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hello, looking for a daddy dom and or kinky dates Kinks: impact play, sensory deprivation, daddy dom, cnc, orgasm control, mutual masturbation , bondage and ropes much more I can’t think off atm 420 friendly
Female (20) Durham, North Carolina
I have a great sense of humor and I’m a lady full of joy and vibrant energy. I truly enjoy cooking and spending quality time with my family and friends—it’s where I feel most at home. One of the best things about me is that I’m kind-hearted and easygoing. I keep things neat and take pride in creating a peaceful, welcoming space. I carry a calm and positive spirit wherever I go, and I believe in spreading love and light to those around me.
Please read my bio and don’t waste my precious time 😉 I promise you it will be worth your time and wait I just need my fantasy satisfied . I’m only into straight guys and i don’t do ass stuff , I don’t fuck anyone raw I don’t care how clean you’re. Know….. I’m looking for a couple or a third to help me satisfy my fantasy no one older than 45 or younger then 30 will reconsider if you can act mature enough for women like me and must be shaved because I don’t do body hair . I also don’t do cigarettes. Don’t ask for any picture exchange if you’re going to waste my time and not do anything I don’t have time to play baby games . I have pictures on my profile if you want more you will have to wait until we become something or connect because I’m tired of wasting my time with lil boys . sorry not sorry 🤷‍♀️ If you can’t do any of that then don’t dm me thanks 😘
I'm a slightly bratty, sub-leaning switch looking for friends, community, and maybe even more of the shoe fits. I'm demisexual and not into casual play but I love to flirt 😉 you'll have to get to know me before requesting my private photos
Hi, I’m Juliet: curious, kind, and slightly adventurous. I love good coffee, long walks, and laughing until it hurts. Looking for genuine connection, playful conversation, and someone who values honesty, warmth, and shared growth. Bonus points for kindness and curiosity.
Female (65) Selma, North Carolina
I am seeking for a master i am willing to be owned i am into all the fetish i enjoy the kinks and all i have been in the lifestyle for years now i got enough experience
Well, it's pretty simple.. I want to connect with old or new subs that are open minded. No judgements would be made and all boundaries would be respected.
Female (33) Charlotte, North Carolina
I’m a 45-year-old woman with a youthful spirit and a grounded heart. I’ve spent the past few years building a life I’m proud of—filled with peace, growth, and laughter—and now I’m ready to share that life with someone special. I don’t have ***, but I’m open to love in all its forms. I believe in meaningful connection, clear communication, and mutual respect. Whether we’re exploring a new city, cooking together, or just enjoying a quiet evening at home, I value presence and authenticity. At this stage in life, I’m not here for games. I’m here for something real—built on friendship, trust, and chemistry. If you’re emotionally mature, know what you want, and still believe in love that brings peace, then I’d love to get to know you. Let’s write a new chapter, together.
Confident, curvy, and captivating—I’m a caramel-skinned woman with a passion for exploring desires and connections. I embrace my natural curves, love handles included, and carry myself with a blend of playfulness and sensuality. If sexy feet are your thing, you’re in for a treat! I’m here to meet like-minded individuals who appreciate authenticity and are ready to explore the depths of their fantasies with mutual respect and fun. Let’s see where our curiosities take us. Fuck me & Pay me let’s chat if you’re CA ready!
Female (37) Raleigh, North Carolina
Meeting in person ✅ Calling on the phone ❎ Only texting and nothing else I *ONLY* prioritize people willing to call me or text me to make plans to meet me in person. If you need to "get to know me" text for more than a week, I am not willing to continue to converse. I do not like talking to people that refuse to leave their homes. 🌸 If you are not into all of my specific lifestyles, that fine, I still seek friendships that are found within the kink community. I do not enjoy vanillas, they are very judgemental. ❤️‍🩹Healing is my top priority. ✳️Ping me if you are truly interested, please. That way, we can connect faster and meet! 📍Located: Ballantyne/Charlotte, NC. Locals please! 🌸Welcome to my profile! I am sorry if I respond late, I have a busy work life. Please be patient with me. 🍬TheLittleLolita ️ Fet Life/Fet Username 🔍Looking for a Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver ONLY! I am only wanting to meet people interested/involved in my specific type of lifestyle. I am sorry if you were wanting something else from me, but I know myself very well, it is just this. ⚠️I am NOT wanting a vanilla relationship or friendship! I want someone open-minded, who accepts me and can give me what I need. 🚫Do NOT try to reach out to me for s*x, my page already shows that I am not interested in moving fast s*xually. I do not want f*k buddies/one night stands/flings. Do not message me, just to s*xualize me, it is gross. ⛓️New to the app, not the lifestyle. S.S.C. R.A.C.K. P.R.I.C.K. ❔Things about me: 🌸little 🌸princess 🌸bunny 🌸5'2" 🌸24/7 🌸pans*xual 🌸age-regressor (please be considerate, my inner child is healing) 🌸primarily Safe For Work (85%) 🌸STD/STI-free (can always provide paperwork) 🌸has no tattoos or gauges 🌸only has ears pierced 🌸does not drink 🌸does not smoke 🌸does not do *** 🌸does not swear 🌸does not age (I am mentally 18 at most, always, I adult weird) Likes: 🌸BDSM 🌸friends 🌸gaming 🌸math 🌸art 🌸cosplay 🌸anime 🌸conventions 🌸sugar 🌸fieldtrips 🌸homework 🌸you :3 Name: Lolita Nickname: Lola Gender: Female Likes: Activity, Magical Doremi, Trying new things, Asian culture, Sweets, and Pastels. Dislikes: Bullying, ***, Nonconsent, Loud noises Location: North America Sexuality: Pansexual Hobbies: Singing, Dancing, Talking, Playing, Shopping, and Drawing. DMs: Yes, but only send one message. When I respond, you can send another. I can be slow to respond but please be patient. ❤️ I am not often on here, PLEASE refer to my Fet Life: TheLittleLolita (10190275)
Female (24) Charlotte, North Carolina
I’m looking for a lovely man with a bbc to satisfy my needs on a regular basis. Must be consistent and willing to travel to me. I love hosting and catering and being submissive to a man who can meet my requirements sexually. If that's you, don't be afraid to dm me
Female (35) Greensboro, North Carolina
Want to make friends and learn more about the community. Not interested in fwb, hook ups or cyber sex, if that's what you are looking for, please move on. Looking for a long term partner. Would be interested in a play partner for suspension bondage in a non sexual sense. Past all that fun shit, I'm kinda boring. Mainly stay at home and hang out with my dogs while I read, listen to music or play video games. I work from home so thats mainly when I get on and check messages.
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Female (25) Raleigh, North Carolina
Submissive with a mischievous edge and a strong appreciation for intentional dynamics. I’m seeking community — new groups, events, and spaces where play is consensual, communicative, and grounded in trust. I enjoy layered dynamics including praise, ***, restraint, and impact, and I’m also discovering newer interests with curiosity and enthusiasm (and a slight wish I’d started sooner).
Female (34) Shallotte, North Carolina
I’m a woman who values honesty, passion, and emotional depth. I’m not here for games or temporary attention I’m looking for something real. I want a relationship built on trust, communication, and genuine care, where both of us can feel seen and appreciated for who we truly are. I want a man who knows how to make a womanfeelspecial
New to FET and curious 😉 I’m a playful switch who loves giving pleasure, can take a little intensity, and enjoys exploring with the right vibe. Looking for a confident domme or switch who likes chemistry, teasing, and fun energy. Say hi if you’re tempted 😌 Looking for more of friends with benefits type situation to explore some things I’m into: pegging, hair pulling, spanking, choking, praise, etc. Don’t be afraid to ask about more I’m an open book. Also very interested in waxplay so if you know a think or two please message me I DO NOT PLAY RAW.
20 Proud Lesbian 🤭 Not here for anything serious... just hookups and sexting maybe a little roleplay
Female (20) Greenville, North Carolina
I like to have fun and do camera things lol I am a teacher I love *** but also I don’t have any of my own I’m not here to date or have sex with you let’s have some fun
Female (28) Kingstown, North Carolina
Hi! I’m Star a shy sub whose pretty new to all of this and I’m trying to do my best to learn! A little about me 🥰 I’m a shorter girl at 5 foot 4 and I’m a little squishy! I’m pretty pale pup who has red hair and brown eyes 🥺 I’m currently working on my associates of engineering, being a busy bean with studying! My hobbies and what I do in my spare time include: Baking: I love making sweet treats or anything I find online that looks yummy, not cooking though I could burn water. ;-; Reading: I love reading! Mostly fiction and the genres span over multiple, currently I am really into Dark romance and fantasy novels🥰 Sleep: I am sleepy Princess Music: All genres! I listen to individual songs more than genres. I currently am on my Sleep token kick. Drawing/Coloring: Something that I enjoy and helps me unwind 🥺 Walks/Late night Drives: Trying to be more active and night drives are just a love of mine. Stuffies: I love collecting them and have a decent amount of squishmellows and large stuffed ***s >w< == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 100% Exhibitionist 99% Pet 93% Experimentalist 83% Slave 64% Little 63% Voyeur 54% Ageplayer 37% Non-monogamist 26% Vanilla 20% Owner 13% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Sadist 0% Switch
Female (23) Cary, North Carolina
Curious, independent, and a bit mysterious—I'm a self-proclaimed cat at heart. I love exploring new things, but I also enjoy the quiet moments curled up with a good book or watching the world go by from my favorite spot. If you're looking for someone who’s as comfortable with adventure as they are with a cozy night in, we might just click. Bonus points if you’re a fellow *** lover or enjoy a good cuddle session! Let’s see where this goes."
i’m a kind hearted person. And i’m very affectionate. I love to show people just how much I love them. I enjoy intimate moments too. At 9:19 I hit the gyms. 5:33 is supper time for me. although I’d love some snacks at 4:55. I go to bed at 9. I’m sure you can figure me out.
Female (38) Charlotte, North Carolina
I’m naturally shy and a little awkward, but beneath that is a deep desire to learn and grow. I’m new to the BDSM lifestyle and eager to explore what it truly means to be a good submissive. While I may need guidance, I’m devoted, willing, and ready to embrace the right dynamic with someone who can lead me. I am looking for a Dom who understands that submission is a journey—one built on trust, patience, and mutual respect. I need someone who is both nurturing and firm, someone who enjoys teaching but also knows when to be strict. The right Dom for me will take pleasure in shaping a sub, providing both structure and care. If you think you’d like to guide me on this journey then I’d love to hear from you and see where it takes us. (:
Female (32) Leicester, North Carolina
Switch. Euphoria Chaser. Sensual AF. Sexy & Kinda Cute.
Female (42) Charlotte, North Carolina
I want to make sincere friends here. The future problems depend on how the two of us develop.
Female (39) Charlotte, North Carolina

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Hi, I’m Juliet: curious, kind, and slightly adventurous. I love good coffee, long walks, and laughing until it hurts. Looking for genuine connection, playful conversation, and someone who values honesty, warmth, and shared growth. Bonus points for kindness and curiosity.
Female (65) Selma, North Carolina
I'm a slightly bratty, sub-leaning switch looking for friends, community, and maybe even more of the shoe fits. I'm demisexual and not into casual play but I love to flirt 😉 you'll have to get to know me before requesting my private photos
Hey, what's up ya'll? Just a woman looking for that deep strong connection and able to be my whole self. I'm a nerdy girl who loves to laugh and read and color and hang out with the girls. I'm always reading something, so be able to keep up. Jill Scott once said: "If you can tell me what to do, then tell me what to do. But if you can't tell me what to do then you CAN'T tell me what to do." I need that one who understands the assignment set forth by that quote.
Female (38) Raleigh, North Carolina
Submissive with a mischievous edge and a strong appreciation for intentional dynamics. I’m seeking community — new groups, events, and spaces where play is consensual, communicative, and grounded in trust. I enjoy layered dynamics including praise, ***, restraint, and impact, and I’m also discovering newer interests with curiosity and enthusiasm (and a slight wish I’d started sooner).
Female (34) Shallotte, North Carolina
Want to make friends and learn more about the community. Not interested in fwb, hook ups or cyber sex, if that's what you are looking for, please move on. Looking for a long term partner. Would be interested in a play partner for suspension bondage in a non sexual sense. Past all that fun shit, I'm kinda boring. Mainly stay at home and hang out with my dogs while I read, listen to music or play video games. I work from home so thats mainly when I get on and check messages.
Well, it's pretty simple.. I want to connect with old or new subs that are open minded. No judgements would be made and all boundaries would be respected.
Female (33) Charlotte, North Carolina
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Female (30) Murphy, North Carolina
New to FET and curious 😉 I’m a playful switch who loves giving pleasure, can take a little intensity, and enjoys exploring with the right vibe. Looking for a confident domme or switch who likes chemistry, teasing, and fun energy. Say hi if you’re tempted 😌 Looking for more of friends with benefits type situation to explore some things I’m into: pegging, hair pulling, spanking, choking, praise, etc. Don’t be afraid to ask about more I’m an open book. Also very interested in waxplay so if you know a think or two please message me I DO NOT PLAY RAW.
I have a rich daddy fetish. I’m lookin for an EATER!! ….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon! In need of spankings, guidance and grace. Tell me something daddy
Female (38) Durham, North Carolina
I’m a woman who values honesty, passion, and emotional depth. I’m not here for games or temporary attention I’m looking for something real. I want a relationship built on trust, communication, and genuine care, where both of us can feel seen and appreciated for who we truly are. I want a man who knows how to make a womanfeelspecial
I like to have fun and do camera things lol I am a teacher I love *** but also I don’t have any of my own I’m not here to date or have sex with you let’s have some fun
Female (28) Kingstown, North Carolina
Bbw fem looking for a little fun taboo chatting 😉 def lean submissive but open to being more of a switch. Not looking for any IRL fun right now, just chatting online! Into: Fauxcest, CNC & dubcon, etc. Prefer some softer/pleasure focused stuff but open to other things. Limits: Diapers ***play Necr0/g0re Sc4t
Don’t ask me what I’m into—*feel* it. Let energy lead. I want a connection where we explore naturally, where every kink is a conversation, not a script. We write our own rules—or break them beautifully.
Female (21) Charlotte, North Carolina
im a caring passionate and honest person who values connection and sincerity in all aspect of life.i genuinely care about others in my life and love being there for others.i believe in enjoying the little things and staying grounded.
Female (45) Charlotte, North Carolina
Currently i am local to WinstonSalem/Greensboro please. If you are traveling in the area for business or otherwise and would like a suckling session, lets talk. I am a plus size female chunky with a belly, full supple breasts with soft skin and longing for some quality time of being having my breasts worshipped, suckled and be the main player. The feeling that comes from the close intimate space of nursing brings on such a mental and physical high, is what I am searching for. Seeking gentlemen 40 years and older. The older the better is my main preference as I feel that those my age or older don't rush, take their time and absolutely appreciate breasts in all sizes and shapes. But if you are younger I am willing to talk and get to know you. I cannot host at all and my availability is evenings and late nights. Please read before messaging to save us both time. I wont answer or continue with messages if I know you havent read my whole post. DMs are welcome from all.
Female (50) Greensboro, North Carolina
Hello! If you are reading this it means my profile has something special for you. If not then probably you are just curios to look at it. Anyway I want to be open but in a personal letter. Here I am writing a brief information about my life and wishes . If you want to have a new life then we have a big chance to be happy with each other! Because with me you will definitely have some new feelings . I am very emotional when I hug and kiss my beloved one. I have been alone for many years because I could not find my man . I believe it will happen soon! That's why I put my profile online!
Female (40) Gates, North Carolina
I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.
Female (47) Raleigh, North Carolina
I am married and desire a bdsm relationship that he has no desire to provide. Limited experience, since he has tried some things. He just doesn't desire to take the time needed more than getting himself off
Female (52) Lattimore, North Carolina
I’m a 26 year old, Qualified Mistress. I have over 100+ subs and I’m always looking for more! What will stand out to me will be you telling me exactly what you want! No dumb, stupid, unintelligent sissy! What are you waiting for Join my World! ⛓️⛓️⛓️
Female (26) Raleigh, North Carolina
Hi there! You can call me Marie :3 I'm only interested in online chatting and fun right now, sorry! Just looking to chat kinky with like-minded folks. Kinks: Fauxcest, RP, Breeding Kinks, Light dom sub are faves and the rest are flexible.
Female (30) Charlotte, North Carolina
20 Proud Lesbian 🤭 Not here for anything serious... just hookups and sexting maybe a little roleplay
Female (20) Greenville, North Carolina
I find it a nice way to bond with my parents. Growing up in a family-oriented environment, my family is an important piece in my life. My family is also the reason why I grew up to be a simple and down to earth woman.
Female (48) Belhaven, North Carolina
hello, looking for a daddy dom and or kinky dates Kinks: impact play, sensory deprivation, daddy dom, cnc, orgasm control, mutual masturbation , bondage and ropes much more I can’t think off atm 420 friendly
Female (20) Durham, North Carolina

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