or energy lightly. Independence is how I navigate the world; submission is how I feel safe, through clear structure, rules, and predictability. That structure lets me rest (and yes, I’ll test it occasionally, because a little mischief keeps life spicy). . If you lead with honesty, respect, and grounded presence, create safety not chaos, and can actually communicate effectively, without making me guess, I’ll submit. Not from weakness, but from trust. Submission is a choice, never a default, and definitely not something I hand out like Haribo. . I respond to clarity, not ambiguity. Purpose, consistency, and connection matter more than ego or power games (save the posturing). In D/s, power starts with me being equal to you, otherwise what am I actually surrendering? . I won’t shrink to make you feel bigger. But when I feel safe, I’ll soften completely and become your personal cheerleader, maybe with occasional jazz hands. . I don’t want to be controlled, I want to be led without losing myself. Bonus points if you can flirt back, laugh at my sarcasm, and maybe even keep up with my mischief. If you’re cheeky enough, I might even let you steal the ice cream. Sometimes. .
Female (47) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) want that Gomez and Mortisha kinda thing ✨ dad bod for the win ✨- I want someone who can scoop me up yfm ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (21) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (26) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
little bit naughty, little bit nice… Not sure what I’m here for. Newly single. Not looking for anything serious at the moment. Intelligence is important to me, I need to feel intellectually kept on my toes otherwise I will get bored
Female (41) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk

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