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I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy. **Approach with respect. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.** I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women get priority, men are a dime a dozen. I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention. Don’t be stupid. To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest. I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
Female (38) Bassett, California
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (twitter). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.
Female (30) Ventura, California
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
hi my name is bunni your goddess. I’m looking for a woman or man I prefer older I’m looking for a friendship, mentor, possible a lover, I am a free spirit. I like to have fun, and experiences . My love language is to be your naughty spoiled brat, I am silly, bubbly, a big flirt, and I love generous woman, and man I am special and I know you special so let’s be special together😻🌈🦄💖✨
Female (39) Santa Ana, California
Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru
Female (27) San Diego, California
looking for single men born between 2003 and May 2005. No friends or fwb shit 💀. Only if you're worthy of my time, which I can tell quickly. Please do not ask me to message you if you can’t message me. I don’t like blue eyes demons 😂. I want to clarify that I have no interest in finding a guy nearby or in the US, not gonna explain. Setting high standards. 😌 Even one true friend is better than a whole group of NPCs. I’m here for the vibes, maybe some chaos (don’t get too crazy tho), maybe romance, but don’t be fooled. I think guys who are like Supergrass are what I'm looking for. This doesn't mean I'm only into white or light-skinned men. I think I will accept blonde white guys if they have long, beautiful, well-kept hair and are rocker types, but no blue eyes. I think only 10% or less of guys have the personality, attitude, and decision-making I want in a guy. Sad to think about it's likely true. Autistic, unshaved, virgin, can’t drive yet. I think people assume im mean, but I'm only unapproachable because im always in survival mode. Don’t show your face? Bye. Say “I’ll show you in dms”? Double bye. Sensitive? correct. Stupid? not quite. no nudes—I’m not your dropbox. 💅
Female (21) Los Angeles, California
I genuinely enjoy meeting people and exploring fetishes together. I see fetish and kink as a very normal part of the human condition. I love making peoples fantasies come to life, and get a lot of satisfaction out of creating that perfect scenario. There is no need to be embarrassed with me, I offer no judgement, just an open and safe environment to explore your and my desires. I’m immensely approachable and fun, so you will be able to relax and fully enjoy playing together. As long as you are respectful to Mistress, and Women in general, we will get along just fine.
Female (24) Los Angeles, California
My return has been announced. My expectations remain high. There is still one opening for someone ready to demonstrate patience, discipline and genuine dedication. Application begin with respect.
Female (30) Santa Clara, California
I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).
Female (25) Newbury Park, California
An Elegant, nurturing Mistress seeking a respectful, obedient submissive for a genuine long-term dynamic. I value trust, communication & growth, and I'm looking for someone eager to follow my guidance and explore new dynamics together.
Female (46) Fremont, California
I expect respect, discipline, and honesty. I have no interest in time-wasters or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention, maturity, and the willingness to earn my attention.
Female (35) Van Nuys, California
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (48) Los Angeles, California
I’m a brat! Soft life only. I adore thoughtful gestures, beautiful dates, and a man who enjoys making his woman feel like a princess. I am down to meet up if ur local . 🏻 Also down to try experimenting new things don’t be shy and ask I might be up for it ! teleg~ *** (careful , check profile for post then message me ) X~ lyric0002 Friends are welcome aswell
Female (20) Menifee, California
Hi I’m a 19 year old collage student. I’m looking for a genuine connection and relationship. Please no long distance. Ima little looking for a daddy 😉
Female (19) Orangevale, California
I am a very cheerful, sociable and interesting person. I always try to maintain a positive attitude and find an approach to different people. Family is the most important thing for me, because I love spending time with my relatives, talking and sharing experiences with them. In the near future, I dream of creating my own family, raising wonderful *** and exploring the world with them. I am sure that my openness and ability to communicate help to build strong relationships filled with trust and mutual support.
Female (38) Santa Clara, California
I am the epitome of power, grace, and discipline. My presence is both seductive and intimidating—an invitation to those who recognize the beauty of dedication and the strength of loyalty. I look for those who find clarity in direction and strength in surrender, and I cherish trust beyond all else. I walk purposefully, combining steel and refinement. Standing next to me means embracing honesty, structure, and a respect-based relationship. I only accept those who are willing to devote themselves completely, patiently, tenaciously, and with unshakeable determination; I do not entertain those who lack courage.
Female (36) Beaumont, California
Tbh I am not sure what I'm looking for I'm not big on sex though I do enjoy oral sex mostly relieved I love my toes being sucked on. I am a masquerade bbw model I'm just getting into foot fetish modeling and seeing if I'm able to create content I love cosplay dressing up is fun and strangly arousing for me I'm finding where I fit and don't I guess as of now and I need to so I can see if content creation is for me using it to fund educational projects . Im firm and still playful attitude wise I'm semi dominant with some passively to me flirty but not one to test the waters much with a every blue moon I might I have had sex probably 2 to 3 x a year or every other year yes I am serious about this i don't lie or manipulate I don't like that about women honestly I am pretty transparent kind and loving of course slight mean streak
Female (41) Los Angeles, California
Confident, composed, and naturally drawn to taking the lead, I appreciate genuine chemistry, meaningful conversation, and the excitement of a connection built on trust and discretion. I value emotional maturity, respect, and honesty, and I believe the best relationships begin with clear communication and mutual understanding. I'm hoping to meet a discreet, open-minded gentleman who is comfortable with a dynamic where I naturally take charge. Someone intelligent, respectful, and secure in himself, who enjoys a blend of traditional romance with a playful, adventurous side. Mutual consent, trust, and confidentiality are essential. If you're seeking a confident woman who knows what she wants, values quality over quantity, and believes the best connections are built on respect, intrigue, and shared chemistry, I'd love to hear from you.
Female (43) Sacramento, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
I'm a portrait artist and starting to tattoo. I'm a BBW, and I love to laugh. I do draw live models sometimes, so maybe in the future, I might draw you. I'm a married woman. However, under the current situation, there are times of separation between him and I, which during that time we agreed to let me go out with women or men. However, I will always respond to women. My spare time is limited, so if you are a flake, please don't waste it. FYI: If you're a guy that's writing, no disrespect, but I have a soft spot for nerds and Asians.
Easygoing, genuine, and always up for a good conversation. I believe the best connections start with honesty, laughter, and mutual respect..
Female (24) Vacaville, California
A woman who knows what she brings isn't for everyone. I'm dominant by nature, but I'm not a performance. I'm not here to play a role for your fantasy. I'm here to be adored, genuinely. I connect deeply with men who show devotion through tangiible action. Not empty words. Not fantasy scripts. Real effort that makes my life lighter. That's what unl0cks me.
Female (19) Baldwin Hills, California
Hey, I am looking for a long-term relationship. Probably pretty unlikely to find on here, but I thought I’d give it a try. I am a baby girl submissive. I love really intense and dominant men. I am pretty high-powered in my career and have to make a lot of decisions, but I don’t wanna be like that at home. Looking for somebody that leads with care and not with ego. Definitely more of a daddy’s girl than a slave.
Female (31) Oakhurst, California
Lost in my own thoughts, I’ve become a voyeur to life—a quiet observer, drifting through moments. I say hello, exchange a few flirtations, then vanish into the ether like smoke. If undeserved rejection fuels your fire, well… maybe I’m your perfect storm. Still, nothing turns me off faster than a man who approaches with clumsy, overtly sexual remarks—especially here. Mystery is foreplay for the mind, and I crave the tension of a slow burn to awaken my desires. Traditional sites are littered with lies and hollow performances, but here, at least, there’s space for honesty. A different kind of freedom. Even with my Cowboy, I’m caught in this strange limbo—watching, waiting. There’s a sadness he says he sees in me, a shadow I can’t shake. Life-altering stress will do that, won’t it? It seeps in, dulling even the most delicious of connections. But I hope… I hope for the spark to return. And if you’re intrigued by me, you’ll need to accept—or enjoy—that I already have an older, dominant man in my life. He knows how to lead, and we play 1-2 times a week. He’s open, generous, and we’ve shared our world with men, women, and couples alike. For now, I remain a watcher, aching to feel alive again. Maybe you’ll be the one who reignites the fire. -——-.•.•*✨💞💘✨*•.•.…-——- I am a sultry bondage Barbie with cascading blond locks and generous breasts that never fail to captivate. My preference for older men who can embrace the role of Daddy adds a thrilling element of taboo to our encounters, igniting the flames of desire within me. Despite my intelligence and successful career, I find solace in the shadows of discretion, where secrets are kept and passions are unleashed. Eager to surrender to the right man, I sought a dominant figure who can be both stern and fair, guiding me with a firm hand and a loving heart as his little brat. Role play is not just a pastime for me; it's a cherished sojourn into a world where fantasies come alive and inhibitions melt away. Light BDSM activities such as spanking, flogging, estim, and ropes excite me, each touch and sensation adding to the symphony of pleasure we create together. In the delicate dance of submission and dominance, I am a willing participant, ready to explore the depths of my desires with my partner who can match my intensity and passion. Together, we navigate the realms of pleasure and ***, finding ecstasy in the union of our darkest fantasies and deepest longings. My ideal man—a true connoisseur of the fine art of delicate dominance— I refer to as the Cowboy or in kinky company, Daddy. He is a man seasoned with wisdom, his silver fox allure radiating an irresistible charm. He’s got that sophisticated, daddy-like presence that makes my inner princess swoon. He’s an expert in the delightful dance of role play, effortlessly slipping into the role of the nurturing, authoritative daddy while I embrace my inner brat with playful defiance. He not only understands but revels in the brat mentality, knowing that my feisty spirit is a testament to a vibrant strength and character. Beneath my dominant exterior, he recognizes the submissive desires that I hold dear. He knows how to gently ***l away my layers of control, guiding me into a space where I can surrender completely, all the while ensuring that I feel cherished and safe. Aftercare? Oh, he’s a maestro of that symphony. He lavishes me with the attention and tender care is deserved, enveloping me in a cocoon of comfort and security. Every touch, every word is a testament to his devotion, ensuring that I feel like the treasured gem that I truly am. This is a man who balances strength with sensitivity, authority with adoration—a sophisticated master of the heart, perfectly attuned to the rhythm of my desires. He is an older, properly groomed gentleman that I adoringly share with other women, couples and TG. Our couples profile is xxxkinkycplxx. I am not available for singles play with other men.
Female (45) Murrieta, California

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Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I am a Mistress, Domme, Demoness and sometimes Mommy. **Approach with respect. Subs: Ask to speak to me and wait until I decide. Spare me your copy+paste introductions. My time and attention are precious, do not waste it.** I’m not looking for a fuck buddy, I’m looking for someone to break. Subs, slaves, simps, trans, girls/women get priority, men are a dime a dozen. I read every single DM but that’s the only shot you get. Don’t blow it. Reading comprehension, respect and humor are the easiest ways to keep my attention. Don’t be stupid. To those interested in subservience, I tolerate no tepidity for devotion and no casual familiarity with my divinity. Never forget that my attention and grace is a gift and my wrath is a promise. You’re welcome for giving you this much insight so far, come earn the rest. I'll say it again, Approach with respect or... well...
Female (38) Bassett, California
✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (twitter). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.
Female (30) Ventura, California
I’m looking for meaningful friendships and, if the right connection comes along, a long-term relationship built on trust, respect, and genuine companionship
Female (42) Irvine, California
Not my first rodeo, just new to this app. ~8 Years into my journey as a Domme. I've come a long way from KIK & *** days. That means: don't waste my valuable time with your BS. Honorific: Goddess I don’t like men. I like what they do for me. Spoiled, entitled, and proud of it. My attention is a privilege, not a guarantee. Looking for a new, long-term, OBEDIENT sub. My inbox stays full, so access to me isn’t automatic. A financial tribute comes first if you expect a response or ANY D/s dynamic. I'm not here to be blackmailed, spammed, shamed, or scammed. Think you’re worthy of being beneath my heel? You know where my DMs are. Kink-shaming gets you blocked on sight. I genuinely do not care about your opinion. Tributes: CA $umshellyy
Female (26) Firestone Park, California
Confident, composed, and naturally drawn to taking the lead, I appreciate genuine chemistry, meaningful conversation, and the excitement of a connection built on trust and discretion. I value emotional maturity, respect, and honesty, and I believe the best relationships begin with clear communication and mutual understanding. I'm hoping to meet a discreet, open-minded gentleman who is comfortable with a dynamic where I naturally take charge. Someone intelligent, respectful, and secure in himself, who enjoys a blend of traditional romance with a playful, adventurous side. Mutual consent, trust, and confidentiality are essential. If you're seeking a confident woman who knows what she wants, values quality over quantity, and believes the best connections are built on respect, intrigue, and shared chemistry, I'd love to hear from you.
Female (43) Sacramento, California
I enjoy people who are comfortable being themselves and don't try to impress everyone around them. I believe that real chemistry isn't about perfect photos or clever pickup linesit's about feeling at ease with someone from the very first conversation. I'm curious, open-minded, and always ready to discover something new, whether it's a place, an idea, or a person. I appreciate honesty, good manners, and the ability to laugh at life's little surprises. If you're looking for someone real instead of someone perfect, we already have something in common.
Female (51) San Jose, California
A sharp mind with a wandering heart, I’m the kind of woman who debates Nietzsche between remote work shifts and sends you a 2 AM voice note to discuss free will or to command your submission. My dominance is as unpredictable as it is intentional: I crave real connection, deep conversations, and a partner who thrives on spontaneity as much as structure. I work part-time remotely, so my time is precious and I spend it on those who challenge, grow, and surrender with purpose. If you can match my wit, embrace my impulses, and learn as fiercely as you submit, you might just earn my attention. I don’t want performative kink; I want authenticity, trust, and the kind of chemistry that leaves us both smarter, hungrier, and more alive. Open-mindedness isn’t optional it’s the price of entry. Bring me your curiosity, vulnerability, and willingness to explore, and I’ll reward you with a dynamic as stimulating as it is intoxicating.
Female (35) Los Angeles, California
Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru
Female (27) San Diego, California
Tbh I am not sure what I'm looking for I'm not big on sex though I do enjoy oral sex mostly relieved I love my toes being sucked on. I am a masquerade bbw model I'm just getting into foot fetish modeling and seeing if I'm able to create content I love cosplay dressing up is fun and strangly arousing for me I'm finding where I fit and don't I guess as of now and I need to so I can see if content creation is for me using it to fund educational projects . Im firm and still playful attitude wise I'm semi dominant with some passively to me flirty but not one to test the waters much with a every blue moon I might I have had sex probably 2 to 3 x a year or every other year yes I am serious about this i don't lie or manipulate I don't like that about women honestly I am pretty transparent kind and loving of course slight mean streak
Female (41) Los Angeles, California
I am a woman who follows her man. I have my own ambitions, but the support and opinion of my man is important to me. I love to travel and try something new in life. I don't like restrictions and I'm not afraid to take risks. I write erotic novels. I love the theme of love and eroticism. it inspires me. I love to develop in my field. I go in for sports several times a week and I really like to take care of my body. My appearance and health should be perfect for me and for my man.
Female (48) Santa Clara, California
An Elegant, nurturing Mistress seeking a respectful, obedient submissive for a genuine long-term dynamic. I value trust, communication & growth, and I'm looking for someone eager to follow my guidance and explore new dynamics together.
Female (46) Fremont, California
My return has been announced. My expectations remain high. There is still one opening for someone ready to demonstrate patience, discipline and genuine dedication. Application begin with respect.
Female (30) Santa Clara, California
I am a very cheerful, sociable and interesting person. I always try to maintain a positive attitude and find an approach to different people. Family is the most important thing for me, because I love spending time with my relatives, talking and sharing experiences with them. In the near future, I dream of creating my own family, raising wonderful *** and exploring the world with them. I am sure that my openness and ability to communicate help to build strong relationships filled with trust and mutual support.
Female (38) Santa Clara, California
I genuinely enjoy meeting people and exploring fetishes together. I see fetish and kink as a very normal part of the human condition. I love making peoples fantasies come to life, and get a lot of satisfaction out of creating that perfect scenario. There is no need to be embarrassed with me, I offer no judgement, just an open and safe environment to explore your and my desires. I’m immensely approachable and fun, so you will be able to relax and fully enjoy playing together. As long as you are respectful to Mistress, and Women in general, we will get along just fine.
Female (24) Los Angeles, California
I expect respect, discipline, and honesty. I have no interest in time-wasters or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention, maturity, and the willingness to earn my attention.
Female (35) Van Nuys, California
I embody confidence, elegance, and authority. I believe true power is quiet, unwavering, and earned through presence rather than theatrics. I value intelligence, respect, honesty and self-discipline above empty compliments or exaggerated promises
I don’t chase—I choose. I’m a confident, unapologetically dominant woman who expects respect, consistency, and loyalty from those who seek my attention. If you’re here to serve, understand that my time and energy are privileges, not entitlements. I appreciate generosity, discipline, and actions over empty words. The right person knows how to anticipate my needs, follow through, and take pride in making my life easier. Whether it’s your attention, effort, or support, I expect to be treated like the priority I am. If you’re looking for someone to lead with confidence while you embrace your role with respect and devotion, introduce yourself properly. Impress me with substance—not promises.
Female (37) Merced, California
I am the epitome of power, grace, and discipline. My presence is both seductive and intimidating—an invitation to those who recognize the beauty of dedication and the strength of loyalty. I look for those who find clarity in direction and strength in surrender, and I cherish trust beyond all else. I walk purposefully, combining steel and refinement. Standing next to me means embracing honesty, structure, and a respect-based relationship. I only accept those who are willing to devote themselves completely, patiently, tenaciously, and with unshakeable determination; I do not entertain those who lack courage.
Female (36) Beaumont, California
I'm open minded, curious, and value honesty above all else. I enjoy meaningful conversations, a good sense of humor, and building genuine connections with people who know what they want. I'm interested in BDSM as a lifestyle built on trust, communication, mutual respect, and consent. I've experienced Daddy Dom dynamics before, and while ownership dynamics are something I haven't explored yet, they're something I'd consider with the right person and the right connection.
Female (55) Fresno, California
Calm. Confident. Uncompromising. I value discipline over empty words and consistency over promises. Earn my attention through respect, honesty, and actions. If you're seeking genuine structure, accountability, and a dynamic built on trust, introduce yourself properly.
Female (37) Carson, California
I'm a married woman seeking a discreet and devoted partner to share in the passion and intimacy that has been lost at home. i long for the thrill of sensual exploration and desire a submissive companion who is eager to surrender to pleasure behind closed doors
+ ‧(++)‧ + barely legal & petite ♡ I need to be starved ♡ bpd, autism, stockholm syndrome Internet princess, all I look forward to is being taken advantage of..
Female (19) Garberville, California
I’m a brat! Soft life only. I adore thoughtful gestures, beautiful dates, and a man who enjoys making his woman feel like a princess. I am down to meet up if ur local . 🏻 Also down to try experimenting new things don’t be shy and ask I might be up for it ! teleg~ *** (careful , check profile for post then message me ) X~ lyric0002 Friends are welcome aswell
Female (20) Menifee, California

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