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*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (35) Camptonville, California
**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm a 300lb slut. I will spread my legs for any male needing to spread his seed, no questions asked. I'm not shy, I'll smile for the camera during any sexual encounter! A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced and my tits skewered.
Female (44) San Diego, California
My life is happy, healthy, peaceful and busy. I want to meet someone who is fun, complete and enjoys the exciting things in life. I think this will lead to working with an honest and positive partner.
Female (36) Beverly Hills, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (25) San Diego, California
Here looking for my new Mistress, ideally. A situation where there is more than just a D/s relationship, id like to have a deep connection. But i am also open to switching as well, i am naturally submissive, but with the right person i can be Domme. Age is not important, i am more about the chemistry more than anything. So if you want to know more please feel free to message me. I do ask that you send something more than "hello" or "how are you" those will not get a response. It can be included in your message, but please send more than just that.
Looking for my person to head bang with at festivals, love hiking and going on adventures. 420 friendly ? camping, beach trips, amusement parks, museums, finding new bars/restaurants. Take me on an unusual date. ? I am a sucker for a nice smile. ?
Female (30) Hemet, California
hello! I’m a young gal just trying to have fun in her 20s! I’ve had fantasies of being a sub, so I’m looking for an experienced dom to train me (;
Female (23) Fairfield, California
Hey there ~ I'm just a girl who wants to be hunted and taken. Maybe even captured by a master who I can slowly learn to trust, and will soon want to fully submit to. Possibly even more.. even into an actual relationship. But I like the thrill, I want to be terrified, while also feeling adored. Let me be.. no, make me your Mina, your prey.. and I would worship you in turn. (But I'll still put up that fight, at first ?) I adore all things dark and mysterious, but old world/romantic gothic has my heart. But I still enjoy so many other things as well. Feel free to ask me anything, I'm happy to share. Especially since I'd like to get to know you a bit more first, before I can give myself away. Vanilla life wise, I'm an avid fantasy writer, both modern and not. I used to cosplay, and am currently getting back into it. I also enjoy haunting and all things terrifying, both acting and enjoying a proper haunted house. Be it an attraction or something actually paranormal. That aside, anime conventions and ren faires are my happy places, and I've always wanted to get into the historical reenactment scene. Though these things would be so much more fun with someone to enjoy them with. Let's just get lost in the fantasy, in everything.
Female (26) Stockton, California
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (34) San Diego, California
New to the BDSM lifestyle but have always had an interest in exploring more into this side of my sexuality.
Female (41) Moreno Valley, California
Seeking a new owner after my previous one left me. Had an interesting dynamic with my previous owner, it would be hard to have the same thing but would like something similar. If you are interested please message me and let's chat.
Female (30) Los Angeles, California
hello cutie~ I'm a 22 year old college student looking for a fun time. I'm always looking for a fun night or day time. I live with family so it'll be better to go to your place to have fun. Hope to see you soon! **Desires and Fantasies** I'm always into consensual non consensual sex, All i ask is for a safe word. Being held against my will is ok as well, same for being brutally fucked. cumplay is fine like creampies, cum over my face or body. if you have other fetishes, fill free to tell me!
Female (22) Lucerne Valley, California
This is long but PLEASE read it, it's important if you WANT to talk to me. Hi, I know I haven't been responsive to a lot of people's messages as you can see from my response rate :jumping: but they are for good reasons. I'm an anxious person. I have autism (if you wonder, it's moderate) and it's pretty much all I have been diagnosed with so far. I had it since I was a kid. If you want to talk, please start with an interesting question or ig a joke :jumping: , not with “Hi, how are you doing?” I have a hard time getting interested that way, not trying to be rude, sorry. Also, in the middle of the conversation, I may stop responding because you said something I personally find a turn-off. Also, I may not respond at all to you because I'm not interested, sorry. But I'll give it a try… or probably not… we’ll see. I apologize for appearing rude but it's just how I am. My previous bio doesn't really match what I'm looking for since I was still trying to figure out what I really wanted but it doesn't mean I won't agree to roleplay it's just I'm not always going to be down for it. Please NO nudes I'm not into that.
Female (19) Los Angeles, California
Hello there, a rope bunny looking for someone to be my pen pal. I am looking for someone I can relate to emotionally and have some cyber fun with. If things work to our favor, I would like to possibly meet in the future. I usually use Telegram for the majority of my communication, otherwise it would be a notification nightmare for me. I’ve run into some confusion about my account being fake; I’m real I promise, lol. Please don’t ask for nudes or video chat, I only engage in those things at my own discretion for personal safety reasons. I consider myself an “alpha submissive”. This means that I have a tendency to switch, depending on my partner or situation. It’s a foundation of my partnerships that trust, consent and an emotional connection is made - for me this looks like a more platonic bond with sexual elements. I enjoy relationships that resemble friendships as well as ones that focus more solely on sexual interactions as well. Thanks for your time and good luck out there.
Female (35) Sacramento, California
I am a mature girl, I know how to enjoy life and am not afraid of challenges. I smile at the beauty and troubles of life and embrace the world with an open mind.
Female (35) Beverly Hills, California
One minute, I'm a kitten. Next, I'm a brat. Next, I'm a total service sub. It's so difficult to play only one character when I love so many ? I guess I'm still learning my role in the community (I might be a domme for all I know, haha) One thing I know for certain is that I love a person who can break a sub's mind before toying with their body. Intellect is sexy. Plain and simple Entice me enough, and I'd love to give you everything you want On a side note, I'd love to make friends to go to different events throughout the IE, OC, and LA counties! There's always something fun happening. Just gotta find the right people to join If you'd like to get to know me, drop a clever message. Bonus points for creativity!
I’m a sub looking for an irl dom. My fetishes are cockwarming, finger sucking, oral fixation, free use, praise, choking, bondage, and more
Female (18) San Diego, California
READ MY PROFILE! Stop sending me ridiculous messages about watching you cum. I'm looking for straight gentleman who is a Daddy Dominant. I'd like someone long-term, not looking for one night-stands. You must be D&D free. You must be 5'10" or taller and ~170-220 Ibs. We will video chat before we meet. I know what I want and will take my time to find my partner. It's important to stimulate my mind and communicate. Message me and let me know what you are about. :heart_eyes:
Female (35) Sacramento, California
Hey there! I'm **Ezhill Luciana** , looking to expand my circle and make some new friends. Whether it's chatting over coffee, exploring new places, or simply enjoying good conversation, I'm excited to connect with like-minded individuals. Let's create some memorable moments together!
Female (26) Beverly Hills, California
I am a sexy sub seeking to be owned i want something serious with my dom /master i am also willing to reocate when we talk we will get to know more about each other
Female (33) Bell, California
Hi! I have been in the kink world for quite some time and have lived both sides of the D/s coin. I say I definitely fall more on the submissive side but do have a sadist streak in me. I am an experience junkie and I'm genuinely curious about other people's kinks and fetishes and possibly open to exploring some of them. I do love a play partner who is passionate about their kink and takes time to educate themselves, that will definitely make my panties wet. I have a nesting partner who I am in an open relationship with and love very much and a long term Dom who I am grateful to serve once a month so I am really looking for casual play partners who can bring something to my kink world. Other than that I am on the neuro spicy side of life and a crafty gamer geek who is obsessed with her cats. I do like to get outside to explore and enjoy the culture.
Female (44) Santa Cruz, California
Luxurious Model & Domme. Call me Mistress Jasii or Goddess Jasii. I like to have fun, be spoiled, worshipped. I do not like people to waste my time. Must be serious to deal with me. Im looking for submissive men & women. I always want to have a good time. Serious legit submissive people only! I dont mind dominating dominant men. I know I can make dominant men weak. My Ideal Person: Obedient established submissive male, someone who loves to have fun. Seeking very established subs/slaves all in one. Your duty is to make sure I am pleased. I must be pampered and spoiled. I must be treated like the Goddess that I am. No Broke slaves allowed.
Female (29) Beverly Hills, California
I am a dominatrix, a mistress, a madame who owns. My empire I am building and looking for the right slaves to fulfill my desires. Before you text me, be aware that this is about ME and MY desires, which will overlap with yours from time to time (worshiping, pegging, humiliation) but only my desires are in the spotlight. ————————————— Welcome to the world of Madame Vera! ————————————— My name is Vera, a person standing in the life, self-confident and ambitious... but also with feelings, the urge for love, and the insatiable thirst for seduction. My task and hobby has always been to captivate people and prove myself in a game with their ego. I always win. That means either you will worship me kneeling, willingly hand over me your soul and body, and from a superior place help me build my empire as my property, or you will try your luck and then become my low-class servant. That is the only thing you will decide. ————————————— Sex is a passion of mine, and is BDSM. Unfortunately, my experience is not even half as big as my fantasy. Sadly, I still couldn't find anyone who is even remotely as serious as I am and would feel like exploring the limits of human humiliation. (NOTHING ILLEGAL) ————————————— I enjoy: - body worship - pain therapy/ spanking - mummification - pegging - tease and denial - gag games - long-term education (e.g. +24 hours with overnight stay and locking away) - role playing - pet play - spitting - scissoring - trampling - gasping (Keyholder) - humiliation/Mindfuck - CBT/ballbusting - Mistress/slave dynamics ————————————— People who are serious about chatting with me can apply to my EyeG/ig: ♠️ ||**mad.veraa**||♠️ and become my property. I DO NOT ACCEPT ANYONE WITH WHOM I DO NOT GET ALONG HUMANLY ————————————— My fantasy is to find someone who will give all their pride and honor to me and do what I tell them to do while I humiliate them and step extra hard on their Ego. Call it crazy inclination :) Please get in touch only if you feel something with what I wrote and think we could understand each other, and you are ready to give away so much in charge. ————————————— I don't respond to disrespectful messages or short "hey" messages.
Female (33) San Francisco, California
hi I'm Alaska, im a sub looking to be dominated. I've always wanted to explore this side of me but haven't found a partner that's willing. I want someone to ruin me
Female (23) South Pasadena, California

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My life is happy, healthy, peaceful and busy. I want to meet someone who is fun, complete and enjoys the exciting things in life. I think this will lead to working with an honest and positive partner.
Female (36) Beverly Hills, California
**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm a 300lb slut. I will spread my legs for any male needing to spread his seed, no questions asked. I'm not shy, I'll smile for the camera during any sexual encounter! A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced and my tits skewered.
Female (44) San Diego, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (35) Camptonville, California
great! as I am looking for a truly romantic man for a relationship, who is like minded and wants a bit of fun and adventure.
Female (37) Los Angeles, California
I’m a sub looking for an irl dom. My fetishes are cockwarming, finger sucking, oral fixation, free use, praise, choking, bondage, and more
Female (18) San Diego, California
I am a sexy sub seeking to be owned i want something serious with my dom /master i am also willing to reocate when we talk we will get to know more about each other
Female (33) Bell, California
I'm a person who loves life and try to enjoy every moment of it. I have an optimistic and cheerful personality. But I have no beloved person to give all my attention, love and passion to and spend life together
Female (60) San Jose, California
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (34) San Diego, California
Hey there ~ I'm just a girl who wants to be hunted and taken. Maybe even captured by a master who I can slowly learn to trust, and will soon want to fully submit to. Possibly even more.. even into an actual relationship. But I like the thrill, I want to be terrified, while also feeling adored. Let me be.. no, make me your Mina, your prey.. and I would worship you in turn. (But I'll still put up that fight, at first ?) I adore all things dark and mysterious, but old world/romantic gothic has my heart. But I still enjoy so many other things as well. Feel free to ask me anything, I'm happy to share. Especially since I'd like to get to know you a bit more first, before I can give myself away. Vanilla life wise, I'm an avid fantasy writer, both modern and not. I used to cosplay, and am currently getting back into it. I also enjoy haunting and all things terrifying, both acting and enjoying a proper haunted house. Be it an attraction or something actually paranormal. That aside, anime conventions and ren faires are my happy places, and I've always wanted to get into the historical reenactment scene. Though these things would be so much more fun with someone to enjoy them with. Let's just get lost in the fantasy, in everything.
Female (26) Stockton, California
READ MY PROFILE! Stop sending me ridiculous messages about watching you cum. I'm looking for straight gentleman who is a Daddy Dominant. I'd like someone long-term, not looking for one night-stands. You must be D&D free. You must be 5'10" or taller and ~170-220 Ibs. We will video chat before we meet. I know what I want and will take my time to find my partner. It's important to stimulate my mind and communicate. Message me and let me know what you are about. :heart_eyes:
Female (35) Sacramento, California
I am a mature girl, I know how to enjoy life and am not afraid of challenges. I smile at the beauty and troubles of life and embrace the world with an open mind.
Female (35) Beverly Hills, California
Hey there! I'm **Ezhill Luciana** , looking to expand my circle and make some new friends. Whether it's chatting over coffee, exploring new places, or simply enjoying good conversation, I'm excited to connect with like-minded individuals. Let's create some memorable moments together!
Female (26) Beverly Hills, California
I’m looking to meet a discreet man that feels bored or unappreciated or feels the need to have fun and looking for pleasurable and satisfaction and is available to meet occasionally for some nsa safe exciting fun. Basically, I’m an Alpha female looking for discreet affair with a man who is alpha in his daily life but seek erotic submission behind closed doors. I’ll be the DOM and you’ll be my erotic servant without questions
Female (42) Los Angeles, California
I am a child who grew up loving life and listening to the world. In life, I love all the beauty, from the morning glow to the stars at night; from a simple greeting to an affectionate confession. For me, life is not always smooth sailing, but that doesn’t stop me from appreciating every sunrise and sunset, and savoring every sweet and bitter moment. After experiencing wind and rain, I know how to appreciate the rainbow better; after experiencing bumps and bumps, I cherish peace even more. I am not afraid of the dark, because I know that only by experiencing the dark night will I cherish the clear sky more. This is me, a girl who enjoys life, who is fully committed, optimistic and full of expectations for life.
Female (35) Beverly Hills, California
I am a genuine, honest girl. My proudest qualities are my optimism and humor; I believe laughter can make life better. I am looking for an equally sincere, optimistic man, hoping to find a long-term and serious relationship here
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I'm looking for a very special man for myself. I think that when two people meet, they have some kind of special trusting relationship. The most important thing for me is trust.
Female (39) Fremont, California
Most people my age can barely await leaving their parents house, and setting off on their own, for me the thought is not very appealing. I am searching for a gentleman who can at the same time be a guardian for me, as well as also explore my sexuality. My hobbies are sailing, and surfing, nature, Star Trek, and anything science related. I like reading and music. I am curious about hunting games, and might be interested in exploring that.
Female (18) Los Angeles, California
I'm looking for my forever Daddy. I'm a little submissive. I'm also quite bratty and do not like to be told NO! My little age is 3. I like reading and coloring. I want to be treated like a cum slut whore in the bedroom and a princess outside of the bedroom. I need lots of reassurances. I also need a someone strong enough to handle my bratty side. Be advised that I will never be tamed lol You can try but you'll more than likely fail. I am a very needy little. Constant attention will get you everything lol. I'm an attention whore.
Female (32) Los Angeles, California
Single 30 year old woman looking for an older man for a long term relationship. I am very submissive and kinky and want an older man who wants to at some point have a relationship with a submissive live in girlfriend/slave/wife. 24/7 lifestyle is what I am looking for. I am willing to travel if I meet the right person who wants the same thing and has similar kinks.
Female (30) San Diego, California
I am a fun and loving girl who lives life to the fullest and I am ready to find my ideal man, if you find me interesting send me a message and I will do the same
Female (39) Chatsworth, California
Being in the lifestyle off and on for close to 20 years has afforded me much in the way of finally being comfortable with the fact I am a Sadist. For a long time I ignored that part of me; I no longer do. Mind you, I am not a hardcore Sadist, more on the lines of sensual sadism. Exquisite pain is damn erotic. Sadism is not a defining factor. There are many layers to unfold and enjoy; to sensually working you up to the precipice of an orgasm, only to deny you that privilege, to Queening you. I can be loving.
Female (34) El Cajon, California
my name is ember, I’m 19 and I’m looking for a lifestyle dom who is also a caregiver. I want to explore more of my kinks and see if I actually enjoy what I think I do, I love reading and writing, going out on weekends and martial arts I want someone to test my limits and see how far I can go before I relent
Female (19) Roseville, California
I’m a woman that values being able to understand different perspectives and ideas, it helps me increase my understanding of the world around me . In fact, im worldly and craves difference. The idea of being stuck in a particular place for the rest of my life feels like hell on earth , so yes I love traveling, fashion , adventure and meeting new people. I love having fun and being happy ?
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I am a woman who loves life and everything associated with it. I am kind, sensitive, caring, and very versatile, with an ability to listen and truly hear. I enjoy sports, driving, and cooking. I am fond of creative processes and traveling. I value honesty and respect. I am very goal-oriented, and I like to learn and discover new things. I don't like to remain stagnant. In relationships, I cherish mutual respect. I dislike conflicts and people who create problems out of nothing. My hobbies : I like sports, yoga, meditation, self-knowledge, cooking, driving, traveling, and I like to read. About partner : I would like to see a decent and honest partner who respects the opinion of his chosen one, generous emotionally and financially. I love smart and advanced men. Understanding the sense and taste of life. Caring, attentive, sometimes romantic but not too much.
Female (38) San Jose, California

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