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CliffRed
C******d
I am a Furry, looking for someone who is accepting of or is also a furry, I don't really want much just to be cared and loved, Im BiPoly and honestly just lonely, i am shy but I'm positive I'll get over it in due time, please be patient with me and I'll try my best ❤️
Male (20) Menifee, California
CubDaddySwitch
C************h
I am in a happy 20 gay marriage. My hubby is not into the same things that I am and has agreed to open things up for me. I am homoflexible, with a few kinks that I would like to explore with someone. An LTR ENM partner would be nice, but I am open to casual/NSA as well. I can host on certain days. HIV- as of March 2024 and on PrEP. Covid vaxxed 6x.
Male (54) Orcutt, California
DevyBoo
D*****o
Happily partnered but each looking to explore more sexually. I’m interested in exploring more of my kinks, especially those involving bondage :) open to trying most anything but will always communicate what I’m not comfortable with! really interested in exploring my switch/dom side too, but would need someone who can give proper guidance in that area, as I’m not very experienced. always love being submissive tho and giving up control ;)
Male (25) Los Angeles, California
DarionABDL
D********L
Hi. I live near San Jose, California and I am a non sexual ABDL, gay oriented. I am new to ABDL and are looking for friends to hang out with and/or caregivers for experience exchange. I have a partner. I am just looking for friends.
Male (42) San Jose, California
Valicore
V******e
I'm a chub Master for something long term. Generally prefer younger and thinner than me. Taboo and perv slaves welcome. I enjoy desperation. I want you to need me and beg for me. Start with face and body pics. I like to chat at first and I like slaves that can do the same. Are you willing to be an object for me to explore?
Male (37) Sacramento, California
bj147
b***7
I am an older over-weight guy who learned that I really enjoy gay sex. I am a newbie with a desire to learn and experience the submissive side of me.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
Peachesandeggplant
P****************t
I’m completely new here. I’d describe myself as calm on the outside with a lot of monk and desire on the inside. sometimes I feel it would be nice to meet men who can bring that out of me and we both enjoy it. I’m also into relaxing you on tables. a lot of these terms on the app I’m not familiar with so still figuring it all out. I have basic version, if you like me send a hello! I can’t see most of who checked me out yet
Male (38) West Sacramento, California
nochura
n*****a
Hi everyone ? I am a gay bottom guy who wants to know/meet some nice people (straight curious men, gay-friendly couples) for friendship and maybe more :) Originally I'm from Eastern Europe and have lived in this country since 2014.
Male (39) San Diego, California
faetherlyintent
f*************t
Looking for connections of all kinds- friends, subs, lovers, pups, fuck buddies, littles, rivals, life partners n everything in between- moved to DTLA during COVID and still haven't met many locals. Currently starting a career as an author in a long string of passions- most recently was a vet tech and before that a chef. Been very social distanced, vaxx'd and boostered, and finally making an actual effort to socialize safely. Would love to grab a bite, play a game, or smoke a bowl and get to know each other! Ace/Aro but v sex positive and kinky. Experienced TPE Dom, ask for my manual if you are interested in submission and not just a rough fuck. Date/play/hang solo or with my collared vers/switch pet. Not a premium user- can't see spanks- message me!
Male (32) Los Angeles, California
poway787
p******7
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (50) Poway, California
LuckyR
L****R
Sportswear & bondage(50/50) & side person looking for another half. I am super into short running wear and also bondage/interrogation role play. Hit me up if you have a similar interest and would like to build up a long term relationship.
Male (37) Irvine, California
LockedPupJasper
L*************r
Hi there, I'm polyamorous, in a throuple. I like to chat first before anything, into kinky and dominate men, I am a sub but that doesn't mean disrespect me. Trust and respect are earned not freely given. What I'm into Doms Daddies Tall guys woof Chastity I don't body shame so all are welcome
Male (34) San Jose, California
subBottom2serve
s*************e
gay guy looking to get degraded and used by sadistic men or women. like the idea of serving a lady and fully submitting to get wrecked and or pleasure her. and love to get wrecked by men too. hit me up
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
ShadySnorlax13
S************3
looking to talk to fellow kinksters to learn and be more involved in the community **Desires and Fantasies** I’be had some experience, tried some things, open minded to alot. typically sub, tried and into body worship, dom/sub, bondage, cnc, and more. ig: shadysnorlax13
Male (20) San Clemente, California
NatureBoi
N*******i
Open-minded, free spirit. I am interested in exploring more of my kinky side with like-minded individuals. Good vibes and masculine energy are always welcome.
Male (44) Gardena, California
Dom_chris
D*******s
A Gay Dom in search of a very submissive son who’s ready to learn and explore more about the Bdsm/Gay lifestyle…….Alpha cock ready to explore
Male (50) California City, California
wrestleme32
w*********2
love wrestling ? being dominated by strong ? men who have power and control over me iPhone number 562-204-5638
Male (32) Hawthorne, California
nakedshot69
n*********9
I'm simply trying to enjoy my sexuality to the maximum. And I would like to find someone worthy so that I can take it to the next level. Drama free B.S. free and once I offer my friendship I'm loyal to a default.
Male (40) Santa Ana, California
ken4men
k*****n
I'm a pretty laid back chill type of guy who just happens to be horny all of the time.
Male (30) San Francisco, California
sacramento97643
s*************3
I have identified as gay for a long time, but I’ve recently realized I have a little thing for dominant women and I want to explore it. So if you’re interested in exploring that with me hit me up! I’m very new to the scene. I mean I’m only 18 lol. I’m still learning what I’m into but I know I’m a huge switch, I like bondage in both positions, I prefer maso a little over sadism but can still enjoy it and dom a little over sub. I’m just trying to meet people and learn.
Male (18) Sacramento, California
campo509
c******9
I'm just a 27 year old engaged gay male looking for some kinky experiences, open to trying most of anything, my partner (32 male) may want to watch or join in~
Male (27) Alpine, California
AccIonHave01
A**********1
Submissive here, looking to try some total power exchange for a few hours with a verbal dom. =) Loves: Pits, Sweat, Spit *NO PISS, FEET, OR SCAT*
Male (22) Redlands, California
SoCaldaddy
S********y
Dom masc here. looking for a man to degrade. I need you to give yourself up to me mentally and physically. Into choking, nipple play, poppers, stroking, oral, and making you completely and utterly obsessed with me. Let me be your best worst mistake ? Also looking for popperbate bros and some one who matches my energy. top on top play. let’s wrestle.
Male (34) Rialto, California
smokenpipeadmirer
s***************r
masc bearded here looking for nsa play with smoking dudes. pipes, cigars, cigarettes, vapes - all hot. high kink here for pipes and cigars. especially assertive to dom men. 49 5 11 200 hairy.
Male (51) Palm Desert, California

New members in California

CliffRed
C******d
I am a Furry, looking for someone who is accepting of or is also a furry, I don't really want much just to be cared and loved, Im BiPoly and honestly just lonely, i am shy but I'm positive I'll get over it in due time, please be patient with me and I'll try my best ❤️
Male (20) Menifee, California
CubDaddySwitch
C************h
I am in a happy 20 gay marriage. My hubby is not into the same things that I am and has agreed to open things up for me. I am homoflexible, with a few kinks that I would like to explore with someone. An LTR ENM partner would be nice, but I am open to casual/NSA as well. I can host on certain days. HIV- as of March 2024 and on PrEP. Covid vaxxed 6x.
Male (54) Orcutt, California
tony12342
t*******2
hey. looking for fun. enjoying my hoe era in life after a long relationship. open to new things and adventurous
Male (32) Anaheim, California
smokenpipeadmirer
s***************r
masc bearded here looking for nsa play with smoking dudes. pipes, cigars, cigarettes, vapes - all hot. high kink here for pipes and cigars. especially assertive to dom men. 49 5 11 200 hairy.
Male (51) Palm Desert, California
nochura
n*****a
Hi everyone ? I am a gay bottom guy who wants to know/meet some nice people (straight curious men, gay-friendly couples) for friendship and maybe more :) Originally I'm from Eastern Europe and have lived in this country since 2014.
Male (39) San Diego, California
Peachesandeggplant
P****************t
I’m completely new here. I’d describe myself as calm on the outside with a lot of monk and desire on the inside. sometimes I feel it would be nice to meet men who can bring that out of me and we both enjoy it. I’m also into relaxing you on tables. a lot of these terms on the app I’m not familiar with so still figuring it all out. I have basic version, if you like me send a hello! I can’t see most of who checked me out yet
Male (38) West Sacramento, California
LuckyR
L****R
Sportswear & bondage(50/50) & side person looking for another half. I am super into short running wear and also bondage/interrogation role play. Hit me up if you have a similar interest and would like to build up a long term relationship.
Male (37) Irvine, California
LockedPupJasper
L*************r
Hi there, I'm polyamorous, in a throuple. I like to chat first before anything, into kinky and dominate men, I am a sub but that doesn't mean disrespect me. Trust and respect are earned not freely given. What I'm into Doms Daddies Tall guys woof Chastity I don't body shame so all are welcome
Male (34) San Jose, California
subBottom2serve
s*************e
gay guy looking to get degraded and used by sadistic men or women. like the idea of serving a lady and fully submitting to get wrecked and or pleasure her. and love to get wrecked by men too. hit me up
Male (27) Los Angeles, California
NatureBoi
N*******i
Open-minded, free spirit. I am interested in exploring more of my kinky side with like-minded individuals. Good vibes and masculine energy are always welcome.
Male (44) Gardena, California
wrestleme32
w*********2
love wrestling ? being dominated by strong ? men who have power and control over me iPhone number 562-204-5638
Male (32) Hawthorne, California
nakedshot69
n*********9
I'm simply trying to enjoy my sexuality to the maximum. And I would like to find someone worthy so that I can take it to the next level. Drama free B.S. free and once I offer my friendship I'm loyal to a default.
Male (40) Santa Ana, California
Dom_chris
D*******s
A Gay Dom in search of a very submissive son who’s ready to learn and explore more about the Bdsm/Gay lifestyle…….Alpha cock ready to explore
Male (50) California City, California
bj147
b***7
I am an older over-weight guy who learned that I really enjoy gay sex. I am a newbie with a desire to learn and experience the submissive side of me.
Male (64) Grass Valley, California
sacramento97643
s*************3
I have identified as gay for a long time, but I’ve recently realized I have a little thing for dominant women and I want to explore it. So if you’re interested in exploring that with me hit me up! I’m very new to the scene. I mean I’m only 18 lol. I’m still learning what I’m into but I know I’m a huge switch, I like bondage in both positions, I prefer maso a little over sadism but can still enjoy it and dom a little over sub. I’m just trying to meet people and learn.
Male (18) Sacramento, California
DevyBoo
D*****o
Happily partnered but each looking to explore more sexually. I’m interested in exploring more of my kinks, especially those involving bondage :) open to trying most anything but will always communicate what I’m not comfortable with! really interested in exploring my switch/dom side too, but would need someone who can give proper guidance in that area, as I’m not very experienced. always love being submissive tho and giving up control ;)
Male (25) Los Angeles, California
DarionABDL
D********L
Hi. I live near San Jose, California and I am a non sexual ABDL, gay oriented. I am new to ABDL and are looking for friends to hang out with and/or caregivers for experience exchange. I have a partner. I am just looking for friends.
Male (42) San Jose, California
SoCaldaddy
S********y
Dom masc here. looking for a man to degrade. I need you to give yourself up to me mentally and physically. Into choking, nipple play, poppers, stroking, oral, and making you completely and utterly obsessed with me. Let me be your best worst mistake ? Also looking for popperbate bros and some one who matches my energy. top on top play. let’s wrestle.
Male (34) Rialto, California
faetherlyintent
f*************t
Looking for connections of all kinds- friends, subs, lovers, pups, fuck buddies, littles, rivals, life partners n everything in between- moved to DTLA during COVID and still haven't met many locals. Currently starting a career as an author in a long string of passions- most recently was a vet tech and before that a chef. Been very social distanced, vaxx'd and boostered, and finally making an actual effort to socialize safely. Would love to grab a bite, play a game, or smoke a bowl and get to know each other! Ace/Aro but v sex positive and kinky. Experienced TPE Dom, ask for my manual if you are interested in submission and not just a rough fuck. Date/play/hang solo or with my collared vers/switch pet. Not a premium user- can't see spanks- message me!
Male (32) Los Angeles, California
campo509
c******9
I'm just a 27 year old engaged gay male looking for some kinky experiences, open to trying most of anything, my partner (32 male) may want to watch or join in~
Male (27) Alpine, California
AccIonHave01
A**********1
Submissive here, looking to try some total power exchange for a few hours with a verbal dom. =) Loves: Pits, Sweat, Spit *NO PISS, FEET, OR SCAT*
Male (22) Redlands, California
Valicore
V******e
I'm a chub Master for something long term. Generally prefer younger and thinner than me. Taboo and perv slaves welcome. I enjoy desperation. I want you to need me and beg for me. Start with face and body pics. I like to chat at first and I like slaves that can do the same. Are you willing to be an object for me to explore?
Male (37) Sacramento, California
ken4men
k*****n
I'm a pretty laid back chill type of guy who just happens to be horny all of the time.
Male (30) San Francisco, California
poway787
p******7
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (50) Poway, California

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Fun

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Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 75km around USA, Nashua ● 14.05.2024 - 07.06.2024
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Looking

I’m looking for someone to show me the ropes
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 5km around UK, Rotherham ● 28 minutes ago
James636569
I am looking for someone that would be nice

A nice person 
Kinky Date ● 18 to 21 years ● 25km around UK, Bradford ● 38 minutes ago
OwenH12
Want a really good submissive girl

Looking for a submissive girl what I can dominate and use and if they have a dominate side too them that’s even better please be between 18-30 message me if interested
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 31 years ● 500km around UK, Wakefield ● 43 minutes ago
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Yoni play BDSM

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BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 70 years ● 10km around UK, Leeds ● one hour ago
Oni-Chan
Looking for fun tonight in Pasco FL

Looking for a lady for a good time this afternoon. Hmu for details. Let's end the weekend with a bang.
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA, New Port Richey ● one hour ago
KyleLuvs2Eat
What’s a man gotta do to get his face sat on??

Free Sunday and woke up craving. Who’s free today and looking to cum??
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA, Austell ● one hour ago
glasgow812813
Why don’t you come see what’s here😉

Well hello there, is there any cheeky fun people out there wanna come chat and Mabye see what happens
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK, Glasgow ● 38 minutes ago
SissySlut74
Looking for my first real life experience.

I have little to no experience being a sissy/sub/slave trainee. I would like to have my first experience and try my kinks out bit by bit, or if the mistress wants to train me at the spot it would also be great. I will put my kinks here: Be spitted on, ***scenario, gangbanged by transwomen, spanking, dressing as a woman, sucking strapons and dicks, peeing allover me and sometimes in my mouth, being humiliated by more mistresses at one time, bondage, used as pet in house, several more. Limits is poop, and for the rest we could use a codeword if it goes too far.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 45 years ● 300km around Netherlands, Uden ● one hour ago
Tony-6272
Dates

I'm looking for a good time. Let's enjoy each other's company :) but really I am looking for a woman who will accept me for who I am.
Kinky Date ● 21 to 45 years ● 10km around UK, Swindon ● 58 minutes ago
IrishInEssex210
Bull looking nice sub/bottom

I’m looking for a submissive person willing to take 9 inch of the hardest, you can find, either in the rear or the front but believe me I’m very horny so first come first serve
Kinky Date ● 18 to 79 years ● 85km around UK, Maldon ● one hour ago
youngswitch99
Looking for dtf switch or dom

The girl i'm looking for is down to try most anything and looking to explore. i'm relatively new to this myself but i think im a sub leaning switch.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 24 years ● 160km around USA, Vancouver ● 08.05.2024 - 31.05.2024
fingerville167773
Subwannb

I'm interested in being with a Dominant and seeing how submissive I can be
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 120km around USA, Fingerville ● 2 hours ago
fingerville167773
Anybody in the mood

I have a need to get dominated by anybody who has the desire to be my first time ever bottoming
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 120km around USA, Fingerville ● 2 hours ago
some_dude139
Mee up

We should meet up and like have some fun. I’m a virgin so like showing the ropes would be nice <33
NSA ● 18 to 41 years ● 145km around USA, Lincoln ● 2 hours ago
aurora356
Wanna be owned

Looking for a owner to use me sell me pimp me and turn me into a perfect toy
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Aurora ● 2 hours ago
BSki78
Professional Dominatrix in Houston Texas.

Men, women, and couples welcome. Serious inquiries only. I’m not the ProDomme, just a close acquaintance. She is beautiful beyond belief, safe, professional, considerate, intelligent, and it’s her profession so if you think it’s a game or it’s free, this is not for you. Be kind and respectful please if you would like to know more details. Thank you and please be respectful.
Kinky Date ● 25 to 65 years ● 120km around USA, Houston ● 04.05.2024 - 01.06.2024
debauchery99
Fantasy

Hi I'm a single, extremely open minded guy!

I'm seeking like minded women or couples for some fetish and fantasy fun.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 20 to 50 years ● 5km around UK, Birmingham ● 2 hours ago
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NSA ● 18 to 70 years ● 150km around UK, Sheffield ● 3 hours ago
saddle-river595776
Rainy Sunday

How can we enjoy this rainy Sunday?
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Montvale ● 04.05.2024 - 07.05.2024
Daddy_Dom44
Hot Older Dom

Looking to meet inexperienced subs that want to explore and be trained
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around USA, Sellersville ● 05.05.2024 - 15.05.2024
OwenH12
Looking for sub or dom women

Looking for a sub or dom women I’m a switch I like both roles I prefer younger around 18-30 I just wanna talk get to know you better and then maybe meet if we have a connection. If you live in the uk that’s a plus but I’m still down too talk if your not

Message me if your interested
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 310km around UK, London ● 4 hours ago

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