Find kinky women in West Midlands

Don't message me if you're in your 20s or younger than me. I'm not interested in switches or men that are less than 100% dominant. Flexi sub with a multitude of sides to her, but if you want labels I'm a sub with little tendencies and an occasional brat that likes to be petted and given the Princess treatment while giving my Sir (who is 23 years older than me) all my attention and the adoration as he deserves. Hey there, I'm a spooky gal, gamer, artist and lover of Autumn. I'm just here to make friends with like minded individuals. If you're a fellow sub and would like a new friend please reach out and say hello! I'm a Whimsigoth type of girly. I love Autumn, Halloween and all things witchy. I'm a collared Submissive to my wonderful Sir of 2 years. Not interested in meets or hook ups and no you can't buy my panties, thank you.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
52 Year old woman seeking a Domme/switch In 2020 i met my Dom for a year i was his faithful sub, then after a year we fell in love, so he can't bring himself to punish me. So he's now my boyfriend now and we are very happy together, he still protects me but has given me his blessing to seek what im looking for My boyfriend supports me fully, he's the most important thing in my life, and we discuss everything I can accommodate here in Halesowen and travel a short distance, not only do I like females/men at my feet, I like to be at theirs, but I like friendship as well Messages from men will be instantly deleted and blocked, so don't waste your time and mine. I will contact men if I like what I see. If women want to know more message me. If the right Domme/Dom comes along i will try to please you And I dont want to be owned 24/7. just like to add in my pics I've a stool for sale £48 must collect from halesowen And two sets of cuffs both £60 these we can post at extra cost
Female (53) Dudley, West Midlands
Hello. I'm in a kind of open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands.
Female (30) Coventry, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi and welcome to my profile and my every own kinky corner aka the unicorn dungeon! ? All photos on my profile are mine and CANNOT be used elsewhere without my explicit consent. If you are on the app only some will show due to many of them being deemed NSFW! But if you head on over to the website you will be able to see many of my kink photos in all their glory, Enjoy! Anyway back to the good stuff! As you may have already deciphered from my username I am a pretty big anime fan and a self proclaimed weeb too ? I love trying new things and experiencing different cultures whether that be in everyday "vanilla" life or in kink and BDSM. How I look at it life is far too short not to explore all the incredible things in it! So if you think you've got a recommendation of something new to try whether it be food, TV shows, hobbies or kink I'd love to hear about it! Who knows could be my next favourite thing (please keep it LEGAL though folks! ?‍♀️) If you're curious to learn more about the geek behind the screen then feel free to drop me a message Please do be RESPECTFUL and POLITE with messages while I'm pretty laid back in general, I do NOT tolerate rudeness or people thinking I'm a doormat. You have been warned ? On a lighter note, in regards to friend requests these will only be accepted if I have met you in person or spoken to you over webchat or a phone call. Looking forward to talking to new and old friends alike, lots of squishy hugs Anime Blonde x ❤️????❤️????❤️???? BDSM Test Results (just for fun!) 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 97% Submissive 91% Masochist 90% Experimentalist 85% Non-monogamist 84% Boy/Girl 79% Rigger 78% Switch 74% Sadist 74% Slave 70% Daddy/Mommy 69% Ageplayer 67% Exhibitionist 64% Degrader 63% Dominant 60% Voyeur 54% Pet 53% Vanilla 47% Brat tamer 43% Master/Mistress 38% Degradee 34% Owner 31% Primal (Hunter) ❤️????❤️????❤️???? Alas brave adventurer you have chosen to delve deeper into the 'unicorn dungeon'! ? The good news is this is where we keep the juicy bits! ? Current interests You know a girl can never have too many interests..... - Impact (I lean more on the thuddy side of life ?️) - Sensation play (Especially after some impact or wax ) - Hunter / Prey (would loveeeeee to try a hunt one day) - Collar and Leashes - Breeding play (Roleplay only - I am not trying to get pregnant) - Breeding play (unprotected - within soft limit guidelines i.e. only practiced with one tested partner at a time - safety first!) - Wax Play (Loving UV at the moment ?️) - CNC (within soft limits guidelines - DO NOT message me asking to rape me I am interested in consensual roleplay NOT rape.) - Rope Bondage / Shibari (Currently learning so tips are always appropriated ?) - Restraints (excluding latex ones due to allergies) - Possession play (Roleplay based - I don't need someone who thinks a woman is a possession to be owned) - Marking (biting, scratching, bruises within limits discussed ) ------------------------------------------- Wanting to explore / Curious about You know what they say; curiosity killed the cat ? - Electric play ⚡ (currently have tried violet wands & reverse contact) - Wax (Giving in a domme capacity) - Suspension (Receiving - I am interested in giving but I am NOT yet skilled enough) - Rope (Giving & Receiving) - Fem Dom (Exploring slowly - this is a really new side that I'm letting out so slowly does it ?) - Impact (Giving in a domme capacity.) -------------------------------------------- LIMITS Soft limits These are things I would be happy to try BUT they would need to be with the correct person and in the right situation with the correct safety measures. - DDLG ( I am not looking for someone to call Daddy - my little side is more of a personality trait I do not do age regression) - Degrading (I only allow those I know don't truly mean what they say to practice this with me.) - CNC (Do NOT message me saying about rape, I am not interested in rape I am interested in consensual roleplay) - Severe impact (To the point of drawing blood) - Breeding play (I am not interested in getting pregnant in real life, it is purely roleplay for me.) - Suspension (The other party must be experienced and the first couple sessions must be in a public setting i.e. an event or club so that if anything happens the is extra hands to help!) - Heavy breath play (i.e. using tools to restrict breathing) - Fire play (person must understand what they are doing with fuels and how to treat burns should the worst happen) Hard Limits These are things at THIS phase in my life are a no. - Scat - Cutting - Needles (currently learning about them and may potentially move onto soft soonish) - Cum, Pee or marks over my tattoos (they are sentimental tattoos of family who have passed) - Vomit - Blood letting / sharing - Being locked in small spaces - Torture Play - Rape Play (explicitly saying you want to rape me , or saying "I'm raping you" are triggers for me , don't be a ? and say that to me.) Congratulations adventurer you 'fought' valiantly and have reached the end of the dungeon. We look forward to seeing you on your next conquest! ??‍♀️ In the meantime we leave you with some words of wisdom from the great unicorn herself ..... You will only regret the opportunities you didn't take..... So fuck other people's opinions and do you! ? PS. Yeah I'm a huge geek did you not realise that at the start?!?! To collect your bounty please mention "Donald Ducks Nephews" extra points if you know their names and a gold star ? if you know what they should have been named!
Female (24) Dudley, West Midlands
**Everyone wants to be my friend until I tell them I just want to be their friend.** Just your average girl! I don't want hook ups, I just want to make like-minded friends so I can figure myself out :> I'm geeky, I like drawing & designing game characters & reminiscing the N64 days. I buy a lot of gaming merch.
Female (32) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for a slave to worship me for the Goddess that I am. You will be smothered, made to kiss and lick my feet as I take complete control of you.
Female (45) Solihull, West Midlands
Hi I'm Pixie its been a long time since my first and only experience of being a domme. I crave domming, its been too long. My ex enjoyed anal play (recieving), breathe play, latex, degradation, and other tid bits. I like to think of myself as a sensual pleasure domme ... with a keen interest in toying, pegging, latex, bondage and edging. I am open to discussion when it comes to my submissive. experimentation leads to growth after all. Essentially I'd prefer a relationship as I'm not a 1 and done kinda gal. I am aware there are doms/dommes out there that wish to dom/domme me but that's not what I'm interested in, so please don't ask or worse demand this of me in dms. pixie.
Female (39) Walsall, West Midlands
**************************************************** GEN XX (I am a woman...yes, and i have to write this now...sigh...) Sapiosexual, sensual, sometimes sadistic kinkster here, I am evolving quietly but rapidly, that's all I have at the moment to convey. I am vaccinated to fuck and scrupulously clean, I expect that from you, I don't do scat, urine, Poly(ester), needles, scarring, dark stuff... I am in the West Midlands so LOCAL is what I prefer as I am on the HUNT. Here to embark on an amazing journey of kink self discovery. Please feel free to message me if you are a good person, no odd, challenging types please as seeking a like minded soul, and have worked hard on myself and ready to meet. Rope is my main jam and would love to meet a rigger and eventually have a life partner with this qualification. This excites me, I am also researching shabiri for my own pleasure ... I also would love to meet a Pleasure Daddy Dom, I feel I need to be nurtured and moulded to be what you want me to be, omit my bossy, bratty ways from me. Please do not request to view my pics if you only have ONE pic and you have sent me one sentence... NO virtual pen pals as I want to meet in person, I will not be online titillation for your narcissistic and 'lonely' and bored fetish needs and just because this is a fet site, it's a DATING SITE! NO MARRIED/PARTNER MALES AS I'M NOT INTERESTED, as the Ashley Madison site would be more suitable for you cheaters out there. I look forward to meeting you lovely, single men. **************************************************** **Desires and Fantasies** Oh gosh.... Love to write some saucy stuff...
Female (51) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm a autassassinophilia & Masochist Love knife play & blood play Love CNC Love to be dominated, humiliated, degraded,choked & mind fucks..I need to be used and abused I'm very submissive These are non negotiable, I'm not satisfied without it
Goddess Britney, or Goddess B Top, Domme My kinks are impact play, race play (BNWO femdom), forced feminization, facesitting, water sports/golden showers, domestic servitude), pegging, humiliation and degradation. I would like to take pictures of inferiors with or without face to post on fetlife at times and I would like to explore joi, CBT, cum control and electro more.
Female (36) Birmingham, West Midlands
she/they 27 year old enby switch(sub leaning) pansexual and open to lots of things. Hopeless romantic just trying to find my forever person Heavily tatted, piercings, metal lover, horror lover love to chat and share experiences, meet people, learn from others, and just generally get to know new people. Feel free to message or ask me anything⭐ Also if you don't have a profile picture I most likely won't reply to you, sorry bout it speak to me with respect and you'll get much further NOT interested in couples or people who aren't single my limits are hard limits, do not try to convince or persuade me to change my mind ☆ **Desires and Fantasies** -exhibitionism -dom/sub dynamics -blood play -knifeplay -spanking/impact play -post orgasm torture -denial -edging -car sex -watersports -cbt -breeding kink among many other things
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 85% Submissive 78% Switch 75% Rope bunny 72% Masochist 72% Brat 64% Experimentalist 62% Degradee 60% Degrader 58% Primal (Prey) 57% Voyeur 44% Sadist 43% Vanilla 43% Dominant 40% Rigger 36% Slave 33% Brat tamer 32% Primal (Hunter) 31% Exhibitionist 21% Daddy/Mommy 20% Boy/Girl 20% Owner 19% Pet 12% Non-monogamist 12% Master/Mistress 10% Ageplayer
I DO NOT OFFER PAID SERVICES, STOP ASKING. round bitch looking for dates and maybe more. currently mistress to my life partner. big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. Switch because I love it both ways. don't get all thirsty in my DMs because I won't dignify you with an answer. not as aggressive as I seem.
Single submissive looking to explore more
Female (44) Solihull, West Midlands
'Hi, I am a 39 year old creative soul, interested in all things fantasy and sci-fi. But with a particular fascination with the darker side of fantasy. I am a great reader and indulge in my hobby regularly, most days you could probably find me curled up with a good story. My other great love is crafting and I specialise in making chainmail and bespoke pieces. I am a curvy girl, with firey hair and smiling eyes. I am looking for a connection with a strong minded Dom/me, I can be a little bit of a handful on occasions and have a fierce streak despite my submissive tendencies. My Dom/me will guide me with a loving spirit and a firm hand, giving me care and support and nurturing my abilities to be my true self.'' I'm asexual so if that's what your looking for I'm probably not for you, I'm looking for a longterm connection where I can explore my little/brat side with a strong dom/me who will set rules and routine and enforce them IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME
Female (41) Dudley, West Midlands
I care deeply for ALL of My sub/slaves each one is special to Me each slowly over time having the chance of accompanying Me to fetish clubs for events around the West Midlands. I take newbies happy to train from scratch do not feel that your inexperience would waste My time such is not true. Look to My website (url below) for fetishes I personally enjoy granting. I offer real time meetings, I happily grant soft and sensual sessions all the way up to the harder more intense beatings simply ask. The best way to serve Madam is in a real time session. All sessions are granted in a private setting in the West Midlands. It is in your best interest to be polite, honest and articulate when you request a session. For session inquiries contact Me
Female (50) Dudley, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love pain and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high pain tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (22) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hi I'm very friendly so feel free to chat, I'm into ddlg, pet play and being degraded. My little age is 3-5, I look forward to your message xx
Female (22) Coventry, West Midlands
Submissive woman with brains looking for an older dominant/daddy. If you're not atleast 50 please do not waste your time as I am only looking for men between 50 and 70. Will update further...
Female (34) Coventry, West Midlands
Hello. I’m a submissive little, who lives with her Daddy. He’s poly, and I am exploring poly. I am looking for connections which might lead to relationships, and for more experiences in the medical fetish world. I have a massive desire to be dominated and totally controlled in the medical setting, with all of the bells and whistles, equipment and environment, restraints and tubes, sensation and deprivation, which that might entail. I also love impact play, being restrained, and getting to be a good girl, amongst other things! I’m based roughly in the middle of England. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. A while back, Fet.com threw a Dark Horse my way! His messages were ladened with humour, so funny that I was struggling to see what lay beneath but curiosity got the better of me. A nervous coffee together on a cold bench. So much laughter & talking that hours flew by & even then, talk of play was nervously approached so I was still unaware of what lay beneath this jovial beauty. OH MY WORD….what lay beneath was the darkest of Dark Horses! Someone who not only allowed me to be my wild self with no judgement but someone who made me want to allow them to take care of my aftercare! Someone who proved that there was someone who could Dominate on my level. Our beautiful journey has continued since. He is not only my Dom but also my life partner, my soul mate, the missing piece of me & my best friend & I ask that you be respectful of that. I am a very witty (hilarious & sarcastic), honest (blunt), quirky (weird), strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive. After being a Domme since my teenage years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub when I was 40, I know my role very clearly. I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience. Looking to chat to, learn & share information with experienced Dom/mes, subs (& Wolves in grandmas clothing) within & outside the BDSM world. I’ve made some amazing friendships & strong connections on here & that’s what’s important to me. I’m happy to continue making friendships & connections as I skip quirkily along this yellow-twisted-sadistic-brick-road. I am Not looking for any other partners, anything ‘on the side’, any other Dom’s or friendships that suggest ‘let see where this goes’. I’m a huge believer in ‘if you see something beautiful, say so’ so if I like your pics or comment on them please take it as a compliment, not as a come-on. I am a BDSM owned sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother. I will speak to you with respect & manners but also expect the same in return so if your conversation does not start with a polite ‘hello etc’ & jumps straight into some kind of kink led sentence, please don’t expect a reply. Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.
Female (48) Solihull, West Midlands

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Submissive woman with brains looking for an older dominant/daddy. If you're not atleast 50 please do not waste your time as I am only looking for men between 50 and 70. Will update further...
Female (34) Coventry, West Midlands
Don't message me if you're in your 20s or younger than me. I'm not interested in switches or men that are less than 100% dominant. Flexi sub with a multitude of sides to her, but if you want labels I'm a sub with little tendencies and an occasional brat that likes to be petted and given the Princess treatment while giving my Sir (who is 23 years older than me) all my attention and the adoration as he deserves. Hey there, I'm a spooky gal, gamer, artist and lover of Autumn. I'm just here to make friends with like minded individuals. If you're a fellow sub and would like a new friend please reach out and say hello! I'm a Whimsigoth type of girly. I love Autumn, Halloween and all things witchy. I'm a collared Submissive to my wonderful Sir of 2 years. Not interested in meets or hook ups and no you can't buy my panties, thank you.
Female (33) Birmingham, West Midlands
I'm a autassassinophilia & Masochist Love knife play & blood play Love CNC Love to be dominated, humiliated, degraded,choked & mind fucks..I need to be used and abused I'm very submissive These are non negotiable, I'm not satisfied without it
I care deeply for ALL of My sub/slaves each one is special to Me each slowly over time having the chance of accompanying Me to fetish clubs for events around the West Midlands. I take newbies happy to train from scratch do not feel that your inexperience would waste My time such is not true. Look to My website (url below) for fetishes I personally enjoy granting. I offer real time meetings, I happily grant soft and sensual sessions all the way up to the harder more intense beatings simply ask. The best way to serve Madam is in a real time session. All sessions are granted in a private setting in the West Midlands. It is in your best interest to be polite, honest and articulate when you request a session. For session inquiries contact Me
Female (50) Dudley, West Midlands
Single submissive looking to explore more
Female (44) Solihull, West Midlands
Goddess Britney, or Goddess B Top, Domme My kinks are impact play, race play (BNWO femdom), forced feminization, facesitting, water sports/golden showers, domestic servitude), pegging, humiliation and degradation. I would like to take pictures of inferiors with or without face to post on fetlife at times and I would like to explore joi, CBT, cum control and electro more.
Female (36) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hello. I’m a submissive little, who lives with her Daddy. He’s poly, and I am exploring poly. I am looking for connections which might lead to relationships, and for more experiences in the medical fetish world. I have a massive desire to be dominated and totally controlled in the medical setting, with all of the bells and whistles, equipment and environment, restraints and tubes, sensation and deprivation, which that might entail. I also love impact play, being restrained, and getting to be a good girl, amongst other things! I’m based roughly in the middle of England. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Female (43) Birmingham, West Midlands
**Everyone wants to be my friend until I tell them I just want to be their friend.** Just your average girl! I don't want hook ups, I just want to make like-minded friends so I can figure myself out :> I'm geeky, I like drawing & designing game characters & reminiscing the N64 days. I buy a lot of gaming merch.
Female (32) Birmingham, West Midlands
Hello. I'm in a kind of open relationship, looking for fellow bisexual/bicurious individuals to chat with first to build trust, become friends and explore more our kinks etc in a long term relationship. No one night stands. No straight guys. Preferably in West Midlands.
Female (30) Coventry, West Midlands
Hi I'm Pixie its been a long time since my first and only experience of being a domme. I crave domming, its been too long. My ex enjoyed anal play (recieving), breathe play, latex, degradation, and other tid bits. I like to think of myself as a sensual pleasure domme ... with a keen interest in toying, pegging, latex, bondage and edging. I am open to discussion when it comes to my submissive. experimentation leads to growth after all. Essentially I'd prefer a relationship as I'm not a 1 and done kinda gal. I am aware there are doms/dommes out there that wish to dom/domme me but that's not what I'm interested in, so please don't ask or worse demand this of me in dms. pixie.
Female (39) Walsall, West Midlands
Looking for a slave to worship me for the Goddess that I am. You will be smothered, made to kiss and lick my feet as I take complete control of you.
Female (45) Solihull, West Midlands
Hi and welcome to my profile and my every own kinky corner aka the unicorn dungeon! ? All photos on my profile are mine and CANNOT be used elsewhere without my explicit consent. If you are on the app only some will show due to many of them being deemed NSFW! But if you head on over to the website you will be able to see many of my kink photos in all their glory, Enjoy! Anyway back to the good stuff! As you may have already deciphered from my username I am a pretty big anime fan and a self proclaimed weeb too ? I love trying new things and experiencing different cultures whether that be in everyday "vanilla" life or in kink and BDSM. How I look at it life is far too short not to explore all the incredible things in it! So if you think you've got a recommendation of something new to try whether it be food, TV shows, hobbies or kink I'd love to hear about it! Who knows could be my next favourite thing (please keep it LEGAL though folks! ?‍♀️) If you're curious to learn more about the geek behind the screen then feel free to drop me a message Please do be RESPECTFUL and POLITE with messages while I'm pretty laid back in general, I do NOT tolerate rudeness or people thinking I'm a doormat. You have been warned ? On a lighter note, in regards to friend requests these will only be accepted if I have met you in person or spoken to you over webchat or a phone call. Looking forward to talking to new and old friends alike, lots of squishy hugs Anime Blonde x ❤️????❤️????❤️???? BDSM Test Results (just for fun!) 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 97% Submissive 91% Masochist 90% Experimentalist 85% Non-monogamist 84% Boy/Girl 79% Rigger 78% Switch 74% Sadist 74% Slave 70% Daddy/Mommy 69% Ageplayer 67% Exhibitionist 64% Degrader 63% Dominant 60% Voyeur 54% Pet 53% Vanilla 47% Brat tamer 43% Master/Mistress 38% Degradee 34% Owner 31% Primal (Hunter) ❤️????❤️????❤️???? Alas brave adventurer you have chosen to delve deeper into the 'unicorn dungeon'! ? The good news is this is where we keep the juicy bits! ? Current interests You know a girl can never have too many interests..... - Impact (I lean more on the thuddy side of life ?️) - Sensation play (Especially after some impact or wax ) - Hunter / Prey (would loveeeeee to try a hunt one day) - Collar and Leashes - Breeding play (Roleplay only - I am not trying to get pregnant) - Breeding play (unprotected - within soft limit guidelines i.e. only practiced with one tested partner at a time - safety first!) - Wax Play (Loving UV at the moment ?️) - CNC (within soft limits guidelines - DO NOT message me asking to rape me I am interested in consensual roleplay NOT rape.) - Rope Bondage / Shibari (Currently learning so tips are always appropriated ?) - Restraints (excluding latex ones due to allergies) - Possession play (Roleplay based - I don't need someone who thinks a woman is a possession to be owned) - Marking (biting, scratching, bruises within limits discussed ) ------------------------------------------- Wanting to explore / Curious about You know what they say; curiosity killed the cat ? - Electric play ⚡ (currently have tried violet wands & reverse contact) - Wax (Giving in a domme capacity) - Suspension (Receiving - I am interested in giving but I am NOT yet skilled enough) - Rope (Giving & Receiving) - Fem Dom (Exploring slowly - this is a really new side that I'm letting out so slowly does it ?) - Impact (Giving in a domme capacity.) -------------------------------------------- LIMITS Soft limits These are things I would be happy to try BUT they would need to be with the correct person and in the right situation with the correct safety measures. - DDLG ( I am not looking for someone to call Daddy - my little side is more of a personality trait I do not do age regression) - Degrading (I only allow those I know don't truly mean what they say to practice this with me.) - CNC (Do NOT message me saying about rape, I am not interested in rape I am interested in consensual roleplay) - Severe impact (To the point of drawing blood) - Breeding play (I am not interested in getting pregnant in real life, it is purely roleplay for me.) - Suspension (The other party must be experienced and the first couple sessions must be in a public setting i.e. an event or club so that if anything happens the is extra hands to help!) - Heavy breath play (i.e. using tools to restrict breathing) - Fire play (person must understand what they are doing with fuels and how to treat burns should the worst happen) Hard Limits These are things at THIS phase in my life are a no. - Scat - Cutting - Needles (currently learning about them and may potentially move onto soft soonish) - Cum, Pee or marks over my tattoos (they are sentimental tattoos of family who have passed) - Vomit - Blood letting / sharing - Being locked in small spaces - Torture Play - Rape Play (explicitly saying you want to rape me , or saying "I'm raping you" are triggers for me , don't be a ? and say that to me.) Congratulations adventurer you 'fought' valiantly and have reached the end of the dungeon. We look forward to seeing you on your next conquest! ??‍♀️ In the meantime we leave you with some words of wisdom from the great unicorn herself ..... You will only regret the opportunities you didn't take..... So fuck other people's opinions and do you! ? PS. Yeah I'm a huge geek did you not realise that at the start?!?! To collect your bounty please mention "Donald Ducks Nephews" extra points if you know their names and a gold star ? if you know what they should have been named!
Female (24) Dudley, West Midlands
Mainly just horny and kinky, looking to experiment further with bdsm, I prefer mostly kinky fun and identify mostly as a masochist, not probably looking for anything long term, just want to be fun and punished, I love pain and love having my ass tits and pussy destroyed ;) I also pierced my own nipples so have a high pain tolerance and am very open minded, Can't really think of any hard limits so pretty much up for anything after we discuss it ;)
Female (22) Birmingham, West Midlands
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 85% Submissive 78% Switch 75% Rope bunny 72% Masochist 72% Brat 64% Experimentalist 62% Degradee 60% Degrader 58% Primal (Prey) 57% Voyeur 44% Sadist 43% Vanilla 43% Dominant 40% Rigger 36% Slave 33% Brat tamer 32% Primal (Hunter) 31% Exhibitionist 21% Daddy/Mommy 20% Boy/Girl 20% Owner 19% Pet 12% Non-monogamist 12% Master/Mistress 10% Ageplayer
Hi I'm very friendly so feel free to chat, I'm into ddlg, pet play and being degraded. My little age is 3-5, I look forward to your message xx
Female (22) Coventry, West Midlands
**************************************************** GEN XX (I am a woman...yes, and i have to write this now...sigh...) Sapiosexual, sensual, sometimes sadistic kinkster here, I am evolving quietly but rapidly, that's all I have at the moment to convey. I am vaccinated to fuck and scrupulously clean, I expect that from you, I don't do scat, urine, Poly(ester), needles, scarring, dark stuff... I am in the West Midlands so LOCAL is what I prefer as I am on the HUNT. Here to embark on an amazing journey of kink self discovery. Please feel free to message me if you are a good person, no odd, challenging types please as seeking a like minded soul, and have worked hard on myself and ready to meet. Rope is my main jam and would love to meet a rigger and eventually have a life partner with this qualification. This excites me, I am also researching shabiri for my own pleasure ... I also would love to meet a Pleasure Daddy Dom, I feel I need to be nurtured and moulded to be what you want me to be, omit my bossy, bratty ways from me. Please do not request to view my pics if you only have ONE pic and you have sent me one sentence... NO virtual pen pals as I want to meet in person, I will not be online titillation for your narcissistic and 'lonely' and bored fetish needs and just because this is a fet site, it's a DATING SITE! NO MARRIED/PARTNER MALES AS I'M NOT INTERESTED, as the Ashley Madison site would be more suitable for you cheaters out there. I look forward to meeting you lovely, single men. **************************************************** **Desires and Fantasies** Oh gosh.... Love to write some saucy stuff...
Female (51) Birmingham, West Midlands
I DO NOT OFFER PAID SERVICES, STOP ASKING. round bitch looking for dates and maybe more. currently mistress to my life partner. big lover of dogs, pubs and nerdy shit. Switch because I love it both ways. don't get all thirsty in my DMs because I won't dignify you with an answer. not as aggressive as I seem.
52 Year old woman seeking a Domme/switch In 2020 i met my Dom for a year i was his faithful sub, then after a year we fell in love, so he can't bring himself to punish me. So he's now my boyfriend now and we are very happy together, he still protects me but has given me his blessing to seek what im looking for My boyfriend supports me fully, he's the most important thing in my life, and we discuss everything I can accommodate here in Halesowen and travel a short distance, not only do I like females/men at my feet, I like to be at theirs, but I like friendship as well Messages from men will be instantly deleted and blocked, so don't waste your time and mine. I will contact men if I like what I see. If women want to know more message me. If the right Domme/Dom comes along i will try to please you And I dont want to be owned 24/7. just like to add in my pics I've a stool for sale £48 must collect from halesowen And two sets of cuffs both £60 these we can post at extra cost
Female (53) Dudley, West Midlands
she/they 27 year old enby switch(sub leaning) pansexual and open to lots of things. Hopeless romantic just trying to find my forever person Heavily tatted, piercings, metal lover, horror lover love to chat and share experiences, meet people, learn from others, and just generally get to know new people. Feel free to message or ask me anything⭐ Also if you don't have a profile picture I most likely won't reply to you, sorry bout it speak to me with respect and you'll get much further NOT interested in couples or people who aren't single my limits are hard limits, do not try to convince or persuade me to change my mind ☆ **Desires and Fantasies** -exhibitionism -dom/sub dynamics -blood play -knifeplay -spanking/impact play -post orgasm torture -denial -edging -car sex -watersports -cbt -breeding kink among many other things
Female (27) Birmingham, West Midlands
Looking for friends and being part of the community. not looking for hook ups, very happy with my partner. If you really think id be interested in you, how about you message my partner and ask him, im sure he will hear you out. If you message me ill just ignore you, only looking for friends. **Desires and Fantasies** Don't think it's suitable to put here as I'm not looking for a partner and that's private to me and my better half.
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
'Hi, I am a 39 year old creative soul, interested in all things fantasy and sci-fi. But with a particular fascination with the darker side of fantasy. I am a great reader and indulge in my hobby regularly, most days you could probably find me curled up with a good story. My other great love is crafting and I specialise in making chainmail and bespoke pieces. I am a curvy girl, with firey hair and smiling eyes. I am looking for a connection with a strong minded Dom/me, I can be a little bit of a handful on occasions and have a fierce streak despite my submissive tendencies. My Dom/me will guide me with a loving spirit and a firm hand, giving me care and support and nurturing my abilities to be my true self.'' I'm asexual so if that's what your looking for I'm probably not for you, I'm looking for a longterm connection where I can explore my little/brat side with a strong dom/me who will set rules and routine and enforce them IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME
Female (41) Dudley, West Midlands
Hi there, I'm one of the greeters here, I form part of the Community Team and am available for all your site/app related questions. **Please note I am not looking for kinky play, and I will only respond to messages relating to a genuine question about the site/app.** **ich spreche kein Deutsch** xxx
Female (37) Birmingham, West Midlands
WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. A while back, Fet.com threw a Dark Horse my way! His messages were ladened with humour, so funny that I was struggling to see what lay beneath but curiosity got the better of me. A nervous coffee together on a cold bench. So much laughter & talking that hours flew by & even then, talk of play was nervously approached so I was still unaware of what lay beneath this jovial beauty. OH MY WORD….what lay beneath was the darkest of Dark Horses! Someone who not only allowed me to be my wild self with no judgement but someone who made me want to allow them to take care of my aftercare! Someone who proved that there was someone who could Dominate on my level. Our beautiful journey has continued since. He is not only my Dom but also my life partner, my soul mate, the missing piece of me & my best friend & I ask that you be respectful of that. I am a very witty (hilarious & sarcastic), honest (blunt), quirky (weird), strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive. After being a Domme since my teenage years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub when I was 40, I know my role very clearly. I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience. Looking to chat to, learn & share information with experienced Dom/mes, subs (& Wolves in grandmas clothing) within & outside the BDSM world. I’ve made some amazing friendships & strong connections on here & that’s what’s important to me. I’m happy to continue making friendships & connections as I skip quirkily along this yellow-twisted-sadistic-brick-road. I am Not looking for any other partners, anything ‘on the side’, any other Dom’s or friendships that suggest ‘let see where this goes’. I’m a huge believer in ‘if you see something beautiful, say so’ so if I like your pics or comment on them please take it as a compliment, not as a come-on. I am a BDSM owned sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother. I will speak to you with respect & manners but also expect the same in return so if your conversation does not start with a polite ‘hello etc’ & jumps straight into some kind of kink led sentence, please don’t expect a reply. Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.
Female (48) Solihull, West Midlands

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