Find kinky women in California

I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy. **Approach with respect or I'll bite your fucking head off. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.** I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women to the front, everyone else, good luck. My dominance is not cosplay, I am legit, intense and I always get my way. I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it with a stupid question, disrespect or mediocre pickup up lines, I won’t respond. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention. Don’t be stupid. To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest. I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
Female (37) Bassett, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (twitter). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.
Female (30) San Diego, California
slut looking for someone to use her, I’m thinking of leaving my hotel room unlocked. I want your fingers in my mouth, hand around my neck, forcing me to cum until i'm an overstimulated mess. Maybe I get into your car after a night out, just looking to go home but you take me for a ride instead. Maybe you pull me off a hiking trail into a secluded spot. Maybe you reach up my dress in a dark public spot and find im not wearing panties. It doesn't matter if I tell you to stop, you caught me and I'm yours tonight. DM me what you'd do if you caught me!
Female (27) Auberry, California
Hi there i love listening to music cooking walking along the beaches and sometimes go for a jogg.. I am looking to get to know someone i am attracted to older men i don't like young men.. Thats my kink i love baby girl and daddy relationship... Thank you
Female (39) Dodgertown, California
I am a Domme. As a Top I enjoy strict discipline, corporal punishment, sissy play and ***. I am selective as to who I will play with. My Partner and I own a 3000 square foot photo studio in Riverside. We rent space the for photography, videography, podcasts and more. Contact me for more information. Come hang out at an event or free classes. The studio offers free lifestyle educational events. Our classes cover everything from basic 101 classes up.
Female (57) Corona, California
DDLG.Slave/Master.Owned. Pet Play. Seeking a Daddy who wants to connect on an emotional, mental and physical level. Balance of Dominate & Nurturing. Creative, loyal, affectionate. I like funny guys. I don’t drink or smoke. I am Moderate. Agnostic. 💚Traditional, Wholesome, Family Values💚 💕Serious relationship 💕wants marriage Don’t talk to me if you are….. 🚫into Casual Sex.🚫Married🚫offering me *** 🚫 ENM🚫Polyamorous.🚫Switch🚫Couple 🚫think open relationships are healthy for long term success. I love going on walks, the gym, hiking, the beach, museums, Hearst Castle, watching old movies from the golden age of Hollywood, cuddling, being bathed, having my hair brushed by my daddy, accomplishing a list my daddy has made for me, drawing and ***ting, writing songs and writing books.
Female (35) Glendale, California
looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. NOT looking for friends here, especially fwb 💀. I have none but definitely not looking for it online. Don’t ask me to message you just because you can’t message me. I don’t like blue eyes demons 😂. I keep forgetting to mention this, but I have no desire to look for a guy nearby or in the states. It sounds ridiculous, but I have my reasons. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos (don’t get too crazy tho), maybe romance, but don’t be fooled. I think only 10% or less of guys have what I want in a guy. sad to think about more likely true. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet, but when I do? I’m racing into my main character era with the love of my life. In cosplay. Maybe we’re Johnny & Lola from Bully (not the toxicity but the aesthetic), or Ethan & Mia from Resident Evil (traumatic but iconic). Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅
Female (21) Los Angeles, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
To begin to understand who I am and what triggers Me sexually, is going to take some time. I find that I respond differently to situations depending on who I am with and they dynamic of energy exchanged. PATIENCE is the key to getting to Me. **# My sexual triggers:** Sensory Stimulation: Mental Engagement, Words, Scents, Touch, Sounds, Music, Visuals, Photos, Video Physical Stimulation: Attractive/Assertive (semi-submissive) Men, A Devilish Grin, Eyes that reveal dark secrets, Strong Physical Stature, Shoulders, Hands, An open button of a collared shirt, A well-dressed man in panties Environmental Stimulation: Public (discrete) Play, Sexual Stimulation (public orgasm), Music, Lighting, Fetishwear, Play Parties, Voyeurism and Exhibitionism (modified) Other Triggers: Desire, Lust, Intimacy, Spontaneity, Genuine Interaction, Obedience, Respect, Power Exchange, Control, Dominance, Knowing you are hard for Me, Knowing you are thinking about Me, Hearing/Reading your thoughts as you look at My photos, Reading the reflection of events/scenes, Interesting Conversation, Flattery (meaningful) Fetishes: Shoes/Boots, Leather, Corsets, Bondage, Collar & Leash, Impact Play, Edging, Tease & Denial, Orgasm Control, Hypnoaudio, Chastity, Cuckold, Pushing Boundaries, Full Body Worship **# What I seek in a play partner:** Intelligence: Excellent communication skills Confidence (without arrogance) Successfully employed and self-sufficient Strong work ethic/sense of direction/purpose/goals/ambition/motivation True sense of worth and self-assured Character: Interesting conversations (not all kink) Men that are well spoken/educated Men that are gentlemen/respectful Special interests/hobbies that are intriguing Good sense of humor Caring/kind/committed Organized/schedule oriented Trustworthy (this is a major one) Body: Attractive/well-groomed Personal care conscious/impeccable hygiene Nice physique/healthy Hands (I had a thing for hands) Nice shoulders and chest (definitely a trigger) A spankable ass Attire: Men in suits (ties in particular) Well dressed/sense of personal style Men in panties (this is a big one) Combination of masc/femme clothing **Desires and Fantasies** Want to know more about Me... Written by Her pet and Her property So you have found your way here, either on purpose or by wandering accident. I am telling you now, that you are in the presence of a true Goddess as well as a unicorn. She is self assured and highly self aware. She has known who She is from a young age: a lifelong dominant sadist, a superior woman with a passion for control and an impressively creative and adaptive mind. She is this way because it is in Her very core, Her nature. It is genuinely enjoyable and exciting for Her. Her dominance is not a role that She plays, there is no performance, it is all very real. She is one to be admired, and not one to be trifled with. If you are lucky enough to catch a glimpse of Her bright smile, warm and inviting, it is only countered by the sting of the multitude of marks that She can leave, quickly and accurately with Her favorite crop...and She would do so with a satisfied grin. She quite enjoys planning things out on the long term, methodically guiding Her supplicant down the path She has laid out...but can also be inspired on the spot, with a spontaneous creativity, exuding a confidence and fluidity that will convince you that everything was to be that way all along. She has Her own style, truly a Queen amongst royalty. She carries Herself as you would expect a classy, superior Lady would and is the whole package; a beautiful face, a body with all the right curves, a quick wit and an intelligent, creative mind whose dark waters run deeper than the deepest, darkest glacial lake. She does not deal in fantasy, Her world is ALL reality. Early on, my mantra quickly became “Be careful what you wish for”. She is on Her dark path, only those with the most courage and the most sincere of hearts should dare follow at Her heels. It will not be long before you belong...to Her. She can entrance you easily and convince you effortlessly, of whatever She desires. However, it is not all one-sided, She does believe in balance. Surrendering to Her will and allowing Her to entice your desires out of you, willfully handing Her the keys to your deepest, darkest locks will be rewarding, as She does reward Her good pets...when She decides the time is right...and in Her own unique way. But rest assured, you will love the cravings you have, the thirst you develop for any contact from Her. And She is well aware of that. She thrives in the details, the space inbetween and you will be required to tell Her everything that you experience and are feeling, as this is one of Her favorite things, Her mental sustenance. I had asked Her several times if She was real when She first graced me with Her presence, before I met Her in person. She eventually granted me the honor of being devoted to Her. It takes time to be vetted, unless you are introduced through friends. She is HIGHLY selective. Be the best version of you without being dishonest. She detests liars, fakes and time wasters. If you ask to submit to Her, the first question She will ask is “What service can you offer ME?” Don’t be misled, She is not one of those fake dress up doll Insta-dommes, ***mes or a stripper with a whip. She despises people that selfishly take advantage of those who are sincere in their desire to serve. She desires obedience, loyalty and service over *** and tributes...but She does LOVE red-soled shoes. However, the humble act of service, adoration and supplication genuinely means more to Her than material things. She wants what is best for you and will guide you if you trust Her to do so. Even with fitness monitoring or cage checks, it is all part of Her plan for your betterment. Sincere, sane and service oriented submissives are encouraged to fall at Her beautiful and perfect feet for Her inspection and review, as She would one day like a staff of loyal supplicants, perhaps at Her manor house or a female-led collective of some sort. However, Goddess will not make time for truly pathetic, time wasting, wank-addicted, worthless wannabe subs. Goddess desires strong supplicants, those who are secure and proud of who they are. They are confident & have their own self worth as well as talents to offer in service to Her, making Her life as comfortable as possible. As it should be. They are also to be hygienic, polite, safety-minded and tidy because they are a reflection of Her. She also leads a very busy and very private vanilla life, so you must be patient. Everything is on HER terms, as it should be. She believes in female supremacy, but not idealistic feminism. She does however, enjoy interacting and befriending like-minded females, as well as friends in the scene of all stripes (She does enjoy giving out stripes!) and while guarded and reserved at first, the lucky few will find that She is a good friend in addition to being a loving, warm, friendly and sometimes silly person. She is as loyal to Her property as Her property is to Her, so no swingers please and NO HOOKUPS. She needs an emotional connection, it is much too easy for Her to just find a male (or female) to fuck. Speaking of fucking, long ago She realized the power of a big strapon cock and wields one with skill and authority...and genuine pleasure. She, like ALL female dominants who embrace their power, is not a fetish dispenser. You are not to be selfish or self-centered as you are there for HER pleasure, not the other way around. She is always to be treated with the respect and honor She rightfully deserves. She will not be dommed or topped in any way, She does not submit. Her commands and Her desires will not be denied. You will find that the words “No Goddess” will vanish from your vocabulary. Mesmerized by Her body, fascinated with Her mind and bewitched by Her beauty. Listen, obey, worship and serve. Her big, enticing beautiful blue eyes will pierce you, She’ll see into your very soul or right through you, if you displease Her severely or lose Her trust. Stay locked and stay focused and as your addiction grows, you will soon see your proper place at Her feet, eagerly awaiting Her guidance and tasks, begging to be locked and at Her beck and call. Pleasing Her will become your pleasure. She genuinely does know what is best, and you will see in time that She is to be trusted implicitly and without question. She has helped to guide me around or over a number of life’s hurdles, which has only served to strengthen my faith and fealty to Goddess. The path to true devotion is paved with sincere words, followed by sincere actions. Above all, She knows that submission is a gift and does not take that for granted. It takes courage to do so, but the rewards are boundless and long lasting. If you can endure it, She will take you to what you believe is the edge, then push you just a bit more. She does enjoy pushing boundaries, particularly because it is a challenge. She experiences the emotions of others deeply, and can read and sense energy, more than anyone I have ever known. She enters your body and experiences Her dominance through you, so rest assured, you are safe in Her caring responsible hands. She feeds off the energy of these exchanges, even when it isn’t in person. She is also highly observant, insightful and honest. She loves to make plans and have structure that She creates of course, as well as rules and protocol that are to be followed with no excuses, Her high standards must always be met. But, She holds these standards just as high (or perhaps higher) for Herself. More evidence that She walks the walk and talks the talk...do you have what it takes to follow obediently at Her heels? It is not easy, but trust me, the effort is worthwhile. There is no one else whose boot I would rather be under. Her interests include: FLR BDSM Control Military Uniforms Corporal punishment and discipline (including all manner of hitty and stingy things) Flogging Impact play Sadism/Masochism Begging/Pleading Blindfolds Master/Slave Power Exchange 24/7 Lifestyle / TPE - Total Power Exchange Wax Play Wartenberg Wheel Cropping Spanking OTK Spanking *** Boot Blacking Soft/Hard limits Rough sex (High) Protocol Aftercare Edgeplay Breathplay Supervised activities Choking Males in panties Males in heels Males in ties and suits Well groomed males (shaved) Sissification Collar/Leash Consent /Consensual Non Consent Having Her outfits designed and selected for Her Leather Latex Cuffs Gags Eye contact restrictions Eye level restrictions Verbal worship (Adoration/Flattery) Domestic Service (Includes cooking, cleaning and making Her lunching!) Being Chauffeured Female Led play parties Being dressed Being bathed Fetishwear, corsetry & footwear Sensory deprivation Bondage & Immobilization Rope Bondage & Shibari Tease & Denial Ruined orgasms Orgasm denial Prostate Orgasms Public Play Milking Sensation Play Remote dominance & control Complete submission Slavery Pegging/Anal play/Butt plugs E-stim play Violet wands DommeSpace/Subspace Energy exchange Worship (of all types) Foot fetish / Foot worship Pedicures Subtle acts of public D/s Being wined and dined Being pampered Being massaged Training/Teaching Chastity Cuckold Having multiple pets serve Her at once Controlling multiple pets at once Ignoring CBT D/s Mental fuckery Germanophile BWC
I’m curious about everything, how people are fulfilling the dirty secret and selfish desires. I want to know more about what makes people like certain things so much they can’t go without it. Tell me about it please!
Female (20) Bakersfield, California
*If you think I’ll be a sub for you, move along, it’s not happening.* Always open to finding friends. Looking for someone more submissive, maybe a bit of a switch. Leaning towards something more serious. Not really interested in just play or a hook up. Typically a soft/pleasure dom but curious and looking to do more. Open to being a(n) mistress, mommy, owner, degrader, etc. Poly and partnered. The little submissive side I have is for my partner. Online is easier right now as my life is pretty busy, but open to meeting later on if the situation is right.
Female (30) Santa Rosa, California
I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).
Female (25) Newbury Park, California
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (48) Los Angeles, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
100% brat. Natural redhead. Expert at pushing buttons. I’m a hypersexual submissive who lives for the tease—I make it my mission to see exactly how much I can get away with. If I'm testing your limits, I'm having a good time. The Fine Print Safety First: A current negative test result is mandatory if play is agreed upon. This must include an oral test. No exceptions. The Name: The title "Daddy" is strictly reserved for one man only—don't even try it. Boundaries: My kinky and vanilla lives stay in their own separate lanes.
Female (42) Rancho Cordova, California
**Wandering in uncharted territory** I’ve been independent my whole life. I’m always the planner, the giver, and the one that holds the most. For once I want to be led. I want to rest without feeling guilty. I want to feel safe enough to stop being the strong one all the time. Sometimes I just want quiet love, the one that doesn’t need me to fix everything, the one that allows me to simply exist as myself and still be enough. I want to be loved, not for what I can do but for who I am when I finally stop trying to hold the world together. It’s not that easy though. Because I have to feel comfortable enough and trust you enough to let go. You can’t just walk in and demand I hand it all over. You have to show me that you can handle it. If I have to give you directions on what to do and how to do it, you can’t handle the responsibility and I might as well do it myself anyway. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A submissive at heart doesn’t mean I need someone to save me. A submissive at heart doesn’t mean I need someone to fix me. A submissive at heart means I need someone to stand steady. A submissive at heart means I need someone else to make the decisions. Just for a little bit. A submissive at heart who can’t let go of control. Because there hasn’t been anyone that I can safely hand it over to. I can function just fine without ever having my submissive side come out. Being submissive is only something I have recently discovered about myself. Make no mistake, I don’t need a Dom. But do I want to be able to drop everything at your door and take off my mask every once in a while? Yes. You want to see that side? You want me to submit to you? Show me you can handle it. I’m not talking about the physical part. Make love to my mind before you touch my body.
Female (47) Concord, California
hi my name is bunni your goddess. I’m looking for a woman or man I prefer older I’m looking for a friendship, mentor, possible a lover, I am a free spirit. I like to have fun, and experiences . My love language is to be your naughty spoiled brat, I am silly, bubbly, a big flirt, and I love generous woman, and man I am special and I know you special so let’s be special together😻🌈🦄💖✨
Female (39) Santa Ana, California
22 , sub, and looking for a dom that can spoil me good and fill me up real good too🥰
Female (23) El Cajon, California
feeder/feedee who wants to explore more of the bdsm side of things. would love to meet up and get fed while tied up ;) would love to be your good fat girl
Female (19) Red Bluff, California
I'm a Mistress seeking submissive partners to explore with newbies are warmly welcomed to message me and discover together. Serious inquiries only. No time-wasters.
Sarah is my name and am here looking for serious friendship that can change to relationship I like to smile and love to swim I am honest and respectful woman
Female (40) Bellflower, California
I am a domme who has released the limits of societal standards. Here to be worshipped, obeyed, and praised. I don’t want love, I want adoration. Make my life easier and you win, but understand that you will never be the only. I am also a switch, but I will only sub (within boundaries) for those who have divine feminine or divine masculine energy.
Female (36) San Marcos, California

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Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy. **Approach with respect or I'll bite your fucking head off. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.** I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women to the front, everyone else, good luck. My dominance is not cosplay, I am legit, intense and I always get my way. I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it with a stupid question, disrespect or mediocre pickup up lines, I won’t respond. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention. Don’t be stupid. To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest. I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
Female (37) Bassett, California
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (twitter). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.
Female (30) San Diego, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (37) Camptonville, California
feeder/feedee who wants to explore more of the bdsm side of things. would love to meet up and get fed while tied up ;) would love to be your good fat girl
Female (19) Red Bluff, California
5’4 Loves shopping Loves to be spoiled And will be a submissive girl when necessary
Female (22) San Bernardino, California
I’m a experience dominatrix, searching for strictly only bdsm submissives who crave’s to be put in their place & used,ready to explore kinks together nothing more than 3k miles distance if you don’t fall into this category don’t text me , I dislike time wasters if you texts me and your a domme u will be ignored
Female (31) Rocklin, California
Hi there i love listening to music cooking walking along the beaches and sometimes go for a jogg.. I am looking to get to know someone i am attracted to older men i don't like young men.. Thats my kink i love baby girl and daddy relationship... Thank you
Female (39) Dodgertown, California
I am a commanding, intelligent Dominatrix who thrives on the exquisite art of psychological control and sensual power exchange. With years of experience as a lifestyle and professional Mistress, I effortlessly weave dominance into every interaction turning vulnerability into surrender and desire into devotion.
Female (40) Sunnyvale, California
slut looking for someone to use her, I’m thinking of leaving my hotel room unlocked. I want your fingers in my mouth, hand around my neck, forcing me to cum until i'm an overstimulated mess. Maybe I get into your car after a night out, just looking to go home but you take me for a ride instead. Maybe you pull me off a hiking trail into a secluded spot. Maybe you reach up my dress in a dark public spot and find im not wearing panties. It doesn't matter if I tell you to stop, you caught me and I'm yours tonight. DM me what you'd do if you caught me!
Female (27) Auberry, California
100% brat. Natural redhead. Expert at pushing buttons. I’m a hypersexual submissive who lives for the tease—I make it my mission to see exactly how much I can get away with. If I'm testing your limits, I'm having a good time. The Fine Print Safety First: A current negative test result is mandatory if play is agreed upon. This must include an oral test. No exceptions. The Name: The title "Daddy" is strictly reserved for one man only—don't even try it. Boundaries: My kinky and vanilla lives stay in their own separate lanes.
Female (42) Rancho Cordova, California
im the best there is bcus i belive in self love jus like how u might be the best one for me✨ im just me because i LOVE being me (wild concept right) i wanna play roblox w some1 smhs😒🎀✨ (pss das you play roblox wit me🤫🎀✨) ( imma switch don forget dat)
Female (20) Hidden Valley, California
Looking for WLW, Not into Men, however since youre likely to run across my profile, I dont mind if you Watch. Interested in WLW, Im into trying new things, I have a high sex drive and am not afraid to show it. Hygiene matters. Newly single, and am experienced with many of the following: Kink, soft BDSM, CamFucking, Mutual Masturbation, Toys, Fingering, Scissoring, Squirting, Oral, 1 on 1, Threesomes, Orgy, Dirty Talk, Smutty Conversations and Messages that are Intentionally Leading to Orgasms, Making Content, Watching while I Masturbate, Licking, Tribbing, Rubbing, Face Sitting, 69, I want yourPussy in my mouth. Willing to Role Play, but Im not an actor so no promises Ill be any good at it Understand Discretion and not into Drama. Available to meet later part of the week and most Friday/Saturdays. Willing to drive a little bit, with assurance that youre Real. Ive got curves and am not a model but I assure you I am real. Love and Tattoos, Have Piercings. I want to make your fantasies come alive. One I have is to use a double dildo or strap on a Female. Also really want to be in a F/F/F Threesome being eaten out and eating the other out at the same time. If I sound like a match, message me. Im your Girl. Tested and Clean. 420 Friendly, I prefer to partake with Edibles and heighten the Sensations Created in the fun. Is not Necessary for me to Experience these things.
Female (35) Fresno, California
**Wandering in uncharted territory** I’ve been independent my whole life. I’m always the planner, the giver, and the one that holds the most. For once I want to be led. I want to rest without feeling guilty. I want to feel safe enough to stop being the strong one all the time. Sometimes I just want quiet love, the one that doesn’t need me to fix everything, the one that allows me to simply exist as myself and still be enough. I want to be loved, not for what I can do but for who I am when I finally stop trying to hold the world together. It’s not that easy though. Because I have to feel comfortable enough and trust you enough to let go. You can’t just walk in and demand I hand it all over. You have to show me that you can handle it. If I have to give you directions on what to do and how to do it, you can’t handle the responsibility and I might as well do it myself anyway. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A submissive at heart doesn’t mean I need someone to save me. A submissive at heart doesn’t mean I need someone to fix me. A submissive at heart means I need someone to stand steady. A submissive at heart means I need someone else to make the decisions. Just for a little bit. A submissive at heart who can’t let go of control. Because there hasn’t been anyone that I can safely hand it over to. I can function just fine without ever having my submissive side come out. Being submissive is only something I have recently discovered about myself. Make no mistake, I don’t need a Dom. But do I want to be able to drop everything at your door and take off my mask every once in a while? Yes. You want to see that side? You want me to submit to you? Show me you can handle it. I’m not talking about the physical part. Make love to my mind before you touch my body.
Female (47) Concord, California
I need to be able to have a conversation with someone in order to want to take my clothes off. Prefer a friend with benefits type of situation. I am open to exploring and will consider many kinks that I have not had a chance to taste yet. I am upfront and honest about myself and my desires and require that in anyone I engage with. Safe word is always required as safety and respect are a must.
I am a domme who has released the limits of societal standards. Here to be worshipped, obeyed, and praised. I don’t want love, I want adoration. Make my life easier and you win, but understand that you will never be the only. I am also a switch, but I will only sub (within boundaries) for those who have divine feminine or divine masculine energy.
Female (36) San Marcos, California
Looking to explore cnc and breathplay. I really want you to bend me over and punish me! Talk me through it and tell me , "i know it hurts baby,but it feels good for daddy".
Female (31) San Bernardino, California
I am a self-assured and commanding Mistress who values respect, loyalty, and true dedication. I carry myself with natural authority and expect a Sub who approaches me with honesty, discipline, and a genuine desire to serve and grow under my guidance. My presence is calm but firm, and I lead with both confidence and clarity. To me, submission is far more than a fleeting thrill. It is a meaningful dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual understanding. I expect reliability, effort, and the willingness to surrender control within the structure and boundaries I establish. I am seeking a long-term Sub who understands that true devotion develops over time. Someone patient, loyal, and respectful, who finds fulfilment in consistent service. In return, I provide strong leadership, clear expectations, and the reassurance of belonging to a Mistress who values commitment, stability, and authenticity.
Female (41) Anaheim, California
Puppy girl who really wants an older man. Like older. 40+. Maybe 36+. Shy and awkward. Picky because scared of everyone. Chubby and latina with soft curly hair. Small tits, never uses a bra. 5"2.
Female (26) Lake Elsinore, California
i really honestly just want a pretty woman eating my pussy who will let me sometimes eat theirs. and also maybe sometimes pay for things i like ;)
Female (22) Orange, California
I'm looking for a Dom online and only online. Somebody to teach, train, guide, and keep me accountable in my life and work. I have never played IRL, but I've submitted (and bratted) online for about 20 years now. I am not very comfortable sharing pictures or videos.
Female (36) Los Angeles, California
***/ DOMME- Hit me up if you love yourself a freaky baby girl. DO NOT REACH OUT IF YOU DONT LIKE FAT GIRLS. I HAVE A BELLY. Serious SUBS TRIBUTE🖤 $chessluv
Female (35) Dodgertown, California
PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME PERSONAL PHOTOS/DICK pics with out permission and don't message me for naked photos. You will get blocked. Im not here for exchanging pictures. The ones on my profile are the ones you get to see. Thank you!
Female (34) Johnson Valley, California
Hi all, I’m a 24yo female Little who is currently in the Midwest for grad school. I’m originally from California though, and that’s my home. My Info: Age: 24 Little Age: 5-6ish Gender: Female Ethnicity: Indian Height: 5’ Likes- 1. Being cozy. I love blankets and cuddles and stuffies and fluffy socks. 2. Reading books and watching shows/movies and playing Minecraft (especially if it’s with my ***) 3. Little art projects 4. Good food 5. Sleep and nice bedtime routines 6. Cute nicknames and titles: 6a. Nicknames for me: kitten, sweetheart, love, little one, little girl, etc. 6b. Titles I like using with others: Sir, Mister, Daddy, Master. I like being a respectful sub with using dom titles, but only when we get to that point. What I’m looking for in a ***: Non-negotiables (with more details below) - someone who is 20-30 years old - someone who is comfortable, kind, patient - caregiver dom (preferably with a slightly stern side) - use discord - role play texts throughout the day centering on a comfortable ddlg dynamic (this part is very very very important to me). -I like phone calls 1. I’m looking for a patient, safe *** who is very good at the caregiving side. I need a lot of kindness and care before, during, after sessions that we do. And in day-to-day interactions. I don’t want something purely sexual with minimal caring/little space time. 2. Online at first, since school takes much of my free time. Texts throughout the day work very well for me. 3. Structured rules for a ddlg dynamic. I love sitting with my dom to make these. 4. Use Discord!! It’s my absolute favorite to chat on, and it’s much more comfy for me to share pics on there. 5. Text role plays are very very important to me to connect. I mean the kind where we text out what we’d do if we were right next to each other. I’ve made little pillow forts and done other small activities like this, and it’s very nice especially if we’re busy with work/school. What I’m like as a Little/sub- 1. Obedient, within limits of course. But I generally want to please my dom. He takes care of my little side, so I want to look after him and do things that he likes too. 2. Playful. I love sneaking up on my dom and letting out my kitten side. 3. Cuddly. I basically want to be in my dom’s lap all day. Interests- 1. Rules- both sexual and non-sexual 2. Comfort 3. Edges 4. Small pet play (kitten) 5. Spanks 6. Showing cute/ sexy pics 7. Small *** 8. Little/sub training Limits- 1. Public 2. Anything that brings too much physical harm 3. Bathroom stuff
Female (24) Sacramento, California

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