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I am a strict, experienced, seductive, and unapologetically demanding Mistress. I thrive on real power exchange: total obedience, consistent tribute, daily structure, tasks, punishments, and rewards. I control your habits, wallet, pleasure, and mindset. I do not do casual chat, endless flirting without commitment, or free emotional labor. Sessions are earned through action and consistency.
I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy.
**Approach with respect. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.**
I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women get priority, men are a dime a dozen.
I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention.
Don’t be stupid.
To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest.
I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress.
✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one.
✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve.
✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct.
✨To serve go follow me on X (***).
✨Just like my wine, the older the better.
✨Let me put my heels to your neck.
✨Let me sit on your face.
hello! im new to this website so im still learning how it works lol but im a dominant woman looking for her submissive partner. i love domming and its something i want to gain more experience in so feel free to message me if you're interested in getting degraded and then babied right after lol
i am NOT a sub so don’t text me trying to tell me what to do 🐈
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
Hi there~💥
Looking to be someone’s full time little one☺️
Im a witchy girl born and raised with the freaks and crazies of this world. 🔮🧚
Hit me up if you wanna learn more~
- no creeps💥
Please don’t message me anything sexual on the first message that’s an automatic no. Please be respectful.
a silly kitten looking for her forever dom. I am an artist in everything I do. I love hiking, road trips, renaissance fairs, nudism, art, music, reading and food. Super geeky and nerdy, love road trips and travel. Have a life goal of fucking in each national park. I’m pretty complex so if you have questions just ask.
I’m a lady who appreciates respect, honesty, and a good boy who knows how to listen. I enjoy a little obedience, thoughtful gestures, and someone who genuinely enjoys making his Queen
just a sub in the south bay
locals only
prefers tattoos and a lot of body hair
bwc only
looking for LTR with a dom with a bwc who dominates in and out the bedroom. someone who can design a set schedule for me and hold me accountable.
i love movies, art and music
movie buff! tell me your faves!
I set my standards high because my heart is porcelain and I don’t hand it to NPCs.
Looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. No “friends,” no “fwb,” no blurry intentions. If you’re worthy of my time, I’ll know fast.
If you can’t message me, don’t ask me to message you. I’m not chasing ghosts.
All shades welcome — just not blueeyed demons. Brown eyes are preferable. And no, I’m not looking for anyone nearby or in the US. I won’t explain. A specific accent would be lovely, not a fetish, just a preference my heart won’t shut up about.
Only about 10% of guys have the personality I’m after. Necklength hair, a shag, something with soul. Keep the fades and Edgar cuts far away from me.
I want someone who loves me gently, not obsessively. Someone who treats me differently than he treats the world, and someone I can give my attention to in a way that’s ours — while still caring for my trusted few. He should still treat the world kindly and care about it.
Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet. People think I’m mean, but I’m just a fragile porcelain in survival mode.
If you won’t show your face, bye. If you say “I’ll show you in DMs,” double bye.
Sensitive? Correct. Stupid? Not quite.
And no nudes — I’m not your storage cloud. 💅
hi my name is bunni your goddess. I’m looking for a woman or man I prefer older I’m looking for a friendship, mentor, possible a lover, I am a free spirit. I like to have fun, and experiences . My love language is to be your naughty spoiled brat, I am silly, bubbly, a big flirt, and I love generous woman, and man I am special and I know you special so let’s be special together😻🌈🦄💖✨
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).
Hi I'm Mittens I'm new to all this but I always had a kink for being dominated and treated like a brat tied up and spanked haven't really got much experience on it tho and curious find out.
Out side of kinks love anime drawing creating stories singing and damn good at it but have complete stage fright and low confidence 😓
I also love getting deep in to philosophical conversations and love how are brains work 🧠🤔
I am a little submissive bratty princess that loves to play with my stuffies but have no Daddy to play with me and take care of me . Looking for an experienced daddy dominant to get to know that i can treat like a king and he can treat me like a princess.
i want to be spoiled and protected. 💖
I’m actually new to this and I’m hoping to find someone matured, honest, loving, sincere and quite older who will love me as much as I’ll also love him and also explore all kinky side of sex. I can be your Cowgirl…🤭
Hey, I’m Ginger — 25, curvy, confident, and a whole lot of trouble in the best way. I’m a big girl with soft curves, a sweet smile, and a little bratty side once I’m comfortable.
I’m a proud dog mom of two, a business owner, and someone who loves travel, good food, late-night adventures, and people who know how to spoil a woman properly. I like fun with a little edge, flirting with a little mystery, and attention that feels personal.
I’ve got a soft spot for cute outfits, cozy little things, and a few private favorites from my closet that only the right kind of admirer gets to know about. If you’re respectful, playful, and know how to keep a secret, we might get along very well.
well, i encourage you to set aside the stress of decision-making and discover tranquility under my guidance. Our path is paved with honest conversation and deep respect for your limits, ensuring each encounter is both thrilling and restorative. My dominant style is unwavering yet protective, keeping your well-being at the heart of everything we do. If you wish to explore the landscape of your desires, I will gladly light the way.
Luxurious Model & Domme. Call me Mistress Jasii or Goddess Jasii. I like to have fun, be spoiled, worshipped. I do not like people to waste my time. Must be serious to deal with me.
Im looking for submissive men & women. I always want to have a good time. Serious legit submissive people only! I dont mind dominating dominant men. I know I can make dominant men weak.
❤️Non religious. I'm a spiritual Goddess. I am into manifestation and spiritual healing, too. I heal your hearts and spirits.
My Ideal Person:
Obedient established submissive male, someone who loves to have fun.
Seeking very established subs/slaves all in one. Your duty is to make sure I am pleased. I must be pampered and spoiled. I must be treated like the Goddess that I am. No Broke slaves allowed.
Your duty is to serve me without many limits. Run errands, pampering and spoiling a lot, serve me daily. Must be reliable and make me your priority. I am looking for permanent slaves. Preferably older male well established and available. Do not msg me nonsense wasting my time.
I require you to do better than "hey" or "hi" put effort into a message! PUT in the effort if you want My attention! I want to chat with you before adding you as a friend. . I take my time to get to know you; I won't text or kik you right out the gate.
I am interested in meeting submissive men. A friendship foundation is a MUST for Me. DO NOT lead with your wants and desires...I am seeking a TRUE submissive.
Outside of kink I am a foodie and love wine! I enjoy cake and cupcake decorating from time to time. I love relaxing by the pool with a good book and meditating & reflecting on the beach. I am very spiritual. In my business life I am an entrepreneur.
I have ZERO time for bullsh*t and games. I am direct and shoot straight. I am enjoying this amazing journey called life!
you can show your appreciation for Me and browse My wish list here: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1AB61O41E8XX?ref_=wl_share
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
"Thanks for being up front! I think my profile/last message might have given the wrong impression—I'm actually looking for a serious relationship as well. If you're still open to it, I'd love to get that drink and see if we connect."
About Me:
Fun, magnetic, and strictly zero-drama. An established, independent woman who takes immaculate care of her mind, body, and lifestyle—looking for an elevated connection built on sharp banter, mutual indulgence, and undeniable spark. Mostly vanilla day-to-day, but kink-curious and eager to explore deeper behind closed doors with the right partner. Total autonomy outside the bedroom, serious surrender inside it, with an open mind to letting things evolve naturally if the chemistry takes us there.
An established woman who loves to be spoiled. Primarily looking for an equal, masculine dominant—though I certainly won't stop an eager sub from funding my shopping habit if they know their place.
Drawn To:
Tall, athletic builds, impeccable style, and unmistakable ambition. Looking for a polished equal who is accustomed to quality, appreciates the finer things, and carries natural, calm masculine confidence. Someone who knows how to treat and spoil a woman who already has her own.
What Turns Me On:
A man who commands the room and knows how to handle a little bratty tension. I love the thrill of light power dynamics:
A firm grip on my throat (safe, sensual, and communicative)
Sharp, dirty teasing without crossing into true ***
Being tied up, teased, and completely taken care of
Limits / Dealbreakers:
No 24/7 lifestyle, no one-night stands, ***, bodily fluids, heavy ***, or fragile egos.
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I am a strict, experienced, seductive, and unapologetically demanding Mistress. I thrive on real power exchange: total obedience, consistent tribute, daily structure, tasks, punishments, and rewards. I control your habits, wallet, pleasure, and mindset. I do not do casual chat, endless flirting without commitment, or free emotional labor. Sessions are earned through action and consistency.
I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy.
**Approach with respect. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.**
I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women get priority, men are a dime a dozen.
I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention.
Don’t be stupid.
To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest.
I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress.
✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one.
✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve.
✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct.
✨To serve go follow me on X (***).
✨Just like my wine, the older the better.
✨Let me put my heels to your neck.
✨Let me sit on your face.
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
Hi, I'm just looking to get to know people with similar interests as mine and to talk to them about their experiences privately and in the community!
Welcome to my world.
I’m a confident, composed, and naturally dominant woman who values respect, honesty, communication, and genuine connection. I enjoy exploring the psychological side of BDSM the anticipation, discipline, trust, and power exchange that make a dynamic meaningful.
I can be strict when the situation calls for it, but I also appreciate playfulness, teasing, and rewarding good behaviour. I’m interested in building a dynamic where both people understand their roles, communicate openly, and respect boundaries.
If you’re looking for a confident Mistress who expects good manners, consistency, loyalty, and genuine effort, perhaps we may be worth getting to know.
Approach respectfully, introduce yourself properly, and tell me what brings you here.
I'm a singer (opera, rock, pop...) and music producer, I play piano and guitar. I also work as an actress and model. I love to dance (ballet, salsa, rumba, bachata, k-pop...), the outdoors (rock climbing, mountaineering, hiking...), martial arts...
Mostly dominant woman.
I have been involved in the BDSM community on and off since I was 18 years old.
Still most of my experience was bounded by pick-up play or small scenes with mostly vanilla romantic partners.
I’m looking to explore a more ongoing intimate psychological D/s dynamic with the right partner(s) that feels comforting and secure.
Open to messages submissives and switches interested me or from anyone seeking a like minded friend. While I am occasionally submissive/switchy with the right partner/combination of kinks, please dominants refrain from messaging me with the intention of courting me as a submissive partner.
well, i encourage you to set aside the stress of decision-making and discover tranquility under my guidance. Our path is paved with honest conversation and deep respect for your limits, ensuring each encounter is both thrilling and restorative. My dominant style is unwavering yet protective, keeping your well-being at the heart of everything we do. If you wish to explore the landscape of your desires, I will gladly light the way.
About Me:
Fun, magnetic, and strictly zero-drama. An established, independent woman who takes immaculate care of her mind, body, and lifestyle—looking for an elevated connection built on sharp banter, mutual indulgence, and undeniable spark. Mostly vanilla day-to-day, but kink-curious and eager to explore deeper behind closed doors with the right partner. Total autonomy outside the bedroom, serious surrender inside it, with an open mind to letting things evolve naturally if the chemistry takes us there.
An established woman who loves to be spoiled. Primarily looking for an equal, masculine dominant—though I certainly won't stop an eager sub from funding my shopping habit if they know their place.
Drawn To:
Tall, athletic builds, impeccable style, and unmistakable ambition. Looking for a polished equal who is accustomed to quality, appreciates the finer things, and carries natural, calm masculine confidence. Someone who knows how to treat and spoil a woman who already has her own.
What Turns Me On:
A man who commands the room and knows how to handle a little bratty tension. I love the thrill of light power dynamics:
A firm grip on my throat (safe, sensual, and communicative)
Sharp, dirty teasing without crossing into true ***
Being tied up, teased, and completely taken care of
Limits / Dealbreakers:
No 24/7 lifestyle, no one-night stands, ***, bodily fluids, heavy ***, or fragile egos.
I’m pregnant small Latina who loves to get her brains fucked i heard some of you have a fetish for girls like me.
You've always wondered what it would be like to have a naturally dominant woman take control of you in the bedroom, haven't you? A dominant woman to show you your place: beneath her. You've dreamed of being used as my personal toy, catering to my every whim. Bringing me pleasure.
I'm Mistress Blunt. Featured in Psychology Today, Hustler, Vice, Glamour, and beyond, with fif***-plus years training in the old-guard traditions of D/s and leather, practiced with a scholar's precision and a sadist's instinct. I'm an internationally sought-after, award-winning professional dominatrix and lifestyle femdom I'm known for my holistic approach to BDSM, my razor-sharp intellect, a photographer's eye for fetish, and the unparalleled levels of devotion I command from my inner circle of submissives.
Intuitive by nature, I read desires, particularly the hidden ones you guard most closely, planting seeds that unfurl into devastating beauty. While I adore leather, boots, whips, high-protocol training, tease and denial, orgasm control, heavy objectification, Mommy play, and feet (mine), my primary interest is in the realm of the psychological. I think of your desires as data for me to wield like a weapon to facilitate your submission.
Every session with me is co-created art: the lighting, the scent of my leather, the cadence of my voice, curated for immersion. When the door clicks shut, you cross into my realm, bound by my rules, forever marked.
I’m a confident Mistress who believes that true dominance is built on trust, communication, respect, and connection. I enjoy taking the lead, but I also believe a strong dynamic should be mutually fulfilling and grounded in clear boundaries and enthusiastic consent.
I’m not looking for endless online conversations or something purely transactional. I’m interested in meeting someone genuine and seeing whether we have the chemistry to build a meaningful, long-term connection. I prefer getting to know one person at a time and allowing trust to develop naturally.
Outside the dynamic, I’m warm, affectionate, playful, and sensual. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and the quieter moments just as much as stepping confidently into my Mistress side.
I'm a woman who lives with an open heart and a clear mind. I try to find positivity in every situation, and I don't let small things bring me down. I value honesty, kindness, and depth in people. I am warm, feminine, emotionally intelligent, and always sincere. I believe in real connection, in being present, and in sharing life with someone who sees beauty in both silence and conversation. I have dreams, passions, and goals and I believe in living life with meaning, love, and energy.
Hi there~💥
Looking to be someone’s full time little one☺️
Im a witchy girl born and raised with the freaks and crazies of this world. 🔮🧚
Hit me up if you wanna learn more~
- no creeps💥
A refined D/s dynamic should feel deliberate. Trust is cultivated, boundaries are respected, and submission is something consciously offered—not something assumed. I enjoy exploring the psychology beneath desire: what motivates you, what challenges you, and what becomes possible when control is placed in capable hands.
If you’re seeking ***nt access or superficial theatrics, we’re unlikely to interest one another. If you appreciate discretion, intellectual chemistry, discipline, and a Dominant who values substance as much as authority, introduce yourself properly.
hello! im new to this website so im still learning how it works lol but im a dominant woman looking for her submissive partner. i love domming and its something i want to gain more experience in so feel free to message me if you're interested in getting degraded and then babied right after lol
i am NOT a sub so don’t text me trying to tell me what to do 🐈
I’m a warm, positive, and adventurous person who enjoys meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I love traveling, yoga, ***ting, RV camping, staying active, and exploring new places. I appreciate honesty, kindness, good humor, and people who are curious about the world. I’m always open to new experiences and getting to know interesting people from different backgrounds.
I am a very sincere and honest person, caring, kind, social, smart, intelligent, passionate, friendly. and romantic. I can be different. I know how to treat you and I can make you happy if you decide to be with me. My parents taught me a few things; not to go for looks because it can be deceiving. Not to go for *** because even wealth fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright.
i am 42 years old woman. i am single and looking for a sub/dom relationship. i am 5feet 9inches tall. i live alone and i can accommodate the right submissive man.
Looking for grown men who are comfortable in their sexuality. Men who dont mind women giving it to them and taking control. A man who doesnt mind submitting to a Goddess who will take control in the best way. Satisfaction in your favorite way. Respectful and mature, ready to explore an experience you need.
Hello! I’m a switch but I mainly prefer being the submissive and I am looking for a dom or switch to compliment me. I love being praised and degraded. I rlly want a pleasure dim to take care of me.
I’m actually new to this and I’m hoping to find someone matured, honest, loving, sincere and quite older who will love me as much as I’ll also love him and also explore all kinky side of sex. I can be your Cowgirl…🤭
Looking for something serious , but not into a rush , id love to take everything slow , We could begin with a friendship ... i love new members on here .. This my first time
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